guys, I went back to the basics and got it WORKING
I feel very stupid now...
The problem was that I had indeed no admin rights on the map:
When I select THE EXACT SAME FILE file trough C/users/admin/desktop/crypto... it works perfectly... (so not just C/desktop/crypto)
(although I changed CGMiner and CGWatcher to run always as admin)
I forgot why I hated windows... This is one of the (many) reasons
(I use Linux, but the server of my father runs on Windows...)
Thank you all very much for the help and now (finally) milone will receive his 30min daily donation mining for a week
And can't wait for the release of CGRemote, because I'm mostly not at home (I live on weekdays mostly not at my parents house)