Instead of turning our personal mistakes into something more valuable as well as responsible, why doesn't a gambler start admitting the mistakes of others, learning it for free, there are many such short and truthful stories, we don't need to spend any money to read these things, we just need to sit and concentrate for a short time to better understand the lessons that need to be accumulated. Responsibility should come from the first days of wanting to learn, it cannot come from the moment we fail, it is too late to prepare for an inverse journey.
I always say that there is no crime in failing/falling, it is meant to happen at times, the main crime is when we do nothing about it to correct ourselves and improve our situation. Most gamblers will repeat the the mistakes they make for too long and continue to blame gambling, whereas there are gamblers who are doing well in the same activities, or at least the gambling is not affecting them, now tell me, did they have two heads? That is why we need to talk to ourselves in this kind of unproductive situation so that we can be responsible. The moment a gambler realises that it is not easy to make money in it and maintain his neutrality but only tries his luck, the better it will be. For this to happen, we need to work on our gambling psychology, our style, and our management above our desperate desires and instincts. 
Topic: Committing mistakes helps us to become a responsible gambler. - page 2. (Read 2960 times)
I'd say the best thing to say is not "not afraid of committing mistake", but it should be "trying to avoid mistake".
We may do mistakes while we are gambling but the most important thing is about how we are responding to the mistakes we make.
First we should realize the mistake, admit it then we evaluate the mistake so we wont make the same mistake again in the future.
Mistake is a lesson, no doubt about it but it is better if our mindset is not about afraid or not committing mistake.
We may do mistakes while we are gambling but the most important thing is about how we are responding to the mistakes we make.
First we should realize the mistake, admit it then we evaluate the mistake so we wont make the same mistake again in the future.
Mistake is a lesson, no doubt about it but it is better if our mindset is not about afraid or not committing mistake.
But this only applies to those who can learn, not just those who make mistakes and don't think about anything. Because those who can't learn will just repeat it over and over again every time and may never learn anything. Others, smarter ones, will be able to learn not only from their own mistakes, but from the mistakes of others, for example, from forums or streams of other players. And one of the successes is to avoid mistakes, and not strive for the perfect game right away. The fewer mistakes we make, the closer we are to winning.
Any gambler who can not learn from his mistakes will keep on making the same or similar mistake and before you know, they are so much in debts that it becomes very hard for them to enjoy gambling as they are always under pressure to win when the play which makes them get more indebted. All gamblers should be capable of learning from their mistakes and it is better to learn from the mistakes of others to avoid losing your own money before you can take corrections. We are supposed to use others that are into the business we want to get into as examples as it helps us to avoid losses. We do not have to commit the mistakes by ourselves before we can learn but mistakes helps us to improve on ourselves and make us to become a better individual In general.
Previously, I was afraid of making mistakes and tried to do everything perfectly, not only in gambling, but also in life, it turned out that this puts so much pressure on me every time I did something wrong that it caused me depression. It's good that I have a friend from whom I learned a lot, including that he moves forward, making mistakes and is not afraid to seem ridiculous, which ultimately leads to success. Therefore, at the moment, I am happy that I have achieved such a result, it helps me enjoy life more and naturally.
Instead of turning our personal mistakes into something more valuable as well as responsible, why doesn't a gambler start admitting the mistakes of others, learning it for free, there are many such short and truthful stories, we don't need to spend any money to read these things, we just need to sit and concentrate for a short time to better understand the lessons that need to be accumulated. Responsibility should come from the first days of wanting to learn, it cannot come from the moment we fail, it is too late to prepare for an inverse journey.
Admitting mistakes is the first step in rectifying the mistakes. Many gamblers would never admit that they are gambling with the wrong attitude. They won't agree that they are spending extra time in gambling or even they are spending extra money. Unless gamblers isn't made aware of these things, how can they change themselves???By the way, i don't see anything wrong if a gambler is doing mistakes, but if someone keeps on repeating the same mistakes (that causes monetary loss too), then this is like suicide for him.
Spending a lot of time, money to gamble for days then obviously this is excessive, usually this is nothing wrong he is already addicted and difficult to stop then it is difficult to change themselves the way they actually gamble.
The gambler repeats the same mistake means he doesn't know what the truth is, he spends a lot of money but is not aware of his finances.
Most of those who become addicted have that same attitude thinking that they are still okay and not willing to listen to anyone, though there are gamblers who earned experienced and adopt the situation, then they simply correct their mistakes and re-try their chance to win, no guarantee though but they are in hope that by trying to anticipate what happened before will give them some chance to avoid making that same mistake.
There are some who can manage to use thier experience and wait for the best timing, once luck permits them to win they quit right away and not to let greed to control them to make sure that they end the session with profits.
It is quiet to see and I believe that all of us commit mistakes, a situation that also changes our gambling approach and behavior.
Of course, it is not in our mind and we try to avoid mistakes but still, it comes to us no matter what we do. But this thing sends us a message that every mistake we make has a positive result and one thing is that we improve and change our style to a better one. We could just think that we have to limit our gambling time, stop being greedy, and avoid addiction because we already know the outcomes as it happened to us in the past and we don't let it happen again.
Therefore, I would say that we don't have to be afraid of committing mistakes because this also helps us to see things that we need to change and become a responsible gambler.
Of course, it is not in our mind and we try to avoid mistakes but still, it comes to us no matter what we do. But this thing sends us a message that every mistake we make has a positive result and one thing is that we improve and change our style to a better one. We could just think that we have to limit our gambling time, stop being greedy, and avoid addiction because we already know the outcomes as it happened to us in the past and we don't let it happen again.
Therefore, I would say that we don't have to be afraid of committing mistakes because this also helps us to see things that we need to change and become a responsible gambler.
I can certainly remember the few times when I have lost big at gambling and it can create a very painful memory. In a way that is a good thing because if it wards you off placing another bet, or makes you think twice before pushing the buttons, then it has taught you a valuable lesson to be more careful with your money. Switching games can often be a moment where you lose money, particularly when you have stars in your eyes and are dazzled by what looks like big money earning opportunities that might disguise a much higher risk. Look at horse racing for example, it offers way higher odds than many sports but when you start testing it you realize that the winner can often feel completely random.
Instead of turning our personal mistakes into something more valuable as well as responsible, why doesn't a gambler start admitting the mistakes of others, learning it for free, there are many such short and truthful stories, we don't need to spend any money to read these things, we just need to sit and concentrate for a short time to better understand the lessons that need to be accumulated. Responsibility should come from the first days of wanting to learn, it cannot come from the moment we fail, it is too late to prepare for an inverse journey.
Admitting mistakes is the first step in rectifying the mistakes. Many gamblers would never admit that they are gambling with the wrong attitude. They won't agree that they are spending extra time in gambling or even they are spending extra money. Unless gamblers isn't made aware of these things, how can they change themselves???By the way, i don't see anything wrong if a gambler is doing mistakes, but if someone keeps on repeating the same mistakes (that causes monetary loss too), then this is like suicide for him.
Spending a lot of time, money to gamble for days then obviously this is excessive, usually this is nothing wrong he is already addicted and difficult to stop then it is difficult to change themselves the way they actually gamble.
The gambler repeats the same mistake means he doesn't know what the truth is, he spends a lot of money but is not aware of his finances.
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Instead of turning our personal mistakes into something more valuable as well as responsible, why doesn't a gambler start admitting the mistakes of others, learning it for free, there are many such short and truthful stories, we don't need to spend any money to read these things, we just need to sit and concentrate for a short time to better understand the lessons that need to be accumulated. Responsibility should come from the first days of wanting to learn, it cannot come from the moment we fail, it is too late to prepare for an inverse journey.I tend to agree with what you say, it means you don't have to make mistakes to get better. Learning from other users' mistakes is certainly better than making mistakes, but sometimes mistakes can occur accidentally which in turn can also be the most valuable lesson.
If they can choose, then I suggest choosing the first instead of the second of the two points below:
1. Learn from other users' mistakes.
2. Make mistakes and learn from them.
Instead of turning our personal mistakes into something more valuable as well as responsible, why doesn't a gambler start admitting the mistakes of others, learning it for free, there are many such short and truthful stories, we don't need to spend any money to read these things, we just need to sit and concentrate for a short time to better understand the lessons that need to be accumulated. Responsibility should come from the first days of wanting to learn, it cannot come from the moment we fail, it is too late to prepare for an inverse journey.
Admitting mistakes is the first step in rectifying the mistakes. Many gamblers would never admit that they are gambling with the wrong attitude. They won't agree that they are spending extra time in gambling or even they are spending extra money. Unless gamblers isn't made aware of these things, how can they change themselves???
By the way, i don't see anything wrong if a gambler is doing mistakes, but if someone keeps on repeating the same mistakes (that causes monetary loss too), then this is like suicide for him.
Therefore, I would say that we don't have to be afraid of committing mistakes because this also helps us to see things that we need to change and become a responsible gambler.
It's acceptable for us as humans not to be afraid of making mistakes, but despite the mistakes, we should learn from those mistakes and not repeat them all the time. Mistakes in gambling are the ones to learn from, not to allow it to have a better hold of you in terms of correcting the mistakes. Some gamblers have gone from correcting their mistakes in gambling to becoming an addicted gambler. Some don't even know they are making a whole of mistakes in gambling, such as pursuing their gambling losses, having overconfidence about a bet to win, not analyzing bet games properly, and not learning to quit when winning.
So, therefore, those gamblers who find themselves experiencing the mentioned mistakes(pursuing losses, having overconfidence, not analyzing the game properly) should accept that they are are doing a whole lot of mistakes than being advising them not to be afraid of taking mistakes cos this type of mistakes is not the one to advice someone to take
Those who have been responsible and experienced in gambling must have made a mistake at one time due to which they have learned from it. Rich and poor gamblers are not experienced from the start but rather make mistakes in some way and then correct that. People lose a lot of money by gambling in the beginning but later they understand what went wrong and become experienced. Most of the time in gambling players make mistakes and they learn from those mistakes, and when a gambler can note his gambling mistakes then he can become responsible and experienced.
Therefore, I would say that we don't have to be afraid of committing mistakes because this also helps us to see things that we need to change and become a responsible gambler.
But people should try as much as possible to avoid mistake. But if mistakes happens, it helps someone to learn and become better in life. Some failure can even be a blessing in disguise. Some people may not become successful if they do not face some mistakes. But just like I have said before, we should still try as mush as possible to avoid mistake. Some gamblers will make mistake and continue to make that mistake again and again which is called gambling addiction. That is bad.Yes it is true that many mistakes warn us in different areas. Which can sometimes save us from a lot of big losses, so if you want to learn something new in life and if you want to be successful in life, you must make many mistakes and learn your own responsibility from them.
We know lessons can be learned from mistakes, when people realize their mistakes in a job, that situation does not happen later. Similarly, if any wrong decision is played in gambling and later on they learn from it and do not have to fall into such wrong situation again. Behind every wrongdoing there must be some kind of positive and ethical sign from which we can learn a lot in our life. Especially many times gamblers make a lot of mistakes in their bets and lose, thereby losing money. No gambler wants to make the exact same mistake again and they responsibly try to avoid making these mistakes. Of course, there is no reason to be afraid of making mistakes because we can learn from mistakes, which is why we always try to responsibly correct the things we do wrong.
Instead of turning our personal mistakes into something more valuable as well as responsible, why doesn't a gambler start admitting the mistakes of others, learning it for free, there are many such short and truthful stories, we don't need to spend any money to read these things, we just need to sit and concentrate for a short time to better understand the lessons that need to be accumulated. Responsibility should come from the first days of wanting to learn, it cannot come from the moment we fail, it is too late to prepare for an inverse journey.On the other hand I am sure that there are some gamblers who do do that in the sense of making other people's experiences and mistakes as learning materials, but that is only a part of them, and one of the reasons why other gamblers cannot or do not want to make other people's experiences as learning materials is most likely because they think that it is not something important to pay more serious attention to, maybe they think that the big losses experienced by other people happen because the person is unlucky, without them knowing that there is actually something that triggers the situation such as greed or inability to control themselves.
So learn to control yourself towards gambling so that you don't have to regret it in the future.
Does everyone understand that, maybe not. As the saying goes, "habit is man's slave". If you develop good work habits it will bring you benefits but if you develop bad work habits it will definitely put you in danger. We should never develop the habit of gambling because if we develop the habit of gambling we may become more addicted to it. Because there is an opportunity to earn money which can create greed in us. Whenever greed is evident in a person he will become addicted to gambling again and again and will develop gambling habit which will become his danger. So we have to develop ourselves in such a way that we do not have the tendency to gamble constantly and even we do not become addicted to it.
Likewise if a person feels that he will make gambling his habit then he can easily do so. But if he does the opposite he is getting addicted to gambling after gambling but if he thinks that he will change his habit and form a new habit then he can. No task is impossible our will power is important. If our intention is right and if the will is right then surely we will succeed in reaching our goal. We need to take seriously the fact that gambling is not excessive and we need to make sure that we are able to gamble while keeping our emotions under control.
We know lessons can be learned from mistakes, when people realize their mistakes in a job, that situation does not happen later. Similarly, if any wrong decision is played in gambling and later on they learn from it and do not have to fall into such wrong situation again. Behind every wrongdoing there must be some kind of positive and ethical sign from which we can learn a lot in our life. Especially many times gamblers make a lot of mistakes in their bets and lose, thereby losing money. No gambler wants to make the exact same mistake again and they responsibly try to avoid making these mistakes. Of course, there is no reason to be afraid of making mistakes because we can learn from mistakes, which is why we always try to responsibly correct the things we do wrong.
Instead of turning our personal mistakes into something more valuable as well as responsible, why doesn't a gambler start admitting the mistakes of others, learning it for free, there are many such short and truthful stories, we don't need to spend any money to read these things, we just need to sit and concentrate for a short time to better understand the lessons that need to be accumulated. Responsibility should come from the first days of wanting to learn, it cannot come from the moment we fail, it is too late to prepare for an inverse journey. 
We know lessons can be learned from mistakes, when people realize their mistakes in a job, that situation does not happen later. Similarly, if any wrong decision is played in gambling and later on they learn from it and do not have to fall into such wrong situation again. Behind every wrongdoing there must be some kind of positive and ethical sign from which we can learn a lot in our life. Especially many times gamblers make a lot of mistakes in their bets and lose, thereby losing money. No gambler wants to make the exact same mistake again and they responsibly try to avoid making these mistakes. Of course, there is no reason to be afraid of making mistakes because we can learn from mistakes, which is why we always try to responsibly correct the things we do wrong.
I agree with that, lessons are mostly learned through mistakes and we have to live with that. The best way to deal with it is to absorb the mistake properly and learn how we can adjustments. It is true that most gamblers don't want to make another mistake, in fact, I think every person does not want that even if he or she is not a gambler. I think this is also part of growing up in different industries and it is the same with trading, investing, or gambling. Mistakes will always happen so we should learn from them and maybe it will be best to avoid them in the future.
You are right some people don't learn from their mistakes or experiences , instead they repeat it over and over again thinking that they will one day recover... sometimes when I place a bet and lose the game I take a break for a while and look at the reasons why I lost that bet then come up with a different approach instead of playing repeatedly and making the same mistakes, like you said a lot of people don't see gambling as an entertainment, they try to make it a source of income and as a result of that they keep losing.. I've lost a lot in casinos
After months of losing I simply uninstalled all betting applications on my device so I don't make the same mistakes
You may try to apply different strategies and methods to curtail your losses but it's never absolute, you may still get to a point you still suffer some level of losses and it's a very normal thing that's happening but most importantly learning lesson about what led to such losses is very important because those lessons serve as a pointer to how better you can be if you can avoid them and not letting them repeat again.After months of losing I simply uninstalled all betting applications on my device so I don't make the same mistakes
Whenever you take note of those gambling errors that led to your not getting it right, you will find out that you have some chance of only you make adjustments by your next stake but another challenge is in implementing these new observations that have been seen to be the reason for a set back.
It is indeed a mistake when gambling is considered a source of income, because of course it is not right if gambling is considered a source of income because there is no definite profit that can be obtained in gambling even though there is a chance of winning but it is not completely guaranteed. I agree with you who said that when gambling has been used as a source of income it is no longer normal, and indeed most likely they will not see their wrong actions to learn from it because with their wrong thinking so there is very little chance they can realize their mistakes and learn lessons.
as much as possible the gambling that is done is only for entertainment, we must be able to put aside the egoism that we have when thoughts that lead to addiction or greater losses have arisen. I know remembering that it is indeed difficult to have but we must be able to apply it as long as we still like to gamble. because when gambling is done not just for entertainment then it will be difficult to avoid losses, as if losses are something that is guaranteed to happen.
yes that's wrong, but many people have that mindset and consider gambling as a money maker or gambling as a job, many cases that happen around me like that, they risk their finances in exchange for winning at the end of the session, those who have that mindset consider gambling to provide an opportunity to multiply profits, without seeing the risk of defeat that will be received, yes I agree with having that mindset, it's not normal anymore, and in my opinion people who think like that who consider gambling as a job are people who are addicted to gambling and will not listen to advice or advice from others and it will be difficult to change their behavior. Every gambler should think like that, consider gambling as entertainment, and gamble without being excessive or not serious in pursuing victory, as much as possible the gambling that is done is only for entertainment, we must be able to put aside the egoism that we have when thoughts that lead to addiction or greater losses have arisen. I know remembering that it is indeed difficult to have but we must be able to apply it as long as we still like to gamble. because when gambling is done not just for entertainment then it will be difficult to avoid losses, as if losses are something that is guaranteed to happen.
It is quiet to see and I believe that all of us commit mistakes, a situation that also changes our gambling approach and behavior.
Of course, it is not in our mind and we try to avoid mistakes but still, it comes to us no matter what we do. But this thing sends us a message that every mistake we make has a positive result and one thing is that we improve and change our style to a better one. We could just think that we have to limit our gambling time, stop being greedy, and avoid addiction because we already know the outcomes as it happened to us in the past and we don't let it happen again.
Therefore, I would say that we don't have to be afraid of committing mistakes because this also helps us to see things that we need to change and become a responsible gambler.
Of course, it is not in our mind and we try to avoid mistakes but still, it comes to us no matter what we do. But this thing sends us a message that every mistake we make has a positive result and one thing is that we improve and change our style to a better one. We could just think that we have to limit our gambling time, stop being greedy, and avoid addiction because we already know the outcomes as it happened to us in the past and we don't let it happen again.
Therefore, I would say that we don't have to be afraid of committing mistakes because this also helps us to see things that we need to change and become a responsible gambler.
All gamblers in any casino experience mistakes, whether rich or poor. They experience wrong strategies in playing gambling. The others just started with trial and error until they got to the point where they sold what they had founded because of their gambling addiction.
They will only realize their mistakes when they lose a lot of their possessions. The sad part is that others don't learn from the mistakes they make in gambling.
It's a lot to see that in the news.
When people think gambling as income source at that moment it is no longer normal. From that moment he won't see his mistakes as well as don't learn from the mistakes. As a result, he can be said to be gambling in a kind of boredom. There are many gamblers who continue to use the same strategy after losing over and over again at a gambling strategy. They think that they can win with that strategy but in reality it may not happen. And if not, he is sure to lose everything. The number of such gamblers is not small. A gambler must learn from his mistakes and never think of gambling as anything other than entertainment.
It is indeed a mistake when gambling is considered a source of income, because of course it is not right if gambling is considered a source of income because there is no definite profit that can be obtained in gambling even though there is a chance of winning but it is not completely guaranteed. I agree with you who said that when gambling has been used as a source of income it is no longer normal, and indeed most likely they will not see their wrong actions to learn from it because with their wrong thinking so there is very little chance they can realize their mistakes and learn lessons.as much as possible the gambling that is done is only for entertainment, we must be able to put aside the egoism that we have when thoughts that lead to addiction or greater losses have arisen. I know remembering that it is indeed difficult to have but we must be able to apply it as long as we still like to gamble. because when gambling is done not just for entertainment then it will be difficult to avoid losses, as if losses are something that is guaranteed to happen.
@OP you need to know if not all people have a growth mindset.
Someone can learn from the mistake they did, but someone can't learn from their mistake, this is because they don't see it as a mistake, rather a superstition. If they're lose streaks and their bankroll are empty, instead of stop, they choose to make a deposit since they believe if they suffered lose streaks, they will win very soon.
So this problem is complicated, not all people are educated and see gambling as an entertainment.
Someone can learn from the mistake they did, but someone can't learn from their mistake, this is because they don't see it as a mistake, rather a superstition. If they're lose streaks and their bankroll are empty, instead of stop, they choose to make a deposit since they believe if they suffered lose streaks, they will win very soon.
So this problem is complicated, not all people are educated and see gambling as an entertainment.
You are right some people don't learn from their mistakes or experiences , instead they repeat it over and over again thinking that they will one day recover... sometimes when I place a bet and lose the game I take a break for a while and look at the reasons why I lost that bet then come up with a different approach instead of playing repeatedly and making the same mistakes, like you said a lot of people don't see gambling as an entertainment, they try to make it a source of income and as a result of that they keep losing.. I've lost a lot in casinos
After months of losing I simply uninstalled all betting applications on my device so I don't make the same mistakes
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