Topic: Committing mistakes helps us to become a responsible gambler. - page 5. (Read 2980 times)

Yes we have to manage the money we want to spend on gambling, because it is an important point in money management in sesnsitive activities that use money and can have a severe addictive impact, I think some people today around me who have applied money limits to their gambling have gradually become better at gambling, they don't cross the limits they have set, although sometimes also impulsive, but at a certain level they stop before losing everything.

Setting gambling limits is also one of the formation of mentality and controlling emotions, the more we often discipline in this management it will be very much better in the future, self-control will be formed and accustomed, so that our habits that have limits will never touch a sophisticated gambling scheme.

We need to see the mistakes of ourselves and others, for learning when we have no rules in doing anything in life, as well as gambling, we must understand why people who are wrong in gambling are always despised, because they will have a bad impact on the environment, therefore we need to learn from mistakes why people who gamble always make mistakes so that they end up very bad.

Logically, if there are no mistakes, there will never be the word "repair", this is something we often hear and even we ourselves sometimes do, humans are social creatures who have feelings, sometimes there is always time for us to feel like we have forgotten something. end up making the same mistakes, and also sometimes we don't always know what we should do which in the end, this ignorance triggers decisions or actions that shouldn't be done, meaning that it is something that is normal to do, and in any case it is necessary to know the truth or achieving something, a person must first make a mistake, but it must be based on ignorance, meaning as you said, of course these mistakes cannot be completely avoided when we don't know about them from the start. And if it turns out there is someone who says that the defeat they experienced was caused by them making a mistake then that clearly doesn't make sense, because after all gambling always happens randomly without any certainty or guarantee, meaning there is no way to guarantee victory. In gambling, mistakes are not something that should be blamed when you lose, because in activities that depend on luck, it doesn't matter even if you do it haphazardly, if it turns out luck comes at the right time then you can also win.

For me everything is there, and the easiest way to verify it is when we realize what we are spending so much money on, for example if we are playing crash and we are spending a lot of money, things are not so good because basically when we are into the game it may happen that the money is not controlled because of the emotion that occurs when you are playing, then if we see that we are spending a lot, then that is where we should stop, not only because we will be left with nothing, but because little by little it can generate a need to start, that is where the path to addiction begins, then it is better to control the money spent in the casino, before controlling emotions, that has worked for me.

That's right, and all of this is caused by an increase in interest in this activity or in winning at gambling, and usually a gambler who has entered the addiction phase has different thoughts from ordinary gamblers or normal people in general, something that doesn't make sense to people. Normal is reasonable for people who are addicted, and the problem lies in the wrong belief.

Responsible gambling can always be the solution, because when someone is responsible it means they understand and are aware of all the dangers that can be caused by this activity so they always avoid excessive actions, meaning that everything you suggest is within this aspect of responsibility, but for the problem of self-control it can be further improved or maintained.

Mistake is one thing that is certain and we can't avoid making mistakes because it's said that mistake are always there for correction to take its place when there is no correction there would be more mistake. Even though we try to be professional in every thing we do but that doesn't mean that our gambling activities has to be 100 percent correct because we know already that no gambling is correct that is why it's a game of probability and you don't know when you make mistake with your game and choice of selections you could be right at some point but when results gonna out you would see that you are wrong.

But indeed controlling emotions is very difficult, I think you also feel it before understanding why you must still be able to control emotions so that gambling can be accounted for.

Stubbornness, ambition, atmosphere, curiosity and other things will make our hearts triggered and we forget about everything that has been passed, even though previously regretted and told ourselves not to do it again in the future, but what power when our emotions are provoked, it will make us become impulsive gamblers, even though we already know it before.

Consistency, and the awareness of what responsible gambling is are often pushed by such feelings, which sometimes our principles lose, and make mistakes again.

When addicted we will forget everything about their mistakes and also their losses their desire is too great to want to gamble even if they are heavily addicted to this it is difficult to avoid sometimes people like this like stubborn because it is difficult to be advised by other responsible fellow gamblers.

Of course we must be consistent and can be disciplined as well as possible then this will have a sense of our responsibility towards gambling, therefore our focus is never this becomes an excessive addiction just do it with the existing bankroll if it runs out stop then this is part of our consistent in gambling then it will not be the root of the problem.

We can learn from other people mistakes so we don't have to gets the same experience. That will only if we can understand of the mistakes so we can thinks how to fix that so we can avoids the same mistakes happens to us. If we can learn from the mistake and knows how to fix it, we will be careful in any situation and condition and not just when we playing gambling. We will becomes a responsible person who will trying to avoids the mistakes by always careful with what we do.

We can't deny the mistakes but we can be careful so we don't have or gets the big mistakes because we can prepare ourselves from anything that can comes. We will see what reaction that we will gets if we do something and when we make a mistake, we will respond to fix it immediately so there will be no big impact to us.

The moment we fall into addiction, the more possibility of committing mistakes and the harder to avoid them. Therefore, it is not just necessary to stay responsible but also, a need to consistently control our emotions because this is a huge factor that may and will affect badly our gambling journey putting us at higher risk and possible addiction. Of course, we can't be perfect but at least, we are doing something not really cost a lot. While getting into the desire of gambling, it is very important to seek some advice as well from experienced gamblers. Having a simple tip helps us a lot not in handling ourselves especially when are at loss.

Indeed, if you have that opportunity or if you are not addicted yet then better to use that other experienced as basis to avoid doing that same mistake, gambler needs to understand that there's no need to go deep like them as the price for making such mistake is something that will cost  you a lot to the point that you may lose everything that you have

Best to take that experience as your learning pattern and if you think or see yourself being prone doing that same thing it's better to have that hard stop and not to push forward.

Of course, I don't think it makes sense to make one's own mistakes on purpose in order to learn from them, because after all and in any case mistakes usually occur purely without the person realizing it in any case, but yes, if we talk about gambling then it usually repeats itself. The same mistake does not happen infrequently, but not without reason, because usually there is always something that encourages the person to do it.

On the other hand, in my opinion, most gamblers who end up getting addicted do not intentionally bring themselves into a situation of addiction, because usually it is always caused by something that is often difficult for them to ignore, and I would say that is the driving force and trigger. Initially, this was because gamblers were too focused on the opportunity to win, or that is to say, addiction is very likely to occur when a gambler has the intention to make a profit from gambling. I think all gamblers know about addiction, and maybe they also know about the impact of addiction, but the problem is that it is always difficult for them to ignore something that triggers addiction, such as setting the intention to produce, applying greed or chasing losses.

Agree, generally everyone can gamble, but not everyone can control their thoughts and themselves in gambling, especially since gambling involves money, so when they lose self-control, the possibility of financial ruin in their lives can occur. It is important to remember that gambling will indeed end in a loss or win, but losses will occur more often, besides those who cannot control themselves, bigger losses will occur, not just small losses. Therefore, before gambling, we must be able to see for ourselves whether we can control ourselves when gambling later or not. Apart from that, there are also people who want to gamble because they want to satisfy their curiosity until they get trapped in gambling deeper and experience big problems that they don't know. can be avoided or handled easily.

However, those who make mistakes in making decisions will not necessarily realize that when it comes to gambling, sometimes they are aware of the decision they are going to make, but because they still want to resolve the curiosity that is attached to them, it is difficult to stop. But I'm sure that all people who gamble and are addicted will realize that it's time and maybe because their mistakes have made their lives miserable, it's just not easy to realize and stop.

You do not even need to make your own mistakes to learn from them, if you see a person that is addicted to gambling, you do not have to experience the same as them to learn to not allow yourself to reach that point, and this is very important as mistakes are quite costly, so people should do an effort to try to learn this way as this is way more efficient, but in my experience this rarely happens and most people have to experience things on their own in order to learn from them.

For me, things are very important for everyone to generate rest, vacations, and it is also good to do other things such as going and dedicating time to a sport, to the family, all these things are essential in a human being, people who dedicate themselves only to a casino , only to Sports betting , well, they will stay very busy, worried and very Stressed , so these types of Things are what Should be seen , the life of any person should always have everything, do everything so that the brain sees other things and takes in other experiences and avoids falling into Addiction.

Not a few people can learn from a mistake, make it a knowledge to learn more and understand why they can be wrong, but there are some people who learn from their mistakes and improve them and not do the same thing again after making that mistake.

Mistakes are a very important instrument in living life because if we know a mistake then we will understand about a truth that we should apply in life, and that is what makes us able to progress and live better in this world.
But sometimes people who can learn from mistakes and accept their essence in a process some take a long time and some are fast, this depends on how a person can recognize that he has made a mistake, including in gambling, in terms of money management, decisions and others that can happen mistakes in doing so, it would be great if we can learn from mistakes and can have a responsible gambler character if we learn better quickly.

        -     I also believe that with every mistake, we have a lesson to learn and that those mistakes should not be repeated. But if the mistakes we make are repeated over and over again, it's not healthy, in my opinion, because it seems that we don't learn from the mistakes we make.

We won't progress if we do more wrong than right, and that's not good because we'll just stick to what we're doing wrong as if we ourselves don't want to grow or learn.
But if we avoid mistakes as much as we can is I think its the best way for me.

Knowing what to prioritize can makes us change for the better. Just like your experience, you learned to control yourself after going through such situation and questioning if you're doing the right thing. Mistakes can change us since we don't want to experience it again. However, not all have such mindset, just like the addicted gamblers who keep on repeating what they used to even there's no good for doing it. Thus, it depends on how you take such mistake and how you want this experience influenced you.

Emotions are one thing that's very hard for gamblers to control. Once you're able to overcome your emotions, you will definitely come out of the casino. If not for a smiling face, the losses won't be much. 
 
That idea or confidence that grows in a gambler that makes them feel like if they can continue playing after they just made a little win, maybe they have a possibility of doubling is what leads most gamblers to not go back home with anything as they can lose even the little win from the game. Why chase a bigger win?

If you as a gambler can learn to move on each time you lose a particular bet, this way you save yourself quite a lot of things, in that you have helped yourself by not chasing loses. How I play now, each time I win a bet, I no longer think about recovery that particular bet but rather focus/think about next opportunity that will present because from what I have learned from experience of trying to recover my loses, quite a significant number of occasions It never ended up well.