Topic: CORRECT AND NOT ATTACK - page 2. (Read 478 times)

If those people you called to be the higher rank do not developed themselves to read and study they forum how do you think they could have gained this very rank you cherished so much? It's not possible here you grow by reading and accepting correction and not by waiting for people to teach you everything before you could pushed harder. The forum is always opened for everyone the goal there is you should discover the areas of the forum that you knowns the best than you waiting to be judged by people or higher ranked member.

You should defines what you want and what you need to know about this forum and if that is being carried I am not sure anyone here will have that time to attack you for anything except in a scenario where you think your knowledge and words is final maybe others don't know what they are saying its from then you would see people that knows more than you will attack you to make sure that impression is being corrected.

Yeah, I think I have an idea why he thinks older members “attack” posts for merit.  It’s not uncommon for people to get merits for saying what should be said. In this case, calling users on their BS when need be. I’d merit such posts because I share with the same opinion as the poster.

 This is a bit off-topic but…why do I feel your blood pressure went up when as you were typing this post. I’m reading the words but I can hear you screaming your lungs out lol.

Do you feel attacked by top members? Do you see it as attacks and judgment? Or is everything you think is actually criticism and input?
Do you think all top members are like that?
In this forum there are many characters of people from various countries. So we can't just think from our side. There are many top members who always help newbies and also lower ranks to further improve the quality of posts. Whatever style of language they use, the point is what they are talking about and sharing. So we can just think positively with various language styles that may be different. And I'm sure there is no judgment for newbies from the top members. Unless the newbies are really going too far on this forum.

And what is this? You're talking about getting merits from attacking newbies? Can you give the proofs? I think they get merits because they desire that. Because their posts are indeed worthy of merits. not from attacking newbies. Maybe you are the one who looks too much at the opposite side.

In fact, it's not enough for top memes to provide various information and share it. On every board in this forum there are even various guidelines, have you read them or at least seen them? because you still demand top memes to guide the newbies, even though there is already a lot of guidance here. Maybe you didn't see it. Try to be more open minded and open to various suggestions and criticism from other members, so that you can better digest what they advise you.

The neutral tag on your account states you’re a spammer. Interestingly, this is feedback from members of your local board. IMO locals are generally soft on their own, so if they think you are worth tagging, you definitely need to review your posting habits and stop playing victim. Your posts were critiqued because they were did not have any value. You said you spent three days preparing the topics, so this may sound harsh but I advise you take the criticism and strive to be a better poster.

This is not true, you just made an incorrect statement that if you are corrected or slightly criticized for it will begin to think that the people in the forum who are older members have a problem with you and have singled you out to always attack you. As a newbie you should understand that this forum has people who are highly knowledgeable and may be irritated by silly questions or information that was not properly researched just like a statement that you just made. To really survive in this forum you have to be tough, know the rules and understand that nobody hates you.

Op you are right. There was a time I made 3 posts in interval of a minute. The next comment I could get is that I am shift posting. Mind you, it took me days to compose those topics and saved them because I wanted to post them at once, when I got this comment, I was really discouraged because I also earned one merit for one of the post that I was attacked It was absolutely discouraging. It always as if I was spamming whereas I took time to come up with those topics. Like as it stands now I have a topic I have composed but still waiting to add more value before I post, now when I post I then got attacked it will really demorale me.

The OP once wrote a story in which he did not act very honestly, and now he is offended that people did not support him but, on the contrary, accused him. Look at his tag. Should you trust such a guy?
Besides, OP, you rarely appear on the forum, or you simply log in from another account, but all your posts are dedicated to the rules. Today you came up with a new rule for high ranks. Maybe you should look and re-read everything that you write and ask yourself, Are you so good that you will be loved and not judged? In the end, just think about what you write so as not to be attacked by criticism.

You're right. Some are not given guidelines by their 'referees', but what about those newbies who come here with those ' I'm a newbie' threads? That after they are kindly supplied the list of do's and don'ts of the forum but still end up effing up?
Secondly, how can you understand how a thing operates of you don't at least make your findings about the thing? Supposing here was like an electronic device, are you saying they will look past the instructions on how to operate it and just go straight?.
Sometimes, people tend to generalize things and if you are asked to give an instance where you were "attacked" I don't think you'd be able to. Again, you feel they are being attacked because of the tone at which a higher member may have used, but then you won't blame them because sometimes these noobs ask way too obvious questions and its as if they want to be spoonfed every step of the way. Even you would agree that it gets tiring sometimes.

and that is the reason why we who are just learning are here and Thank you to our seniors who have given their time and thoughts for all of us here.

I know how you feel when you are not merited on a thread that is giving other top rank members merits, the correction made by the top rank members to correct you in some things so that other newbies will not think that what you wrote is very correct in the forum because, if the top rank members allow such things in the forum, it will cause more harm to up coming newbies in the forum and, i don't think they are doing those correction for the sake of of merits OP because some of them are legendary members which no amount of merits you will give to them that will mean anything to them.

Yes, this is a home of knowledge and impact and you need to be ready to learn from those that are above you so that you will also become a member rank or full member rank in the forum.

You won't blame them because that Is the easiest way of corrections. Somebody who wants to change will change despite the criticism. Infact criticism is the best way to learn, because it gives you a motivation to know your left from your right. It might be sad that creating a Merit deserving post will be diverted to reply instead of the actual post, but merit is not only for thread created but sometimes comment are interesting than the thread itself. So don't be naive or feel bad, it just a gradual process that's how it has been. If you creat a meaningful thread that deserves merit, It will be given without a waste of time. And you will receive a nice reply.

Can you cite an example where newbies are getting attacked?  I do not think that ranked members had attacked any newcomers here without telling them what is their fault.  Most members in the forum are very patient correcting and answering newbies' inquiries even though they had been asking questions that had been asked too many times in the forum.

As long as newbies' posts or created topics are not malicious or have hidden agendas that may bring harm to readers, members will never "attack".  Members may criticize while they are correcting newbies but they do it to make newbies learn this kind of action is called constructive criticism and shouldn't be considered as an attack to demerit newbies.

Hello Op, first in the title you got "attacks" wrong. Please correct the OP's title "attacks".
As far as I know, there doesn't seem to be any attack on you in this forum. Because this forum has a moderator, or DT, so even if you're new to this btt forum, it's a good idea to find out first what you can post and what you can't, of course there are rules.
I believe that this Btt forum has established rules and guidelines that are clearly outlined for everyone.

OP shouldn’t be making such claims, he’s been a member of the forum since 2022. Not so active with this account though. Finding the forum rules is not a difficult task. It’s literally pinned on the Beginners & Help board. Even if you miss it, older members always give links to the forum rules when new members introduce themselves or ask a “newbie” question.

Even if this is what happens, they ought to know that every online forum has rules and regulations that are used to govern the ecosystem.
Assuming they are also not aware of it, they can easily ask a question about it if they actually want to learn and the issue will be solved rather than doing something that will affect their reputation.

Op by now you are supposed to know how the forum works and not come out to talk about things you feel is abnormal why you actually know that is true . You have been around here for almost 2years now I think that's enough time for you to understand and learn that the forum is made up of different people,  advising newbies for them to learn shouldn't be a big concern for you because they can learn and later on become pros in knowledge here and they won't have any reason to complain again. You need to be ready and not get discouraged or distracted because a member here corrected you on something which you don't believe to be true. Get emotion away and try and develop your knowledge and see if you won't be motivated by lots of encouragement that you will be getting here when you do things right, everyone must not agree with you or what you said before you can be happy learn to be happy and enjoy interacting with people here.

Hmmm, did some of your replies made a higher rank told you something that you didn't like? And instead of correcting you, you think that he's attacking you? I guess that is where you are coming from. Or if it didn't happened to you, have you seen that some of the high or top ranks did some misjudgement based on your understanding the discussions? There's need more of the context about this thread you've made so we will understand why you have made this topic. Because if that is what I've said, everyone has to grow and understand that we're in a forum and you may feel that it's an attack but usually it's just how they correct people and we've got different cultures and values. You think that the replies are attacking you but you're just thinking like that where it's correcting you or some other newbies.

Why do many newbies take some comments as an attack, I think many of the new members like us need to take how higher rank members treat and react to us with a more positive mindset, instead of seeing them as an attacks, having a negative mindset could affect your overall productivity as a beginner,  many of us have been treated worst than just criticism and attack to a point you need to develop strong will powers to continue to develop and improve yourself and in no time, the true content of you will be reveal to the whole forum.
One member may like you and the other dislike you, that is human behaviour for you, you cant control how people like or react to you, but you can control how you take they reactions and it effects on you, so be safe and continue to be a good member of the forum.

This only means that you want the information to be given to you instead of doing some research yourself. High ranking forum members is not oblige to teach newbies all the information/knowledge they know. Well, i'll share two of do's and one don'ts for you, do not ask other forum members all the knowledge or information you want to learn, do make your own research so that you will become knowledgeable and only ask if you have something that you find hard to understand or complicated.

I was a newbie once, and at the time faced my fair share of challenges being a novice to bitcoin and the forum but my thirst for knowledge was my motivation to learn about the bitcoin ecosystem and also become a better poster on the forum. My era is quite different from this one, we didn’t have many newbies creating threads about how harsh older members are. I can list ten threads that’s been created in just this month by newbies revolving around the topic.

I remember you from the scammer thread. Not the best way to start your journey here.