Topic: Creative Date Ideas (Read 6371 times)
or just spend time making money
subconscious and conscious differences, that's it.
^ if you compliment a girl on her shoes she'll immediately assume you're gay or worse a shoefag, the rest sounds a 'lil bit creepy, dishonest and cliche'd...... the truth is you're a young man and you want to get her drunk and take advantage of her, just be honest about that from the start and buy a bottle of vodka or something you can both enjoy.
lol, class act Sir!
uh oh, that was a long list to read.
Don't make this complicated.
This is how I'd do it.
Go up to her, look at her, and whatever she wears that looks nice, compliment her on it.
For instance: "That's some really nice shoes you've got there, where did you get them from ?"
Most girls would be all smiles from such a question, unless she had really ugly shoes, haha.
Then you have the conversation going, and while the conversation is all lively, mention that you're going to x event (something that doesn't scare here, just an art exhibition, a fotball game or something else where you could share some excitement) and that your best friend ( a boy of course) could not come, and you still have two tickets if she wants to come ? Arrange to have the tickets somehow. Haha.
If you want to make it even better, just ask her the first time for her interests. If she says for instance classical music, the next time you talk to her, you mention that your uncle was in town and had to leave because of a sick wife, but he left you with tickets to a local classical concert, something like that, to make it really exciting and innocent.
And oh.. if you behave sensibly, and she thinks you're interesting, things are not really hard at all, it develops just naturally.
Another thing would be to just ask her if she wanted to have lunch with your. Nothing scary about that!
Don't make this complicated.
This is how I'd do it.
Go up to her, look at her, and whatever she wears that looks nice, compliment her on it.
For instance: "That's some really nice shoes you've got there, where did you get them from ?"
Most girls would be all smiles from such a question, unless she had really ugly shoes, haha.
Then you have the conversation going, and while the conversation is all lively, mention that you're going to x event (something that doesn't scare here, just an art exhibition, a fotball game or something else where you could share some excitement) and that your best friend ( a boy of course) could not come, and you still have two tickets if she wants to come ? Arrange to have the tickets somehow. Haha.
If you want to make it even better, just ask her the first time for her interests. If she says for instance classical music, the next time you talk to her, you mention that your uncle was in town and had to leave because of a sick wife, but he left you with tickets to a local classical concert, something like that, to make it really exciting and innocent.
And oh.. if you behave sensibly, and she thinks you're interesting, things are not really hard at all, it develops just naturally.
Another thing would be to just ask her if she wanted to have lunch with your. Nothing scary about that!
^ if you compliment a girl on her shoes she'll immediately assume you're gay or worse a shoefag, the rest sounds a 'lil bit creepy, dishonest and cliche'd...... the truth is you're a young man and you want to get her drunk and take advantage of her, just be honest about that from the start and buy a bottle of vodka or something you can both enjoy.
uh oh, that was a long list to read.
Don't make this complicated.
This is how I'd do it.
Go up to her, look at her, and whatever she wears that looks nice, compliment her on it.
For instance: "That's some really nice shoes you've got there, where did you get them from ?"
Most girls would be all smiles from such a question, unless she had really ugly shoes, haha.
Then you have the conversation going, and while the conversation is all lively, mention that you're going to x event (something that doesn't scare here, just an art exhibition, a fotball game or something else where you could share some excitement) and that your best friend ( a boy of course) could not come, and you still have two tickets if she wants to come ? Arrange to have the tickets somehow. Haha.
If you want to make it even better, just ask her the first time for her interests. If she says for instance classical music, the next time you talk to her, you mention that your uncle was in town and had to leave because of a sick wife, but he left you with tickets to a local classical concert, something like that, to make it really exciting and innocent.
And oh.. if you behave sensibly, and she thinks you're interesting, things are not really hard at all, it develops just naturally.
Another thing would be to just ask her if she wanted to have lunch with your. Nothing scary about that!
Don't make this complicated.
This is how I'd do it.
Go up to her, look at her, and whatever she wears that looks nice, compliment her on it.
For instance: "That's some really nice shoes you've got there, where did you get them from ?"
Most girls would be all smiles from such a question, unless she had really ugly shoes, haha.
Then you have the conversation going, and while the conversation is all lively, mention that you're going to x event (something that doesn't scare here, just an art exhibition, a fotball game or something else where you could share some excitement) and that your best friend ( a boy of course) could not come, and you still have two tickets if she wants to come ? Arrange to have the tickets somehow. Haha.
If you want to make it even better, just ask her the first time for her interests. If she says for instance classical music, the next time you talk to her, you mention that your uncle was in town and had to leave because of a sick wife, but he left you with tickets to a local classical concert, something like that, to make it really exciting and innocent.
And oh.. if you behave sensibly, and she thinks you're interesting, things are not really hard at all, it develops just naturally.
Another thing would be to just ask her if she wanted to have lunch with your. Nothing scary about that!
btcANGEL points out a very important point:
Women (as well as men) have - strongly simplified - 2 layers of decision making. The conscious and the subconscious level. The conscious is easy: these are the things you think of and can logically explain. It's the conscious part of their brain that when posed the question: "what do you look for in a guy" answers things like "I want him to be kind and intelligent, honest and a good listener".
However there is also the subconscious part. This is how your body is wired and how your hormones work. These are your very primal responses to things like anxiety, fear, threat and the most primal of all: the sexual drive. These are the mechanisms shaped by evolution and natural selection. The subconscious looks for very different things in a mate: shelter from threat, power to provide for you and your offspring and strong genetic code to recombine with your own. These are things that can't be interviewed directly so the subconscious is dependent on picking up subtle signs like radiated confidence, social status, accumulated goods, strong body type and good looks (an indication of intact genetic line) etc.
If you end up in the FRIENDZONE that means you met all the criteria of the conscious self but failed the interview with the subconscious part. You pleased their brain but failed to make their pussies wet.
Their conscious self may tell you: "Oh, I love that you are so attentive and you asked me which restaurant we should go to for the date." Meanwhile their subconscious makes a mental note: "No initiative, no drive, no leadership: not the signs of a powerful mate"
You are apparently very good at pleasing the conscious self. Stop worrying about that. Work on broadcasting the proper signals to please their subconscious.
Women (as well as men) have - strongly simplified - 2 layers of decision making. The conscious and the subconscious level. The conscious is easy: these are the things you think of and can logically explain. It's the conscious part of their brain that when posed the question: "what do you look for in a guy" answers things like "I want him to be kind and intelligent, honest and a good listener".
However there is also the subconscious part. This is how your body is wired and how your hormones work. These are your very primal responses to things like anxiety, fear, threat and the most primal of all: the sexual drive. These are the mechanisms shaped by evolution and natural selection. The subconscious looks for very different things in a mate: shelter from threat, power to provide for you and your offspring and strong genetic code to recombine with your own. These are things that can't be interviewed directly so the subconscious is dependent on picking up subtle signs like radiated confidence, social status, accumulated goods, strong body type and good looks (an indication of intact genetic line) etc.
If you end up in the FRIENDZONE that means you met all the criteria of the conscious self but failed the interview with the subconscious part. You pleased their brain but failed to make their pussies wet.
Their conscious self may tell you: "Oh, I love that you are so attentive and you asked me which restaurant we should go to for the date." Meanwhile their subconscious makes a mental note: "No initiative, no drive, no leadership: not the signs of a powerful mate"
You are apparently very good at pleasing the conscious self. Stop worrying about that. Work on broadcasting the proper signals to please their subconscious.
just try fingering her without asking
This may work.
It always does.
just try fingering her without asking
This may work.
just try fingering her without asking
To each their own sure--but I tend to have a thing for beautiful women. Call me crazy!
Or wait maybe a lot of girls don't understand the benefits of being with smart guy / nerd / geek:
* Have education (most)
* Have a good paying job
* Intelligent enough to keep conversations
* Will take you everywhere ..on the beach, on the trip, on the Moon wait maybe Mars
* Wouldn't mind going shopping with you just to see how pretty you look in anything you wear (had a guy once in my store, couldn't stop talking about how hot his wife is (and he was like 40 something))
Someone else could prob continue keeping a list. I think knowing that your guy is smart is much hotter than finding that he is not.
But of course that is my opinion and everyone else could express differently so please don't judge me on it.
* Have education (most)
* Have a good paying job
* Intelligent enough to keep conversations
* Will take you everywhere ..on the beach, on the trip, on the Moon wait maybe Mars
* Wouldn't mind going shopping with you just to see how pretty you look in anything you wear (had a guy once in my store, couldn't stop talking about how hot his wife is (and he was like 40 something))
Someone else could prob continue keeping a list. I think knowing that your guy is smart is much hotter than finding that he is not.
But of course that is my opinion and everyone else could express differently so please don't judge me on it.
Hehe, perhaps I should create a thread on "Why to date a nerd".
Or wait maybe a lot of girls don't understand the benefits of being with smart guy / nerd / geek:
* Have education (most)
* Have a good paying job
* Intelligent enough to keep conversations
* Will take you everywhere ..on the beach, on the trip, on the Moon wait maybe Mars
* Wouldn't mind going shopping with you just to see how pretty you look in anything you wear (had a guy once in my store, couldn't stop talking about how hot his wife is (and he was like 40 something))
Someone else could prob continue keeping a list. I think knowing that your guy is smart is much hotter than finding that he is not.
But of course that is my opinion and everyone else could express differently so please don't judge me on it.
* Have education (most)
* Have a good paying job
* Intelligent enough to keep conversations
* Will take you everywhere ..on the beach, on the trip, on the Moon wait maybe Mars
* Wouldn't mind going shopping with you just to see how pretty you look in anything you wear (had a guy once in my store, couldn't stop talking about how hot his wife is (and he was like 40 something))
Someone else could prob continue keeping a list. I think knowing that your guy is smart is much hotter than finding that he is not.
But of course that is my opinion and everyone else could express differently so please don't judge me on it.
There's a broken record in here
All girls are different just like all guys are different. Guys should not just say that all of us want same things.
btw its not really true that *all* girls want men who are dicks.
girls who had a nice father in their childhood usually tend to look for a nice man.
girls who had a nice father in their childhood usually tend to look for a nice man.
I definitely don't. 
Why do people still want girls that like guys that are dicks...
Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate...
I can second that. Being "nice" to girls just gets you into the Friendzone.
Read Tucker Max . Don't be an asshole (like Tucker), don't abuse chicks but realize that girls are attracted to alpha males. And alpha males are confident, and a bit of a dick. Beta males are nice. This is why they make such nice friends. You will be so nice and understanding when they weep on your shoulders about that total dick that they fell for who *surprise - surprise * turned out to be a dick!
We like confidence, but we can't tell the difference between earned confidence (successful alpha male) and unearned confidence (asshole beta male). It's a very old instinct for finding a Good Provider for a mate. It worked great when overconfident beta males got eaten by velociraptors before they had a chance to mate, but it's not very useful in the modern world.
You can be confident AND nice. This is why firefighters and veterinarians are hotter than policemen and doctors. But if you're just nice without confidence, the only bodily fluids we're going to share are my tears on your shoulder.
If we're on a first date, I've known you for an hour and you've known you your whole life. You're the expert on you. If you act like you're thinking, "I have to Be Nice, because I don't have anything else to offer her," I'm going to assume you're right. If you act like you're thinking, "I hope she orders the $400 wine so I can tell her my mining farm will have it paid off before she's done drinking the first glass," I'm going to assume you're right.
Packaging is all that heaven is.
^ exactly + 1 lie as much as you need to get in her knickers, but if she orders a $400 bottle of wine hit her square on the nose, happened with me and my missus when we started going out but we had the most fantastic make up sex after..... well I say "we" but she was still out cold.
Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate...
I can second that. Being "nice" to girls just gets you into the Friendzone.
Read Tucker Max . Don't be an asshole (like Tucker), don't abuse chicks but realize that girls are attracted to alpha males. And alpha males are confident, and a bit of a dick. Beta males are nice. This is why they make such nice friends. You will be so nice and understanding when they weep on your shoulders about that total dick that they fell for who *surprise - surprise * turned out to be a dick!
We like confidence, but we can't tell the difference between earned confidence (successful alpha male) and unearned confidence (asshole beta male). It's a very old instinct for finding a Good Provider for a mate. It worked great when overconfident beta males got eaten by velociraptors before they had a chance to mate, but it's not very useful in the modern world.
You can be confident AND nice. This is why firefighters and veterinarians are hotter than policemen and doctors. But if you're just nice without confidence, the only bodily fluids we're going to share are my tears on your shoulder.
If we're on a first date, I've known you for an hour and you've known you your whole life. You're the expert on you. If you act like you're thinking, "I have to Be Nice, because I don't have anything else to offer her," I'm going to assume you're right. If you act like you're thinking, "I hope she orders the $400 wine so I can tell her my mining farm will have it paid off before she's done drinking the first glass," I'm going to assume you're right.
Packaging is all that heaven is.
See look she's surprised! 
Jump to: