Topic: Creative Date Ideas - page 3. (Read 6371 times)

Yes. If I do it well is another question What do you need?

Do you draw/photoshop?

If only it were a communication mix up. She just led me on. Plain and simple. Anyways, a cup of tea and a few hours of programming/gaming, and life goes on. If only I could get an author to let me do a pay-waht-you-want for their book.

I am sorry to hear.  I hope the situation didn't ruin the day for you--there is nothing like a communication mixup to leave me feeling a bit churned up myself.

Well, it went fantastically, until her boyfriend showed up. Yeah, that was awkward, then I got put in the position of awkward dog/protector-while-not-being-romatically-involved-in-any-way. She has an ex who isn't the cream of the crop, and basically her boyfriend told me to back off, but to watch out for her -_-. Story of my life man.

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Just saw this thread, how did it go? 

I don't think I have any specific advice like a "trick" (lol) or something, but it seems to me that women like/take interest in people's skills/hobbies.  While bitcoin may not be the most mainstream topic, it is obviously something you are interested in, if you are able to convey your passion for the subject (or something else you are truly interested in) in a low-key uncrazed way I think it could score you a lot of points.  Let her know what you are about while letting her tell you what she is...

Somebody (forget who at this point) had started a topic that was like "the ladies like my bitcoin..." that made me lol, you might want to read that too I found it interesting.

 
would the date be happening if she wouldn't
I mean to each person beautiful stands for a different reasons.

Then just get drunk. The rest usually works out on its own.

And what if she isn't?

Don't just start pouring compliments all over her, pick a moment (walking in a park/ accidental pause in the middle of the conversation/ looking in her eyes for some time) and tell her how beautiful she is. Beautiful just sounds so much more powerful than saying pretty.

Great idea!


Whatever you say boss.

Aikido.  Be yourself, and enjoy the time together, whatever it is that you are doing. Take her to botanical garden, road trip, dinner, rock climbing gym, drinking, anything - and enjoy those moments to the fullest, just like you would with a close friend. Once she gets to know just how nice and smart and fun guy you are, she'll feel comfortable, and even more importantly -  curious. It doesn't take but a few days, and if it takes more than that, then she's a guilt- and fear-ridden freak who is not worth the effort anyway.

When I'm lazy with my dates, I just sit there in silence, stare deeply into her eyes and lick my eyebrows.

Hehe, always a good idea.

I forgot to mention that your wearing apparel should be such that you're showcasing your moose knuckles and crown jewel, even if you have to augment them.

Don't put yourself in a position to get rejected.

As you carry on more and more conversations with her, make sure you're really listening and not just hearing her. Never interrupt her when she's speaking. During the course of the conversation, somehow takeaway something she mentioned, but don't elaborate on it. I'll give you a real life example.

One day, me and girlfriend went to an upscaled mall to do some shopping to augment her wearing apparel. After parking, then proceeding to the entrance, she abruptly stops, and with excitement picks up a dime. A quick exchange pursued whereupon she said, "You don't know about me and dimes. Dimes are like power pieces to me." (New Age lingo) I replied with an, "Ah!"

Come the following day, I entered our bedroom where she was putting on her shoes. I stopped her from completing that task and told her to wait a sec. I left the bedroom, closing the door behind me. Shortly, I returned and told her to close her eyes. I led her barefooted from the bedroom to the hall and walked her to the living room. Then I told her to open her eyes. What she saw 360^o were a hundred dollars worth of dimes laying on the floor in the entire apartment with the exception of the bedroom from where we started. Immediately, she starting crying (I guess so did I). That's how powerful dimes were to her. That's how powerful listening to what she says is.

Later that night, I received a well deserved piece of ass preceded by a blowjob one would die for, and it all started with some stranger losing a dime.

In normal conversation, your lady friend may state that she likes such and such flower. Register it, and surprise her with the biggest batch you can afford. But don't make the mistake of asking her what flower she likes, then going out to buy a couple of them. She's already rewarded others via that approach, thus the surprise factor is already used up.

If she's wearing perfume, simply tell her that smells nice and you like it, without asking her what it is. The chances are good, she'll tell you the fragrance. When she does, don't elaborate, but do retain the info.

Think of it as a game. I'll assume you know how to play games. The goal is to win her without her knowing that she's being gamed. At the end of the game, please report back to your friends here, going into great detail about the epic blo....

Whatever you do, don't tell her about you being a member of BitcoinTalk or what you're pseudonym is, otherwise you're going to wake up one day while she's giving you a coffee edema.

~Bruno K~

Great point! Adding to OP.

Most women/girls have a favourite accessoire that they wear often and that is different from the current trend, a neclair, earings, a pair of shoes, a handbag etc.

Watch her stile for a view days until you find out what it is.

Then make a compliment on that specific thing. Note, you must speak the truth, nearly all people notice when you talk about why you like something and you lie. Look until you find something you really like (and not her boobs)