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Topic: Do not gamble with Loan Money~otherwise you will be in danger like me - page 23. (Read 4955 times)

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Actually, everyone knows that borrowing money from the bank just to gamble is the wrong decision and could have bad consequences in the future, but they forget all the risks involved and do whatever they think is right.
But actually there are two main factors that make them dare to borrow money just to gamble.
- The first is the idea that they have job or business that can make money so they think that even if they borrow they can still pay the bills and will not experience difficulties in the future.
- Second, they think they can win and their goals will be realized so that when they win they can immediately return the loan money, but they forget that gambling is full of uncertainty and defeat is always on their side.
These two things make gamblers brave enough to borrow money without considering everything, including the pressure they might feel, but only when they feel the difficulties can they realize all that.

It like when you take out loan and feel various pressures, but after it all over and you feel it, the awareness arises not to do it again.
Experiences and consequences must be truly experienced by gamblers so that they can think and act well.
It's strange how, despite our logical understanding of risks, we emotionally go right into them. Consider your first point: using a steady income to make debts from gaming acceptable. We see this as an overconfidence in one's financial sense. It sounds like, "I'm unstoppable because I have a stable job." But do they really? In actuality, demands in life and income levels change. Although you may be aware of the rules, are you really able to forecast the changes?

"I'll win it all back!" Traditional human arrogance, yes? Can we see this as a frantic attempt to maintain control in an unpredictable world? They are placing bets not only on cards or dice, but also on life to give them some relief. Though everyone is aware that the house always win, hope is a powerful remedy. The excitement of "what if" is what prevents people from seeing the harsh reality of "what usually is." Gamblers chase dreams, but more often than not, they're just running on a treadmill, making progress but remaining stagnant
Try to understand once again what the main meaning of my previous response is because I clearly said that "there are two main factors that make them dare to borrow money just to gamble".
From the first point it is clear that it is an explanation of the reasons why gamblers dare to make the decision to borrow money as capital for gambling.
And in reality, all of them dare to take out loans because they think that there is consistent source of income that they can have every month to be able to pay bills from the amount of money they have borrowed.
Even though there are changes, they don't think about these changes and they still decide to borrow money, so what can they do if their last resort is to borrow money to gamble.

No, thinking like that is not kind of arrogance but rather belief and determination that is filled with strong ambition to be able to win bet, whether game or sports bet.
We know that everything cannot be predicted accurately because we cannot know the future and we cannot know how to have good achievements in the future, but they have confidence which they strive for in various ways.
And it is true to say that they just walk or run in place without any progress because their mindset and approach is not correct.

Maybe we are surprised by gamblers who have that kind of attitude and mindset, but this is what actually happens.
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When a person gambles with his own money, he tries to take into account the risks and somehow control them. When a person gambles with borrowed money (especially if he has the opportunity to take rather large loans), he often begins to behave recklessly and spend money without an account (this is the specific nature of most people).

The gambler who used their own money will keen to take the money out from the gambling site with some profit.But if the gambler uses the money from loan,he will get more pressure to the money out with the profit from the gambling site.So the gambler will get more emotional in the loan money,it may leads to the big loss of the money in the gambling site.This was the biggest mistake made by the gambler in the gambling site,he should do gambling only because of their own money.Incase loan money,if he had loss then the gambler situation will become more worst in the real life.
When someone gambles with their own money, they are not liable to anyone for losing it and are under no pressure to pay it back.  But when someone gambles with loans and loses them, there is a strong pressure on him to repay the money and he faces a lot of problems.  Because at the same time he needs a fixed amount of money to meet the expenses of his family and on the other hand there is a huge pressure on him to repay the loan. For this one should not gamble by borrowing.  One should gamble according to his own ability

Well, there are people's behavior that I honestly don't understand, because primarily when I play with my money I take great care of it, but of course, I take my precautions, I only play what I have destined to lose, from there no more, I do lose what I have destined Well, I insist more and accept my loss, I think that is a rule that I have and it has worked very well for me in my experience in caisnos and with that strategy it does not make me fall into addictions or anything like that, This is only with my money, but those who take risks and borrow money just to play, and I have said this many times, it is not good to do so because basically when they do something like this it causes people to go into much more debt, and if they are people who They don't have a very good monthly income, how will they be able to pay? It is impossible, so not to get involved in things that cannot be paid, because I do not say anything about lending money to be able to do other things, or that there is a health emergency or something, which is what I see as normal, in this case things can be good enough.

Now, when we do something out of the ordinary, we could say that we can borrow money to buy bitcoin, which I don't see as so risky, but in the case of lending money to play in a casino, what will the person do if they lend it, and lose? how would it look? make another loans for gpgara? That is something that I do not see well, I could say that they are people who do not have a very good financial life and who live day to day looking for ways to do things better, but with debt it is very difficult to think, it is strongth because in a casino if it is the activity that you do the most it will not generate good money to at least save money, a life like that is very difficult, hard, and I do not recommend it, that is why addicted people cannot get out of it. that cycle of vices, because they continue all the time in the worst, that is detrimental to health.
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When a person gambles with his own money, he tries to take into account the risks and somehow control them. When a person gambles with borrowed money (especially if he has the opportunity to take rather large loans), he often begins to behave recklessly and spend money without an account (this is the specific nature of most people).
The loan amount is like a gift without any effort, what we need is to build a little credibility or pledge something, the loan amount can automatically come to us, this ease creates so much subjectivity and failure comes from such subjectivity, besides, a person with a stable economy will not take out loans because paying them off is a hassle and the loans will only multiply. The first loan is just the beginning of more loans, which can be called a self-destructive financial trap for gamblers, the smile will fade with the loan
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When a person gambles with his own money, he tries to take into account the risks and somehow control them. When a person gambles with borrowed money (especially if he has the opportunity to take rather large loans), he often begins to behave recklessly and spend money without an account (this is the specific nature of most people).

The gambler who used their own money will keen to take the money out from the gambling site with some profit.But if the gambler uses the money from loan,he will get more pressure to the money out with the profit from the gambling site.So the gambler will get more emotional in the loan money,it may leads to the big loss of the money in the gambling site.This was the biggest mistake made by the gambler in the gambling site,he should do gambling only because of their own money.Incase loan money,if he had loss then the gambler situation will become more worst in the real life.
When someone gambles with their own money, they are not liable to anyone for losing it and are under no pressure to pay it back.  But when someone gambles with loans and loses them, there is a strong pressure on him to repay the money and he faces a lot of problems.  Because at the same time he needs a fixed amount of money to meet the expenses of his family and on the other hand there is a huge pressure on him to repay the loan. For this one should not gamble by borrowing.  One should gamble according to his own ability
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When someone intends to borrow money from other people to gamble, it is already a sign that he is already addicted to gambling and should be stopped as soon as possible before he loses that money in gambling. But @OP has already lost so much money that it's hard to get it all back anytime soon. This is a lesson for him not to do it again, and hopefully, he will stop gambling after this bad experience and focus more on making money so he can get his money back. He was already stuck on that loan, and he really needed to stay away from gambling so as not to be tempted by gambling again. This is not easy because he is already familiar with gambling, but with a strong will, he can definitely do it.
The kind of problem the OP is facing is probably one of the most difficult for a person to solve, as this is the result not of acquiring an expensive asset like a house or car, this is just the consequence of being irresponsible with the management of their own money, and since it will take them so much time to pay that loan, it will always exist the temptation to do something so they can diminish the time needed to accomplish that goal, so it is entirely possible they may gamble again hoping for a win, a win that most likely will never come.
This should not be a new news to us again because we already need to us our common sense to make decisions and not to take decisions that would affect us in the future. Gambling can be addictive if we don't know how to fix things especially when we make loses. It is very important that we should not take loan just for us to gamble and most time, we might be tempted to gamble with funds that is nit our own like taking loan or borrowing high amount of money for the sake for us to use it to gamble when we should be trying ourselves to bet and do something better.
Although this is a very common thing, this tendency can be observed among gamblers. When a gambler realizes that he can get money from any others sources, he gambles more fearlessly because he knows that he has money. Be it borrowed money or a bank loan gambler will be greedy for that money at some point. A gambler's power of self-control is the great power by which he can save himself from ruin. Gambling should not borrow from anyone or take a bank loan and should not spend more than 7 to 10 percent of the amount of money one has. Otherwise his normal life will be affected.
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When a person gambles with his own money, he tries to take into account the risks and somehow control them. When a person gambles with borrowed money (especially if he has the opportunity to take rather large loans), he often begins to behave recklessly and spend money without an account (this is the specific nature of most people).

The gambler who used their own money will keen to take the money out from the gambling site with some profit.But if the gambler uses the money from loan,he will get more pressure to the money out with the profit from the gambling site.So the gambler will get more emotional in the loan money,it may leads to the big loss of the money in the gambling site.This was the biggest mistake made by the gambler in the gambling site,he should do gambling only because of their own money.Incase loan money,if he had loss then the gambler situation will become more worst in the real life.
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When a person gambles with his own money, he tries to take into account the risks and somehow control them. When a person gambles with borrowed money (especially if he has the opportunity to take rather large loans), he often begins to behave recklessly and spend money without an account (this is the specific nature of most people).
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The kind of problem the OP is facing is probably one of the most difficult for a person to solve, as this is the result not of acquiring an expensive asset like a house or car, this is just the consequence of being irresponsible with the management of their own money, and since it will take them so much time to pay that loan, it will always exist the temptation to do something so they can diminish the time needed to accomplish that goal, so it is entirely possible they may gamble again hoping for a win, a win that most likely will never come.
Yes, this is actually a matter of managing both money and time. It is indeed difficult to manage everything well, and often, we miss many things so that the management that we have put in place can be neglected. And because everything becomes a mess and we can't control our emotions well, we end up borrowing money to gamble, which is not a good decision to make. That will only create other problems, which may become more serious if we cannot pay the loan. And @OP has made a fatal mistake by borrowing money and using it to gamble. Meanwhile, the final result of his gambling activities did not give good results, and he also lost.

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Today, I just saw a Facebook post from a group, even though I am not a member of that group, the post was suggested to me. The person posted a few screenshots where he lost around $700 and he says he lost around $1000 by gamle which he stolen from his wife's parents house. Now he posted this in a Facebook group and asking for help. He want another $100 loan from random people on the internet and he claims he will recover that money anyhow. I was just thinking how stupid a person could be. I know that he already knew no one give him a penny without knowing him. But he still posted this. Gambling destroying people's lives which you can see If you check social media.
A person who has lost his mind will do anything, including borrowing from people he doesn't know and claiming he can return the money in a short time. But that still wouldn't allow him to pay off his previous debt because he already had too many debts from too many people, so he might forget who it was. That's the result if someone gets too deep into gambling until they can no longer think clearly. Instead of stopping his gambling activities and finding a way to pay off his debts, he instead wanted to borrow more money from people he didn't even know. So that's why we really have to learn self-control well so that we won't experience problems like that person and we can still enjoy gambling as entertainment.
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When someone intends to borrow money from other people to gamble, it is already a sign that he is already addicted to gambling and should be stopped as soon as possible before he loses that money in gambling. But @OP has already lost so much money that it's hard to get it all back anytime soon. This is a lesson for him not to do it again, and hopefully, he will stop gambling after this bad experience and focus more on making money so he can get his money back. He was already stuck on that loan, and he really needed to stay away from gambling so as not to be tempted by gambling again. This is not easy because he is already familiar with gambling, but with a strong will, he can definitely do it.

Today, I just saw a Facebook post from a group, even though I am not a member of that group, the post was suggested to me. The person posted a few screenshots where he lost around $700 and he says he lost around $1000 by gamle which he stolen from his wife's parents house. Now he posted this in a Facebook group and asking for help. He want another $100 loan from random people on the internet and he claims he will recover that money anyhow. I was just thinking how stupid a person could be. I know that he already knew no one give him a penny without knowing him. But he still posted this. Gambling destroying people's lives which you can see If you check social media.
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I am a victim of real experience and I am sharing my real experience with you.  Don't make the same mistake I did.  And never decide to gamble with a loan. If you do, your situation may be similar to mine. so beware of gambling

That's unfortunate mate but with time, your normal life (financial-wise) will be back again and I do hope that you learned your lessons through that experience but believe me, a gambler is always a gambler and I have doubt that you will stop gambling, just don't loan money and only gamble what spare money you have as that's the golden rule of gambling, gamble only the money you can afford to lose.
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I read some forum posts where a member shared their story of borrowing money to recover their losses from gambling. They were fortunate enough to eventually win back the lost amount. It is important to keep in mind that winning with borrowed money is not always guaranteed and it's important to have a plan to repay the loan in case you lose while gambling. It's advisable to have a reliable source of income to fall back on.
If you want to avoid ruining your own life and your family's, it's best to stay away from borrowing money or gambling permanently.

It’s best kept in mind that with gambling, winning isn’t guaranteed. Now, if someone borrows money to play and try to win, knowing fully well winning isn’t guaranteed, isn’t that being unwise?
It’s always advisable not to gamble with funds not kept aside for such purposes. Not less borrowing money so as to continue playing. It would only bring about financial ruin in the long run. And someone with a family, it wouldn’t do so well to have financial problems in the home. Problems that can be avoided.
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Yeah that's not the way to go.  Even if you win it opens up an opportunity later on in life to do the same thing and get in real trouble.  Taking out a loan because obviously you didn't have it in the first place so this will only exasperate it even further.  The old saying is only gamble what you can afford to lose.
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When someone intends to borrow money from other people to gamble, it is already a sign that he is already addicted to gambling and should be stopped as soon as possible before he loses that money in gambling. But @OP has already lost so much money that it's hard to get it all back anytime soon. This is a lesson for him not to do it again, and hopefully, he will stop gambling after this bad experience and focus more on making money so he can get his money back. He was already stuck on that loan, and he really needed to stay away from gambling so as not to be tempted by gambling again. This is not easy because he is already familiar with gambling, but with a strong will, he can definitely do it.
The kind of problem the OP is facing is probably one of the most difficult for a person to solve, as this is the result not of acquiring an expensive asset like a house or car, this is just the consequence of being irresponsible with the management of their own money, and since it will take them so much time to pay that loan, it will always exist the temptation to do something so they can diminish the time needed to accomplish that goal, so it is entirely possible they may gamble again hoping for a win, a win that most likely will never come.
Taking loan to use it for gambling should be viewed as a last option as it's not an option in any sense. Many people have losed their lives due to how they took loan of huge amount to gambling in the hope's that they will win and return the loan money ASAP and keep the benefits win but it turned our bad and when they realized that by all available means possible they can't afford paying back the loan the next thought we commiting suicide to escape the shame. It's something that's happening and it's not sweet to the ear when we hear about these things.
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When someone intends to borrow money from other people to gamble, it is already a sign that he is already addicted to gambling and should be stopped as soon as possible before he loses that money in gambling. But @OP has already lost so much money that it's hard to get it all back anytime soon. This is a lesson for him not to do it again, and hopefully, he will stop gambling after this bad experience and focus more on making money so he can get his money back. He was already stuck on that loan, and he really needed to stay away from gambling so as not to be tempted by gambling again. This is not easy because he is already familiar with gambling, but with a strong will, he can definitely do it.
The kind of problem the OP is facing is probably one of the most difficult for a person to solve, as this is the result not of acquiring an expensive asset like a house or car, this is just the consequence of being irresponsible with the management of their own money, and since it will take them so much time to pay that loan, it will always exist the temptation to do something so they can diminish the time needed to accomplish that goal, so it is entirely possible they may gamble again hoping for a win, a win that most likely will never come.
This should not be a new news to us again because we already need to us our common sense to make decisions and not to take decisions that would affect us in the future. Gambling can be addictive if we don't know how to fix things especially when we make loses. It is very important that we should not take loan just for us to gamble and most time, we might be tempted to gamble with funds that is nit our own like taking loan or borrowing high amount of money for the sake for us to use it to gamble when we should be trying ourselves to bet and do something better.
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When someone intends to borrow money from other people to gamble, it is already a sign that he is already addicted to gambling and should be stopped as soon as possible before he loses that money in gambling. But @OP has already lost so much money that it's hard to get it all back anytime soon. This is a lesson for him not to do it again, and hopefully, he will stop gambling after this bad experience and focus more on making money so he can get his money back. He was already stuck on that loan, and he really needed to stay away from gambling so as not to be tempted by gambling again. This is not easy because he is already familiar with gambling, but with a strong will, he can definitely do it.
The kind of problem the OP is facing is probably one of the most difficult for a person to solve, as this is the result not of acquiring an expensive asset like a house or car, this is just the consequence of being irresponsible with the management of their own money, and since it will take them so much time to pay that loan, it will always exist the temptation to do something so they can diminish the time needed to accomplish that goal, so it is entirely possible they may gamble again hoping for a win, a win that most likely will never come.
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Yes. It's a dirty loophole where a gambler can destroy his own life and his family too. Gambling addiction is too bad and can cause serious trouble. Op's case is an example of how gambling addiction and taking a loan can cause harm. He has to work for at least a year to pay the debt. But it's nice to see that he realized that it's not too late to stop. He did not take further loans to cover the previous one. I would suggest he not take another loan to cover this one. If he does, he will be trapped in a loophole. This is not the first time we heard such a story. Often people do these things and get into serious trouble.
When someone intends to borrow money from other people to gamble, it is already a sign that he is already addicted to gambling and should be stopped as soon as possible before he loses that money in gambling. But @OP has already lost so much money that it's hard to get it all back anytime soon. This is a lesson for him not to do it again, and hopefully, he will stop gambling after this bad experience and focus more on making money so he can get his money back. He was already stuck on that loan, and he really needed to stay away from gambling so as not to be tempted by gambling again. This is not easy because he is already familiar with gambling, but with a strong will, he can definitely do it.
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While we keep reminding them not to gamble if they can't afford it and they don't have money to gamble. Much better for them to simply stop and don't do anything at all because aside from losing, if they're going to have ways to gamble.
Then, it's easier to have ways not to gamble because you have no reason for it and you have no money at all. You're just going to complicate things when you ask for a loan to gamble.
Yep. If there is no safe money for gambling anymore, the best way is to stop temporarily. Why we must try to continue gambling if we use unsafe money, right? Gambling isn't a safe place to risk money, no guarantee to win the prizes. Even we tend to lose money because the chance to win is quite small, specifically for the luck-based games.

Sure, no reason for gambling if we risk ourselves, it won't be fun anymore. I think we only can gamble as long as it bring an entertainment for us. Although people must expect money from gambling, fun should be an important part in gambling. If gambling never bring the entertainment and we never feel fun during playing gambling, so why we keep gambling? It is true that we shouldn't lead ourselves into a complicated situation in gambling.



That's a good thing you say, actually, for the gamblers here in crypto gambling. That's why the problem with other players is that when they become greedy, they can't stop themselves from continuing to gamble.

And sometimes, because they are greedy, it becomes a way for them to borrow money so that they can recover their losses in gambling. This often happens, which is not a good habit for a gambler to have in reality.
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That is why it is not recommended to borrow money from anyone to gamble. Those who do this will only get into trouble, especially if they lose at gambling, so they can't pay back the loan. There are more risks behind borrowing money as there is a desire to borrow from someone other than the first so that they can continue gambling and recover their losses. However, if they lose again, it will continue because there is a possibility that they will look for someone else to borrow the money to gamble again.

Yes. It's a dirty loophole where a gambler can destroy his own life and his family too. Gambling addiction is too bad and can cause serious trouble. Op's case is an example of how gambling addiction and taking a loan can cause harm. He has to work for at least a year to pay the debt. But it's nice to see that he realized that it's not too late to stop. He did not take further loans to cover the previous one. I would suggest he not take another loan to cover this one. If he does, he will be trapped in a loophole. This is not the first time we heard such a story. Often people do these things and get into serious trouble.
I read some forum posts where a member shared their story of borrowing money to recover their losses from gambling. They were fortunate enough to eventually win back the lost amount. It is important to keep in mind that winning with borrowed money is not always guaranteed and it's important to have a plan to repay the loan in case you lose while gambling. It's advisable to have a reliable source of income to fall back on.
If you want to avoid ruining your own life and your family's, it's best to stay away from borrowing money or gambling permanently.
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Right now I am just gambling with my extra money that I can afford to lose and I do not spend way beyond my limits.
You have correctly used money that you can afford to lose, meaning money that is not used so there is no need to borrow money from anyone to finance your gambling, gambling with money from debt will never end well so your ability to gamble must match the money you have don't go over the limit like other gamblers do because that will only waste money unnecessarily.

There are many cases of addicted gamblers who are in debt and all their assets have also been used up so they don't know how to pay their debts even though they don't have anything, that's why there are many cases where addicts like that usually end their lives by committing suicide and ultimately end up becoming a losers, that's why never gamble beyond the limits of gambling with money that we are ready to lose, let's say we go to an entertainment venue and have to pay for that entertainment. think of gambling like a place of entertainment.
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Sometimes we become blind for a moment when faced with our biggest enemy, namely greed when gambling, the average gambler has experienced this, and I have too. We become like hypocrites because on the one hand we give advice not to take gambling seriously, but we gamble without thinking about the impact in the future. But what can we do, the rice has become porridge, we cannot turn back time and we can only deal with the problem as best we can. I hope the best for you.
Yes, and I also think that as gamblers, we wanted to take that risk with the money that we loan. I have done  this several times though, not that huge amount maybe just around $100, borrow from someone with interest and then I will just go play it online or even in traditional based casino.

And as the risk goes, sometimes I will win, but majority I will just ended up losing everything and when I thought I have the money already to repay and then win some. But sometimes greed takes over, so instead of the money that I should have won that night, I ended up with nothing.

If you have already your loan money then you need to think carefully about what you're going to do with that money, You can use it for something more meaningful or you can spend it all on gambling, or you can used both. its your choice, but since you have said that you want to take a risk by using it in gambling, so you need to be more open on the consequences that may happen. From the very beginning, It is not advisable to use loan money in gambling because it can cause you a trouble and big debt because of the interest. What if you don't have a stable job? How will you pay all the money you borrowed for gambling? think carefully.

I think if they have taken a loan it is better to use the money for other purposes in life and outside of gambling, they must realize that it is borrowed money that they have to return to the person who gave the loan anyway, so of course I think it is better to use it for other useful needs. I don't prohibit anyone from putting the borrowed money into gambling but I think consider first before they decide, don't let you act rashly by putting the money into gambling in the hope that "hopefully the amount will multiply", I understand that there is a chance of winning but on the other hand it is very difficult and requires a lot of experiments to be able to achieve pretty good luck.

It does come back to yourself about which one you will choose, but here maybe I just slightly suggest that it is better to use the money wisely, nothing else because the fear is that you are very likely to regret it at the end of the session when the results really lose. They must understand that in gambling the risks are greater than the chances of winning  and that is what makes more people suffer defeat than victory. Right, the point is that gambling with borrowed money is really not recommended because it will only make a lot of new problems come to you, especially depression due to debt.
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