Topic: Do not gamble with Loan Money~otherwise you will be in danger like me - page 18. (Read 4955 times)

That’s one of the things to bear in mind when gambling. Every gambler should know that they could ruin their future if they can’t control the gambling addiction. For you it all started when you tried to recover the money with so much desperation. And from experience, I’ve noticed that what you described about trying to win back the money is mostly the case. Once you lose, there’s that urge to win back your initial capital and flee, but even that doesn’t always end well. Also, you should never think of repaying that money through gamble or you may be in more debt. Hopefully you do it slow if you ever choose to gamble again.

Like you stated most gamblers don't understand or in some cases understand when there's a problem resulting from their gambling habit, they literally allow their quest for wins drive them into doing things that are far more crazy and in the end some of them end up with regrets because they have lost more than they can bear.

Taking loans to gamble is not in any way advantageous rather it's detrimental effect is just continual and you most times struggle to get pass them but some persons don't ever learn from others, they wait to experience it the hard way, most persons actually do not plan on getting to such point gambling but then they get Carried away gradually and before they could realize it they are already deep in the mess, it's very much advisable to stop gambling after you must have exhausted all that which you have, don't proceed any further to getting loan, in most cases it usually doesn't end well.

Well I will always see lending money as something that is not viable, therefore to assume having a good loan to be able to play is something that I consider a little irresponsible to play, there is nothing better than doing it with our own money, that is what The best thing that can be done, I personally would never do something like that, for me lending money has to be something strictly necessary and for an emergency, something like a medical issue, an operation like that, because it is something different, something that is really worth it. It's worth doing it, but I think that to play or do something in a casino I don't see it as correct, I really don't know how to explain it, but I start from the fact that when you want to lend money you have to look for something that is actually worth it, no. For whatever reason, that's just what I think, maybe my training since I was a child was always based on good customs, because money always has to be well managed, but to give yourself pleasure and lend money is not good.

I could say that when it comes to loans, people have to be responsible, but above all they must have the ability to pay, because embarking on a loan means that the responsibility to pay it must be the only thing that the person has to always be clear about. , and until he doesn't pay, that person cannot have any peace of mind, for that reason, when we always have the opportunity to lend money, we have to evaluate what it means, here what we should do is think about everything that you have to pay and never fail to pay, because if there is a person who gives money to another, it is because they really want to help you, that is why the commitment to pay has to be the only thing you should worry about, there is no problem. another, and for this reason if it is lending money to play in a casino it is not something that I see as urgent, at least not for things that are worth doing, in fact, I see it a lot, lending money to buy Bicon even smarter.

I will not be against of someone who gambles with loan, I think that is much bad idea but I know that many people will like to gamble with that believe that gambling with loan is prohibited but in my own theory I don't think it's a bad act, because it's very clear that gambling is all about risk and you can loan money and gamble and probably the thing manifest and I don't know if the thing should be something that be good or result out good profit, so nobody can tell about gambling scenario because the one you think that will not be among will be the one that will manifest

I can't understand how someone can gamble with borrowed money. even though when we borrow we have no guarantee to pay it when it comes due if we are gamblers. Will the money lending platform approve our loan easily? or indeed we are too eager for all this. I don't have a problem trading with debt. it at least has more opportunities than having to gamble which usually always loses.

This is why we should try to examine our actions towards gambling time to time to see if we are doing it rightly or wrongly. The moment a gambler have started gambling a lot that he always get broke, he should know that he has entered in a high realm of addiction and such person should quit gambling so that he can put himself together again for him to know if he will continue with gambling or not.

The worst of it is that if a gambler starts having the urge gamble, when he doesn't have any funds on him and start taking money from people to gamble, it means that gambler will end up frustrating his life because he will end up losing everything both family and properties because he will become irresponsible.

Most effective in gambling make it fun only not and not push our self in addict position, I know many people more dominance their losses in gambling than win and make limit amount for depositing in gambling account. So sad heard with your experienced in gambling and I have in your position when become addict with gambling make much deposit fund without know how to stop it before losing all money. Usually can spent more than $100 in one session right now get limit small fund only for betting under $10 but on weekend depend with gambling habit on sport betting.
Not good ideas exactly for some one have children keep habit in gambling, change mindset gambling can't guarantee to get more winning but lets make it fund only when having free time for betting.

IMO, it all comes back to each individual and how they understand their gambling activities. in fact, there are many gamblers who are very aware that they have fallen into the category of gambling addicts. usually they will analyze how far they play, how intensely they gamble. and how much money they have spent, and not necessarily specific or based on the loss of many of their possessions or property they previously owned. it's enough just to be aware of the extent to which we are involved in gambling itself. if we always take time to think or play even when we are busy at work, it is very likely that we are classified as gambling addicts. anyway, there's nothing wrong with the first point you said. in fact, we agree with it.



May be yes, maybe no. but in most cases, what you say represents the facts that mostly happen to gambling addicts. moreover, if someone does not have a broad understanding and does not want to be introspective about their gambling. that's why, many gambling addict victims have difficulty curing their addiction. many have also used various methods, including entering rehabilitation. however, not a few also return to gamble. for me, it all depends on how we utilize gambling itself. in other words, a person can ask themselves what they are really looking for from gambling. the answer, will be very diverse and varied. the point is, we as gamblers must know the essence of gambling itself for us. if you want to get money, or wealth, then the answer is to work or do business. but if we just do it with the idea of ​​having fun, regardless of winning or losing. we won't bother looking for a loan just to fulfill a high desire. avoiding addiction is quite difficult, complicated but not completely so. ideally, we should have boundaries to act as reminders when we get carried away by mood or emotions. and if you can, never get into the habit of looking for loans just to gamble.

I have both experiences. There was a time when I was gambling day and night and I couldn't even sleep because I wanted to gamble more and more. Money is an addiction and when gambling offers you unlimited money to win, a person will try to win that. This is typical human behavior. When I lost a big amount a couple of times, I promised myself not to gamble anymore. But I ended up trying those games again, but with a low amount of money. If your money is hard-earned, you know the feeling of losing it.

I started changing myself when I lost my entire salary in one session. Then I started to ask myself, what have I got from gambling except losing my hard-earned money? I have worked for a whole month to earn it and it takes a few minutes to lose it. I would I manage my family expenses this month? I had to be more responsible. I have not gambled much since then. Even if I do, the amount does not exceed $50 in one session.

If someone has a family and they are responsible for them, they cannot continue gamble. They have to think about their wife and kids. This is only way a man can quit gambling. At least, that's how I convinced myself.

That's the sad truth, there's a lot of people that didn't grew up to not learn any kind of self-awareness so these warnings and cautionary tales end up not getting to them or they just don't get it at all, I even think that hindsight or realizing too late is a lucky thing to happen to them so I'm not that sure that all of them have that because lack of self-awareness comes with lack of hindsight too. I wouldn't agree that it's the timeline for everyone though, there are times when they skip some of the parts, they're not even probably asking loans from friends too, most likely they're asking loans from strangers that they like to call "friends" but aren't their friends. The bank part, that seems a bit stupid on the part of the bank because afaik, banks are supposed to do some sort of investigation before they grant someone a loan so if they're to approve someone of a loan and they gamble it away, that's a mistake on that bank for not taking all the necessary measure to make sure they're loans are going in good hands.
That's not going to happen if they lack self-awareness though but despite all that, I think that they're still able to get saved from their addiction and to be rehabilitated but the only problem with this one though is the fact that they have to be the one to do the first step and that they should be the one that's willing to do the rehabilitation.

Of course, the loan sharks will attack the borrowers brutally if the person who borrows the debt does not deposit or return the loan money because what I know is that the loan sharks are harsh when it comes to collecting debts from people. Therefore we must avoid borrowing money to gamble because if they are gamblers can't make any profit at all with the borrowed money, it will make things even more difficult for yourself. Instead of trying to catch up on your losses, you will experience even bigger losses and you will have to pay back the loan.

Gambling is basically used to seek pleasure, but sometimes this pleasure can turn into an addiction if it is too excessive and you are unable to control yourself because someone who enjoys gambling too much and really enjoying gambling can't get away with it easily because they are already addict, so this is not about gambling is for entertainment but we also have to limit ourselves so we don't get addicted and most importantly we have to avoid borrowing money to gamble.

It is difficult to detect addiction consciously as long as they have not really lost everything, their family or their wealth, usually when gamblers really feel lonely and have lost all their wealth then they realize that they have come a long way, when you become a gambler you should make it a habit to continue to maintain communication with your family and friends. friends to always avoid gambling addiction.

To be honest, gambling addiction is very difficult to cure, that's why all friends here are always warned that never become addicted to gambling, it's best to limit your budget and time for gambling so you don't gamble beyond the limit which ultimately leads to losing everything and ending up sad, we rarely realizing that we ourselves are addicted, so it's best to always maintain relationships with our family because they are the ones who will help us get out of this addiction in the end.

The problem is, that the people who are supposed to understand this thing do not understand it. Or they understand it when it is too late already. People do not take loans on the first day. At first, they become addicted to gambling and then start losing their savings money. At first, they get broke, and then start to take loans from friends and family members. Then they choose banks or other financial companies to get loans.

A gambler supposed to understand that they are already addicted and that should be the stop point for them. But unfortunately, most of them do not even realize that they are already addicted. Family and Friends could have notice this and possibliy help them so they don't get addicted.

That results from being in debt, which will cause someone to experience serious problems. They cannot escape from loan sharks and will continue to be chased to pay their debts. Those who are already in debt just for gambling will continue to be in debt, especially when they don't have the money to continue gambling. And as much as possible, we should not borrow money to gamble because it is risky. We should gamble with our own money to be safer.

Although gambling can be addictive, it depends on how we treat gambling. If we can do this, we will not have any problems, and we can even enjoy gambling as entertainment. When playing gambling, we need to be wise, especially in allocating the money so that it doesn't run out quickly for gambling. That's the point if we learn about self-control in gambling so that we don't waste things without calculating. We must immediately address this issue of responsibility if we feel that we often gamble excessively to avoid other, more serious problems.

It seems that moneylenders use this as an opportunity for them to lend money to gamblers, but they also will not be rash by just lending to gamblers, of course, if the amount borrowed is large enough then obviously there will be something that will be used as collateral, usually valuables such as vehicles or even other assets such as land, and it is clear that moneylenders are unlikely to lend carelessly if the situation and conditions of the gambler do not allow them to pay their debts. True, gambling should be a fun place to fill your empty time and not made as a place of income because it is contrary to the purpose of the casino, I mean there is no way you can get rich from gambling if basically the concept of gambling is always to benefit the house and not the gamblers.

That's the bad impact of gambling if you come with the wrong goal, I'm sure most of the gamblers want to win (if there is any) but gamblers who have common sense will not force something that is out of their control (chasing victory), so of course the understanding of what gambling really is must be considered so that you can make gambling for fun that should be emphasized more, with the right understanding then I think you are less likely to act out of control.

I've seen debt escalate out of control. Loan sharks are merciless and unethical. The more you owe, the harder it is to escape. Gambling should be fun, not a money-making technique. A frenzied drive to make quick money, especially with borrowed cash, replaces the essence with a risky game of risk and debt

Gambling can be addictive, however. The pleasure of winning and the chase of losing can muddle judgment. I recommend gambling for fun, not financial gain. Personal discretionary money within a limit are crucial. The issue is control. You're in charge when you play with money you can lose. Trouble begins when you cross this line into borrowed funds. Remember, the house always wins. Our best bet? Gamble wisely within our means and for fun, not to win

And that is what makes their recovery so difficult, not only those people have to live knowing they threw away their lives over something that did not had any value to begin with, the impact of their decision will last for years to come, and when they think of all the things they need to do in order to get their lives back on track, many of those people do not see the point at all and prefer to let themselves go instead of making a legitimate attempt at fixing their lives.

Indeed. Only gamble using your set budget and never try to borrow money just to sustain your gambling activity. That's a risky thing to do and can cause huge problem if you lose in gambling. Just like the story of op, you'll only realize the mistakes you did after experiencing it yourself. I know someone personally who had such problem. His family left him for being irresponsible and worse he put himself into a huge debt due to uncontrolled behavior towards gambling. That's how he realized his mistakes but it's already too late since he is in a total mess. This is a reminder for us to gamble responsibly and do your best not to become addicted. Thus, have self-control and always know your limit.

Yes, that's true, but that will give him bigger problems because the loan sharks will only let them go if they have paid back the borrowed money. Loan sharks will keep chasing people so they can pay their debts. That is why people should not borrow from loan sharks and should not borrow money as much as possible. Borrowing from friends in gambling circles is also not recommended because they might also apply interest to the loan money so, which can make it difficult for us when we want to pay off the debt.

The important thing is that you don't take too big a risk in gambling and, as much as possible, don't borrow money from anyone. Gambling with your own money is best for anyone who wants to gamble so they are not obligated to pay their debts. They only need to allocate a certain amount of money for gambling and always stay within the limits.

I don't know how this happened and lasted quite a long time, experienced by some gamblers.
It seems like they haven't really felt what is actually called destruction and difficulties in living life as result of mistakes when gambling, they need pressure and also bitter experiences to be able to have much better mindset.
It just that in the case of loans made by gamblers it can always run smoothly where there will be people who deliberately look for opportunities for their personal gain by lending money to gamblers and asking for high interest agreements.
Personally, even though the interest is high, I would never want to give certain amount of money when someone tries to lend it for the purpose of gambling capital.

For now, I would much prefer to keep quiet and see how they solve every problem that occurs and see how they make efforts to become more responsible gamblers in the future.
Caring too much if it is not appreciated or considered will only make us feel hurt or even give rise to bad feelings too.