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hero member
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No shame in my game. Its not like I put my 401K & childs college fund on black & lost. Its all about fun and moderation.
Yup, there are not wrong with game and entertainment but there are some people who doesn't responsibility when play gambling
they become addiction of gambling and some gamblers losing all of their real whealty it is the problem on gambling must be undertstood by all of people, so they doesn't blame gambling game.
yes I also saw some people who have lost all of their wealth in gambling they were the people who were in lack of knowledge and who were not aware with the concept of gambling and they only thought gambling as a source of money multiplier and do not knew that gambling are just games to play.
hero member
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i person do not feel shame while playing gambling at all.i i like to play gambling with a strategy and planing and only through this way i cam make myself safe while playing gambling.

As long as playing gambling games does not affect your life negatively, there is no reason to be ashamed of being a gambler.  But if you got addicted then definitely you must be ashame of yourself. Letting gambling to take control of your life and make it ruin you.  You can have rehabilitation as repentance and total stop of gambling.
What you should know is to be aware the risk in gambling, that way you will be able to control yourself not to experience consequences of irresponsible gambling. For me, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you are doing it for fun only and you are not stealing the money you spend in gambling.
Only when you outcome is not favorable to us maybe we should be ashamed as for sure we are making mistakes in managing ourselves in gambling.
You still shouldn't gamble if it's not your own money. IF you use somebody else's money then you are just shameful. Knowing your limits and trying to create problems makes you irresponsible and probably it makes you who you don't want to be.
We will eventually reach into that situation if we will not control our urge to gamble, it's fun if done within our limit but once we go beyond on it, we will experience the stress in gambling and we will not be please with small winnings and force ourselves to recover loses every time.

That is not a good attitude and we know that but once our emotion is more dominant, it's hard to control that is why we are at risk of losing our precious things in life. You know, if you will not take care of yourself in gambling, you might be financially bankrupt and that is too shameful.
Well, In that case that's not a normal things anyway, if you can't control yourself anymore. It is already a psychological problems to a gamblers which is uncontrollable action. That's why others right that gambling was a wrong thing decision to be made.
legendary
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Many people said no need to be shame for being a gambler as long as we did it with responsibly. In other word, as long as we arent ruined our life because of gambling, it'll be okey and no need to be shame.

But what if you can get good steady profit every month from gambling, would you like to tell to everyone that you can life with gambling proudly? I myself won't let people near me knows my habit even though for example I can life with this kind of activity. No one will appreciate me if they know I am a gambler.

People will think its amazing that you can make a living through gambling but they will
also, doubt you because of the way you make a living, some people will think it's stupid and
some are not. but you correct that no one will appreciate that you can make a living through gambling.
although there nothing to be ashamed of if you are a gambler.
hero member
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Go guys!
In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!


Even in my country betting/gamblig were ilegal, i never feel reall shamefull being a gambling although i do gambling just for fun. That why i also said gambling was not a bad thing if you can control yours mind & yours personal bankroll..
yeah i also do not feel shameful because gambling is just for fun and its just the good way for entertainment and there is a lot of people are joining gambling for fun.
legendary
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people will not feel embarrassed as long as they do not consider gambling as things go wrong, as long as the people around do not regard as wrong and as long as he is not addicted to gambling. Because if she feels that gambling is wrong, he will feel ashamed. Likewise, if people assume that gambling is the wrong thing he might feel embarrassed. And lastly, if he's addicted, not possible embarrassment, but it should be ashamed.
Practically no gambler realize what is going around them while they are into gambling. Out of addiction they do forget everything or they do not bother anything. They will simply believe everything goes in their way and their only ultimate ambition would be making big fortunes from gambling.

Hence we could never expect them bothering about what others are thinking about them whether it is a shameful activity or a respectful one.
hero member
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No shame in my game. Its not like I put my 401K & childs college fund on black & lost. Its all about fun and moderation.
Yup, there are not wrong with game and entertainment but there are some people who doesn't responsibility when play gambling
they become addiction of gambling and some gamblers losing all of their real whealty it is the problem on gambling must be undertstood by all of people, so they doesn't blame gambling game.

people will not feel embarrassed as long as they do not consider gambling as things go wrong, as long as the people around do not regard as wrong and as long as he is not addicted to gambling. Because if she feels that gambling is wrong, he will feel ashamed. Likewise, if people assume that gambling is the wrong thing he might feel embarrassed. And lastly, if he's addicted, not possible embarrassment, but it should be ashamed.
hero member
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No shame in my game. Its not like I put my 401K & childs college fund on black & lost. Its all about fun and moderation.
Yup, there are not wrong with game and entertainment but there are some people who doesn't responsibility when play gambling
they become addiction of gambling and some gamblers losing all of their real whealty it is the problem on gambling must be undertstood by all of people, so they doesn't blame gambling game.
legendary
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People are judgemental. They will criticize you without knowing the real story behind. Maybe you don't have money because you buy something or lend it to someone. That's why don't flaunt all your money when you won big. Just stay cool as you are.

Most people are fool and they dont realize that they are not entitled to people's opinion. Most people cant take criticizim up in their face so that is the reason why someone might feel some negativity when people know that they gamble. It is our own life and everyone should be entitled only to the way they feel comfortable with and right
That's correct, it's our money after all and if we will not manage it right, we will be the one who will face the consequences of our wrong actions.
We are gamblers and we aim to make money and to have fun at the same time but along the way we will face challenges especially in times where
we feel we are losing but in the end if we don't really want to be addicted, we will force ourselves to learn from our mistakes and by then we will mature.
We will surely learn up on our past mistakes that we commited specially on playing gambling but there are people do still trying hard to play again even more even if they are already losing up too much money and somehow looks like doing suicide.We do have our full control on our money if you don't manage it well then expect it would be lost.
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Live with peace and enjoy life!

People are judgemental. They will criticize you without knowing the real story behind. Maybe you don't have money because you buy something or lend it to someone. That's why don't flaunt all your money when you won big. Just stay cool as you are.

Most people are fool and they dont realize that they are not entitled to people's opinion. Most people cant take criticizim up in their face so that is the reason why someone might feel some negativity when people know that they gamble. It is our own life and everyone should be entitled only to the way they feel comfortable with and right
That's correct, it's our money after all and if we will not manage it right, we will be the one who will face the consequences of our wrong actions.
We are gamblers and we aim to make money and to have fun at the same time but along the way we will face challenges especially in times where
we feel we are losing but in the end if we don't really want to be addicted, we will force ourselves to learn from our mistakes and by then we will mature.
legendary
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People are judgemental. They will criticize you without knowing the real story behind. Maybe you don't have money because you buy something or lend it to someone. That's why don't flaunt all your money when you won big. Just stay cool as you are.

Most people are fool and they dont realize that they are not entitled to people's opinion. Most people cant take criticizim up in their face so that is the reason why someone might feel some negativity when people know that they gamble. It is our own life and everyone should be entitled only to the way they feel comfortable with and right
legendary
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Of course i don't feel shame or i feel bad that i gamble. I know, that i am not addicted to gambling, so why should i? Gambling is just a way to get happier, i think it is same as tv watching or book reading, it is just hobby that people like, so why should gamblers feel bad because they like to gambling.
sr. member
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Many people said no need to be shame for being a gambler as long as we did it with responsibly. In other word, as long as we arent ruined our life because of gambling, it'll be okey and no need to be shame.

But what if you can get good steady profit every month from gambling, would you like to tell to everyone that you can life with gambling proudly? I myself won't let people near me knows my habit even though for example I can life with this kind of activity. No one will appreciate me if they know I am a gambler.

I wouldn't also. Let them guess where I got my money but I won't directly tell them it comes from gambling. Because I know the next time they see you without money, they will always conclude that you lost it everything in gambling. People are judgemental. They will criticize you without knowing the real story behind. Maybe you don't have money because you buy something or lend it to someone. That's why don't flaunt all your money when you won big. Just stay cool as you are.
hero member
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In my culture and in my own country gambling is bad. It is shameful. They said that gambling is the work of lazy. They warned the gamblers. But gambling is not at all nrong or bad. It is up to the player if what makes him money interested to many and lose their appetiate to other things.

We really can't deny that there are countries, societies and cities that doesn't allow any gambling activity. They don't realize that gambling is one of the fastest growing industry in the world. And if they are going to allow tax on it, they will get profit. But well that's their belief, if they think that gambling is the work of lazy, then so be it.

Maybe some of them are right because gambling is really addictive and the government just want to prevent their people from playing there so there would be less cases on bankruptcy or something.

Not just some of them, all of us know that gambling is truly addictive and there's no way that can stop it when a person starts to enjoy, experience to win and become addicted. I respect those culture because I know it too, even in my family gambling is restricted by they don't know that I'm gambling though I'm not ashamed of it.

So are you saying that you are keeping your secrets of gambling with your family? I admire you for that but sooner or later they will found out about your secret gambling and you don't know if they will accept it in a positive way. But as you have said you are not ashamed of your gambling habits and it looks like it is under control and you are not addicted to it.

Not a general anymore. secretive if we could conduct gambling without being noticed by family and also our friends, because now we can do anything without being noticed someone with an internet connection. But it is indeed what you say is true, but it also applies to all those who already miss the limit or it could be said that they are doing so more than ever before.
 
legendary
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Many people said no need to be shame for being a gambler as long as we did it with responsibly. In other word, as long as we arent ruined our life because of gambling, it'll be okey and no need to be shame.

But what if you can get good steady profit every month from gambling, would you like to tell to everyone that you can life with gambling proudly? I myself won't let people near me knows my habit even though for example I can life with this kind of activity. No one will appreciate me if they know I am a gambler.
hero member
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Live with peace and enjoy life!
No as long there are no other people being affected especially your love ones there's nothing for you to be shameful your goal is to win and enjoy and of course is have some fun but if the money you are spending when betting in every gamble you play is not yours and from someone else you should be ashamed from yourself.
It's our life so we take in charge of it, our past will determine the future so we have to be responsible in gambling, it's okay to lose but up
to the amount you can afford to lose only. It's very shameful if you go bankrupt just because of gambling as people will look at you as a stupid
person. Me, I was once lost in gambling but my experience taught me how to change my view in gambling, I have no skills to win so I now just
play for fun and I don't expect winning a good amount consistently cause seems it's an impossible mission to me.
sr. member
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No as long there are no other people being affected especially your love ones there's nothing for you to be shameful your goal is to win and enjoy and of course is have some fun but if the money you are spending when betting in every gamble you play is not yours and from someone else you should be ashamed from yourself.
sr. member
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Go guys!
In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!
Of course not! No reason to be shameful for being a gambler, as long its helpful to you in some other reason. and gambling is not a bad thing its only in the mind of the member of how are they gonna give interpretation about it.
newbie
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Maybe no because some part are because it is your skills and knowledge how you use it to gamble or maybe yes because for the concervatives it is wrong for them. Being shameful is when your so asdicted about it and you have no more time anymore about your family, you are lack of management about money thats already dangerous. Its shameful.
newbie
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Go guys!
In many cultures and countries is gambling consider as a bad thing which only the poorest and silliest ones do. Many gamblers try to hide that they gamble from their friends and families and feel really shameful for that. Do you consider gambling as a bad thing? Do you feel shameful or proud for being a gambler? If it is shame what you feel what do you about it? How do you hide you're a gambler and who do you hide it from?
Let others know!


Even in my country betting/gamblig were ilegal, i never feel reall shamefull being a gambling although i do gambling just for fun. That why i also said gambling was not a bad thing if you can control yours mind & yours personal bankroll..
hero member
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Not at all.
And you shouldn't.
If you have enough bank too close those bets then you deserve to do it and claim your reward for doing so.
Nothing shameful about that one bit! Wink
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