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I rarely play physical gambling and if ever I did usually its a card game.

I have a fix capital when I gamble so if ever I lose that amount and my opponent still want to play for some reason, im not going to pressure myself to use the money left because I have set a limit for myself.

Of course its tempting but if you have discipline refusing is not hard to do.
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just stop when you want to . you can use alibi too to convince them . my oponent gambler on our place always does this , she says that her husband will arrived from work  so she needs to prepare food in thier house  . we understand it and will accept the situation win or loose, also not all time she wins . she also quit early whenever she loose .

its a gambling and there is no comitmenton it , unless you guys sign a waiver or some kind of agreement that there is no stoping till all agree .
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It's easier to get up and go when you are losing but when you are winning and you have valid reasons to leave, still you get a weird look from everyone as if you were stealing their money. That is what I hate most while gambling physically. And you need to buy a round of beers on each win. That makes you get nothing even when you win.

Most of the time they won't make you leave unless you have valid reasons or it will be as if the last man standing fight until all of your money or their money is gone. leaving will only result in some bad consequences and the funnier about it is when staying you will have the bad consequences too because you will gonna stay until you lose all of your money that day. the next day will probably the same for you and so on so forth.

You dont have any obligations or for them to have the rights to stop you when you needed to.You do have your own free will and others dont have the power on what would you do next.
You can stop anytime if youd like to but the question is, do you able to stop midway or the time you do know that you are losing that much? Theres nothing to be shy off when you are
already empty handed because this had been always the norm when you do gamble which its either your losing or winning into that certain day.
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It's easier to get up and go when you are losing but when you are winning and you have valid reasons to leave, still you get a weird look from everyone as if you were stealing their money. That is what I hate most while gambling physically. And you need to buy a round of beers on each win. That makes you get nothing even when you win.

Most of the time they won't make you leave unless you have valid reasons or it will be as if the last man standing fight until all of your money or their money is gone. leaving will only result in some bad consequences and the funnier about it is when staying you will have the bad consequences too because you will gonna stay until you lose all of your money that day. the next day will probably the same for you and so on so forth.
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I only get pressured when the bystander or the crowd are starting to spectate my table I'm playing. Usually this happens a lot in Blackjack and Baccarat tables as they are either waiting for a sit or they are just interested with the recent strict of some players. I'll start to get pressured when they are staring at my bets as well so it makes me uncomfortable. So what I do is if I get two or three bad bets straight I'll just move into another table with no crows watching. Actually this is one of the disadvantages in casinos that lets crows observe games people who don't like crows tend to get uncomfortable including me.
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In physical gambling (whether it's a big casino or just small gambling), do pressure on your opponents or playmates actually happen? Like for example, you only set a limited capital but since your friends still want to play, you will end up using all of your money. Or let's say in a casino, you have used all of your allotted money on gambling but since your opponent is winning and he wants to play more, do you exceed on your limit? Just because you don't want to look like you are afraid, that you don't have enough money already, and that you are losing?

Since I do online gambling, I don't feel this kind of pressure. I can stop whenever I want or when I have used all of my money. I don't feel embarrassed or what.
If you do have that kind of high pride towards showing off that you do have lots of money in front of other people then you will surely be pressured in the times that you are
already losing or dont have already money on your pocket.This shows of that other personality of yours because not all would really have that kind of pride on which
they cant stop because they dont have any more money or making self-decision that they should gonna stop on a particular situation.In my case, i dont feel any problems
for me to stop, how you would proceed if you dont have any funds left?
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In physical gambling (whether it's a big casino or just small gambling), do pressure on your opponents or playmates actually happen? Like for example, you only set a limited capital but since your friends still want to play, you will end up using all of your money. Or let's say in a casino, you have used all of your allotted money on gambling but since your opponent is winning and he wants to play more, do you exceed on your limit? Just because you don't want to look like you are afraid, that you don't have enough money already, and that you are losing?

Since I do online gambling, I don't feel this kind of pressure. I can stop whenever I want or when I have used all of my money. I don't feel embarrassed or what.


This pressure only happens when you have a fixed budget for gambling and you are already depleted that. Otherwise, there's no reason for anyone to feel any pressure if opponent wants to play more. But that's when your good behavior will come to your rescue and it is always better to politely say no. I personally have visited casino in Nepal few years back during one of my expensive vacations and I mostly played the slot machines. It was a one of a kind experience for me because I had never visited a casino earlier. That certainly doesn't happen in online casinos because you mostly pay against the house instead of an individual.
This happens not only because of your opponents, this can also happen because your friends do not want to leave the casino and want to keep gambling and you have already spent all the money that you wanted during that time, at that point it is not rare at all for people to go beyond their budget that they set for that day in particular and keep gambling way more than what they wanted just because they want to keep getting fun with their friends, and this can be very dangerous because once you go over your budget there is no limit to what you can spend in the casino.
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Well, I have not experienced that kind of pressure since I don't gamble in physical casinos. I prefer online with no pressure. That's why I'm asking if physical gamblers have that kind of pressure. Yes, it's our own money and we can decide what to do about it but sometimes friends can give you pressure without them knowing it, by simply teasing you that you are afraid to bet more money, right?
I am not sure online gambling is gambling that can be played without pressure. Both gambling at physical casinos and online gambling I think we will experience pressure even though the ratio is different and also depends on the type of game you are playing. The form of pressure on online gambling can be identified when a number of bet we play end in defeat, and efforts to anticipate more losses are things that can be classified as pressure for a player.

The type of pressure that exists in online gambling may differ from physical casino, assuming the pressure obtained online comes from oneself and the pressure from physical casino comes from others. Despite all that, I still believe that whatever type of gambling we are under pressure at a different ratio.
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In physical gambling (whether it's a big casino or just small gambling), do pressure on your opponents or playmates actually happen? Like for example, you only set a limited capital but since your friends still want to play, you will end up using all of your money. Or let's say in a casino, you have used all of your allotted money on gambling but since your opponent is winning and he wants to play more, do you exceed on your limit? Just because you don't want to look like you are afraid, that you don't have enough money already, and that you are losing?

Since I do online gambling, I don't feel this kind of pressure. I can stop whenever I want or when I have used all of my money. I don't feel embarrassed or what.
That's sure to happen if you are so friendly to your friend and you don't know how to say no, I can't say no to a friend but not to someone I don't know and playing against with, but be sure to tell your friend before you start playing that you only have this money to play, so he will not expect more from you, it's better to be honest with your friend.
I think it's easier if your opponent is a friend of yours. Because they can understand if you really don't have enough money to gamble more. But if it's a stranger, he could judge you for quitting. Your right, it's better, to be honest than to push yourself to your limit just because you are embarrassed about quitting.

Why get pressured? It is your money that you are spending, you should not think of other people inside the casino. You get pressured, you will be wasting more money than you should be. That could also mean your family or yourself is deprived of something because of gambling. Remember that your money is precious and gambling is honestly a waste of money. If I gamble, it should be limited to the smallest amount. The hell I care about other gambler pressuring me.

Maybe he feels not right if he doesn't follow to spend like what his friends did, so that makes him spend more money on gambling. But yes, I think that he needs to remind that his money is something that he owns, and he doesn't need approval from other people to spend more or stop gamble. Limiting cash is something that we must do because if we cannot limit the money, we will lose all of the money in a short time.
Well, I have not experienced that kind of pressure since I don't gamble in physical casinos. I prefer online with no pressure. That's why I'm asking if physical gamblers have that kind of pressure. Yes, it's our own money and we can decide what to do about it but sometimes friends can give you pressure without them knowing it, by simply teasing you that you are afraid to bet more money, right?
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Yes and I think it is natural for a gambler who is losing,

You will feel the pressure if you really want to win which is hard to avoid because when you are inside a physical casino, you have nothing in your mind but to win. You won't even notice the amount of money that you already lose because you will lose your control.

I agree with you.  when we are in casino, we only have the desire to win. if we lose, the desire to win becomes stronger, sometimes we gamble by spending more than our allotted money, you know that it is one kind of addiction. When we come back to consciousness, then it was too late, we have lost our everything.
On the other hand, if we win, we want to play more, friends often encourage doing more gamble when they see a win. only for this reason sometimes I try to avoid real world casino, I like sports gambling more.


I remember the time where I'm confident about communicating with other people in physical casinos and I met a lot of friend that's why every time I play, I don't feel any pressure. There are people who are really kind to you but if you play against them in a gambling casino, they will treat as a true opponent and that's a good thing about playing in casinos.

The bluffing in a certain game like poker is really effective compared to an online gambling casino. Some times people really need to have physical communication with other people so that the enjoyment is really thrilling. The reason sometimes players are going to a gambling casino, is because they want to relieve their stresses and they want to go where people and friends are there.

It really makes me comfortable playing in a gambling casino with my friends, the only thing that I hate inside the casino is that if it is very crowded and you can't do the things that you want inside.
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Why get pressured? It is your money that you are spending, you should not think of other people inside the casino. You get pressured, you will be wasting more money than you should be. That could also mean your family or yourself is deprived of something because of gambling. Remember that your money is precious and gambling is honestly a waste of money. If I gamble, it should be limited to the smallest amount. The hell I care about other gambler pressuring me.

Maybe he feels not right if he doesn't follow to spend like what his friends did, so that makes him spend more money on gambling. But yes, I think that he needs to remind that his money is something that he owns, and he doesn't need approval from other people to spend more or stop gamble. Limiting cash is something that we must do because if we cannot limit the money, we will lose all of the money in a short time.

If he's got a lot of money, extra money, he can actually give in and spend more time and money for gambling in the name of friendship and fun. That's not a problem. If I were in his shoes, I might just yield to the pressure. But if he's just got very limited money to spend on gambling and he's just done playing and is already tired to play more, he just have to say no and leave.
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I don't feel any pressure about gambling, not for my money, for sure not for other people and their money! And who feels pressure on physical gambling can move to online gambling, that's not a big deal! Pros & cons, for me online gambling is better, with physical casinos you can get a drink from a nice girl (if you have a beautiful wife maybe you can have that at home too), but other things are pretty much the same, you place bets and you wait for results.
Doing anything under pressure will lead to making mistakes, you will make bad calls and you will regret it! Do everything with clear mind, be relaxed and do it or don't do it at all! Go and cool your head and continue after! Break can save you, and your money!
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Why get pressured? It is your money that you are spending, you should not think of other people inside the casino. You get pressured, you will be wasting more money than you should be. That could also mean your family or yourself is deprived of something because of gambling. Remember that your money is precious and gambling is honestly a waste of money. If I gamble, it should be limited to the smallest amount. The hell I care about other gambler pressuring me.

Maybe he feels not right if he doesn't follow to spend like what his friends did, so that makes him spend more money on gambling. But yes, I think that he needs to remind that his money is something that he owns, and he doesn't need approval from other people to spend more or stop gamble. Limiting cash is something that we must do because if we cannot limit the money, we will lose all of the money in a short time.
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In physical gambling (whether it's a big casino or just small gambling), do pressure on your opponents or playmates actually happen? Like for example, you only set a limited capital but since your friends still want to play, you will end up using all of your money. Or let's say in a casino, you have used all of your allotted money on gambling but since your opponent is winning and he wants to play more, do you exceed on your limit? Just because you don't want to look like you are afraid, that you don't have enough money already, and that you are losing?

Since I do online gambling, I don't feel this kind of pressure. I can stop whenever I want or when I have used all of my money. I don't feel embarrassed or what.





PS: I'm not sure if this topic already existed here and if there's I'm gonna delete this thread.

If i go to physical casino with my friends, i sometimes feel not comfortable if i am losing as my friends also watching my loss. If i start to lose in front of my friends, i normally quit gambling to avoid further embarrassing.
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Well, I managed not to feel any pressure when gambling whether it is physical or online gambling for I always allot an amount that I can afford in playing and perhaps not hurt me so much losing it if I lose. And if I lose I can immediately stop playing in any online casinos.  I seldom play physical gambling nor in physical casinos but, --I play only with my friends and colleagues. I set condition right before starting the game that once I already consume my allotted fund or when I need to leave on a specific time regardless if I am winning or the other way around I should immediately stop playing with or without their consent. Indeed, in that case, I will not get pressure on what is happening on the game if it is going to be on my side or not.
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Why get pressured? It is your money that you are spending, you should not think of other people inside the casino. You get pressured, you will be wasting more money than you should be. That could also mean your family or yourself is deprived of something because of gambling. Remember that your money is precious and gambling is honestly a waste of money. If I gamble, it should be limited to the smallest amount. The hell I care about other gambler pressuring me.
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In physical gambling (whether it's a big casino or just small gambling), do pressure on your opponents or playmates actually happen? Like for example, you only set a limited capital but since your friends still want to play, you will end up using all of your money. Or let's say in a casino, you have used all of your allotted money on gambling but since your opponent is winning and he wants to play more, do you exceed on your limit? Just because you don't want to look like you are afraid, that you don't have enough money already, and that you are losing?

Many times had happened to me, but the good thing playing with my friends are:

1. If you're losing and your friend are winning, he/she can give you some kind of "goodwill" money so that you can extend playing.

2. Conversely, if you're the one winning, you will do the same to your friends

3. If both of you lose, then it's time to go home.

Sometimes you can really turn your luck around and won and give back to your friends, tit-for-tat. This is a unwritten rule between us friends, so I don't know if other physical casino players have this kind of setup with their friends.

If you are getting money in the form of lending the money, then i would not take it from my friend also. Because if my luck is going bad and i took money from my friend, there are chances that i may lose the game again and that money is lost too. So i will later have to pay my friend.

However if my friend give me some money to play more and he will not demand that money later, i will happily play with this free money.  Smiley
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In physical gambling (whether it's a big casino or just small gambling), do pressure on your opponents or playmates actually happen? Like for example, you only set a limited capital but since your friends still want to play, you will end up using all of your money. Or let's say in a casino, you have used all of your allotted money on gambling but since your opponent is winning and he wants to play more, do you exceed on your limit? Just because you don't want to look like you are afraid, that you don't have enough money already, and that you are losing?

Many times had happened to me, but the good thing playing with my friends are:

1. If you're losing and your friend are winning, he/she can give you some kind of "goodwill" money so that you can extend playing.

2. Conversely, if you're the one winning, you will do the same to your friends

3. If both of you lose, then it's time to go home.

Sometimes you can really turn your luck around and won and give back to your friends, tit-for-tat. This is a unwritten rule between us friends, so I don't know if other physical casino players have this kind of setup with their friends.

It's easier to get up and go when you are losing but when you are winning and you have valid reasons to leave, still you get a weird look from everyone as if you were stealing their money. That is what I hate most while gambling physically. And you need to buy a round of beers on each win. That makes you get nothing even when you win.
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In physical gambling (whether it's a big casino or just small gambling), do pressure on your opponents or playmates actually happen? Like for example, you only set a limited capital but since your friends still want to play, you will end up using all of your money. Or let's say in a casino, you have used all of your allotted money on gambling but since your opponent is winning and he wants to play more, do you exceed on your limit? Just because you don't want to look like you are afraid, that you don't have enough money already, and that you are losing?

Many times had happened to me, but the good thing playing with my friends are:

1. If you're losing and your friend are winning, he/she can give you some kind of "goodwill" money so that you can extend playing.

2. Conversely, if you're the one winning, you will do the same to your friends

3. If both of you lose, then it's time to go home.

Sometimes you can really turn your luck around and won and give back to your friends, tit-for-tat. This is a unwritten rule between us friends, so I don't know if other physical casino players have this kind of setup with their friends.
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No cause never playing on physical gambling since all gambling activity is prohibited here.

Well, I still feel that pressure even with online gambling went losing on some casino because can't take it my money is gone. But for playing with other friends, nothing to lose it since i also make some joke with my friend gambling each other or even stealing the money between us by playing a PVP game mode on some casino.

Online or in physical casino, there is no difference as long as you have friends with you watching and talking on your back.
Some friends are just like a demon, if you decide to stop because you feel you are already contented with your win but they'll say go on, and sometimes that will lead to big regret, so better take a friend with you who will only watch but not dictate of give an opinion when not ask.  Grin
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