Small gamblers like us also have the same chance of winning as the whales but the only difference is they are betting huge but we don't need to go that way but we should have hopes from small gamblers winning like $3-$4k with $1-$2 bet only or even lower so why go above your limits if you can have chance of winning with small bets also? Play with stop limits and restrict yourself at some extent.
You are right that gamblers with small amount of money have the same chance of winning as gamblers who bet with high amounts.
The probability of winning does not change with the amount of the bet. The rich gamble with high amounts because they already have lots of money that they can afford to lose.
But that's not the case with gamblers like us. Yet I would say that whatever the amount we gamble with we should consider it as lost.
Then start gambling with it and play however we want. That's the only way we can have fun in gambling.
Gamblers who play for profits end up losing money and getting stresses and that's not what we want.
This is the right approach, I deposit a certain amount of money to casinos I like every single month, and then I consider that money gone. I do the same with crypto investments as well, I invest into really good coins so far, only had a few bad picks, and I consider all of them gone the moment I invest at the start of each month. Why? Because, I will not cash out for at least another decade, which means if I consider that as money there for withdrawal, then I would do it and my investment would be for nothing.
Same with gambling, if I keep gambling for profits then I am going to want to deposit more and more to recoup the loss and make a profit, which will result with losing more. I rather have something that would be just purely fun related, like playing a computer game, we all spend like 60 bucks on most AAA games, so why not gamble 60 bucks? Same logic, if you are getting same amount of hours of fun from both, there is no difference.