Topic: Fake life in naija - page 2. (Read 329 times)

Lol the truth be say even the fake life they very expensive no be everybody they do fake life they succeed some they cast, but the thing be say why I go they do fake life why I go dy claim watin I no be just to impress human beings too bad na for 9ja that thing they sup pass go yankee you no fit sabi who rich because all of them they very okay dy dress well no be 9ja way if person Wer white big polo they don dy reason am big boy if the boy use Benz self that one worst they go reason am big man but that same Benz them dy use am as taxi for yankee na we just they stress ourselves for all this things.

This life we no fit sabi finish and one thing wey me I know be say person no fit see me finish and if na to live fake life be the way out then I no sure say I fit get choice but nevertheless, I no see reason wey person go Dey love borrowed life just to impress people Abi the person no get other meaningful things to do with their life Abi wetin Dey sup? And one major reason wey Dey make nigga live fake life na to impress woman because this our girls Dey make love life hard for the poor and average man and our boys already know say this girls Dey believe more I the things dem Dey see and you already know say first impression matters a lot and appearance also follow for major impression and most times end up sharing cloths just not to be caught unfresh.

This Nigeria no get any specific approach to follow am up because wetin work for A fit no work for B so anyhow you go take survive is left for each of us and if fake live end up to pay your bills, who I be to talk you out 😂

Yeah na true you talk but however na women way they mostly use that disguising lifestyle so that them go impress people say they come from a rich home so that they wil blend in anywhere they found themselves, the one way I see for my neighbor self surprise me, because I no no say one guy way they outside the country they chart this girl and she they tell the guy say her father is every wealthy man, so that the guy go they shower her with money, but meanwhile she no get anything, so the guy come send somebody to monitor her and also to really no were she they stay, so na after then way the guy come realized say the girl been they disguise to be living a lifestyle of another person.

Them all fails to realize say fake life offers lost of opportunities after their exciting posture where people who don see you finish go dey avoid you cuz constant request becomes burden, who observes your mind of person disregards you and who supposed help you for life over looks cuz you look like boss already plus ur accumulating debts way no bring productive returns instead you keep roaming the hoods like one dodging stray bullets while hiding from who you dey owe.

Some of them even mocks and tends to discourage others way dey work and earning penny while the fake lifes people no get shi-shi means of income just being dependants with low quality of personells .

   Fake life na normal life for this country ooo. Everybody dey try impress everybody. Person go jus dey try live above him means, which dey very wrong. Girls especially, na Dem get hands for this kain thing, Dem wan be like, Dem wan feel among, you borrow everything for party wey nothing comot or to go catch man by deceit, the same man wey go follow catch you by deceit too. Sometimes peer pressure dey responsible for the fake life because why on earth would someone wey no hold wan dey act like say him hold. This country no dey better, people dey struggle to live through their normal life, na him person go just stay decide say him wan live the life wey big pass am.
   We go hear say oga travel, leave house for gateman to look after, gateman get mind, call him irresponsible and unreasonable girls, lie to them say na him get am, sounds funny but na reality. Normally you dey try eat the little food wey you get for house, but as a guy wey dey expect girl, you go come go above your means to impress girl wey nothing fit comot wey you no even know if she too dey follow chop your normal routine for house. As a girl, you comot with man con use am as an opportunity to rip the guy apart financially, all because you wan show say class dey. E dey better to really dey contented o because if the economy no kee people for the country, na the thing wey yoruba people dey call "ojukokoro" go kee Dem.

Dat wan enta BlessingCEO well for body. She go use persin house pose as na she get am for social media and the real owner got her arrested. The worse part be sey na most of those people wey our youths dem dey worship as their role models dey do dat type of thing pass. Borrow pose. Dat attitude crisscross d entire human race, nor be only Nigerians dey do am. For me, anybody wey dey do am nor be principled person. In fact, the persin na mumu because im suppose sabi sey e nor good to lead ur life to please anyone.

People like this don believe say na with fake like this they fit meet up. Bit this is a useless lifestyle faking a life and claiming wetin you be, instead of living a fake life it is better to work hard and get something real that you can prove people it was earned from you. People who dey live fake life to impress people I still dey wonder how long they want lieve this fake life, if they wan live this their fake life forever, it is impossible because living fake like get it own consequences because e dey later backfire.  Giving people that you have it all is making them that you are okay with all you have and when you go need help from people them fit no reason you again.

you done hear the phrase "fake it until you become it?" Baba, some people de fake am so when de finally get the money e no go had them to live the kind of life them been done de fake. If na just to borrow car or cloth burst out event, I no too reason am as any big deal because even the oyibo when we de learn most things from de also buy car and with time de go de pay am small small. E De only get to me when I see person when no get shishi for account de form unnecessary when we see others. You see those boys when he carry bottle water everywhere eh, most of them no even get one room apartment when dem de stay, some of them no de even drink sat her water for there house but when he burst out like this De go shut down the street then go back house go sip garri.

The feeling to be among the elite social groups is not only common in Nigeria alone, my brother this habit sometimes na due to peer pressure influence and many youth of this age dey always fall to am. Fake life dey always cast and it's not necessary because instead of living a pretentious life, try struggling and living your life as simple as you can and go on with flow and Wait for your turn to come.

Make I put mouth for this talk with my own 2 cent advice,  which is very simple and it will help a lot of us form unnecessary pressures.

1: we should be contented with whatever we have,  and also we should leave below our means and not leave or appear to impress anyone,  one of the measure causes of borrow posna because the person no want leave within him means and ability rather he prefer to fake it which will do more harm than good,  because a lot of time,  such lifestyle chase helpers away from you without you even knowing,  this is is most cases where your helper may even think that is them that even need your own help,  that is suffering and smilling.

2: trying to be in competition with other,  this na another reason why some people the borrow be that,  some want to match up with their friends so you see them borrowing cloths,  shoes and even under wears just to belong to a class where ordinary their are not,  this is why many of them fall victims to a lot of negative views at the end.

These no be new matter again na lol .welcome to Nigeria .for Nigeria now na fake it it till you make it oh.in Nigerian people borrow cars,clothes,houses,shoes,bags even hairs just to impress their fans .and there is one thing with this fake life ,when you start it ,it becomes very difficult for you to stop .each and every day you would want to level up.this very common with women, these genders ready to do everything possible just to meet up.that one no mean say man Dey innocent.as a result of the fake life some people are now under pressure,they end up doing things that is unpleasant to the society just to meet up with there fake life.we no really know who be who again for this country again.But one thing I go like advice be say ,as youth make we try they cut our coat according to our material,so we don’t  get into trouble.

Abeg oo, I no mean to offend anybody oo, after all na wattin you post naim I talk about oo, I no go manipulate text from anywhere, exactly the way you post am, na just copy and paste I do come quote you oo, besides I just write that thing for fun sake, no be say I mean to talk say you dey fully support the girls for wattin dem dey do. The only problem I get na as you talk say for the girls na just normal lifestyle while for the boys na to use am take impress girls, but the truth na be say you no go fit just exclude girl for using cloths to impress the opposite sex, in fact girls dey use am to seduce boys, period.



Yes in mean it, based on study and real life experience it is know to be so, and there is nothing that can change that, females are very open and fragile, that why the are some times called the weaker vessels. Beside you even made it clear that men would pass infections to their wife's or girlfriend from their concubines

I don't know say you sef reason am oo, some people with fake life na 5&6, you know say fake life sef still get level, some people they on a norms their lifestyle them fit get money to dey drip, but shishi no fit they their pockets to take chop, this kind thing dey happen everywhere, you know say for their mind, they are think that person wey no dey drip woman no dey follow am, and for girls dey feel like say, girl wey no dey classic no fit get better men wey go follow them, how do they even comfortable they borrow person clothes wear, they no fit see them with the cloth another time, but they no send, you know we naija anybody wey dey leave fake life, if you are not close to them you won't know that they are faking everything in their lives.

For naija e no get any surrounding wey be say person dey without anybody leaving fake life, they con get one guy wey i sabi him very well well, leaving fake life wearing people clothes, he want to leave like his other friends in school, telling people say na oyinbo him dey scam, all this lie from people wey never see even $5 collect before    the day wey me and the guy con get chance seat down, him just dey tell me say nothing dey this life na to leave fake life, like i just laugh and everybody believe say na oyinbo him dey scam, to extent wey be say people dey ask am for update. 

I no sabi Wetin people dey get from that fake life wey dem dey leave, you no get something, y u go come dey pretend, but I know say Wetin dey make guys dey do that one na mostly because of women, but d most surprising part is how people dey fit maintain that kin life. And mostly girls dey leave that kin life so that if guys see dem, guys go dey reason say na big girl them be, and some dey do am just to make their friends feel jealous, but na rubbish me I see things like dis as. I dey hear am say dem dey rent even complete building for Abuja for like one day, and even cars dem dey rent. If you just wan impress girl you fit just rent house and car for one day, if d girl come she go think say na u get am, but na rubbish all those things be jare.

This is not a lifestyle by naija alone, it's a normalize life you see even outside naija because people try to show what they really not are, they want to impress people when they don't have nothing and I see that as nothing but inferiority complex.

It doesn't have age bracket, it can happen to people who suffer from peer pressure, people who try to impress women that are not their class but will go a lengthy leg to want be part of their life, people who want to show off their financial status when they don't have nothing in their bank account. Some of them even borrow car to take a girl on a date just to fell among and I get sick on this simping lifestyle.

However, I don't blame people who do this sometimes. When you show the world that you are doing the right thing and you are not there yet, nobody will take you serious. People want to live the present in the future and in a society when there are not plenty of opportunities, compromised is the only alternative and no wonder we have now high numbers of fraudsters(yahoo-yahoo) in the country, may God help us.

my brother everybody wants to look clean with person cloth and  no be say anything they wrong with say make you like fine thing oh but make everybody know him pocket if you no fit afford am na to live the thing the way he they but to they borrow I no they that one, drugs and money worst because people especially young people fit go any lent just say they wan get money na the course be that, if them done get money the next thing na to enter club go party. and just because they want to enjoy life does no mean say make them live their life recklessly na make we they try watch every step we they take for life.

According to them, they say fake it till you make it. Omo I just don't understand why, some person's no go just live within their means, just to appear rich in the eyes of the public that don't give a damn about them and whatever they have to offer.
Such kind of life will end of leading those person's into criminal act whenever they don't have the means to sponsor or maintain that exotic lifestyle.

Make i suprise you bro,na for naija you go see 2 guys wey they share the same dress just to impress people, na only god knows why em no give some people money for naija if not this country will have been worster than how it is now because the of kind life wey some of  them wan live for this our naija no be small thing, the one wey they pain me pass na em be say some of them sef no go wan do waiting there power reach na em even make stealing plenty for our naija now.

,,,, What de fuck are you saying? If you don't understand what I am trying to say,,, you better not quote my comments bro.
I don't mean it is good for women to borrow pose but nowadays it is something that is just normal just the way most men are smoking the hell out of themselves.
Borrowing is not good and it is something that no one should try to partake on.
Talking about an infection,, are you trying to say that it is only the women that do get infected easily? If that's what you are thinking then you are apparently wrong because even the men do get infected and still pass it on to their wife's or their girlfriends after getting it from some of their concubines 

rechael see your mouth like "if nah man, I go say em dey try to impress girls but if nah woman I go say that nah just 0art of our life style". how e take be una normal lifestyle wey you sef no say na bad thing and una fit still hustle to make money wey go dey enough to fit buy some fancy cloths for bolling. the fact say na bad thing na for both boys and girls, beside una wey be girls own naim even worst pass because un dey very prone to infection, make you no go borrow cloth from friend wey get sweety but she never tell you ooo, because na so so scratch scratch you go just dey scratch body anywhere wey you go  .