Topic: Gamble Responsibly - page 33. (Read 11130 times)

I have seen people discussing about gender inequality in gambling and its addiction. I want to let us understand that addiction happens as a result of giving much time and attention to a particular thing and doing it more often. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman or a child, anyone has the ability to be addicted if they are giving unlimited access to do one particular thing often and they derive pleasure in it.

But anyone that is cured of addiction and yet they become addicted again, it's the worst part of it and I will personally not go into the second phase of rescuing the person.

Talking about gambling addiction, anyone can experience it, both men and women, because the impact can happen to anyone. If we start to get addicted, we have to self-evaluate and see what went wrong that made us addicted. If we have found it, we must try to prevent it so that we are not addicted to gambling, which will have an even worse impact in the future. Being a responsible gambler is not easy because we have many things to protect ourselves from gambling addiction.

And there's nothing wrong if someone continues to learn to be a responsible gambler because they feel it is necessary to prevent many losses and make them addicted to gambling later. They need to be able to manage their finances for gambling so they don't use too much money because using a lot of money can make them forget to stop. We must realize this so that we can learn to be responsible gamblers from now on, avoid problems that can arise while we are gambling, and avoid the most serious problem, gambling addiction.

Actually you are right but what I want us to understand concerning gambling addiction is that it always take many effects in women than men but you can't differentiate them actually, what I want you to understand in this, is that everything we are discussing now both men and women being addictive is been addictive, their is no excuse of be addicted in gambling and anything can happen during the process, you can be discouraged base on how they are excited in gambling

Regardless of who the gambler is, ve you male or female, self restriction is paramount to avoiding addictions, this have been the most effective measures to both men and women's alike as far as gambling is concerns, but more also the impact of gambling addiction may be more heavy on female thatale gender and this is due to the gender discriminations in the societ against female participation in gambling.

So to be able to sustain a clear free emotional  balance that will increase your chances of achieving an addiction free gambling experience, one need self discipline and restraint i gambling

Not only women but men too.  As you said there is no gender inequality in gambling, so it is the same in gambling addiction.  Both genders will suffer an uncontrolled urge to gamble. Thus making both genders play more than they can bear financially.  This will cost both genders their wealth and most probably sit in financial ruin until they are both treated.  The effect of gambling addiction is not different for both genders and the need to be cured by professionals is also needed.  The rehabilitation stage may be different for both genders but I believe the process to remove gambling addiction is almost the same.

So regardless of gender, one must practice restraint and gambling responsibly so that they can enjoy their gambling without any negative implications.

I know that gambling have no gender inequality difference, but it is well known that gambling addictive in woman will cause many problems in woman, because being addictive in gambling will make you to be distracted in any activity of gambling, so been addictive both in man and woman you most be distracted from your activities,so it's not good for a gambler not to be very addicting and if such happen to you as an addicted gambler you will lose whatever you have.

You would really be able to realize things in the end of the line on which you would really be that kicking and crying if you have done something wrong in towards on how you do dealt up with gambling. If you do find

yourself that not mindful or being responsible about your gambling dealing then sooner or later you would be able to realize that the thing you have done is really very wrong. You should really be that responsible
on spending specially on gambling because you can really be able to snip out your entire balance in a snap or in a blink of an eye which it would really be leaving you regretting. Getting up some loans for you to play
further more? You are just simply taking up some suicide act unless if you are lucky on that point and able to get out then thats a good call but in most cases on which most gamblers do really being trapped.

You would definitely be finding yourself on a hard situation if you arent  that mindful or really that careful in speaking about gambling dealing or activity. Always stick into that basic principle
on playing just for fun.

It is difficult when you start to see when something cannot be done due to addiction, it is something that should not be allowed and it affects people's lives, I have seen some cases where the addiction to the casino in a lady has caused many things that are not good, in the casino playing the slots, she sat for a whole day and when she ran out of money she demanded a loan from the casino because according to her she was going to win a good prize, and the casino granted it to her, but she continued ´p jugnaod and nothing was achieved, the lady had to call the family to be able to get her out, she was like glued to the machine, she did not want to leave, the lady was taken out like a child, crying and kicking.

I agree with you but still if we don't tell them about the wrong they're doing to their life then it will take a lot of time for them to realize that they have lost a lot of thing because of the addiction they were going through. Gambling isn't a crime but someone who's addicted to it can do crime as well in order to have required money for betting. There are many people who are so addicted to gambling that they can do anything to get gratification by doing some betting. The addicts can sell off the things of their own as well that of their loved ones without even giving it a second thought. I know that life is the greatest teacher but still without someone's help some addicts may never learn from personal experience and sometimes others words can change someone's life's patterns.

Gambling addiction is only scary for those  who are not addicted and maybe reading all the negative side or consequences of becoming addicted to gambling, for those who are already addicted, it is rather fun for them, at least, until they realize they are wasting too much time and money on gambling and decide to want to stop, that is when it all becomes painful as they realize they can not or are unable to stop..
Gambling is really a means of entertainment, but unfortunately, many gamblers only confess this with their mouth, but then, how they go about their gambling activities does not tell that they really see gambling as one of the ways to just have fun, but then again, the fact is that, as long as we live in a world where people need money, there will always be those who their reason to gamble will not be just to have fun but also, a means to make or earn some extra money, those who are lucky will sure make the extra money while those who are unlucky will lose instead.

I have a brother who, ever since he learned card games on the computer, doesn't want to leave the house for unnecessary things. He sits in front of his computer, playing cards, and often he can't remember what time to eat or other things. This irritated his mother to the extent that she asked him to leave the house for a full day to see how he had changed. But it turns out that he hasn't changed either and is even getting worse and many have reminded him but he doesn't want to listen to it.

I can't imagine what would have happened if he had joined the casino. Surely he will not be able to stop playing gambling. Maybe even he can spend all his money on gambling.

That is why if someone wants to make gambling as entertainment, he must have full responsibility for himself and manage his gambling so that it does not exceed his limits. This is what novice gamblers don't realize because they have found new pleasures in gambling, so it makes them too deep in gambling until in the end, they don't realize that they are already experiencing a severe gambling addiction. Only with the help of the people around him can help him but he must have a strong determination to change his old habits into a new habit unrelated to gambling. That is difficult for someone who has been in his old habits for too long so he needs to have a strong determination to change.

The impact that can be caused by gambling addiction is the loss of money at the gambling table that gamblers will not realize, and they cannot even calculate how much money they have spent on gambling. And with his habit of coming to offline or online casinos, he wants to keep going back there to play gambling and doesn't want to do other things. They have started to lose control in playing gambling so they will not think about how much money they will spend because the desire to gamble is too strong to realize. They will lose their responsibility in playing gambling so it will have a bad impact on them without them even realising it.

The problem of addiction has become a much more serious problem because gambling addiction has come not only to adults but also to young people who have experienced gambling addiction. Maybe we have even read that some young people commit suicide because they are involved with gambling and their parents do not know anything about their gambling addiction problem. Maybe parents need to be wary if their children ask them for money too often and start asking what the money is for. There are children who do not dare to tell the truth about what they use their money for and instead lie about what the money is used for. This is very sad and has happened in society.

Money can not be easy to get. But when we already have money, it's as if we want to buy what we want until we don't remember how much money we have. Even though money can be used for things that are useful in our lives but that is human nature. That's what we have to realize and try our best to use our money, and with strong self-control, we can avoid wasting ourselves, let alone gambling because we don't want to get into trouble from gambling. If someone could do that, they could avoid gambling addiction and gamble responsibly. But it all takes effort to control himself especially when he has a lot of money and thinks he can gamble to get even more money. It is a thought we should avoid.

Well, it is Known that things are quite strong when it comes to addiction in a person, I in particular am always willing to help, even with words , to see how much impact it causes in a person, normally an addiction always occurs because of many things, the first is that,. The lack of control and that they can't do anything other than think about the way they play, sometimes it's not just about losing money, it's also the need they have to play, I think it's more difficult to control a person who goes to a physical casino, because there yes or yes, money must be spent, in an online casino Too, but there is also the option of play Money mode which is the best way for a player to play without any danger, of course this It's just a cloth of wet water, because a player will not want to play with this mode, but real condiner,

I think the addiction problem will be much more serious from the moment the person starts spending their money and doesn't get more , when they start making very desperate moves, like lending money to friends, asking family for money, and asking for money to a bank, I think that is what most affects a person who is Addicted.

Sometimes money is not easy to come by, and that type of person begins to look for money from wherever it is, to sell things and if he has ojoyas gold, well, he will not hesitate to sell it because he is a person who is practically addicted, and the The value of money is losing, that is to say, his reasoning about money becomes secondary, because he only wants to satisfy the need to play, and that is what must be controlled, sometimes specialists or people who are experts are needed, because What must be avoided is that an attack of anxiety and stress causes in the person who wants to do extreme things, there are some who what they want is to end their life, sometimes the pressure is like this that they can't stand it, it's incredible , but the Human being, when he is not strong Enough, can go to those Extremes.

And each person are really that different when it comes to level of tolerance whether they would really be able to make control of themselves or would really be that totally decide up on playing gambling and dont

mind about its potential risks specially when it comes to addiction.Yes, there are people who are really that easily get that addicted but could easily be recovered or easily be able to stop just because they do have that kind of self control and having that discipline which unlike with other people on who dont have that kind of quality on which they are really making themselves able to fail on what are the things that should really be need to be done. If you wont really be making yourself  that responsible about your actions then most likely you would really be hooked up by addiction.

This is something the main thing which a certain gambler should really be avoiding because once you do get shackled with it, then there's no easy way for you to be able to
get out and almost people do really fail on this one.

You do give a fair bit of good advice, particularly about not dreaming that gambling will make you rich. That is the main trick that casinos bank on, people thinking that they can take a shortcut to huge wealth and trade in tiny amounts for a huge return - the odds are simply not stacked in your favor. Understanding that each bet is also independent from the last and any future bets is important too. There is not some hidden scale out there, saying you've lost 10 times in a row so you deserve to win on number 11 - no, you are just as likely to lose the next time as well. Those suffering from financial problems are those who will suffer the biggest and should never think it will get them out of a hole, it's going to make it worse.

Yes, I totally agree with you on what you just said written above, because one step to recovery is knowing the fact that you are sick and need some assistance, which until a gambler knows that and is ready & willing to adjust his ways, such individual can never fully recover. Because what causes a gambling addiction is when someone sees gambling as his last hope for survival and hence tries to win at all cost, which in the end he ends up paying with his losses.

It is difficult when a gamer Becomes addicted to the game, because everything turns into doing something quickly or what they should do or do it just to play, people who do not do their things well or go to work, only for the game, this type of things are those that do not allow the person to arise, because the addiction causes that type of anxiety and the person just wants to be in the Casino playing and wanting to do that activity , in fact with little money the person cannot do much , the Personally, money goes very quickly and that is what is Dangerous because they are always in constant Danger and cannot do any more activities , their energy and everything is focused there , that is only bad , but that is why they must seek help to be Able to move your Life Forward.

There may be gambling addicts who return to gambling and eventually become gambling addicts again because they still can't learn to control themselves properly. Everything they do is in vain because they keep returning to gambling and don't realize that what they are doing means a lot to them.

Someone who is addicted to gambling really needs other people to be able to help him cure his gambling addiction. But they also have to have a strong intention to cure their gambling addiction so that what they do can really cure it. If they can see that gambling addiction has ruined their life, they will think about being able to maintain what they started to cure their gambling addiction so that they can truly recover and not depend on gambling anymore. And if he can recover, he has a second chance to organize his life for the better and teach other people with gambling addictions to recover too like him.

Of course, not everyone, even a very gambler, becomes addicted to these games. 
I think that this can only happen to people who have a certain psychotype of personality.  First of all, such people should have a strong emotional perception of failure, which literally leads a person to restore, as he sees it, the lost justice.  In gambling, this is naturally a series of losses.  This feeling constantly pushes such a person to commit emotional and ill-considered, and often just stupid things. 
And the second aspect for a human gambler to become addicted to gambling is the fact that he himself is a weak-willed person and is not able to really overcome his emotions.  Indeed, probably among all gamblers there can be about 5% of such people. 
And it is from them that really mentally ill people can appear over time, those who really need to be treated for such addiction.

I think if someone is not an addicted gambler, winning a big amount will not necessarily lead to addiction. Yes, theoretically, it can happen to anyone, but in practice the vast majority of gamblers, 90%-95% of them, are not addicted to gambling. Those 5-10% is still a lot of people and that's a tragedy, and we must find a way to convince them to gamlbe responsibly, but it's not true that every gambler becomes addicted eventually.

Have you ever seen someone who was cured addiction by wasting time, money and resources and in the end they go back to same act they were cured from? That is the height of it and the painful part of it.
It is therefore better that someone who is addicted should realise that they are addicted and it will be obvious that he needs help or have seen the need for help. Such a person will not go back to addiction if eventually cured.