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gamblers should know that they are not god they do predictions and every predictions has a risk of loss and if they can afford those lose gamble or else dont

If gambler use their normal common sense as well they would be away from those addictions or losing too much money while gambling as it is not a place to be dependent to earn money from the gambling else it could harmful if you just want quick money .
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It is not easy even for experienced gamblers with many years of experience. I have watched one of my friends panicking after losing significant amounts. And he had more than 10 years experience in gambling. When you are under stress, it is not that easy to go by the rule book. The best thing would be to take a break, but even that is not possible sometimes.
I don’t think it has anything to with the years of gambling and for me there’s nothing like an experienced gambler, no one is experienced when it comes to game of chance. I think the huge amount of money your friend committed triggered the panic and that’s really disastrous, little things that could easily be avoided but yet we never do.

I don’t sympathize with people like that, am sorry to say that please because I feel they made their decision in the first place. We have an option to either play for entertainment, which relieves us of stress or play for money which would also lead to emotional trauma.
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gamblers should know that they are not god they do predictions and every predictions has a risk of loss and if they can afford those lose gamble or else dont
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This only happens to people who are so desperate to make money without really working for it and such spirit is not good because at the end of the day if you invest all your money and the result turn negative the result will not be different from what we saw in the article you submitted above.

If anyone desperate to make money then why he choose only Gambling? In most of the business we have lost money then why we blame to Gambling?   
Actually, the main reason is, gambler should strong, our emotions of loser make us destroy and in the end we see the death cases.
They only see the easy money making chances in gambling but the probability of happening is very less which caused many people to loss and still the people coming with the hope also losing their money.If it has been considered as business then people don't have any control over it.
  Gamblers need to understand the ups and downs before get started with it because they will have to control all the factors and situations after loss. It is a very good luck but very rare to see when you see less than 2, 3 gamblers in a game. The probability of winning a game is more in playing with 1 or 2 opponents but the chances decreases when you play with more than 3 gamblers, you should be prepared accepting your loss.
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If you know you don't have good self control in the first place, it's a good idea to just avoid gambling as a whole. Gambling's obviously not for everybody, and it can be extremely hard to stop especially once you've buried yourself in losses.

Greed can take over in trading too, especially with highly leveraged margin trades, which are essentially gambling with 100x leverage. Greed can ruin you almost anywhere.

I think gamblers think at first that they can control themselves not to be addicted to gambling that’s why they gamble but in reality they became addicted and sometimes they are in denial that they are addicted. Indeed gambling isn’t for everyone but a lot is still gambling to earn money. 

They are in denial because they either want to win the jackpot or they have some losses to recover. Gamblers can't just accept they lose from gambling in just a short amount of time so they try to recover it. When they win, they don't know when to stop chasing for more bigger wins. In the end they just lose plenty of money without realizing it because they are addicted.
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I wish I did listen to my own advise after losing on a some soccer match that wasnt even able to watch in my home  Angry
This is the problem with me keeping my money is some of the sportsbooks is they make it so easy to bet when I should be asleep or with my kids

You need help man, you lack control of your self that's why you have regrets now.
Eliminate that what ifs and move on, then learn from your mistakes, even if you have money in sportsbook, with control, you can avoid unnecessary or unplanned bets.
legendary
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Lucky I'm not that serious in gambling and I don't spend that much money on gambling Cheesy.

Anyway, this must serve as an eye opener for those gamblers out there who are spending too much money in gambling. They must control themselves and they must control their emotion especially when they have many money in gambling. I feel sorry for the family but he's a gambler so I think there is some fault on him because of his greediness which led to his death.
This is very scary things when it happens, the real fact is this, lead to his death... death...death....! Cheesy

Well, gamblers must have this kind of mindset itself, must aware of possible things happen and cause into addictions. Emotion is very important to manage and follow by self-control. Both of these if you have then, you are totally fine. Bare this always in mind that gambling is the way you relax not for chasing money, if you lose then you stop, that's it.
The hallmark of gambling which is uncertainty is one of the main reasons I always expect gamblers to choose gambling as a game of fun and desist from every destructive habit. As long as gamblers keep on playing for fun, self control would always be a great challenge that would be difficult to solve, this is money we are talking about mate.

I think the reason we see many running after how to make money is because of the fabricated stories of dramatic increases in frequency of wins we daily read about gambling and gullible people would without a second thought not mind committing their hard end money in playing some games.
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It's very easy to say but difficult to do. When you gamble it is very difficult for you to control your emotion, as most of the time you just get carried away.

If you get carried away, that should be a sign that you should take a break. There's a high chance that you'll only go down from there. Take a breather before you completely dry your pocket.

Good advice, buddy. As I always ended up at zero balance whenever I am exhausted and was being carried away by my emotions. Sad to say, greediness hit me all the time. I'm trying to keep space but my body tells otherwise. Lol. Anyhow, taking a break from the losses too will also console us. It is not healthy anymore if we are being played by our own emotions. It ruined everything.
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If you know you don't have good self control in the first place, it's a good idea to just avoid gambling as a whole. Gambling's obviously not for everybody, and it can be extremely hard to stop especially once you've buried yourself in losses.

Greed can take over in trading too, especially with highly leveraged margin trades, which are essentially gambling with 100x leverage. Greed can ruin you almost anywhere.

I think gamblers think at first that they can control themselves not to be addicted to gambling that’s why they gamble but in reality they became addicted and sometimes they are in denial that they are addicted. Indeed gambling isn’t for everyone but a lot is still gambling to earn money. 
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I wish I did listen to my own advise after losing on a some soccer match that wasnt even able to watch in my home  Angry
This is the problem with me keeping my money is some of the sportsbooks is they make it so easy to bet when I should be asleep or with my kids
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Don't be tempted by the big wins that you get. Just remember that we will not always win gambling. There are times when houses will take all of our money. We must pay attention to eating and drinking while playing, 13 hours is a long time for gamblers especially when playing at Real or Physical Casino. What I regret from the story of this person is that his mom supported him to play until she was willing to take a loan just for gambling and Not preventing him from becoming addicted.
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I was surfing for some old news articles. In that time, I have came across one news article.

Australian died after his 13 hours gambling with nothing in his hands last.

Check here. https://www.stuff.co.nz/world/australia/105184715/gary-went-on-a-13hour-gambling-binge-he-died-with-nothing-left

Really sad, please do not get upset in gambling investment. Simple, take it as easy game not worthy than your life...

A wrong decision is taken in gambling. If you play too long in gambling, of course it will make you out of focus and result in you not focusing on gambling anymore. In gambling, of course focus and fitness are very necessary so that we can be more relaxed in playing. In my opinion, 13 hours is a long time in gambling. Plus you can't get results there. of course it affects your life going forward like this person.
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The reason they became gamblers or addicted to gambling is the same. They cannot control their emotions and they will fall prey of that intrinsic desire to play more and make more. Making more for the house in turn, obviously.

But they fail to realize that with more bets being placed the more chances of them losing. I have rarely seen gamblers who have cashed out and never played again. All of them come back with that money at one time and play again to lose it. That is why the casinos are a flourishing business in these sectors.
I don’t mean to approach this in a derogatory manner, but truth be told, greedy gamblers do not only lose money enriching casino sites, they also lose their self-respect and happiness and perhaps some even lose their loved ones and it is absurd how it fails to occur to them that the game does not mean well for them.

I think the dynamics of our focus now should be on how there can be an end to gambling entirely because over 80% of gamblers are without self-control and what this implies is that as long as gambling remains, we would continue to breed losers  in the gambling sectors and they would be a threat to their various communities and the world at large.
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I was surfing for some old news articles. In that time, I have came across one news article.

Australian died after his 13 hours gambling with nothing in his hands last.

Check here. https://www.stuff.co.nz/world/australia/105184715/gary-went-on-a-13hour-gambling-binge-he-died-with-nothing-left

Really sad, please do not get upset in gambling investment. Simple, take it as easy game not worthy than your life...


Of course because money is important for our life our family life so we have to control our emotion if you don't then it will become big problem.
Money matters it is true so those who become greedy about making money and invest so much money without having knowledge will suffer lose, so if you  get profit once try to wait for the next time, be sure you won enough but with time to time gambling, We just not to be greedy and control our emotions right on time.
As long as there is money involved,man in nature tends to become greedy.But in gambling,if you chose to be greedy,you will never be profitable in the end.As much as possible,we should learn how to control our emotions when gambling because if we let our own emotions controlled our minds,we will never find success in gambling.

We will become greedy in gambling games, especially if we can win in many times. But we also have a chance to control the greed so we can prevent from losing the money. It's how we can manage our emotion in gambling games and how we can control ourselves when we lose or win, and we can limit ourselves in gambling. I am sure we can learn more about controlling ourselves, which will be useful for us.
All these great enterprises making billions of dollars have been following one think to create their empires and that is the best business model and the best time to execute the idea when the market is ready. They rather focus and rely on data rather than emotions. So in gambling, emotions would lead you nowhere and you could make a very possible and foolish mistake that you would call foolish when you think instead of following your emotions.
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This only happens to people who are so desperate to make money without really working for it and such spirit is not good because at the end of the day if you invest all your money and the result turn negative the result will not be different from what we saw in the article you submitted above.

If anyone desperate to make money then why he choose only Gambling? In most of the business we have lost money then why we blame to Gambling?   
Actually, the main reason is, gambler should strong, our emotions of loser make us destroy and in the end we see the death cases.
They only see the easy money making chances in gambling but the probability of happening is very less which caused many people to loss and still the people coming with the hope also losing their money.If it has been considered as business then people don't have any control over it.
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This only happens to people who are so desperate to make money without really working for it and such spirit is not good because at the end of the day if you invest all your money and the result turn negative the result will not be different from what we saw in the article you submitted above.

If anyone desperate to make money then why he choose only Gambling? In most of the business we have lost money then why we blame to Gambling?   
Actually, the main reason is, gambler should strong, our emotions of loser make us destroy and in the end we see the death cases.
legendary
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I was surfing for some old news articles. In that time, I have came across one news article.

Australian died after his 13 hours gambling with nothing in his hands last.

Check here. https://www.stuff.co.nz/world/australia/105184715/gary-went-on-a-13hour-gambling-binge-he-died-with-nothing-left

Really sad, please do not get upset in gambling investment. Simple, take it as easy game not worthy than your life...

Controlling emotions is very important and must be well understood by gamblers. when a gambler cannot control emotions well the gambler will get closer to failure. many people have experienced bad things when they cannot control emotions. but on the contrary, when a gambler can control emotions, they get closer to success.
You are very right mate and I think this is the real aspect most gamblers are not getting right. Emotional control is a very vital factor in gambling, it could either make a gambler successful or even a loser. Managing emotions is handled by a part of the brain that is known as amygdala, and it serves as memory chip,, every of our emotion either negative or positive are always embedded here.

In my opinion, we can never escape emotional management if we must excel in gambling because either ways, we are always subconsciously aware that of our emotions. I think study would have shown clearly that “emotional management enhances decision making especially when under gambling pressure.
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Really sad, please do not get upset in gambling investment. Simple, take it as easy game not worthy than your life...


How sad that he didn't fight for his emotions. He lost his opportunity to experience life to the fullest. I know it is really hard to lose such huge amount in gambling. But we can still had a chance to go up, realize some better things and slowly withdrawn from the gambling addiction.  If addiction within himself can't be controlled anymore, there is nothing wrong to seek help and advice from God and from medical practitioner.

Honestly, gambling ruined his family and his whole life. To be eager to get back what he lose, he went again to gamble. Same scenario of a typical gambler who experienced big wins and after that, a big loses. Hope this will serve as a lesson to everyone here like me who gamble a lot.
It can truly be heartbreaking when we see an able bodied lose all they ever labored for to gambling just because of emotions that can be put under subjection.. We all experience such emotional moments in gambling but it takes a well-disciplined man full of self-control to make amends and do the rightful.

I had a very interesting scenario last week, when I played on a site and won over 500$ at first trial, I was so emotional and all that went on my mind was to double bet, believing that I would triple the amount if I did that, but I learnt to reduce greed, implement self-control by putting back half of the money, while I kept half but low and behold, I lost it all immediately and would have lost more if I committed all the amount.
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Always controlling the emotions is not possible in gambling but in the right time we need to control our emotions like if we are getting lots of defeat in gambling then we need to get out from that very quickly otherwise if you emotionally try them again and again it will definitely give the bad result only at the end that's why emotion play an important role in everything.
To be honest, one cannot control emotions in gambling because we have experienced with so many friends. They win today and lose tomorrow and that is why they get upset and cannot control their emotions. Only those gamblers who are rich enough and can bear losing with lots of money can survive and enjoy gambling. I advise not to start gambling with your innocent money because soon you are going to lose it.
Honestly, one thing I have noticed about gambling is that it triggers several emotions whether gambling as a rich or poor person, sometimes we have the excitement of  initial rush  as soon as we identify an opportunity for value, this is the reason, you find people who win money and then want to play back, so they end up losing again. And as well there are excitement that comes as a result of elation or despair, this depends on how the bets play out

One thing about emotions is that it would continue even after the game ends, whether it ends with profit or loss, as it is always that second guessing yourself will always remain an integral trading component.
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It is very unfortunate, someone become not aware that gambling is not only a source to get money and we shouldn't take too much attention with that by caring less with your life. That's why when we see our family members or close friends become addicted to gambling, we need to give advises and take serious attention to them. Addicted gamblers must be hard to control their selves and sometimes think unrealistically when they lose the game. Therefore, the people closest to them will have a big role to make them be aware of the bad habit.  

It's true that the people closest to them will have a big role in leading them back to the right path, however the hardest part is that some gamblers are too addicted to gambling to the point they don't recognized anyone close to them and they won't listen to any advises from their family member. I think in controlling one's emotion should come from the the gambler itself or better ask professional help.
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