Gambling and Relationships! - page 17.

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Quote from: neya on November 24, 2017, 03:30:42 AM

I gamble only un online but i never want that any of my family members know about it that i gamble even my friends.i meet online friends in gambling site and we share stratigies.but i dont have real friends that gamble also

It's different to be like that, you are keeping your gambling habit to your family and friends, I think you are full of secret in real life. That attitude I think would make you grow like a loner. You tend to secret everything.

Anyway, I don't want to gamble along with my girlfriend. It is either I can't concentrate on the game or I don't listen carefully to my girlfriend. As much as possible I don't want to do it both at the same time. I will always choose my girlfriend over gambling if I came to the situation where I have to do both at the same time.

yes in most of the societies and religions gambling is consider as ill activity, therefore people try to hide their gambling activities, in fact online gambling make it possible to play gambling anonymously, even your family and close friends cannot know about your gambling activities. you can now play gambling from your bedroom.

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In my family me is the one who gambled but i am not addicted because i know gambling is not good way to do to earn income buy this is only my past time every time i got bored. Also i set limitation to stay away in addiction.
Also in my place there are couples are engaged in gambling, since they are came from rich family they do not need to work for money they only do is to enjoy their life and i do not see any problem on that.

As you said gambling is not a way to earn money because the losing percentage in gambling is more so it is only for fun purpose.And it is better to have time on money limit while gambling to avoid addiction to it.
Gambling causes many problems in the relationship even both are rich and no need to money,if someone facing continuous losses in gambling it causes mental stress and it may cause anger between the couples,So the couples have so many ways to enjoy their life but gambling is not the best way to do it.

The amount of money in your bank account is irrelevant if you get addicted to gambling you are going to have trouble it does not matter if you are rich or if you are poor since those that are rich are going to bet huge quantities of money and eventually their money is going to run out.

I agree, Those rich people are mostly win in the gambling in a huge prices because they are the only has a lot money to gamble. But the end all they have winning from gambling also their large profit will be run out. Because that is gambling all about. But we cannot regret those rich people if that is their happiness, I think they don't mind how much money they wasted as long as they're getting fun of being gamble and help Casino company to gain more profit.

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In my family me is the one who gambled but i am not addicted because i know gambling is not good way to do to earn income buy this is only my past time every time i got bored. Also i set limitation to stay away in addiction.
Also in my place there are couples are engaged in gambling, since they are came from rich family they do not need to work for money they only do is to enjoy their life and i do not see any problem on that.

As you said gambling is not a way to earn money because the losing percentage in gambling is more so it is only for fun purpose.And it is better to have time on money limit while gambling to avoid addiction to it.
Gambling causes many problems in the relationship even both are rich and no need to money,if someone facing continuous losses in gambling it causes mental stress and it may cause anger between the couples,So the couples have so many ways to enjoy their life but gambling is not the best way to do it.

The amount of money in your bank account is irrelevant if you get addicted to gambling you are going to have trouble it does not matter if you are rich or if you are poor since those that are rich are going to bet huge quantities of money and eventually their money is going to run out.

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Quote from: qwertyup23 on November 24, 2017, 06:35:25 AM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I have a friend whose both parents gamble on a daily-basis. Fortunately for him, his aunt took care of him while growing up and by even paying for all the expenses. From what I heard, his parents are drowned in debt and about to lose their house if they do not pay the bank by next year. Luckily, my friend never bore any grudge from his parents, considering the circumstances that happened and he even offered to pay for the debt. What I learned is that, gambling can really destroy your life and affect everyone in your surroundings especially when it gets out of control.

Ouch. That's actually a different side to this. Some may find it romantic and perfect that two people have have the same interests, in this case gambling, but are too endulged in it that if they have a family, it gets neglected. The cbildren usually are the ones who'll suffer

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I have a friend whose both parents gamble on a daily-basis. Fortunately for him, his aunt took care of him while growing up and by even paying for all the expenses. From what I heard, his parents are drowned in debt and about to lose their house if they do not pay the bank by next year. Luckily, my friend never bore any grudge from his parents, considering the circumstances that happened and he even offered to pay for the debt. What I learned is that, gambling can really destroy your life and affect everyone in your surroundings especially when it gets out of control.

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Quote from: neya on November 24, 2017, 03:30:42 AM

I gamble only un online but i never want that any of my family members know about it that i gamble even my friends.i meet online friends in gambling site and we share stratigies.but i dont have real friends that gamble also

It's different to be like that, you are keeping your gambling habit to your family and friends, I think you are full of secret in real life. That attitude I think would make you grow like a loner. You tend to secret everything.

Anyway, I don't want to gamble along with my girlfriend. It is either I can't concentrate on the game or I don't listen carefully to my girlfriend. As much as possible I don't want to do it both at the same time. I will always choose my girlfriend over gambling if I came to the situation where I have to do both at the same time.

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I gamble only un online but i never want that any of my family members know about it that i gamble even my friends.i meet online friends in gambling site and we share stratigies.but i dont have real friends that gamble also

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I actually know a few relationships wherein one is addicted to some sort of gambling and it was actually a mess in my experiences as there is constant arguments and episodes. HOWerver I also know some relationships who ovcadionally dablle together on playing

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Quote from: s0beit on November 23, 2017, 08:58:06 PM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I have seen my friend that they gambling with there friends and also with her family i think its not weird because its happen in real life that they need to do that to play and to enjoy.

It's just a matter of understanding and know how to manage time and priorities, gambling with friends or doing gambling is fine as long as your in control and your relationship with friends and love ones were not affected by your addiction on gambling meaning you still manage to have time on them and you do know still your responsibility then it will all be fine.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I have seen my friend that they gambling with there friends and also with her family i think its not weird because its happen in real life that they need to do that to play and to enjoy.

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Quote from: Betwrong on November 23, 2017, 11:40:41 AM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I like to play online poker together with my wife. Not that we do it often, it's maybe once per week or even more rarely than that, but i do enjoy this very much. Sometimes I listen to what she says and sometimes I don't, but I play much better overall than when I play alone.

It is really fun and even strengthen the bond of couples if they do have the same kind of interest. Gambling can help it but it should be moderated since gambling work as poison as well. In a case where two couples are addicted on gambling, this will ruin their relationship since they don't have any control, the possibility of deteriorating their finance status is high and that may cause them to have an argument that may cause their relationship to break up. I have seen couples fighting against each other due to the same reason.

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Quote from: Meistro on November 06, 2017, 02:51:24 PM

Getting into a relationship is the ultimate gamble.

Tongue and cheek.. I like it.
To answer the PO, I don't know of any couple that gambles together. That being said, whenever I go to the casino. I see a lot of couples that gamble together. So me not know any, doesn't mean there aren't any. I do think though women are a lot more cautious with money than men. So yes there are more male gamblers than women.

LOL. In my case dude, my wife doesn't have control of her gambling. Sometimes I'm happy to win some and want to get home already. But my wife, I don't know, it looks like she is competing with me in terms of money won because I always told her that gambling in not for her because she always losses. And it looks like he takes it personally that's why sometimes when I'm done and have money won in my pockets, she still insists on playing. But we are happy though, you win some and you lose some.

I'm sorry to hear that. Yes, it happens. Is it possible that she has crossed that line to addiction? What you have just described is not healthy. I hope you seek help for her before her ways destroy your family. Addiction creeps up slowly but surely.

The problem is that must come from within the person, if that does not happen then that person is never going to get better no matter what kind of rational argument you use, most of the time a person that is addicted to something needs to hit rock bottom to wake up and sometimes not even that is enough.

If addiction is severe ,any advices wont really work out and no matter how hard you do convince or saying a word he would just easily neglect it and most people do only realize that they are already doing wrong things is when they do see that they dont have money to spent on gambling or even on their daily needs.This is the only time they would able to realize that they are wrong.

For some that is a wake up call, but for many that is not the case it is not strange to find that most of the crimes in a society are somehow related to addiction, many addicts are going to do everything to get money and to keep their addiction going and gambling addiction is not really different.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

I like to play online poker together with my wife. Not that we do it often, it's maybe once per week or even more rarely than that, but i do enjoy this very much. Sometimes I listen to what she says and sometimes I don't, but I play much better overall than when I play alone.

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Quote from: SamsungBitcoin on November 23, 2017, 12:10:27 AM

In my family me is the one who gambled but i am not addicted because i know gambling is not good way to do to earn income buy this is only my past time every time i got bored. Also i set limitation to stay away in addiction.
Also in my place there are couples are engaged in gambling, since they are came from rich family they do not need to work for money they only do is to enjoy their life and i do not see any problem on that.

As you said gambling is not a way to earn money because the losing percentage in gambling is more so it is only for fun purpose.And it is better to have time on money limit while gambling to avoid addiction to it.
Gambling causes many problems in the relationship even both are rich and no need to money,if someone facing continuous losses in gambling it causes mental stress and it may cause anger between the couples,So the couples have so many ways to enjoy their life but gambling is not the best way to do it.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

My bestfriend and me are gamblers , actually it's not good for all the time but we're helping each other to overcome the loss.

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Quote from: SamsungBitcoin on November 23, 2017, 12:10:27 AM

In my family me is the one who gambled but i am not addicted because i know gambling is not good way to do to earn income buy this is only my past time every time i got bored. Also i set limitation to stay away in addiction.
Also in my place there are couples are engaged in gambling, since they are came from rich family they do not need to work for money they only do is to enjoy their life and i do not see any problem on that.

well for now you wont see it yet, but time will come and their finances will be affected as well, we can't say that its okay because they are rich gambling
can turned everything to a much worsen results, but if you can really just stay and limits yourself and you are just playing to take some relaxations and
not aiming to win big then that's still can avoid you to end up nothing.

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Quote from: South Park on November 22, 2017, 06:22:25 PM

Quote from: Phalo on November 19, 2017, 03:49:04 AM

Quote from: Kemarit on November 18, 2017, 08:54:21 AM

Quote from: Phalo on November 18, 2017, 07:52:47 AM

Quote from: Meistro on November 06, 2017, 02:51:24 PM

Getting into a relationship is the ultimate gamble.

Tongue and cheek.. I like it.
To answer the PO, I don't know of any couple that gambles together. That being said, whenever I go to the casino. I see a lot of couples that gamble together. So me not know any, doesn't mean there aren't any. I do think though women are a lot more cautious with money than men. So yes there are more male gamblers than women.

LOL. In my case dude, my wife doesn't have control of her gambling. Sometimes I'm happy to win some and want to get home already. But my wife, I don't know, it looks like she is competing with me in terms of money won because I always told her that gambling in not for her because she always losses. And it looks like he takes it personally that's why sometimes when I'm done and have money won in my pockets, she still insists on playing. But we are happy though, you win some and you lose some.

I'm sorry to hear that. Yes, it happens. Is it possible that she has crossed that line to addiction? What you have just described is not healthy. I hope you seek help for her before her ways destroy your family. Addiction creeps up slowly but surely.

The problem is that must come from within the person, if that does not happen then that person is never going to get better no matter what kind of rational argument you use, most of the time a person that is addicted to something needs to hit rock bottom to wake up and sometimes not even that is enough.

If addiction is severe ,any advices wont really work out and no matter how hard you do convince or saying a word he would just easily neglect it and most people do only realize that they are already doing wrong things is when they do see that they dont have money to spent on gambling or even on their daily needs.This is the only time they would able to realize that they are wrong.

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In my family me is the one who gambled but i am not addicted because i know gambling is not good way to do to earn income buy this is only my past time every time i got bored. Also i set limitation to stay away in addiction.
Also in my place there are couples are engaged in gambling, since they are came from rich family they do not need to work for money they only do is to enjoy their life and i do not see any problem on that.

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Quote from: Phalo on November 19, 2017, 03:49:04 AM

Quote from: Kemarit on November 18, 2017, 08:54:21 AM

Quote from: Phalo on November 18, 2017, 07:52:47 AM

Quote from: Meistro on November 06, 2017, 02:51:24 PM

Getting into a relationship is the ultimate gamble.

Tongue and cheek.. I like it.
To answer the PO, I don't know of any couple that gambles together. That being said, whenever I go to the casino. I see a lot of couples that gamble together. So me not know any, doesn't mean there aren't any. I do think though women are a lot more cautious with money than men. So yes there are more male gamblers than women.

LOL. In my case dude, my wife doesn't have control of her gambling. Sometimes I'm happy to win some and want to get home already. But my wife, I don't know, it looks like she is competing with me in terms of money won because I always told her that gambling in not for her because she always losses. And it looks like he takes it personally that's why sometimes when I'm done and have money won in my pockets, she still insists on playing. But we are happy though, you win some and you lose some.

I'm sorry to hear that. Yes, it happens. Is it possible that she has crossed that line to addiction? What you have just described is not healthy. I hope you seek help for her before her ways destroy your family. Addiction creeps up slowly but surely.

The problem is that must come from within the person, if that does not happen then that person is never going to get better no matter what kind of rational argument you use, most of the time a person that is addicted to something needs to hit rock bottom to wake up and sometimes not even that is enough.

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Quote from: PagSure on November 11, 2017, 10:34:24 PM

Quote from: kodes88 on November 11, 2017, 07:48:50 PM

I think a couple gamblers are more vulnerable to addiction. Why? Because none of them reminded to stop. If the gambler couple is addicted then it is very dangerous. But if both can control themselves and not addicted, it would be more fun.

Yeah couple are prone to being addicted specially if both of them are having fun when they gamble. I've seen a lot of couple who got addicted with poker both enjoying the game and also their other vices.

They enjoy at the moment and later on they cry over split milk. One they get into gambling and that seems very fascinating to them but later on, when they observe that their financial health is becoming weak then they curse one another. And I have seen many couples doing it in end of the day. So better is too aware yourself and your spouse to work better and earn better.

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