Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
I gamble but not in here, in the real world. I learn to gamble when I was a kid since my mother us also a gambler. She is addict at it but sge can controls it. She knows when to stop gambling, she knows the right time to gamble, manage her money so me, I alsio learned it from her. Yes there are times she wins continuously (so lucky, right?), the moment she thinks the money she gets is enough she stops. Whenever the situation reverse, she also stops before her budget is all gone. Now for our relationship, mother and child, it is fine. We do not make a secret in this thing, it is just the normal thing for us. We are so okay with it. And it never happens that we agrue with the money. My mother does not beg money in me to be use in gambling so am I.
