Gambling and Relationships! - page 18.

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Quote from: Kolly on November 20, 2017, 07:01:43 PM

Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Base on my experience my husband and i playing cards and majjong and were both happy together we argue sometimes but its not related to gambling.even our friends they take their husband and wives with them to play.If you are an open minded person you understand all the the problems and attitude of the people around you.

That's great for you, but we all know that there is no perfect relationship anywhere in the world because there are differences and it could lead to a stronger relationship between you and your partner. If you are open-minded that's great, but you should have shared sense also in the things that are obvious, you should observe it. It's hard always to adjust if you are the only one working on it.

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

Base on my experience my husband and i playing cards and majjong and were both happy together we argue sometimes but its not related to gambling.even our friends they take their husband and wives with them to play.If you are an open minded person you understand all the the problems and attitude of the people around you.

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Comparing of gambling and relationship was so tricky question, because if you think it so deep who will you choose gambling or your family. For me playing gambling for fun is not bad, because even you win or lose you only do it for fun but make sure that you used money have a limit.

However if your playing gambling and your relationship to your family will be affected I suggest to stopped, because your family will suffered. Even kids will also affected especially if you become addicted to the game. How horrible if it is happen so instead losing of relationship to the family it's better if you give up gambling.

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Quote from: StonedWolf on November 16, 2017, 06:04:46 PM

Personally, gambling improve my relationships and reinforce my connection with my friends.
In fact, thanks to the bet that we're making together. We win together, we lose together, and especially we live the stressful moment together. Which is in my opinion the best point of all because we find someone who supports us and gives us hope to win.

i wish you would try to do some rightful thing with your friends than gambling.why not try trading together?you can enjoy and stay strong together by trading,not with gambling that rely on luck.i am happy for what binded you and your friends,but hope not in gambling.it was just an advice dont take it bad

Yeah, instead of gabling together you could trade together or invest together, that will bring a lot of emotion as well but with the difference that you are going to have a real chance to make money unlike gambling where you cannot make money unless you play poker or a similar game.

Thing is that trading or investing together isn't fun at all. Sure, it is less risky and more profitable than gambling, but it is boring, while couples that gamble together do that as it brings excitement to them. You might say that trading also brings emotions, but it takes at least week for that, while gambling brings them instantly.

It is obvious that such a thing is not fun at all, since the purpose of investing or trading is not to get fun but to make money but at the same time what can be more fun than to make a lot of money, I know it can be hard but if you are making money then things are good, worry when you are trading and you are losing money that is not fun at all.

If you're plan in life is to have multiple streams of income to support yourself with everything that you do then that's okay. That's what the goal is for, to have multiple money sources and that could be achieved with investments, whether it's trading, gambling, insurances, or what not. Just know that you shouldn't put everything in one place.

Gambling?It wont really be considered as a income support for yourself unless if you are an owner of such gambling site then its considered but as a player then its not suggested.It wont really be a good money source instead on earning money you would eventually lose it up either.Playing with loved ones isnt bad as long you dont make it as a hobby.

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Quote from: Getcoinsite on November 18, 2017, 11:00:43 AM

My ex girlfriend and i use to play card games together.sometimes in a Wake of love ones.and luckily were winning mostly thats why i missed her whenever im playing gambling.it feels like the enjoyment is double if your with someone important to you playing together

That is possible but in some places and not everywhere. In some countries your girl friend can accompany you to visit a casino and play gambling, but in some countries like in Asia you cannot even think about a girl friend who can accompany you to visit a casino. In Islam it is not legal to have a girl friend and evey play gambling which is consider as a sin. There people play gambling as anonymously they do not want any person to know about their gambling activities.

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Quote from: mrcash02 on November 06, 2017, 09:52:25 AM

Why is it strange for you? Friends, couples and even friends like to play together at casinos. I have seen on the movies people going together to Las Vegas casinos to play. It seems very normal for me, it's like people who go to amusement parks, clubs together to have fun.

So, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. I agree with what you said. It is really normal to gamble with your girlfriend or friends. I do not know why it seemed to be strange for the OP. And in my opinion, you cannot gamble with your parents unless they are open-minded. Just saying.

On the other hand, some people think that gambling with your girlfriend or wife is weird because you could argue while gambling and if you lost, you would blame your partner. That is why you should avoid gambling with the ones you care about.

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Quote from: South Park on November 18, 2017, 05:36:22 PM

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Quote from: StonedWolf on November 16, 2017, 06:04:46 PM

Personally, gambling improve my relationships and reinforce my connection with my friends.
In fact, thanks to the bet that we're making together. We win together, we lose together, and especially we live the stressful moment together. Which is in my opinion the best point of all because we find someone who supports us and gives us hope to win.

i wish you would try to do some rightful thing with your friends than gambling.why not try trading together?you can enjoy and stay strong together by trading,not with gambling that rely on luck.i am happy for what binded you and your friends,but hope not in gambling.it was just an advice dont take it bad

Yeah, instead of gabling together you could trade together or invest together, that will bring a lot of emotion as well but with the difference that you are going to have a real chance to make money unlike gambling where you cannot make money unless you play poker or a similar game.

Thing is that trading or investing together isn't fun at all. Sure, it is less risky and more profitable than gambling, but it is boring, while couples that gamble together do that as it brings excitement to them. You might say that trading also brings emotions, but it takes at least week for that, while gambling brings them instantly.

It is obvious that such a thing is not fun at all, since the purpose of investing or trading is not to get fun but to make money but at the same time what can be more fun than to make a lot of money, I know it can be hard but if you are making money then things are good, worry when you are trading and you are losing money that is not fun at all.

If you're plan in life is to have multiple streams of income to support yourself with everything that you do then that's okay. That's what the goal is for, to have multiple money sources and that could be achieved with investments, whether it's trading, gambling, insurances, or what not. Just know that you shouldn't put everything in one place.

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Quote from: Kemarit on November 18, 2017, 08:54:21 AM

Quote from: Phalo on November 18, 2017, 07:52:47 AM

Quote from: Meistro on November 06, 2017, 02:51:24 PM

Getting into a relationship is the ultimate gamble.

Tongue and cheek.. I like it.
To answer the PO, I don't know of any couple that gambles together. That being said, whenever I go to the casino. I see a lot of couples that gamble together. So me not know any, doesn't mean there aren't any. I do think though women are a lot more cautious with money than men. So yes there are more male gamblers than women.

LOL. In my case dude, my wife doesn't have control of her gambling. Sometimes I'm happy to win some and want to get home already. But my wife, I don't know, it looks like she is competing with me in terms of money won because I always told her that gambling in not for her because she always losses. And it looks like he takes it personally that's why sometimes when I'm done and have money won in my pockets, she still insists on playing. But we are happy though, you win some and you lose some.

I'm sorry to hear that. Yes, it happens. Is it possible that she has crossed that line to addiction? What you have just described is not healthy. I hope you seek help for her before her ways destroy your family. Addiction creeps up slowly but surely.

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Quote from: buyinbtc on November 18, 2017, 11:19:21 AM

Quote from: South Park on November 17, 2017, 05:51:15 PM

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Quote from: StonedWolf on November 16, 2017, 06:04:46 PM

Personally, gambling improve my relationships and reinforce my connection with my friends.
In fact, thanks to the bet that we're making together. We win together, we lose together, and especially we live the stressful moment together. Which is in my opinion the best point of all because we find someone who supports us and gives us hope to win.

i wish you would try to do some rightful thing with your friends than gambling.why not try trading together?you can enjoy and stay strong together by trading,not with gambling that rely on luck.i am happy for what binded you and your friends,but hope not in gambling.it was just an advice dont take it bad

Yeah, instead of gabling together you could trade together or invest together, that will bring a lot of emotion as well but with the difference that you are going to have a real chance to make money unlike gambling where you cannot make money unless you play poker or a similar game.

Thing is that trading or investing together isn't fun at all. Sure, it is less risky and more profitable than gambling, but it is boring, while couples that gamble together do that as it brings excitement to them. You might say that trading also brings emotions, but it takes at least week for that, while gambling brings them instantly.

It is obvious that such a thing is not fun at all, since the purpose of investing or trading is not to get fun but to make money but at the same time what can be more fun than to make a lot of money, I know it can be hard but if you are making money then things are good, worry when you are trading and you are losing money that is not fun at all.

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Quote from: BitcoinPC on November 18, 2017, 10:33:59 AM

Now it has no any surprise thing that any gambler has a relationship, of course every gambler has a different relationship, because he is human being first, secondly he start gambling. Mostly we see friends play gambling get together and it is the best relation of all gamblers. I like play gambling with friends.

I think gambling and Relationships are lied. With gambling you can meet new people and shares experience of gambling for each one, and then you can start a new relationship, So i feel that gambling is a good way to find some good and funny people.

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You can talk about strategy in gambling here or share your experience.If you ask what is the negative about in relationships,i think if you spend a lot of time in gambling and not thinking about your gf or bf feelings.You can do good past time here in bitcoin both of your girlfriend or boyfriend like bonding here its so exciting because you need to risk to win

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Quote from: South Park on November 17, 2017, 05:51:15 PM

Quote from: carlisle1 on November 17, 2017, 01:44:36 AM

Quote from: StonedWolf on November 16, 2017, 06:04:46 PM

Personally, gambling improve my relationships and reinforce my connection with my friends.
In fact, thanks to the bet that we're making together. We win together, we lose together, and especially we live the stressful moment together. Which is in my opinion the best point of all because we find someone who supports us and gives us hope to win.

i wish you would try to do some rightful thing with your friends than gambling.why not try trading together?you can enjoy and stay strong together by trading,not with gambling that rely on luck.i am happy for what binded you and your friends,but hope not in gambling.it was just an advice dont take it bad

Yeah, instead of gabling together you could trade together or invest together, that will bring a lot of emotion as well but with the difference that you are going to have a real chance to make money unlike gambling where you cannot make money unless you play poker or a similar game.

Thing is that trading or investing together isn't fun at all. Sure, it is less risky and more profitable than gambling, but it is boring, while couples that gamble together do that as it brings excitement to them. You might say that trading also brings emotions, but it takes at least week for that, while gambling brings them instantly.

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Quote from: Getcoinsite on November 18, 2017, 11:00:43 AM

My ex girlfriend and i use to play card games together.sometimes in a Wake of love ones.and luckily were winning mostly thats why i missed her whenever im playing gambling.it feels like the enjoyment is double if your with someone important to you playing together

That's sad for you because you are not together anymore probably one of you has problems or something. It is very enjoyable when you have someone to play and it is a bonus that you are with your loved one because it's not that common for other people and some people want that. Maybe it's time to move on so you could gamble in peace.

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My ex girlfriend and i use to play card games together.sometimes in a Wake of love ones.and luckily were winning mostly thats why i missed her whenever im playing gambling.it feels like the enjoyment is double if your with someone important to you playing together

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Now it has no any surprise thing that any gambler has a relationship, of course every gambler has a different relationship, because he is human being first, secondly he start gambling. Mostly we see friends play gambling get together and it is the best relation of all gamblers. I like play gambling with friends.

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Quote from: diegz on November 18, 2017, 04:33:53 AM

I have too many friends who are gambler, there are times that we are playing against each other and I feel nothing strange. win or lose, we are still friends, it would feel strange if I am doing it with my girlfriend, I think I can't do that, it would really make me feel uncomfortable, instead I can use that time on something we could do while we are together. It could also become a factor why you and your girlfriend might split, so better not gamble while you are with each other, they are beside you since they need time from you and not you asking them to just stare at you.

Gambling against your girlfriend doesn't make much sense to me, it is like taking your money from yourself unless you are not in serious relationship but there are other ways to milk her money out. Gambling is not one of them because she can milk you out too.

Sometimes I play poker tournaments with my wife, we are deciding together what to play, what move to make, what cards opponent could have etc, but never against her - it wouldn't make much sense to take money out "her" pocket and use that money to pay our bills, right?

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Quote from: Awnar on November 06, 2017, 07:15:15 AM

Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

It is a very complicated thing and I think there needs to be a very wonderful sense to be able to respect each other. For me every couple would not want to live and depend to play gambling. everyone would want a natural life, I'm not sure anyone can do that. maybe only people who have pressure in their lives who do that. gambling in a relationship is a complicated thing and it could be a relationship. I initially did not believe in what you said and took this as a joke, but you did it and you get a lot of comments here. hopefully someone will help and gambling will not ruin our life.

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Quote from: Kemarit on November 18, 2017, 08:54:21 AM

Quote from: Phalo on November 18, 2017, 07:52:47 AM

Quote from: Meistro on November 06, 2017, 02:51:24 PM

Getting into a relationship is the ultimate gamble.

Tongue and cheek.. I like it.
To answer the PO, I don't know of any couple that gambles together. That being said, whenever I go to the casino. I see a lot of couples that gamble together. So me not know any, doesn't mean there aren't any. I do think though women are a lot more cautious with money than men. So yes there are more male gamblers than women.

LOL. In my case dude, my wife doesn't have control of her gambling. Sometimes I'm happy to win some and want to get home already. But my wife, I don't know, it looks like she is competing with me in terms of money won because I always told her that gambling in not for her because she always losses. And it looks like he takes it personally that's why sometimes when I'm done and have money won in my pockets, she still insists on playing. But we are happy though, you win some and you lose some.

well if you can control her and ain't allowed her to continue playing since you already got some good cash maybe instead of insisting to play more its much better to spend the money outside and have some dinner or watch movies to enjoy some intimate moments together, hahaha just for a thought though
but good for both of you to have some enjoyment while you are in that particular activity.

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I had someone in the family who used to be highly involved with gambling , and he was very known among gambling community for his addiction and how he's ready to do anything whenever the urge to gamble got him . So he eventually got into debt lots of times and even had to sell his car and house to pay off . His wife divorced him for the numerous money problems he got himself into and he ended up killing himself .. Such tragic ends can happen to lots of people due to stupid choices and people must learn from such stories , gambling is a devastating activity and people should get away from it as soon as they feel that they're falling into addiction's trap .

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Quote from: Phalo on November 18, 2017, 07:52:47 AM

Quote from: Meistro on November 06, 2017, 02:51:24 PM

Getting into a relationship is the ultimate gamble.

Tongue and cheek.. I like it.
To answer the PO, I don't know of any couple that gambles together. That being said, whenever I go to the casino. I see a lot of couples that gamble together. So me not know any, doesn't mean there aren't any. I do think though women are a lot more cautious with money than men. So yes there are more male gamblers than women.

LOL. In my case dude, my wife doesn't have control of her gambling. Sometimes I'm happy to win some and want to get home already. But my wife, I don't know, it looks like she is competing with me in terms of money won because I always told her that gambling in not for her because she always losses. And it looks like he takes it personally that's why sometimes when I'm done and have money won in my pockets, she still insists on playing. But we are happy though, you win some and you lose some.

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