Topic: Gambling and Relationships! - page 24. (Read 3299 times)
i personally not feel bothered if there are some people who being gamblers couples even will be very exciting if those couples visiting together to the casinos and playing at the same games and in my view as long as they don't ruin their life by being an addicted in gambling that would be fine
I know couples that gambling together, or they are always present when there gambling games is around. I don't find it attractive but I don't also look at it as not good, unless they quarrel after they lose their money in gambling. Oh well, I would not judge or say anything bad about these people since I do not know what is really running in their minds. They have their set of standards and so do I, I just learned to respect what they have as long as they are no interfering with mine.
If gambling habit of another person is not causing any problem to you or your pocket than a relationship with a gambler or addicted gambler might just go as smooth as other normal relationships.
However I think it will be quite troublesome for you when he/she will stat to ask for some loan to bet on casino and win back what he/she have lost before.
However I think it will be quite troublesome for you when he/she will stat to ask for some loan to bet on casino and win back what he/she have lost before.
The money will break any strong relationship. And I never saw any couple those who got engaged in gambling place. I think this kind of relationship will not live many days.
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
In my opinion, I don't think that it is a good thing if both partners are gamblers. Because in gambling, it is not always a win-win situation. There are times that you lose, and you tend to lose big time, then if both of you lose, what will now happen to your life? You might just end up separating. So, it is still better if only one gambles, but not too much, and the other partner controls the other one.
Yeah it's true. I have a friend that he and his wife are really addicted in gambling and when they both lose they just quarrel and put the blame in each other and sometimes my friend cheated on his wife like he spend their savings in casino in just one night. And their children was really affected by their non stop fights and their future is also at stake. To make the story short, they decided to separate but then my friend realized that addiction in gambling will be no good for him and what really matters is his family.
Sometimes addiction, if not properly handled you'll just loss control with your life and ruined it. Just treat gambling as for fun but better if you can quit and just focus your time to the ones that you know what's more important.
It can become a really huge problem if both people in the relationship are addicts, whether it's drugs or gambling, it really complicates the situation.
If one person decides to try and quit, the other person must also be on board with that, or they would just keep enabling each other to gamble.
I hope everything worked out for your friend in the end, getting rid of any addiction is really difficult.
My girlfriend (of nearly 10 years) & I both gamble & it doesn’t affect us negatively in any way. We both gamble on football (soccer). She likes horse racing too.
Well i use to have a girl friend that involve into gambling too.thats why that time we enjoy playing some card games and roulette,whenever were in the table both happiness is what we feels.but i hate when she played without me,coz for me gambling is for men,not for women i only letting her play when were together for the sake of happiness not for ewrning although Ofcourse when we gamble we expect to win..but its ok. If we loss
better to start thinking of the real life instead of finding happiness inside gambling mate, as it will also worsen your life together with your partnerwhat if he played without you and since she's a girl alone inside casino i guess she's looking hot and gambling can make anyone else forgetting to
think clearly when they are losing. be very careful with that buds.
I agree, gambling should never be the center of anybody's world or their relationship. This is nothing health in any sense. Gambling should be just something you enjoy to play with your friends and loved ones and not something you are doing because it keeps you both together. It's a very weak bond that would likely break you once money turns to losses in an instant.
Gambling must be separated from a serious relationships like your parents, and your partner in life which is your wife. Some people lose their family relationships, friends and other part of their lives due to gambling addictions or worst gambling habits. Having this kind of problems will not be solved if ever you do it into maximum tolerance, so we must choose whose better; the relationship or gambling that ruins your personality as a person.
Well i use to have a girl friend that involve into gambling too.thats why that time we enjoy playing some card games and roulette,whenever were in the table both happiness is what we feels.but i hate when she played without me,coz for me gambling is for men,not for women i only letting her play when were together for the sake of happiness not for ewrning although Ofcourse when we gamble we expect to win..but its ok. If we loss
better to start thinking of the real life instead of finding happiness inside gambling mate, as it will also worsen your life together with your partnerwhat if he played without you and since she's a girl alone inside casino i guess she's looking hot and gambling can make anyone else forgetting to
think clearly when they are losing. be very careful with that buds.
I agree, gambling should never be the center of anybody's world or their relationship. This is nothing health in any sense. Gambling should be just something you enjoy to play with your friends and loved ones and not something you are doing because it keeps you both together. It's a very weak bond that would likely break you once money turns to losses in an instant.
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
My mother and father is both a gambler and its look like good for them to understand each other. But if they get loss they fight each other because they dont know where to get money again. They use gambling to solve their financial problem.
Then sure you are also gambler, because of you have very strong relationship in your home with gambling. In my point of view, it is normal if we are gambler and we have relation with different kind of human being, because we have brother and sister and cousins and mostly our males in our family are gamblers and also in my family mostly males are gamblers. My brother he is addicted gambler and my friends they are very skillful gamblers and also i am gambler.
Well i use to have a girl friend that involve into gambling too.thats why that time we enjoy playing some card games and roulette,whenever were in the table both happiness is what we feels.but i hate when she played without me,coz for me gambling is for men,not for women i only letting her play when were together for the sake of happiness not for ewrning although Ofcourse when we gamble we expect to win..but its ok. If we loss
better to start thinking of the real life instead of finding happiness inside gambling mate, as it will also worsen your life together with your partnerwhat if he played without you and since she's a girl alone inside casino i guess she's looking hot and gambling can make anyone else forgetting to
think clearly when they are losing. be very careful with that buds.
if you a loser all time you must to leave a.s.a.p. and are you using the money for the family and lose yes you are very bad time and Relationships will be bad for you all family but if you work and take some your money to play game gamble and all family is good lifes if you lose or win doesnt matter .
spare money would be okay so just in case you are losing then you can just forget about it and stay focus with what you are doing especially your good relationship with your family but if you are already addicted then relationship will start to fall and worse you will break it out. 
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
I as a man certainly have the perception that when my partner and I make gambling as an income then it is a very bad thing. Honest gambling is a game that only wastes time and produces nothing. I am very supportive when my partner to not play gambling, although currently I play gambling but my heart still assume that when someone does not play gambling then it will be much better. it's like a regret but I can hardly stop playing gambling when I've been addicted, what I want right now is that I can live happily with my family without any stories about gambling in our lives, hopefully I can stop gradually and I'm happy to forever . What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
My mother and father is both a gambler and its look like good for them to understand each other. But if they get loss they fight each other because they dont know where to get money again. They use gambling to solve their financial problem.
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
My partner and i sometimes bond in casino but thats very rare, if we are not busy and in the mood, we are playing card games with neighbors and as an opponent we dont mind each other.
Its not healthy to see this kind of situation in family but it depends on how you deal with this. Im not fine with this either so as much as possible we prevent physical gambling specially now that our kids started to be curious on what we are up to.
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
My second relationship was at this casino where this girl was sitting next to me, she was gambling mad and loosing and winning and seeing her even I was playing a big bets, in the end she ended up finishing her money, and seeing her sad made me sad so I said play on my behalf and it was that stroke of luck we won a lot that night, and then chats to gambling together it was super fun, we had the thrill of gambling no shame no limits, fully confident in each other, gambling never been the same since she left, but ya having a partner that loves gambling is awesome.
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
It is fun, I bet, because if you are with someone you love and doing the things that could make both of you happy, then that is pretty amazing I think. It is comforting because even if you lose, you know that there would be someone beside you that will understand you and comfort you when you are down, and getting annoyed because you always lose, something like that.
if you a loser all time you must to leave a.s.a.p. and are you using the money for the family and lose yes you are very bad time and Relationships will be bad for you all family but if you work and take some your money to play game gamble and all family is good lifes if you lose or win doesnt matter .
Gambling addiction can have a serious bad impact on relationships especially with your family. And addicted gambler spend lots of money and once he start running out of his money, he starts asking for loans. Debts are the main reason for problems between the gambler and his family and especially with his wife.
I personally know someone who lived this experience. He got divorced and his life turned to hell due to his huge debts. He managed to solve the money problem but he never got his wife back. That's why gambling addiction is dangerous. It tears families apart and destroy the victim's pride and credibility .
I personally know someone who lived this experience. He got divorced and his life turned to hell due to his huge debts. He managed to solve the money problem but he never got his wife back. That's why gambling addiction is dangerous. It tears families apart and destroy the victim's pride and credibility .
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Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc... Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
actually i have a friend which a gambler and he always playing gambling online, i am playing gambling too but i am not too often to played like him. i think its not strange or weird to have a friend while he is like to playing gambling and i think if we can give advice to him to not playing gambling then i think we can help him to spend big money in gambling. i always tells to him that playing gambling in every day is not good for him and will makes him to be addictin person and he can lose much of money.
Well i use to have a girl friend that involve into gambling too.thats why that time we enjoy playing some card games and roulette,whenever were in the table both happiness is what we feels.but i hate when she played without me,coz for me gambling is for men,not for women i only letting her play when were together for the sake of happiness not for ewrning although Ofcourse when we gamble we expect to win..but its ok. If we loss
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