There is a reason why casinos are brightly lit and has fast paced music. The overall idea of gambling should be energetic and exhilarating. Well, in my country, you might find gambling in a less thrilling environment such as a funeral.
Yes, it is very common in my country that whenever there is a funeral there will be people playing cards and gambling against each other.
I don’t know if this is common in other countries but I never really thought twice of the fact that gambling, which is usually associated with time for pleasure, can be found in a place that is so grievous.
I researched just now and found that some gamblers do in fact use gambling as a form of escape from their real life. Which is why you might find a lot of people just recently went through a divorce or death of a loved one gambling. I guess this is why there are always people gambling in funerals. Obviously over time I think it just became more of a tradition rather than an actual act of escape from mourning.
Personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to use gambling as a coping mechanism especially that your emotions will be the one driving your decisions and that almost never end well. It’s fine sometimes but I find that dealing with your emotions especially negative ones can be much helpful than turning into potentially harmful vices.
But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?
For many people it can start as those things - fun and enjoyment, but over time if they become addicted, it can transform into something akin to a job. It becomes a chore, something that they're not quite sure why they're doing anymore, but they've formed this habit over a long time and don't know what to do without it any more. If you ever reach that point, you have to figure out how to free yourself and often the only way you can do that is by completely giving up the thing you love. There are some people that simply cannot make that break in their mind, so they will carry the burden of the habit they built with them for a very long time. It's somewhat similar to why people drink and smoke, although there are elements of chemical addiction thrown into those things too.