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November 08, 2024, 04:53:40 PM
#85
We all associate gambling with fun, excitement, and enjoyment

There is a reason why casinos are brightly lit and has fast paced music. The overall idea of gambling should be energetic and exhilarating. Well, in my country, you might find gambling in a less thrilling environment such as a funeral.

Yes, it is very common in my country that whenever there is a funeral there will be people playing cards and gambling against each other.

I don’t know if this is common in other countries but I never really thought twice of the fact that gambling, which is usually associated with time for pleasure, can be found in a place that is so grievous.

I researched just now and found that some gamblers do in fact use gambling as a form of escape from their real life. Which is why you might find a lot of people just recently went through a divorce or death of a loved one gambling. I guess this is why there are always people gambling in funerals. Obviously over time I think it just became more of a tradition rather than an actual act of escape from mourning.

Personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to use gambling as a coping mechanism especially that your emotions will be the one driving your decisions and that almost never end well. It’s fine sometimes but I find that dealing with your emotions especially negative ones can be much helpful than turning into potentially harmful vices.

But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?
It is the first time I am hearing that people gamble during funeral. Do they bet who will be buried next? Lol, jokes aside, it does seem weird to me that people in your country starts gambling in funeral. Or was this just an excuse to gamble, and then eventually turned into a culture?

For people that choose gambling as a way to escape reality, I wonder why would they choose this forming of entertainment where they will have to spend a lot of money and be in constant stress? Anyway, I would say it is a very bad idea since gambling while grieving wont help you make informed decisions resulting in severe financial losses.
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November 08, 2024, 04:47:25 PM
#84
Personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to use gambling as a coping mechanism especially that your emotions will be the one driving your decisions and that almost never end well. It’s fine sometimes but I find that dealing with your emotions especially negative ones can be much helpful than turning into potentially harmful vices.

But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?

I really wish there is real intention of people gambling with to have fun, there could be but if you do the math's right, the number of people that are gambling to make money is far far more than the other people that are gambling for various reasons. Personaly, if you are stress you shouldn't be gambling because of the emotional attachment that you will have, it's better to engage in other things than gamble to make it even worse.

Many people that are gambling today, if they get another opportunity to make money, the people left in gambling ecosystem will be few because most of them wouldn't gamble again. A lot of people are gambling because they are looking for alternative to make money and that's why the casino is making thousands and millions of profits everyday without struggling. There is no way you will gamble when you are in need of money without been emotional.
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November 08, 2024, 04:35:59 PM
#83
If you are going through a tough phase in life, i don't think gambling is the right thing to give you comfort, if you find comfort in gambling, that is even a bad thing, because you may end up an addict. If you are going through something in life, try to talk to those who love you, or you seek the professional help of a therapist, gambling should not be an option.
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November 08, 2024, 04:34:53 PM
#82
Well, in my country, you might find gambling in a less thrilling environment such as a funeral.

Yes, it is very common in my country that whenever there is a funeral there will be people playing cards and gambling against each other.

I don’t know if this is common in other countries but I never really thought twice of the fact that gambling, which is usually associated with time for pleasure, can be found in a place that is so grievous.

I researched just now and found that some gamblers do in fact use gambling as a form of escape from their real life. Which is why you might find a lot of people just recently went through a divorce or death of a loved one gambling. I guess this is why there are always people gambling in funerals. Obviously over time I think it just became more of a tradition rather than an actual act of escape from mourning.

Gambling at funerals?, to be honest, this is wild. And the amusing thing is that most of the replies above can attest to this, which even makes it more crazier. What's this world really turning into if gamblers can't pay their last respect without avoiding gambling in one day or two. Just like someone said above, it is better to face real world problems, rather than using gambling as frequent short term solution.

What is your country? Maybe there are some specific "politic" situation that can influence this perspection?!

I strongly believe that, that's the case from what the OP has said so far.

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There are different approaches in real life gambling. Both from casinos owner than from players.
I don't think this is something "national" based but is something related to the environment or the marketing itself.
If you enter in some periferic bingo rooms where people could even smoke inside, you know very well that there is a different atmosphere of a glamour casino!

It seems gamblers have their own definition of gambling and the quality of places that suits them. Not everyone have tried some of these good casinos, so telling the experience might be difficult.
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November 08, 2024, 04:01:15 PM
#81

But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?

It will be very problematic for anyone to use gambling as an escape from stress or some real-life challenges because when you gamble and don't win, that stress you wanted to ease will become more tensed than it should have been, so the only way it can ease stress is when you are winning but since we know that gambling is a game of probability, we should never seek to use gambling to ease depression or stress or even think about gambling when we are in a bad state of mind as it can lead to the situation getting worse.
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November 08, 2024, 03:40:09 PM
#80
No, because the situation is more dangerous when we play while stressed, it is difficult to control our emotions when we are in a problematic situation or stressed when placing bets, it is better to use free time to gamble rather than just as an outlet
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November 08, 2024, 03:29:20 PM
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We all associate gambling with fun, excitement, and enjoyment

There is a reason why casinos are brightly lit and has fast paced music. The overall idea of gambling should be energetic and exhilarating. Well, in my country, you might find gambling in a less thrilling environment such as a funeral.

Yes, it is very common in my country that whenever there is a funeral there will be people playing cards and gambling against each other.

I don’t know if this is common in other countries but I never really thought twice of the fact that gambling, which is usually associated with time for pleasure, can be found in a place that is so grievous.

I researched just now and found that some gamblers do in fact use gambling as a form of escape from their real life. Which is why you might find a lot of people just recently went through a divorce or death of a loved one gambling. I guess this is why there are always people gambling in funerals. Obviously over time I think it just became more of a tradition rather than an actual act of escape from mourning.

Personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to use gambling as a coping mechanism especially that your emotions will be the one driving your decisions and that almost never end well. It’s fine sometimes but I find that dealing with your emotions especially negative ones can be much helpful than turning into potentially harmful vices.

But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?

For many people it can start as those things - fun and enjoyment, but over time if they become addicted, it can transform into something akin to a job. It becomes a chore, something that they're not quite sure why they're doing anymore, but they've formed this habit over a long time and don't know what to do without it any more. If you ever reach that point, you have to figure out how to free yourself and often the only way you can do that is by completely giving up the thing you love. There are some people that simply cannot make that break in their mind, so they will carry the burden of the habit they built with them for a very long time. It's somewhat similar to why people drink and smoke, although there are elements of chemical addiction thrown into those things too.
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November 08, 2024, 03:23:09 PM
#78
This reminds of the story of a soldier who was looking for ways to distract his mind from the horrors and traumas he faced on the battle field, he was introduced to casino gambling and he started using this as a way to ease stress and forget about reality, he got addicted in the process and couldn't go without gambling even for a day,this became a challenging issue because he couldn't take care of his family as much as he wanted to because of his habits. After being noticed by his superiors he was placed in a rehabilitation zone for a while. Gambling shouldn't be used as a coping mechanism.
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November 08, 2024, 03:21:28 PM
#77

But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?
Using gambling to escape the stress of the day is really an extremes sport because you are going to need some level of the discipline to still not get another level of stress of the usage of that to ease the other stress with which you came to the casino to relieve yourself of. Gambling as a means of relaxation should be something that we should do with care and not to put in so much energy so we don't get to the point we loose so much that it becomes a main problem to us.
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November 08, 2024, 03:16:42 PM
#76
Yes, it is very common in my country that whenever there is a funeral there will be people playing cards and gambling against each other.

In my community if some died and he was doing one particular thing when he was alive, they would play that game for the funeral. If he was a community footballer, in the day of the burial we will take the casket or the coffin to the field and play a match for 15 minutes before they will finally bury the corps. This is also the same thing to other games as well.

So we don't see those activities or games as gambling but games for fun and remembrance of the person life style. Though there are time people use money to play those games like draft game and whoever wins take all. But even at that it is still foe fun and not to real gambling purpose. And such event, every area or regions have their culture and custom to do things.
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November 08, 2024, 03:13:57 PM
#75
Personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to use gambling as a coping mechanism especially that your emotions will be the one driving your decisions and that almost never end well. It’s fine sometimes but I find that dealing with your emotions especially negative ones can be much helpful than turning into potentially harmful vices.

As long as the person is in control, I do not think it is a bad thing.  But yeah, once the person loses his sanity over his gambling activity, then it is a more serious problem than the issue that person is escaping from.

But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?

Gambling is known as an entertainment, to ease out stress and pressure, like other entertainment industries, it is also used to escape from all the stress and pressure in the real world and by that definition then I can say yes I use gambling to have some entertainment, to escape from stress and give myself some relaxing time.  I do not think that it is a bad thing  unless become uncontrolled.

In funeral, I think it is used as means of gathering funds to help the bereaved or keeping those who went to wake to pay respect to the dead occupied. 


Sorry to ask that but where the f*ck is such a f*cked up country in the world ? Aren't you ashamed of doing such idiotic things like gambling in a funeral, in fact funerals do not last long enough to play a real good cards game as there is the priest or the rabi or the mullah or whatever these people are called that held the rituals in such a fast way that it looks that even people who have chosen to represent God are scared by death, of course who is isn't.

This thing happens in the Philippines, it is a way of collecting funds to help the bereaved cope with the expenses since it is often seen happening on a poor community.  The system is whoever won in the round give a "tong" or house fee which is then given to the bereaved family.
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November 08, 2024, 03:11:19 PM
#74
The custom in my area is also like that, if someone dies but already has grandchildren, then people will not be sad anymore for him, but instead they will drink and have fun like playing cards or dominoes to entertain the bereaved family. Because we realize that people who already have grandchildren can be said to be perfect in their lives, and people should not cry for them, instead people should be happy at their funeral. Indeed, for some people this is quite strange, but that's why sometimes gambling can be a consolation for those who are stressed.
Gambling have brought so many good numbers to the heightened point of profits and have also drained most of them. Life is important, and it would stable to be priority for survival. Gambling happens to be one of the grievous activities for people, not been able to look life in the eye and running from the main problems of life. There are quite good numbers when we're talking about the population of those that anticipate in gambling. Many traditions circulating round the world and we all have our opinions towards them.
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November 08, 2024, 02:37:13 PM
#73
We all associate gambling with fun, excitement, and enjoyment

There is a reason why casinos are brightly lit and has fast paced music. The overall idea of gambling should be energetic and exhilarating. Well, in my country, you might find gambling in a less thrilling environment such as a funeral.

Yes, it is very common in my country that whenever there is a funeral there will be people playing cards and gambling against each other.

I don’t know if this is common in other countries but I never really thought twice of the fact that gambling, which is usually associated with time for pleasure, can be found in a place that is so grievous.

I researched just now and found that some gamblers do in fact use gambling as a form of escape from their real life. Which is why you might find a lot of people just recently went through a divorce or death of a loved one gambling. I guess this is why there are always people gambling in funerals. Obviously over time I think it just became more of a tradition rather than an actual act of escape from mourning.

Personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to use gambling as a coping mechanism especially that your emotions will be the one driving your decisions and that almost never end well. It’s fine sometimes but I find that dealing with your emotions especially negative ones can be much helpful than turning into potentially harmful vices.

But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?

Sorry to ask that but where the f*ck is such a f*cked up country in the world ? Aren't you ashamed of doing such idiotic things like gambling in a funeral, in fact funerals do not last long enough to play a real good cards game as there is the priest or the rabi or the mullah or whatever these people are called that held the rituals in such a fast way that it looks that even people who have chosen to represent God are scared by death, of course who is isn't.

I think this is stupid, what they do here in the Western Balkan is they go with prostitutes after a funeral, I don't know now if this is even more f*cked up than playing cards at a funeral but of course I don't believe there is anything more idiotic in the world than playing cards at a funeral.
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November 08, 2024, 02:31:12 PM
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I don't know where your country is, but regarding gambling at funerals I'm pretty sure, especially in Asia and my country, this is a common thing and not a strange phenomenon. At least, in my city. BTW, what I mean here is traditional gambling between a group of people only. The name of gambling, in every country certainly has things that are weird. I mean, different from other places and other countries. Things like this are common, no matter what form and situation, they are all for the sake of fulfilling personal interests. It can be in the form of an escape like the title of this thread, or as we often say, fun, joy and enjoyment.

But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?

Well, I'm not sure I can answer with certainty. I mean, we can gamble in any condition. It can be just for fun, or just to spend free time. It can also be due to stress from work, then trying to find instant entertainment. There are many reasons that we can use, but it depends on the situation and our mood. But it would be very unwise if someone gambles just to escape from the real world. Because after all, whatever type of escape cannot be solved by gambling, at least in my personal opinion.
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November 08, 2024, 01:19:42 PM
#71

I don’t know if this is common in other countries but I never really thought twice of the fact that gambling, which is usually associated with time for pleasure, can be found in a place that is so grievous.

Honestly this is so hilarious because I'm just wondering how your mourning the dead and people are merrying even to the point of gambling it's so unusual I must say, tho have not witnessed such and in my country, possibly it's part of your countries culture during funeral. But then using gambling as escape route for such agony and grieve it's not advisable cause you'll tend to go beyond your expectations and end up in huge debts or losses.
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November 08, 2024, 12:49:56 PM
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I researched just now and found that some gamblers do in fact use gambling as a form of escape from their real life. Which is why you might find a lot of people just recently went through a divorce or death of a loved one gambling. I guess this is why there are always people gambling in funerals. Obviously over time I think it just became more of a tradition rather than an actual act of escape from mourning.
People always find a reason to gamble, and each time you are either too free, you look for something that can help keep you busy, or when ever you are too hurt over something, you look for something that can distract your mind from those moments, which most people either consider alcoholism or gambling, but whichever the person wants to use as an excuse, it won't solve anything; it might help the very moment, but once's you are done with the game, what do you think will come next? 
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November 08, 2024, 12:25:24 PM
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Yes, I play gambling just to escape, when I am stressed with my daily routine, when the burden of life is too heavy and I try to find pleasure by lying down, playing until I am sleepy and fall asleep, here I get pleasure that can cover the burden of my life, especially when I win when I am stressed.

You must really enjoy gambling if you can actually fall asleep while gambling! As for me, I avoid gambling at night because if I lose big, I can’t sleep even if I’ve run out of money to gamble. And when I win, I still can’t sleep right away because I’m too excited.
One need to be at alert when gambling because any mistake can make you lose money. Sleeping with your device can can create some problems. The idea of gambling until I feel asleep is not an option for me. Gambling at night has some benefit like increased concentration but it could lead to sleeplessness especially if your lose big.
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November 08, 2024, 12:24:50 PM
#68
We all associate gambling with fun, excitement, and enjoyment
Generally many gamblers associate that and actually it is only to cover addiction. But if you look further, we are actually involved in gambling because you enjoy the bet we install regardless of winning or losing.

There is a reason why casinos are brightly lit and has fast paced music. The overall idea of gambling should be energetic and exhilarating. Well, in my country, you might find gambling in a less thrilling environment such as a funeral.
It was very scary and I also saw some young people playing slots in the Chinese funeral. The story might be strange because they said they would get a jackpot playing at the Chinese cemetery even though it didn't make sense.

Yes, it is very common in my country that whenever there is a funeral there will be people playing cards and gambling against each other.  
In my place people will gambling traditionally by playing cards and placing bets at a party of married people and that generally happens today. In the past, I often pay attention and even I learned to play cards in that place so that it makes playing more often online for now.
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November 08, 2024, 12:08:19 PM
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But What about you? Do you also use gambling to escape from stress of the real world?
I must be sincere with you, this is the first time that I have heard that gamblers do gamble in funeral places in order to console themselves from feeling the pains and hide their sorrows from what is happening at that moment. It's good that we don't use gamble to console ourselves when faced with difficulties and challenges, because in reality the problem will not be solved, and it can make you become an addict unknown to you. It is very dangerous to see gambling as an alternative to solve real life challenges when we are hit with them, because you are only creating more problem for yourself.
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November 08, 2024, 12:04:57 PM
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Such a tradition as far as I know has never happened in my country especially in the environment where I live, gambling in the midst of people who are feeling sad because one of their family members has died is an act that is not commendable, like not respecting the silence in sadness and that's the reason. According to my common sense not all places and situations are appropriate to be used as a place to gamble regardless of whether your religion prohibits or allows gambling activities, but the point is I think we can all justify the idea that gambling when you are in a place that is being enveloped in sadness is an act that should not be done.

On the other hand, sometimes I use gambling as a place to escape from the stress I experience, but that is very rare and it does not mean that I gamble to win, and usually I more often use my family as a place to escape, such as going on vacation with my small family to a place that can relieve stress in the mind.
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