Gambling for fun, is it a lie that we tell ourselves? - page 12.

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Quote from: Kelward on December 27, 2023, 07:01:11 AM

I know for sure that if we take periodic account of how many times that we gamble, maybe weekly, monthly or yearly, we'll find out that the loses are far greater than the winnings, so I sometimes wonder how we can be indulging in something that we lose far more than we gain, in the name of having fun. I know that it's human nature to want to conquer, defeat, control and be the leader, yet we go into gambling knowing that the system doesn't give us a fair advantage of achieving these aims, yet we're happy to go back and likely be defeated again.

Perhaps deep down in our conscience, somewhere that we don't like to listen to, it still tells us the truth that the reason why we're going to gamble is to hopefully win money, not really to have fun.

I know that it's said that you should gamble the amount that you can afford to loose, but will you call it a true fun when you know that there's a higher probability of losing your bet?

I'm sure that if you take into account how many times you're mentally stressed, experiencing burnouts from work, having congested mind and looking for how to decongest it and so on, you'll find out that gambling moderately helps you reset your mind from things that clouds it and get ready to either take up more activities or rest peacefully. The reason you gamble is a personal thing, myself gamble to relax my mind and have fun, maybe its not your reason, it still validates the fact that we are different people. Most times I come back from work with a very big headache from over-concentration, and being a bachelor, there's no other thing to do to decongest my mind and I just gamble moderately to shift my mind from the complexities of work and give me peace of mind, so I can rest properly and prepare for the next day. The thing is that most times people are more attached to the negatives of something that it blinds them from visualizing how much that must have helped them live a balanced life. I know I loose a lot from gambling, but compared to the good it does for me when I'm stressed up, I think I'm on the winning side. Peace of mind is so underrated these days and whatever helps me achieve that, is never a loss to me.

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Quote from: Kelward on December 27, 2023, 07:01:11 AM

I know for sure that if we take periodic account of how many times that we gamble, maybe weekly, monthly or yearly, we'll find out that the loses are far greater than the winnings, so I sometimes wonder how we can be indulging in something that we lose far more than we gain, in the name of having fun. I know that it's human nature to want to conquer, defeat, control and be the leader, yet we go into gambling knowing that the system doesn't give us a fair advantage of achieving these aims, yet we're happy to go back and likely be defeated again.

Perhaps deep down in our conscience, somewhere that we don't like to listen to, it still tells us the truth that the reason why we're going to gamble is to hopefully win money, not really to have fun.

I know that it's said that you should gamble the amount that you can afford to loose, but will you call it a true fun when you know that there's a higher probability of losing your bet?

People already know that spending a lot of time in casinos and gambling wouldn't do any good, but why some people would still go back? We could say that some people would prefer to have fun and some are aiming to get profits. Let's say for example two people going to an amusement park with different goals, one wants to have fun by trying different kinds of experiences and the other one is just going to work and earn money, of course if its that's the case, working is like tiring and draining, so if you are just aiming to earn money in gambling, then it wouldn't do any good since gambling still based on luck even if you put an effort on having techniques and strategies. Maybe the old gamblers and the newbies have a different mindset at the start, if you are already used to the mechanics for sure you would only focus on winning rather than having fun, and newbies find it exciting as they experience new things.

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But is it truly fun knowing you're playing a rigged game? Can genuine enjoyment exist when the specter of financial ruin looms large? That's the crux of the conundrum, partner. The thrill of the gamble, the electric anticipation of a potential win, can be undeniably intoxicating. But true entertainment requires a sense of balance, a knowledge that even if the odds aren't in your favor, the experience itself holds some intrinsic value.

That's where the "affordable loss" argument falls short. Sure, you can limit your wagers, minimize the potential damage. But can you truly savor the experience when every bet carries the weight of potential regret, the bitter aftertaste of knowing you've defied logic and embraced a losing proposition?

Perhaps the real "fun" in gambling lies not in the pursuit of riches, but in the experience itself – the shared laughs with friends, the camaraderie around the table, the temporary escape from the mundane. If the focus shifts from chasing wins to relishing the social, the ritualistic, the purely experiential aspects of the game, then maybe, just maybe, a healthier sense of enjoyment can emerge.

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I know that fact that our chances of losing are way higher than winning but I cannot still seem to stop playing because I really enjoy the roller coaster ride in emotion that is being given by gambling. And I think that's most of the gamblers' reason why they cannot stop gambling too. I mean, where can we find that kind of adrenaline that is being given by gambling? I doubt there are other choices.
The truth about people putting money on the line is the main reason why one thing or event gets more exciting. It boosts the entertainment factor of a game whether it's a sport or a casino game. It doesn't matter, as long as we know that it is our money, hard-earned money that will be risked.
Today, I have been playing for 4 hours of Keno and changing numbers that I pick most of the time and I can say I am having fun doing that especially when I hit a multiwin. I am trying to win against the house and I think that's also one of the reasons why we continue gambling. It's not easy to defeat them but getting a multiwin gives the idea that we can.

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Quote from: Kelward on December 27, 2023, 07:01:11 AM

I know for sure that if we take periodic account of how many times that we gamble, maybe weekly, monthly or yearly, we'll find out that the loses are far greater than the winnings, so I sometimes wonder how we can be indulging in something that we lose far more than we gain, in the name of having fun.

If you treat playing as a form of leisure and not gambling a serious amount of money or anything beyond your limit then it could still be fun regardless of the accumulated net losses over the week or month. You don't really count the amount you spend on movies or night outs and say "I'm losing" do you?

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Quote from: Kelward on December 27, 2023, 07:01:11 AM

I know for sure that if we take periodic account of how many times that we gamble, maybe weekly, monthly or yearly, we'll find out that the loses are far greater than the winnings, so I sometimes wonder how we can be indulging in something that we lose far more than we gain, in the name of having fun. I know that it's human nature to want to conquer, defeat, control and be the leader, yet we go into gambling knowing that the system doesn't give us a fair advantage of achieving these aims, yet we're happy to go back and likely be defeated again.

Perhaps deep down in our conscience, somewhere that we don't like to listen to, it still tells us the truth that the reason why we're going to gamble is to hopefully win money, not really to have fun.

I know that it's said that you should gamble the amount that you can afford to loose, but will you call it a true fun when you know that there's a higher probability of losing your bet?

When people pay money to go and watch a movie in the cinema, they are simply going to have some fun. The same amount can still be spent on gambling just because of fun. But I prefer gambling to paying just to watch movies. In gambling one might be lucky to win but in other forms of entertainment, you are just entertained with no benefits. I don't think it is proper to assume that people are lying when they say they are gambling for fun. As a gambler, I always expect profit from my stakes but if that is not the case, I still derive satisfaction because I am entertained. Any gambler who is attracted to gambling solely to make a profit might end up suffering from gambling disorder.

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Quote from: Kelward on December 27, 2023, 07:01:11 AM

Perhaps deep down in our conscience, somewhere that we don't like to listen to, it still tells us the truth that the reason why we're going to gamble is to hopefully win money, not really to have fun.

When I was addicted, I was thinking I could make money from gamble. Later I knew my thinking was foolishness as I continued to lose more and more than winning. We should just take it or leave it, gambling should be just for fun.

Quote from: Kelward on December 27, 2023, 07:01:11 AM

I know that it's said that you should gamble the amount that you can afford to loose, but will you call it a true fun when you know that there's a higher probability of losing your bet?

It is just like I go to bear parlor to drink and have fun and I spend money. If I gamble and lose and I have the fun, it is better because I use the amount of money that I can afford to lose to gamble.

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It's only a lie if we aren't having fun when we are gambling.

You can think of other meaning, but if gambling is not for fun, what it is?
Maybe everyone have different interpretation on what they are doing when they gamble, but for me, it's all about fun and I don't intend to change even in the long run. I believe, even those who are gambling for money, or those who are making a living in gambling, they are still considering gmabling for fun as that's what they love to do, they are just lucky that they make money and have fun at the same time, since most of us doesn't experience that.

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I know for sure that if we take periodic account of how many times that we gamble, maybe weekly, monthly or yearly, we'll find out that the loses are far greater than the winnings, so I sometimes wonder how we can be indulging in something that we lose far more than we gain, in the name of having fun. I know that it's human nature to want to conquer, defeat, control and be the leader, yet we go into gambling knowing that the system doesn't give us a fair advantage of achieving these aims, yet we're happy to go back and likely be defeated again.

Perhaps deep down in our conscience, somewhere that we don't like to listen to, it still tells us the truth that the reason why we're going to gamble is to hopefully win money, not really to have fun.

I know that it's said that you should gamble the amount that you can afford to loose, but will you call it a true fun when you know that there's a higher probability of losing your bet?

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