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legendary
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June 16, 2013, 03:13:27 PM
#30
*she

I agree with everyone else that mine is a bad idea, but its always ways better than focusing your time on bitcoin only.
legendary
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June 16, 2013, 03:10:46 PM
#29
There was a thread similar to this awhile back and everyone advised against that guy staying friends with the girl too, they never listen though Tongue
legendary
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May Bitcoin be touched by his Noodly Appendage
June 16, 2013, 03:10:15 PM
#28
Yes, I was talking about trying with other girls in the future Wink
I personally think that you should try to be her friend, since that you have no experience with girls this could help you to be more confident with others in the future. This only if you think that you can handle it... In that case be clear with your intentions and I think that everything will work out.

But yes, forget her.

Bad advise. As long as he has feelings for this girl he should definitely not be her friend. Only do that if you seriously hate yourself Smiley

It depends. I think that if you are not too addicted to a girl you can try to be her friend. If you do that only to hope that something will change in the future yes, thats a good way of hating themselves.

I learned a lot on girls being "friend" of my ex for 6 months after he left me. It all ended with a goodbye in a hotel in Venice and I don't regret it.
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Disregard that, I find this dangerous when you never had anyone before



He made a topic about it on an internet forum: he's into her. He can have girls as his friends, I would really advise against this one.
+1
legendary
Activity: 2324
Merit: 1125
June 16, 2013, 03:09:42 PM
#27
Yes, I was talking about trying with other girls in the future Wink
I personally think that you should try to be her friend, since that you have no experience with girls this could help you to be more confident with others in the future. This only if you think that you can handle it... In that case be clear with your intentions and I think that everything will work out.

But yes, forget her.

Bad advise. As long as he has feelings for this girl he should definitely not be her friend. Only do that if you seriously hate yourself Smiley

It depends. I think that if you are not too addicted to a girl you can try to be her friend. If you do that only to hope that something will change in the future yes, thats a good way of hating themselves.

I learned a lot on girls being "friend" of my ex for 6 months after he left me. It all ended with a goodbye in a hotel in Venice and I don't regret it.

He made a topic about it on an internet forum: he's into her. He can have girls as his friends, I would really advise against this one.
legendary
Activity: 1176
Merit: 1001
June 16, 2013, 03:07:44 PM
#26
Yes, I was talking about trying with other girls in the future Wink
I personally think that you should try to be her friend, since that you have no experience with girls this could help you to be more confident with others in the future. This only if you think that you can handle it... In that case be clear with your intentions and I think that everything will work out.

But yes, forget her.

Bad advise. As long as he has feelings for this girl he should definitely not be her friend. Only do that if you seriously hate yourself Smiley

It depends. I think that if you are not too addicted to a girl you can try to be her friend. If you do that only to hope that something will change in the future yes, thats a good way of hating themselves.

I learned a lot on girls being "friend" of my ex for 6 months after he left me. It all ended with a goodbye in a hotel in Venice and I don't regret it.
legendary
Activity: 2324
Merit: 1125
June 16, 2013, 03:02:45 PM
#25
Yes, I was talking about trying with other girls in the future Wink
I personally think that you should try to be her friend, since that you have no experience with girls this could help you to be more confident with others in the future. This only if you think that you can handle it... In that case be clear with your intentions and I think that everything will work out.

But yes, forget her.

Bad advise. As long as he has feelings for this girl he should definitely not be her friend. Only do that if you seriously hate yourself Smiley
legendary
Activity: 1176
Merit: 1001
June 16, 2013, 03:01:25 PM
#24
Yes, I was talking about trying with other girls in the future Wink
I personally think that you should try to be her friend, since that you have no experience with girls this could help you to be more confident with others in the future. This only if you think that you can handle it... In that case be clear with your intentions and I think that everything will work out.

But yes, forget her.
legendary
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Merit: 1125
June 16, 2013, 02:53:19 PM
#23

The worst of this is, I'll be seeing her often, as the routes she takes kind of make it so and now it will be super awkward because of this.

My advise? (and this goes for many things in your life): Try to not give a fuck.
legendary
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Reverse engineer from time to time
June 16, 2013, 02:51:00 PM
#22
Well, I don't really have a choice do I. At least chatting with this girl before all of this, I gained some confidence and some mild experience from it.
legendary
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May Bitcoin be touched by his Noodly Appendage
June 16, 2013, 02:49:29 PM
#21
I think cedivad meant keep trying with other girls
legendary
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Reverse engineer from time to time
June 16, 2013, 02:47:57 PM
#20
Well, this girl was pretty clear that it can't work with us, and with the *tablet fail* I pretty much double-sealed the deal.
legendary
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June 16, 2013, 02:44:43 PM
#19
Well, the tablet one is a big fail.
Don't worry and keep trying, you will not do the same mistake in the future.
legendary
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June 16, 2013, 02:28:07 PM
#18
These days I've decided that it's not worth chasing any girl unless you're seriously into her and even then, probably best to not bother, I don't know about other cultures but I've noticed in western countries in particular men are practically manipulated into being the ones that have to chase girls as if it can't possibly be done the other way round, fuck that Cheesy I'd rather stay single, at least then I'll meet a girl that's actually into me.
legendary
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legendary
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June 16, 2013, 02:17:47 PM
#16
Best one I could get here...considering I've never had a girlfriend before.

Well, no girl anymore, so back to Bitcoin related activities.

Don't be her friend. If you're into her and she want to be friends avoid her like the plague.
legendary
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June 16, 2013, 02:15:43 PM
#15
Yes, we physically met.

Anyway, I kind of screwed up now, even after she "dumped" me. I told her that I intended on buying her this tablet some of her friends own, now she is pissed at me saying I was trying to buy her. I guess a small part of me was indeed, but I tried to explain her that it's not what i had meant by telling her this.
The worst of this is, I'll be seeing her often, as the routes she takes kind of make it so and now it will be super awkward because of this.

I don't think it's customary to buy tablet for a girl you don't know too well and are not in a long-term relationship with. If you still want this to work out it will probably take time and she will have to see some improvements in you... but don't bother with her, Bitcoin is much more fun Smiley
hero member
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June 16, 2013, 02:13:54 PM
#14
Yes, we physically met.

Anyway, I kind of screwed up now, even after she "dumped" me. I told her that I intended on buying her this tablet some of her friends own, now she is pissed at me saying I was trying to buy her. I guess a small part of me was indeed, but I tried to explain her that it's not what i had meant by telling her this.

Lol, oops this is a total write off.  Now go pursue some other girl and if she's in your circle of friends and sees you with somebody else, or sees you are happy and good tiemz without her,  guaranteed suddenly she will be interested. Then you get to tell her to fuck off when she asks you out. That was the kind of petty dating bullshit I did for years whenever I was friendzoned.

legendary
Activity: 1862
Merit: 1011
Reverse engineer from time to time
June 16, 2013, 02:02:41 PM
#13
This sounds like it was some kind of online dating thing. Did you actually meet this girl F2F? Or at least phone her?
The secret of getting any girl you want is IRL interaction. If you text, email, whatsap or some other feeble online attempt the girl won't think you have any balls and won't bother.

I just pick up girls at concerts/bars. I figure if she's in there to see Negative Approach or some other band I'm into she's probably interesting, so just walk right up and attempt charm. 4-5hrs later I'm back at her place, great success.


Yes, we physically met.

Anyway, I kind of screwed up now, even after she "dumped" me. I told her that I intended on buying her this tablet some of her friends own, now she is pissed at me saying I was trying to buy her. I guess a small part of me was indeed, but I tried to explain her that it's not what i had meant by telling her this.
The worst of this is, I'll be seeing her often, as the routes she takes kind of make it so and now it will be super awkward because of this.
hero member
Activity: 899
Merit: 1002
June 16, 2013, 01:54:31 PM
#12
This sounds like it was some kind of online dating thing. Did you actually meet this girl F2F? Or at least phone her?
The secret of getting any girl you want is IRL interaction. If you text, email, whatsap or some other feeble online attempt the girl won't think you have any balls and won't bother.

I just pick up girls at concerts/bars. I figure if she's in there to see Negative Approach or some other band I'm into she's probably interesting, so just walk right up and attempt charm. 4-5hrs later I'm back at her place, great success.

legendary
Activity: 1176
Merit: 1280
May Bitcoin be touched by his Noodly Appendage
June 16, 2013, 01:30:20 PM
#11
Well, no girl anymore, so back to Bitcoin related activities.


Well, I told her that we can't be friends, not like before I mean.
Just tell her to fuck off, when one has any respect for somebody she doesn't go from 'ok' to 'nope my friend' before any date
She isn't worth it as a friend
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