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August 22, 2017, 04:44:19 AM
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.

Lets stop this for fun issue and stuff. You cant possibly think that you could have fun in a gambling aite. Afterall you are only playing because you could get some money, otherwise you wont really have any fun at all. Sometimes it is hard to acknowledge this issue but atleast now you are aware of it
I have a little different opinion in this matter. First I also thought that all gamblers want money but then I realized this kind which does gambling for fun and it is their whole purpose.
They do not bet more than they can afford to lose and when they win, it obviously makes them happy. But if one is not able to put limits then he must give up.
It's never easy to quit something that has been a big part of your life, knowing that you are always onto it and making hours on it just to play. It's not going to be easy but I think it can be done, there should be support groups that are willing to listen to you and help you overcome the addiction. I agree with you that limits is a very important thing to master when gambling and especially, patience.
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August 22, 2017, 04:33:15 AM
It will be very difficult to give up or stop playing gambling when you are in a state of defeat, especially in large numbers. Well, I understand his feelings. It will be very difficult to lose a lot of money in one day, so maybe you will not give up to get it back.
If you do not give up to get it back, you'll just be stuck in a circle and never get out. If you keep doing that, your money will continue circling it. You get the money, you lose again, you get the money, you lose again. Keep turning unless you decide not to get it again.
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August 22, 2017, 04:13:39 AM
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.

Lets stop this for fun issue and stuff. You cant possibly think that you could have fun in a gambling aite. Afterall you are only playing because you could get some money, otherwise you wont really have any fun at all. Sometimes it is hard to acknowledge this issue but atleast now you are aware of it
I have a little different opinion in this matter. First I also thought that all gamblers want money but then I realized this kind which does gambling for fun and it is their whole purpose.
They do not bet more than they can afford to lose and when they win, it obviously makes them happy. But if one is not able to put limits then he must give up.

Giving up gambling is not really easy but still doable. Even trading experts and whales are also asking people to trade and invest what you can afford to lose.
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August 22, 2017, 04:00:36 AM
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.

Lets stop this for fun issue and stuff. You cant possibly think that you could have fun in a gambling aite. Afterall you are only playing because you could get some money, otherwise you wont really have any fun at all. Sometimes it is hard to acknowledge this issue but atleast now you are aware of it
I have a little different opinion in this matter. First I also thought that all gamblers want money but then I realized this kind which does gambling for fun and it is their whole purpose.
They do not bet more than they can afford to lose and when they win, it obviously makes them happy. But if one is not able to put limits then he must give up.
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August 21, 2017, 06:43:15 PM
It is not just gambling but everything of which someone is addicted, is not easy to give up. You are the person who can help you at first, you need to make yourself assure that what were you doing till now was wrong and is bad in all perspectives then seek external help. It needs strong will and clear vision driven by inner will and you can get rid of gambling addiction over the time.

Sometime it is not easy to change yourself. You also need some support to empower yourself to overcome all sort of difficulties. But of course, the first and most important is that you must take the first step and willing to put in effort to change, then the other support will be useful to help you to change.
Once a person has made his mind to accomplish something, he becomes unstoppable then. Gambling addicts face a lot of difficulties when it comes down to quitting. Even they are aware of their present situation and want to get out of it most of them still keep on gambling.

Specially if the person has got no other source of earning then gambling is the only way for them to make a living. It is sad but true that many people have not got qualifications to get a proper job with which they can earn money and thus they join a casino. For them getting addicted is natural and its not possible to stop them. Even if they do find a job later on its tough for them to get rid of old habits.
That's the thing about earning money, it shouldn't be as risky as gambling. It should be a sure thing whether you have made a business or working as an employee, it's still a better source of money. Just like you said, they can gamble all they want as long as they have money. Stopping addiction is really hard, no one could really help you with that but yourself.
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.
I think people who expect from gambling that they will earn handsome amount from gambling through which they could be settled are with excuse from all but fools. The casinos are not made to share their profits with anyone else. My personal advice to all those candidates who are in line with winning money from gambling is to start some practical work for earning money and let the gambling be an all-time fun.
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August 21, 2017, 06:42:07 PM
It is not just gambling but everything of which someone is addicted, is not easy to give up. You are the person who can help you at first, you need to make yourself assure that what were you doing till now was wrong and is bad in all perspectives then seek external help. It needs strong will and clear vision driven by inner will and you can get rid of gambling addiction over the time.

Sometime it is not easy to change yourself. You also need some support to empower yourself to overcome all sort of difficulties. But of course, the first and most important is that you must take the first step and willing to put in effort to change, then the other support will be useful to help you to change.
Once a person has made his mind to accomplish something, he becomes unstoppable then. Gambling addicts face a lot of difficulties when it comes down to quitting. Even they are aware of their present situation and want to get out of it most of them still keep on gambling.

Specially if the person has got no other source of earning then gambling is the only way for them to make a living. It is sad but true that many people have not got qualifications to get a proper job with which they can earn money and thus they join a casino. For them getting addicted is natural and its not possible to stop them. Even if they do find a job later on its tough for them to get rid of old habits.
That's the thing about earning money, it shouldn't be as risky as gambling. It should be a sure thing whether you have made a business or working as an employee, it's still a better source of money. Just like you said, they can gamble all they want as long as they have money. Stopping addiction is really hard, no one could really help you with that but yourself.
Thinking off on making gambling as a source of money is just really a bad decision because inspite to earn money you will eventually lose it for sure. Source of money doesnt exist on gambling it maybe for some time but if you are lucky enough and thats not permanent. Losing is always more than on winning this thing should be put in mind and quitting addiction is the hardest part as a gambler.
Yeah losing money is always more than winning in gambling but I don’t know the reason why still people choose to paly gambling while knowing it that it is of no good to them and that they are just wasting their resources and that too for nothing actually. It there are people who are gambling for the sake of fun and not on regular basis are the one who are successful.
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August 21, 2017, 01:00:38 PM
The main factor of people who can not get away from gambling is they still want to be able to restore their initial capital. Every stop they regret but not to stop gambling

The only reason if you play for profit but if you play for fun then that would be a different reason. I play for fun and my reason to keep playing is b3cause I want to have fun. I dont need to win but if I could keep on having fun then Im going to keep playing, atleast Im not addicted as I used to be
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August 21, 2017, 12:32:12 PM
Definitely, giving up gambling is not easy task for the Gambler. If anyone has a strong determination then it would be a useful for this purpose. Gambling is just an addiction as like drug. So without finding an alternative source of entertainment, it is difficult to keep away from gambling. So at first has to set a planning for quitting gambling.
Yes if you want to stop one addiction you must addict to any other addiction then only it is possible. To quit smoking people will addict to eat some local drugs, like that to stop gambling you need to find out other entertainment and money making method. Apart from gambling, we will not get this both things in one game. But we don't have any choice we need to find out.
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August 21, 2017, 11:51:32 AM
Definitely, giving up gambling is not easy task for the Gambler. If anyone has a strong determination then it would be a useful for this purpose. Gambling is just an addiction as like drug. So without finding an alternative source of entertainment it is difficult to keep away from gambling. So at first has to set a planning for quitting gambling.
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August 21, 2017, 10:00:40 AM
The main factor of people who can not get away from gambling is they still want to be able to restore their initial capital. Every stop they regret but not to stop gambling
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August 21, 2017, 09:40:58 AM
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.

Lets stop this for fun issue and stuff. You cant possibly think that you could have fun in a gambling aite. Afterall you are only playing because you could get some money, otherwise you wont really have any fun at all. Sometimes it is hard to acknowledge this issue but atleast now you are aware of it

True, most of the people who say gamble for fun are those who lose in the long run and say "At least I'm having fun". And from the beginning of gambling, it is not made for fun alone, but gambling is there for how to make money.

Of course, no will be happy after losing money in gambling. But there are some people they will ready to throw money to get fun. They don't care for money they only like entertainment. This kind of gamblers we call it fun gamblers. i also say i will play for fun why means i don't care if i lose money in gambling.
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August 21, 2017, 09:32:27 AM
its not true anyway, if you really want to change or to give up something you can do it instantly. But if you often said that things that gambling is not easy, well it will gonna be hard for you to give it up. Due to you don't want to Smiley

It is not as easy as you said because I am the one that experienced it, I have done alot of things just to make sure that I can stop but it is hard for me to stop. Some people have different case and we cant think of everything is the same. I am quite sure I am not alone and there are others like me as well
Nobody can quite gambling if they become an addict of gambling because we are watching these people who are doing gambling they always gambling if they won a penny in their job they go for gambling and play on that my uncle become a poor in that he is even earning 600 USD per month but he is gambler addicted not even penny left in his pocket just because of that.

You have mentioned which happened on the real time incident which lose the bitcoin you have hard earned. Please be aware gambling where you loose in higher numbers. Least you can do betting which with the site like betking or something.

It is true that for people who are addicted to gambling it is tough to get over it and for them it is almost impossible to stop themselves from gambling. The inherent urge to gamble drives them crazy and they tend to put in bigger and bigger amounts into the game hoping to realize some profits but that never happens. Only thing they get is loss and then they go broke.
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August 21, 2017, 09:14:03 AM
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.

Lets stop this for fun issue and stuff. You cant possibly think that you could have fun in a gambling aite. Afterall you are only playing because you could get some money, otherwise you wont really have any fun at all. Sometimes it is hard to acknowledge this issue but atleast now you are aware of it

True, most of the people who say gamble for fun are those who lose in the long run and say "At least I'm having fun". And from the beginning of gambling, it is not made for fun alone, but gambling is there for how to make money.
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August 21, 2017, 08:43:41 AM

It's given that it won't be easier to do so. The application of the suggestions needs to be taken seriously by those serious gamblers that wants to quit gambling.

Because if they aren't willing to do so, problem will just come out and they will just let themselves say that it's actually hard.

Leaving gambling completely is hard, the only thing t sustain it is to reduce the amount that you use for gambling, just like what I did. You cant stay away from it when you have already addicted to it, the only thing you can do is to limit what you will lose. When the limit is lower then you wont have nothing to worry about anymore

Well I think everyone of us has tried this already. It's like quitting cigarettes. You stop for a while and then go back to it like it was never gone. Reduction probably is really the best thing to do or if you're really broke then you can't gamble a single penny. I really think gambling is for the mature and wise. Control is a total must!

I certainly agree with you that gambling should be done by people who are mature and knows responsibility. People can easily lose livelihood and family time with gambling so it has to be avoided by people who don't really have that much self control in the first place. Gambling is fun but extremely dangerous for people who can't handle it properly

Exactly, gambling can indeed give us an advantage but one thing we must have is self-control. Without self-control all gambling will definitely lose big, because surely we will do a game full of emotions and without any thinkers know a good strategy. We need to know all, that gambling is a very disadvantage for everyone. Because the main thing they are looking for is not justice but an advantage to the lives of site owners.

I think when we all started to gamble, we don't have this self-control. We all think that we can overcome and win always in gambling, however this is not the case. We bet without any thinking and just go with our gut feeling.

But as we matured and experienced, we learned how to have self-control and betting wisely. We learned when to exit gracefully without having to lose all our money. So to advise newbies, you should bet wisely and don't be emotionally specially not going all in because its really frustrated to lose everything.
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August 21, 2017, 07:46:58 AM
Every human wants to be happy am I'm sure you do too isn't it? Just feel that moment when you lose "all in" after winning a little bit. Just make your mind agree on avoiding that losing moment you even had while gambling.. Find something that can make you happy not that make you feel bad and angry.
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August 21, 2017, 07:32:24 AM
It will be very difficult to give up or stop playing gambling when you are in a state of defeat, especially in large numbers. Well, I understand his feelings. It will be very difficult to lose a lot of money in one day, so maybe you will not give up to get it back.
- Yes, we certainly will not accept loss, especially when the loss becomes too large, we will find a way to recover the loss, and if we fail in gambling, we will stand up from there. We always hope luck will smile but gradually after a long time we do not get anything, the loss is still increasing and we become addicted to gambling. The problem is that in ourselves, if we accept loss, we will give up gambling easily but we always live in regret, we live in hope the money will come back, we do not accept the truth, that is the reason we can not give up gambling
that's why you should learn how to gamble responsibly , otherwise you would wasting your precious time on something that you can't control and could finished badly. take a little time to think about the future and think thousands steps before you make any decision, if you think your life in harm due your gambling habits , then you have to looking for a professional help they would gladly to help you out in very easy way.
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August 21, 2017, 07:23:04 AM

It's given that it won't be easier to do so. The application of the suggestions needs to be taken seriously by those serious gamblers that wants to quit gambling.

Because if they aren't willing to do so, problem will just come out and they will just let themselves say that it's actually hard.

Leaving gambling completely is hard, the only thing t sustain it is to reduce the amount that you use for gambling, just like what I did. You cant stay away from it when you have already addicted to it, the only thing you can do is to limit what you will lose. When the limit is lower then you wont have nothing to worry about anymore

Well I think everyone of us has tried this already. It's like quitting cigarettes. You stop for a while and then go back to it like it was never gone. Reduction probably is really the best thing to do or if you're really broke then you can't gamble a single penny. I really think gambling is for the mature and wise. Control is a total must!

I certainly agree with you that gambling should be done by people who are mature and knows responsibility. People can easily lose livelihood and family time with gambling so it has to be avoided by people who don't really have that much self control in the first place. Gambling is fun but extremely dangerous for people who can't handle it properly

Exactly, gambling can indeed give us an advantage but one thing we must have is self-control. Without self-control all gambling will definitely lose big, because surely we will do a game full of emotions and without any thinkers know a good strategy. We need to know all, that gambling is a very disadvantage for everyone. Because the main thing they are looking for is not justice but an advantage to the lives of site owners.
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August 21, 2017, 06:42:39 AM
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.

Lets stop this for fun issue and stuff. You cant possibly think that you could have fun in a gambling aite. Afterall you are only playing because you could get some money, otherwise you wont really have any fun at all. Sometimes it is hard to acknowledge this issue but atleast now you are aware of it
Although winning is where we can get the ultimate fun but it seems like we do not have that win all the time and even most of the time.
Let's accept the reality that we lose in the long run and with that it's easy to accept our defeat if we try to convince ourselves that we gambling for fun, at least that way we will not gonna chase our loses anymore because we had let go of that feelings already.
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August 21, 2017, 05:47:27 AM
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.

Lets stop this for fun issue and stuff. You cant possibly think that you could have fun in a gambling aite. Afterall you are only playing because you could get some money, otherwise you wont really have any fun at all. Sometimes it is hard to acknowledge this issue but atleast now you are aware of it
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August 21, 2017, 05:10:54 AM
It is not just gambling but everything of which someone is addicted, is not easy to give up. You are the person who can help you at first, you need to make yourself assure that what were you doing till now was wrong and is bad in all perspectives then seek external help. It needs strong will and clear vision driven by inner will and you can get rid of gambling addiction over the time.

Sometime it is not easy to change yourself. You also need some support to empower yourself to overcome all sort of difficulties. But of course, the first and most important is that you must take the first step and willing to put in effort to change, then the other support will be useful to help you to change.
Once a person has made his mind to accomplish something, he becomes unstoppable then. Gambling addicts face a lot of difficulties when it comes down to quitting. Even they are aware of their present situation and want to get out of it most of them still keep on gambling.

Specially if the person has got no other source of earning then gambling is the only way for them to make a living. It is sad but true that many people have not got qualifications to get a proper job with which they can earn money and thus they join a casino. For them getting addicted is natural and its not possible to stop them. Even if they do find a job later on its tough for them to get rid of old habits.
That's the thing about earning money, it shouldn't be as risky as gambling. It should be a sure thing whether you have made a business or working as an employee, it's still a better source of money. Just like you said, they can gamble all they want as long as they have money. Stopping addiction is really hard, no one could really help you with that but yourself.
Gambling cannot be considered as an earning mean. It can be done for fun with only affordable loss of money.  All addicts have not that strong will power or determination that can help them to overcome addiction by themselves. Some really need attention from others, especially the closer ones with whom they share everything.
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