rape or being molested are not related to being a gay ..
Are you saying that rape doesn't affect the victim?
What do you think happens to all those children who are taught to have oral and anal sex when they're 5 years old, and the abuse continues until they're teenagers? You think they just forget about it and grow up to be completely normal?
An older family member starts abusing a little boy and tells the boy that it's a special secret between people who love each other. Then the child goes to school and the teachers say the same thing - that getting anally penetrated is just as normal and loving as a man and woman getting married and reproducing. So the child learns at school, and on TV, that there's nothing wrong with it.
Then people like you keep saying that nobody could possibly have anal sex unless they were born different. You tell him that he doesn't have a choice, because it was decided before he was born. So the child learns to believe that there's something wrong with him, that the abuse is his only option in life, and basically that it's his fault for not being normal.
Then the child's single mother has a different man in the house every week, so the child learns - from his mother as his only role model - to let men use him however they want.
So by the time the child gets to middle school and the other kids start dating, he's been getting penises put in his mouth and anus for several years already. In fact, it's the only way he's ever had an orgasm - so his mind and body become aroused when he sees an older man, because he has learned to subconsciously associate men with sex.
Just like Pavlov's dog, the body reacts based on the mind's past experiences. The dog cannot eat a bell, but it drools when it hears the bell because it has associated the bell with food.
Similarly, some men develop a habit of orgasming while watching pornography, and then they can't get aroused with a real naked woman. The man cannot put his penis into a computer screen, but he has developed a dysfunctional association between sexual arousal and something else that has nothing to do with sexual intercourse.
The same applies for men who get aroused by feet, or shoes, or whips, or rubber ball-gags, or urine - and yes, it applies for men who get aroused by men.
So what happens to the child who has been raped his whole life and had his mind and body programmed to accept it? Who is he going to be able to date? Not a straight girl, because this boy has been taught and encouraged to talk and act like a girl himself.
Of course he could seek therapy - but not in California, where it is now illegal for a therapist to help a minor work on those issues after being anally raped all his life.
http://m.huffpost.com/us/news/gay-conversion-therapy-ban It's illegal to help them be straight, but it's perfectly legal to teach them to be gay.
It's also legal to cut off their testicles, mutilate them with Frankenstein procedures, and then pretend they were "born that way".
Most people just play along and say it's brave and great, because they don't care if these kids live miserable lives.
