However, I can admit that I was very upset when I lost money in the stock market. There were times when I went out and wandered aimlessly for a few hours to recover from the shock of the event. Fortunately, most of the time I was lucky and made money. However, I must admit that my money is almost as precious as my life.
Some people who lose money in the stock market are precisely because of their ability to control, there are many cases that we see that people are too greedy to do this kind of work and the most unreasonable thing is to expect quick wealth so they try to do something out of the ordinary and in the end they have to suffer a loss.
I like your pattern of controlling money, but OP is very unlucky in his case and that's why knowledge is as important as anyone wishing to get rich, when he's being rational it's certain they have a count of the achievements they want to pursue.
I go to work and I sacrifice my time to make money. When I sacrifice my time, I sacrifice a part of my life. If I lose money, I lose a part of my life. That's why my money is almost as valuable as my life.
A normal life definitely involves money and money can't always make people comfortable in life. The more money we have, the more responsibility we take on and that's where a normal life, happiness and serenity becomes a problem. Our lives are much more valuable even though we don't have much money because we can enjoy peace, happiness and peace with our family, be grateful and enjoy what we are is a form of effort to keep us from being careless and greedy.