Topic: How do i handle my first gambling experience - page 8. (Read 1965 times)

Greed to win back loses is the reason for bigger loses because you have lost control of yourself. Whether a small staker or a big staker, once you do not have self control to stop yourself when you are suppose to then you are likely to be doing the wrong strategy. Gamble as you can lose and don't ignore the signs to leave when you should, that is very important and first step to follow if you want to be a reasonable gambler. If you go borrowing, you can't repay from winnings in gambling because you were a loser before going to borrow, the chances to win is limited and so don't give yourself hope that the next try will be a win as many gamblers encourage themselves to keep trying.

It's true, it is often the case that newbie gamblers take a considerable amount of time to realize that chasing losses only serves to exacerbate their addiction. Such behavior can lead them to make rash decisions, such as dipping into their savings, selling off assets, and in the worst-case scenario, incurring significant debts.

First of all, if you haven't started gambling then I will advise you to kill that urge to gamble. But if you cannot then prepare to lose. You have to understand that you will record more loss than winning but pray that your wins can cover up for your losses.

Also, understand that some persons have first-time luck and so if you are lucky enough to win your first bet, be guided that shouldn't trigger you into staking more than your income or staking with an amount you cannot afford to lose.

In addition, guide against becoming an addict gambler, and this you can do by limiting the number of times you gamble in a week.

This is what the first gambling experience for most people, good for you able to wake up and not become a gambling addict. As long as the gambler didn't use an emergency money for monthly needs, it won't cause a problem to their life.

Then, you can explain what's the strategy that many players know about it.

I hope it's not only about money management, analysis, emotion control etc because all of them are just common advices and all of them didn't make someone to win in gambling.

I have never been able to limit my gambling finances before. I lost all the money I had with me and even more. I couldn’t stop and that’s all. Sometimes I even had to borrow money, which then negatively affected my reputation, since I could not repay the money on time. How many nerves did I spend trying to get out of this quagmire? Now I look back with horror at all those moments that happened to me. You wouldn't wish this on anyone. It’s good that the realization came to me to stop and reconsider what I was doing.

Someone should accompany beginners in gambling so that when the situation changes, the person accompanying them can immediately pull them out of gambling. Every beginner must be fully aware that there are temptations from gambling that they may not be able to resist due to their limited self-control but if someone accompanies them, they will be fine. People who accompany them in gambling should continue to remind them not to gamble using more money because it is risky for their finances. And every beginner must also start learning to control himself so that he can gamble comfortably and not be tempted by what is involved in gambling. And when they can learn how to control themselves well, they can enjoy gambling as entertainment and then, they just need to follow their limits and keep trying to control themselves better.

Beginners indeed have a lot of advice that they can get from the internet, but they still need to learn ways to have good self-control, especially this is gambling, where someone can lose self-control after playing gambling for some time. By continuously learning to control their emotions, a beginner can survive the temptations that exist in gambling because they already know that as long as they gamble, they will see these temptations appear in front of them more often, and that requires good self-control. Applying all the necessary things when playing gambling is highly recommended to avoid large losses that beginners may not be able to withstand or see, so beginners must continue to try to learn more. Beginners also have to learn how to allocate their funds for gambling so they don't exceed their limits and can still enjoy the gambling game. What they have to be aware of is gambling addiction, which can come at any time to every professional gambler or novice gambler, so they really have to pay attention to this.

In the event that you are a beginner or even a professional in terms of gambling, any result can happen and all of this really depends on your luck, meaning that if when a beginner gambles he is in a lucky situation then obviously he will get a win at the end of the session as well as a professional gambler, However, in gambling there is no such thing as "right" when it comes to how to win because you have also said that all of this depends on nothing more than luck which will never know when it will come and this means that experience in gambling will only be useful to minimize all possible risks, we can see there that professionals do not prioritize winning too much because they also cannot ignore the risk of losing and this means that the experience they have will be able to tell them what to do in certain situations.

Gambling is a probability activity which means a game of chance, we must have a completely straight understanding in gambling, if you want to win then that means you also have to be prepared for the possibility of losing, but if you only want to get the winnings then maybe I will call you a loser, but in fact most gamblers are more who only want to get the winnings but are not prepared for the possibility of risk, in the sense that they have absolutely no responsibility and finally this makes them act out of control when they lose such as chasing the winnings which ultimately only makes the number of losses even greater.

Gambling for newbies may be a hassle if they have no guardian who would take them on the long journey of gambling. It requires a steady learning for a newbie to stand strong emotionally to deal with all the feelings that has to do with gambling results. Every gambler was once in this stage, but not all made it out of the newbie stage safely. Many got addicted along the line, and I know of other gamblers who didn't continue as a result of the outcome of their gambling. Those who had no money and focused on making a living through gambling, got disappointed and stopped gambling. While those who had some funds, but needed to make extra income from gambling also lost their earnings to excessive gambling. But finds it difficult to quit since they've got other sources of income. Hence, they continued the chase. Don't know their recent condition, but many may have been addicted.

However, the newbies have a truck load of advice on the internet, but it's not enough for the ride. I think one should be focused on learning how he feels on a win or lose scenario, before looking at other gambling strategies. Because the emotional response is what actually matters. Those impulses can be controlled if the player is dedicated to following the risk management strategies. Added with good time management and critical thinking, sufficient enough to let the gambler know he's no longer on the right track. Depending on his expenses or ways of participating in the game. In a nutshell, a newbie should get a physical trainer to help them through this, because once they fail the process, it's hard to reconcile or revive with oneself. Since the person needs a person to change when addicted, he should also get a person to guide him while joining the gambling niche.

Yes, because there is what they call a beginner's luck. But I think not all newbies can experience this. It's fine tho. It's not awkward for a newbie to make a mistake, especially when it comes to gambling, when we know that gambling is mostly luck-dependent. So, experience does not really matter here.

The next advice you gave is great and it's true. Many of us wish we knew it. If we do, we won't end up losing what we already gained . Sorry for the laugh, as I also find it funny. About the money that we can afford to lose. I'm sure all of us has this amount. This is usually small, so I find it weird if someone still feel bad losing it. Maybe they also have other problems and this needs to be checked.

That's correct. It's not good to conclude that there's no strategy to win in gambling because that will make us morons still gambling despite knowing our srategy is not working. The truth is there is but it's also a sad truth that it's hard to win in gambling, but as long as that you are convince it's possible, you should still be inspired in studying to improve your chances of winning.

There are plenty of games out there that belong to the skilled based gambling, that's the kind of games that we should be focusing in as there's  a chance to succeed if we have execptional skills. I as a gambler believe that there's a chance to succeed in sports betting, and as to strategy, it's still currently under experimental now, but hoping in the future I'll be able to figure out how to win.

Know one can emphatically predict the outcome of a gamble, it could come either way, so good planning beforehand is the answer and we should have the mindset that is void of anything that can cause issues for us through too high beliefs, it doesn't work that way. Gambling is risky, and as a beginner, it should even be approached more carefully, one should try to limit their wagering amount and keep the tempo the same for subsequent gambling to avoid greed or fear which could in turn aggravate our gambling issues. One can start with 10% of their deposits, and that means that they will bet 10 times before they lose all their money, it is all about planning, while others can start with just 5% of their deposit, or even lower, and this also means that the gambler will enjoy his gambling before his money would be wasted if he lost. This is the beauty of good plans while we gamble and nothing can be a substitute to this no matter how good you think you are at it.

Those who are starting to get to know gambling will be curious about the results they receive, whether they win or lose, so most of them will continue gambling to satisfy their curiosity. But for some gamblers who remember that they don't need to return to gambling too often because they already know that they have a greater chance of losing than winning, they will not do it. Instead, they will look for other activities that will not use much or even no money. They know that gambling requires money and carries the risk of losing, which, if they are not aware of, the loss will be even greater. The risk of losing will always be there, and we will not be able to win easily, so instead of taking the risk of losing too much, we should control ourselves and always take care of ourselves when gambling. And to control ourselves from the first experience in gambling is to try to accept whatever results we receive from gambling and don't think we can win on another occasion because many people try but they end up losing again.

I wouldn't say there isn't a long-term winning strategy in gambling. In general, such strategies exist, but not in all games. Of course, it is difficult to expect profitable strategies in roulette or slots. But as for poker or even sports betting, as well as non-sports betting in general, there are such strategies and many players know about it.
However, most likely beginners do not know about these strategies or they are too difficult for them. For a beginner, it is first important to understand what he can generally count on in terms of long-term profit. Most likely, he will experience a loss in the long term, but there are exceptions. We need to collect statistics.

On the time that you are really that expecting too much with gambling or having those kind of hopes then this is where actions be made would turn out to be that shit because on the time that you would be finding yourself that being desperate or being that confident that gambling could make you rich then this would really be the time that you would really be ending up on having those kind of devastated conditions because of such wrong beliefs that having in mind. First time gambling experience? This could be the worst since house do always win or something that we cant really be that winner all the time specially
if we do speak on things that highly be dependent with gambling.

This is why it would be better that you should really be that wary about the real deal with gambling because if you dont and setting those high hopes and standard then you are just basically
making yourself that ending up on a disaster. This is why it would be best that you should really know on what you are doing.

My candid advice is that you go to the casino with a budget. Once you exhaust your the amount in your budget, walk home. And if you are lucky to win, stop playing, take your profit and go home. Never let greed influence you to try harder to make more money, this is gambling,  you might lose everything.

I am writing out of experience. My first time gambling, I lost during the first round. I injected more and more money into my bet to ensure that I recover what I lost. I didn't recover anything, I gambled until I had no money on me left. My first mistake was not sticking to my initial budget, it didn't occur to me that gambling is base on luck and that I could lose everything I have if I keep chasing losses. Do not make the mistake I made, walk into the casino with an open mind.

What is clear is that you have to know that gambling games allow you to lose or win. You can't avoid it and plan to keep winning or vice versa. because no one can determine your luck.

all gamblers will hope to win. but I have to get back to you. What exactly are you looking for and expecting from your gambling activities? pleasure or focus on making money from winning?

If you win, enjoy your victory. Don't be too greedy to continue the game. but if you lose, at least don't get emotional and slam your device. You have limited capabilities, both financially and emotionally. be aware of that and know when you should continue playing and when you should leave the game.

If the first experience is tempting or vice versa, Then the decision is up to you, do you want to continue or stop. The risk of losing will always be felt by any gambler, no matter whether it is a senior gambler or a gambler who has just set foot in an offline or online casino. Gambling is not a job that can bring in money, not a place to invest and not a place to solve all the problems you are facing.

You must be prepared to face risks when gambling because this is not a place to make money easily, luck may come your way but tomorrow you will get disappointing results. Always control your emotions when you are in a tight situation and use cold money so you don't get too stressed when you lose.

That's what we have to pay attention to, we have to be able to prepare funding that is ready to be lost in gambling, and by setting a definite amount. because to avoid major risks that could occur later. especially if you have taken out a loan to gamble, in my opinion that is too much. That's true, if they take out a loan to gamble, it's the same as opening the door to problems, where the gambling they do using borrowed funds is very risky because gambling itself will not necessarily provide profitable wins that can solve all their problems.

Moreover,  if they do things and actions like that, I think it will only destroy their lives, what's more someone who is addicted to gambling tends to be irresponsible and if they take out a loan, if they can't pay and pay it off, then they might let go of their responsibility so that The problem spread to his family. That's right someone who is addicted to gambling will certainly not easily get rid of it, especially if they think it is fun then it will be difficult to leave it.  that's the problem that occurs most often and in my opinion has become the most common case among gamblers. and sometimes the first win is also what triggers a gambling addiction.

I agree that if he is going to gamble for his first time, he needs to do it with a very minimal amount so if it doesn't go well, he's not going to take it with his heart for losing that money.

Hope that it won't develop as a hobby that will have to spend him a lot of money because that how it goes for a starter gambler. When he can't contain his happiness and experience in the first trial, he might spend more.

Don't see gambling as a means of making income, but see it as a means of entertainment. Expected losses than winning, and if you have lost three to five straight bet, you should quit the game and don't allow your emotions to control you, so that you don't continue playing and run at big loss. This is because the house hedge always win, and also be satisfied with the little amount that you win and don't double your bet due to over confidence, because gambling based on luck and not on skill. Gamble responsible and stay healthy by only using the amount that you can afford to lose, and never borrow to gamble.