How do we raise our kids in this kinda society

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Quote from: BADecker on September 07, 2022, 09:36:19 AM

Teach the children both the Ten Commandments, and the love of Jesus, their Savior. Teach them the Bible at home, and send them to a Christian school. There are many Christian schools all over the place. But it is worth it, for the children, to move to an area that has a Christian school if your area doesn't.

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I think this would be a good move for everyone that wants their children to do things that are ethical following the footsteps of the Lord.
Many parents are really missing out that is why they don't really know how to train their children in a way that would make the children want to serve God keeping the 10 commandments holy without stain. Training a child is all left for the parent to determine the outcome on what they are going to become in the future.

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A child is educated by family before society. Family education primarily helps a child develop as a person. So I would say if you give enough moral education to your child and teach the child the difference between good and bad then he is less likely to get spoiled by society. But it cannot be said because people accept the bad first. The proverb "Heaven with the righteous and destruction with the wicked" applies to these cases. You can keep an eye on your child and see who he is hanging out with and whether he is a good company. Also you can pray to God for him. Because a lot of these matters depend on luck.

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 03, 2021, 05:00:36 AM

Society nowadays doesn't seem like anything we grew up in, it's so complex and diverse that I can't help but wonder if this is where my kids are going to grow up and how do I manage.
While growing up fraudulent activities, prostitution, and others were seen as heinous crimes whereas today it is seen as a norm. How do I send my children out to society even with a thorough upbringing and not be afraid not knowing what society will through at them? It frightens me. Can't help but wonder.

Keep in mind that no matter how society develops, certain things will remain crucial. For example, it will always be necessary to teach our children to be nice to others, to appreciate differences, and to act in an honest and ethical manner. Even if technology advances or our lifestyles change, these essential principles will remain crucial. The idea is to help our children understand how these principles may be used in the constantly evolving environment around them, because if we can educate them to be adaptive and strong in the face of change, they will be far better prepared to meet whatever challenges life throws at them. We may do this by introducing them to new things to do.

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Quote from: BADecker on September 07, 2022, 09:36:19 AM

Teach the children both the Ten Commandments, and the love of Jesus, their Savior. Teach them the Bible at home, and send them to a Christian school. There are many Christian schools all over the place. But it is worth it, for the children, to move to an area that has a Christian school if your area doesn't.

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it is good to teach children in a discipline way so that when they grow they will be able to pass that to there children. If they are ready to learn and obey you as a father or mother then that means things is gonna work well for them and they are going to live a better lifestyle as a child that grow according to there father's words and commandments.

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 03, 2021, 05:00:36 AM

Society nowadays doesn't seem like anything we grew up in, it's so complex and diverse that I can't help but wonder if this is where my kids are going to grow up and how do I manage.
While growing up fraudulent activities, prostitution, and others were seen as heinous crimes whereas today it is seen as a norm. How do I send my children out to society even with a thorough upbringing and not be afraid not knowing what society will through at them? It frightens me. Can't help but wonder.

every environment have it way of surviving it does not mean that environment you find yourself is corrupt and that means that your children will be corrupt children being corrupt is based on or depending on the treatment their parents so I believe that children can be restricted for not participating with people that will influence them so it will depend on how you manage your children for environment he can make your children to be busy subsequently

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Quote from: rememberwhen on April 04, 2023, 07:11:08 AM

Teach our child with right conduct and good manners. What is right and wrong. Respect others and always be kind. Always have a family bonding and make time with your kids. Go to church so that they will have fear in our God.

You're true; if we want the community to be positive, we must all start at home by teaching our children the values and customs of the neighborhood. the community's dos and don'ts, its belief system. We can be confident of a brighter future if we can accomplish it. Our generation is becoming increasingly privileged, and values and culture are eroding.

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Teach our child with right conduct and good manners. What is right and wrong. Respect others and always be kind. Always have a family bonding and make time with your kids. Go to church so that they will have fear in our God.

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There is darkness in the society and there will be light. We must give children the correct guidance, not be absent from their growth, smooth and good values, and the family plays a very important role in the growth of children.

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Teach your child the correct three views from an early age, so that he can distinguish right from wrong, and don't be overly spoiled. Many of the child's characters are cultivated in the family.

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 03, 2021, 05:00:36 AM

Society nowadays doesn't seem like anything we grew up in, it's so complex and diverse that I can't help but wonder if this is where my kids are going to grow up and how do I manage.
While growing up fraudulent activities, prostitution, and others were seen as heinous crimes whereas today it is seen as a norm. How do I send my children out to society even with a thorough upbringing and not be afraid not knowing what society will through at them? It frightens me. Can't help but wonder.

On the other hand, our thinking must also adapt to the activities and habits in our environment.
maybe it will be an extra job when educating our children today, because it can't be denied that it can't be avoided, indeed the era is like this.
what parents need to do with their children is very easy,

• always monitor the relationship
• educate their children with correct and qualified understanding and knowledge
• must always be there for their children, because togetherness breeds love.

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It is bad enough what the society has turned to, but the truth is that even if it is that bad, there are still those who still doing better in the society today. The most important thing we should teach our children is to discipline them, they should know what is good and bad. Teach them good morals and let them know that every thing they do has consequences.

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Because of the social vices happening around our society, does it mean that good kid can't be raised again in society? the answer is no. Good kids can still be properly raised. For good kids to be raised in a society, it starts with the family. A good kid can't be raised if the parents don't nurture the good character in them as they are growing up. That's why it is said, that the betterment of every society lies on their families cos their families play a big role in the upbringing of the kids

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We must learn from our grandparents how they were able to raise us, and the only way to do this is to be inquisitive. Because all the changes you observe today also happened in the past. However, there are techniques that our ancestors utilized to control them. Today's society celebrates unethical behavior, which is something that should be avoided. The children engage in these unethical actions after seeing us parents celebrate them. The next generation is in grave danger, and it is up to us as parents to protect them by setting an example in our homes. If we teach our children the values and traditions of their community, they will be more likely to behave well because they will be afraid of becoming victims of those traditions.

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Quote from: Rockstarguy on September 10, 2022, 04:39:31 AM

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 03, 2021, 05:00:36 AM

Society nowadays doesn't seem like anything we grew up in, it's so complex and diverse that I can't help but wonder if this is where my kids are going to grow up and how do I manage.
While growing up fraudulent activities, prostitution, and others were seen as heinous crimes whereas today it is seen as a norm. How do I send my children out to society even with a thorough upbringing and not be afraid not knowing what society will through at them? It frightens me. Can't help but wonder.

As for me the way the Society is that is how the Society was as of from the beginning nothing changed. Everything that is happening today has happened before. That is why Holy Book says, " Nothing is new and nobody can do new things" everything has been existence, our is just to Discovered the hidden knowledge and utilized it. The Society is always in a state of dilemma. Where good manners are always corrupt. OP, you should not be affraid, you should do your best and leave the rest for God. The Bible says" train up a child is the way he or she it it grows. That where parental responsibility come to play. As a parent play your part diligently, provide the needs for the children. Tell the bad and evil in the society. Remember learning is a continuous. So continue teach the dos and don't.

Everything that is happening in the society today is not new and it has been happening, but the kind of society we have today is quit different from what we use to have 10-15 years ago. Like for example the rate youth takes drugs, crimes, prostitution is not high like some years back. Evil in our present society is like a norms , people don't care about crimes and the consequences. This present time is very difficult that requires parents to really eyes on their children to teach them not to get influenced by the bad life style of our society.

All these problems that you mentioned were there in past times and people who want to adopt them they did all those things year back . In all times when you are raising your kids just keep them aware of all the bad things that are happening around them , never put unnecessary restrictions on them for saving them from anything, let them see bad things and let them judge themselves they are bad and I shouldn't do it
I know initially this is risky may be they adopt any of those ,keep a sharp eye on them during their youth and continously tell them to avoid these things. Give them space ,talk to them and listen to them without judging them. Give them time and all your attention. Raising your kid is your first priority.

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I will only argue that, all we have to do is teach our children good norms, and advice to always stay away from bad actions.

The world is getting crueler day by day, and can change over time. we don't know what future awaits us

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 03, 2021, 05:00:36 AM

Society nowadays doesn't seem like anything we grew up in, it's so complex and diverse that I can't help but wonder if this is where my kids are going to grow up and how do I manage.
While growing up fraudulent activities, prostitution, and others were seen as heinous crimes whereas today it is seen as a norm. How do I send my children out to society even with a thorough upbringing and not be afraid not knowing what society will through at them? It frightens me. Can't help but wonder.

Training your kids in influenced so much by environment. An environment where all adults smoke will produce a kid that will smoke, likewise environment where hi spirits are taken, where gambling is rampant. That is why parents must pay clear attention to the environment they bring up their children.

That being said, you can train your child by yourself and instill in the kid the guts to resist peer group influence. You don't need to coerce your child to not do bad. If you do that, others will influence the kid against your orders. But if you explain in details why the kid shouldn't be involved in wrong lifestyle the kid would understand and resist.

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Quote from: Agbe on September 05, 2022, 04:47:11 PM

Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 03, 2021, 05:00:36 AM

Society nowadays doesn't seem like anything we grew up in, it's so complex and diverse that I can't help but wonder if this is where my kids are going to grow up and how do I manage.
While growing up fraudulent activities, prostitution, and others were seen as heinous crimes whereas today it is seen as a norm. How do I send my children out to society even with a thorough upbringing and not be afraid not knowing what society will through at them? It frightens me. Can't help but wonder.

As for me the way the Society is that is how the Society was as of from the beginning nothing changed. Everything that is happening today has happened before. That is why Holy Book says, " Nothing is new and nobody can do new things" everything has been existence, our is just to Discovered the hidden knowledge and utilized it. The Society is always in a state of dilemma. Where good manners are always corrupt. OP, you should not be affraid, you should do your best and leave the rest for God. The Bible says" train up a child is the way he or she it it grows. That where parental responsibility come to play. As a parent play your part diligently, provide the needs for the children. Tell the bad and evil in the society. Remember learning is a continuous. So continue teach the dos and don't.

Everything that is happening in the society today is not new and it has been happening, but the kind of society we have today is quit different from what we use to have 10-15 years ago. Like for example the rate youth takes drugs, crimes, prostitution is not high like some years back. Evil in our present society is like a norms , people don't care about crimes and the consequences. This present time is very difficult that requires parents to really eyes on their children to teach them not to get influenced by the bad life style of our society.

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Teach the children both the Ten Commandments, and the love of Jesus, their Savior. Teach them the Bible at home, and send them to a Christian school. There are many Christian schools all over the place. But it is worth it, for the children, to move to an area that has a Christian school if your area doesn't.

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Quote from: Nickbryan10 on May 03, 2021, 05:00:36 AM

Society nowadays doesn't seem like anything we grew up in, it's so complex and diverse that I can't help but wonder if this is where my kids are going to grow up and how do I manage.
While growing up fraudulent activities, prostitution, and others were seen as heinous crimes whereas today it is seen as a norm. How do I send my children out to society even with a thorough upbringing and not be afraid not knowing what society will through at them? It frightens me. Can't help but wonder.

Truly this is a big concern for parents worldwide. With all the violence
and social media issues, it is a frustrating and frightening situation
with how these factors influences children nowadays.

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Quote from: jrrsparkles on June 28, 2022, 02:48:44 PM

Quote from: Smack That Ace on June 27, 2022, 12:18:10 PM

The task of parenting is becoming more and more difficult and complex than we have ever been through. The increasingly modern world helps us humans to have a more interesting life, but with it comes a series of new evils and things that make our lives more dangerous than ever.
I also have young children and am also very worried like you, how can they be aware of and stay away from the bad things that are happening online, in this daily life.

What is the reality which is really different because we humans are becoming more irresponsible, becoming more lazy starts to just survive than living it so it build pressure to become rich to meet the living standards sonwe are working hard but fails to guide the kids with proper guidance in their childhood.

It is not that easy to raise kids these days because this should be the joint effort of everyone not just the parent for a thing of community efforts. Bringing up a child include the contribution of the the society that the child grows in and anything they see people, friends doing is what they will jump on and with time that could be part of them.

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