Topic: How do you feel about revenge? - page 7. (Read 1594 times)

It is a part of human nature. I feel that being a subject of revenge makes me able to forgive myself for having wronged someone. But when a person has wronged me, I'd like to resist the urge to revenge because it gives me the feeling of being superior to the other person. I feel that if I revenge, it makes me no better than the person who did wrong and I'd never want to be known as someone evil just because of the person who insulted me. Keep the title to yourself, hater. I'd be the good one the time you decide to antagonize me.

revenge is not good it gives more negative to us.just be humble and always pray to God for guidance

"an eye for an eye will make the world blind" i follow it and so i follow NO REVENGE policy

Revenge is not good, be humble always think positives.

Revenge will make you feel good at the moment you do it, but in the long term some people regret doing what they did. The other disadvantage is that revenge sometimes does not make a dispute end (that is revenge upon revenge, and you'll always be in a dispute until one gives up)

It is absolutely not proper to revenge no matter the circumstances. As we go through life, we, each, experience events and situations that cause us heartache and grief. We become so upset and discouraged that revenge seems to be the only way to pull us out of our depression. However, revenge is counterproductive. You will cause more damage to yourself than you would if you moved forward and forgot about the incident.
As adults, understanding the consequences of revenge can be challenging. For children, it can be even more confusing. Taking the time to teach your children the dangers of revenge are important for when those hurtful and upsetting situations arise.

I once took revenge on the present boyfriend of my ex because he took my girl away from me by infusing false allebies

For me revenge will never help us to develop as a good person... If we are always thinking about our own point of view here we will not care for other and if they stepped as down we will get a revenge..  For me vengeance is only for those person who have an average mental state because if you are an intelligent person you will not do this...

 as human being revenge has a negative and positive output, as experience revenge is  not so good. Letting someone else get the best of you, having you lower your self down to their level is the worst you can do. Someone who has done you wrong shouldn't  have right to have such power over your thoughts and actions What goes around comes around. I know it may hurt but revenge  is not the right way to go about it. Learn from that experience and let that person go.your tears is not wort it,

revenge? I think, there were people who had tortured my life, at work. Sometimes i want to think to make some revenge , but I do not want to. because first of all I always think of karma. and the god is not sleeping someday will give them a lesson for what they done to me . nothing will happen if you take revenge . Right . to get you upset? then what will you do again if you can do the same. try to keep silent and move on to the bad things that happened to those who could not do good to you and for those bully persons .

Revenge is for the weak. No one should think of taking revenge.

"an eye for an eye will make the world blind" i follow it and so i follow NO REVENGE policy

Sometimes people spend so much time and resources on such trivial things like revenge to the extent that they would have been able to seriously improve their life’s just by forgetting it and living their own lives rather than being so filled with hatred for no purpose in the end.

When that specific moment comes, everyone see you normal but you are actually a ball of fire getting ready to get blasted anytime

My attitude towards revenge is negative, but I understand people who are taking revenge anyway, nothing good will come of it.

Sometimes, it happens like that when your rival might take your leniency as weakness. This gives most people the more reason to revenge. But revenge on the other hand does not solve a problem, it only creates long chains of issues to be dealt with. It's better to always have a middle-path as said.

I feel that it's sweet, if you're in the right. Then you have morons like Aaron Hernandez who wants revenge because someone looked at him and he felt disrespected.

Revenge to 'feel good' is stupid.  At least it is to me.  I personally do it mostly out of duty, and that sometimes can feel good.  Someone or some entity who has wronged you is likely to continue to do so to others.  If they can be slowed or stopped through 'revenge', is doing a favor for other future victims of your category and possibly yourself as well.

Revenge against an individual is usually not worth the hassle although there are exceptions.  I was wronged by a government official some years ago.  To this day I continue to work to sap the effectiveness of this useless bureaucratic agency as a whole, and do so in multiple ways.  Very often it is 'revenge' that tips me over the edge to get off my ass and write something or vote a certain way or financially contribute to a certain cause.

As with the gun thread here, it seems like 80-90% of the respondents are parroting a philosophy that I recognize from 40 years ago in public grade school (and to a degree, from what I know about certain religions, what I see in the media, etc, etc.)  I would suggest that to a reasonable degree some of this is indoctrination specifically by and for the 'ruling classes' and primarily for the efficient functioning of their own operations.  This indoctrination takes many forms but the mainstream media and public education systems are primary vehicles.

I've had some episodes of revenge, and though they occured by accident (e.g. I never planned to take revenge over anybody), they left a bad feeling in my soul. It's easier for me to forgive and make appropriate conclusions than to carry the burden of revenge in my heart.

Revenge only satisfy your anger on what others do unto you but that's it, forgiving them for their wrongdoing and helping them when they need helps and no one is helping them are the best revenge at all since you will make friends toward your enemy and The Creator also bless you for what have you've done.