Topic: How do you feel about revenge? - page 9. (Read 1594 times)
Sometimes, i can't resist and control myself to make a revenge to anyone who is responsible from some problems that i am facing specially at work. But, i guess, it will not work well because i will only follow their wrong doings instead of doing the right one.
That is not a good idea. Revenge is not a proper way to improve your personality. Just be yourself and do your best and leave it to the Lord for you to live a happy life.
Revenge is something that one must never use as weapon and rather look for peace.
It is the only thing that shows how weak you really are. You just cant live or dream about revenge. Im pretty much sure that if we concetrate on ourselfs, to do what is expected from us and what we should do, before or later it all comes to us.
Revenge is not the best solution for the problems.always try to forgive because there is no end in the revenge and no happiness after revenge. All the religions also said to forgive so obey to religions
I was not born a bad person, but because of all the hardship I had in my life I discovered how sweet revenge feels.
There comes a time when it's too much and you can't take it anymore.
And you dream year after year of undoing the injustice that has been done upon you.
And when the moment comes, it's delicious.
They can see your eyes being cold, but you feel your own heart burning like hot embers.
There comes a time when it's too much and you can't take it anymore.
And you dream year after year of undoing the injustice that has been done upon you.
And when the moment comes, it's delicious.
They can see your eyes being cold, but you feel your own heart burning like hot embers.
My dear friend, you must have been humiliated and treated badly by human. I really do not know the challenges you must have been faced with but I tell you the truth, it's really not sweet and interesting revenging for what ever evil done against you. Even the bible do not encourage us to pay evil with evil. Sometimes, it might not end up well thereby affecting you in person in return. In my opinion, it is better to overlook and then move ahead as you will be respected for not revenging and you never can tell if you revenge who else it may affect. It may be someone dear to you. Just my humble opinion.
I was not born a bad person, but because of all the hardship I had in my life I discovered how sweet revenge feels.
There comes a time when it's too much and you can't take it anymore.
And you dream year after year of undoing the injustice that has been done upon you.
And when the moment comes, it's delicious.
They can see your eyes being cold, but you feel your own heart burning like hot embers.
There comes a time when it's too much and you can't take it anymore.
And you dream year after year of undoing the injustice that has been done upon you.
And when the moment comes, it's delicious.
They can see your eyes being cold, but you feel your own heart burning like hot embers.
Well it's not healthy though , revenge is bad I guess make your revenge be more like a motivation though, chase your dream and I think prove it to them that their wrong.
Well revenge is basically something born of extreme hatred and it will eat you up from inside. Though not all people will be capable of just turning the other cheek and would seek an eye for an eye. For me it's a lot more courageous to guve forgiveness instead of seeking revenge simply because forgiving is harder to do.
To my own point of view, revenge is not good, let just wait for God time and lets wait for him to judge.
You know, revenge is not always a good idea, but not everyone knows that. I’m a pretty amiable guy. I’m definitely live and let live but I encountered this event in my life about 7 or 8 years ago, when I was 18 years old. My family had a little garment store back then, we could live a easy and happy life.
But nothing is so easy as we think. Two of the women who had worked for my family in our garment shop for a long, long time they kind of stole our clients and opened up a shop less than a mile away.
I was so angry and I was young and I was impetuous, and I harassed their shop a couple times a month just to have that shop break even, just so I could put them out of business.
Really, really stupid.
I wasted a couple of years of my life doing that for nothing but to feel more and more uncomfortable.
But that was my misguided revenge right there.
I understand the need for revenge. These days I don’t engage in any revenge. I live and let live. Things just happen and we have to accept that event in our live, we just need to live our live and let them go, they don't deserved our time to do that.
But I do understand it as a genre and I think it’s very powerful. If you look at some of the greatest films and books of all time, they have revenge.
But nothing is so easy as we think. Two of the women who had worked for my family in our garment shop for a long, long time they kind of stole our clients and opened up a shop less than a mile away.
I was so angry and I was young and I was impetuous, and I harassed their shop a couple times a month just to have that shop break even, just so I could put them out of business.
Really, really stupid.
I wasted a couple of years of my life doing that for nothing but to feel more and more uncomfortable.
But that was my misguided revenge right there.
I understand the need for revenge. These days I don’t engage in any revenge. I live and let live. Things just happen and we have to accept that event in our live, we just need to live our live and let them go, they don't deserved our time to do that.
But I do understand it as a genre and I think it’s very powerful. If you look at some of the greatest films and books of all time, they have revenge.
I was not born a bad person, but because of all the hardship I had in my life I discovered how sweet revenge feels.
There comes a time when it's too much and you can't take it anymore.
And you dream year after year of undoing the injustice that has been done upon you.
And when the moment comes, it's delicious.
They can see your eyes being cold, but you feel your own heart burning like hot embers.
There comes a time when it's too much and you can't take it anymore.
And you dream year after year of undoing the injustice that has been done upon you.
And when the moment comes, it's delicious.
They can see your eyes being cold, but you feel your own heart burning like hot embers.
Well it's not healthy though , revenge is bad I guess make your revenge be more like a motivation though, chase your dream and I think prove it to them that their wrong.
Ignoring is the best thing but if someone has hurt you real bad then revenge is the only thing.
With interest. At the heart of my morals is the principle that people should act with people as they want them to do to you. Thus, by his actions a person gives other people the right to do the same in relation to him. And this right is worth implementing for a better understanding of what is good and what is bad.
It's very negative feeling and not healthy for your emotional state.
Forgiveness will help you much more in the long term.
Revenge is very destructive and can ruin both parties.
I know from my experience.
Forgiveness will help you much more in the long term.
Revenge is very destructive and can ruin both parties.
I know from my experience.
Revenge is like a sweet apple in the tree that only you that can see. Revenge is like a helpful things that you could imagine from the start you wanted to kill, steal, or destroy other life mostly those people who hurt you the most. It seems not forgivable their sins to you. Revenge is living in the heart and convincing the mind to do things that are not forgetful. You want to end the life of the person. Then after you do revenge you filled satisfaction. How this is true but not true indeed. If your revenge end up to kill someone, you are more than to that person and you are not forgivable. Let revenge serve as aspiration to show what good or great person you are in the making.
I do not believe in taking revenge as I have learned the art of ignorance.
I was not born a bad person, but because of all the hardship I had in my life I discovered how sweet revenge feels.
There comes a time when it's too much and you can't take it anymore.
And you dream year after year of undoing the injustice that has been done upon you.
And when the moment comes, it's delicious.
They can see your eyes being cold, but you feel your own heart burning like hot embers.
There comes a time when it's too much and you can't take it anymore.
And you dream year after year of undoing the injustice that has been done upon you.
And when the moment comes, it's delicious.
They can see your eyes being cold, but you feel your own heart burning like hot embers.
I know that feeling. We are the same. I made a lot of imaginations on how they will suffer or how I wish they would suffer and experience the miseries that I felt 2x. We are only still humans and we feel that but just leave it like that and let God take care of it.
Just because revenge makes us feel better doesn’t mean that’s why we seek it out of course, which is why the researchers undertook a second study to investigate the motives behind actions.
You can not live for revenge but if the opportunity arises we must take revenge.
I think it's good in the experience of one's life ... do not forget. Do not forget feeds something that is revenge. It is something that should not be erased ...... always remember .... it is always good
'Revenge' is a regrettable duty that should be performed in certain circumstances. The reasons are pragmatic: You may/should/must discourage an adversary and other onlookers from undertaking theatening actions against you in the future. Thus, revenge must be accomplished with a degree of transparency which is evident not only to the target (if they survive) but also to other potential adversaries, and this can make the operation particularly risky.
I was confused about why a leopard would risk it's own health and life to 'teach a lesson' to some other species which has wronged it (a human in the case of interest.) I asked a friend of mine who is knowlegable about big cats what was going on. He told me that in the cat's native environment, they run across the same individual (of totally different species) repeatedly over their life due to overlapping ranges, and having a reputation as a vindictive individual is of value. The same principle certainly applies in humans.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCSTc4brSPM
I was confused about why a leopard would risk it's own health and life to 'teach a lesson' to some other species which has wronged it (a human in the case of interest.) I asked a friend of mine who is knowlegable about big cats what was going on. He told me that in the cat's native environment, they run across the same individual (of totally different species) repeatedly over their life due to overlapping ranges, and having a reputation as a vindictive individual is of value. The same principle certainly applies in humans.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCSTc4brSPM
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