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Topic: How Problem Gambler Feels After Losing - page 2. (Read 1625 times)

legendary
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August 17, 2022, 07:57:06 AM
...Unfortunately, not all people can cope with the feeling of loss and disappointment.

In order for dissapointment to exist it is necessary people have some expectations in the beginning, otherwise they would not feel that way after losing money. That is why I have read some people around here saying that gambling should be considered a kind of entertainment by players instead a way to actually earn money.

In my opinion this is why I believe every new gambler should try faucet casinos instead depositing their own money and gamble it away, so they can sacrifice hours of their time in order to get some spins on slot machines and have an idea of how random those kind of games are and can set their expectation to a healthy level before depositing their own money, I believe that would save some people from many problems caused by loss chasing and disappointment.
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August 17, 2022, 07:44:36 AM

no one can guarantee winner for any casino games . But gamblers always think that by gambling they will win and get big money and become rich. This greed lures them to gambling again and again . But gambling never brings anything good. But suddenly some lucky person hits the big jackpot but this is rare

I agree there is no guarantee that a player can win in gambling.  All he do is hope for the chance that the next spin or wager will produce a huge win especially slots player and those who are playing in jackpot games.  They will spend a lot of money and got depresses when they do not hit the jackpot or win in a casino.
When you deposit some money to play gambling, that's when you can actually be sure that your money will be drained out. The phenomenon that is often experienced by gamblers is that they only win briefly and then they will lose again and again, which is why there are no dealers who fall into poverty because they manage the gambling business.
The bookies are just like you, they also want to always win. But your hope of winning is false, while the bookies are 100% sure to win. That is why different stories always happen to gamblers, ranging from depreciation even to her life is starting to fall apart due to losing gambling.
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August 17, 2022, 06:38:47 AM
Certainly, emotions are an integral part of human nature, but even after a big loss, you do not need to give in to despair. You need to carefully weigh your strength and decide whether to continue gambling or stop it. Losing is completely normal, because the percentage of losses significantly exceeds the percentage of wins. Unfortunately, not all people can cope with the feeling of loss and disappointment.
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August 17, 2022, 04:59:54 AM

no one can guarantee winner for any casino games . But gamblers always think that by gambling they will win and get big money and become rich. This greed lures them to gambling again and again . But gambling never brings anything good. But suddenly some lucky person hits the big jackpot but this is rare

I agree there is no guarantee that a player can win in gambling.  All he do is hope for the chance that the next spin or wager will produce a huge win especially slots player and those who are playing in jackpot games.  They will spend a lot of money and got depresses when they do not hit the jackpot or win in a casino.

Why do gamblers continue to bet even after they lost?
i want to add a little analysis from gamblers in my city


consider gambling as a source of daily income

in my city, it is currently a trend to play slot gambling in the higgs domino game. they play slot just to expect to get chips from the jackpot in large quantities and to sell them to friends around them in need. because in the higgs domino game it can send chips between fellow users and the price is 1b $ 5.
but strangely, people in my city think that before getting the jackpot in the slot they have to buy a chip of 5b as slot playing capital to get the jackpot. they think after they buy chips worth 5b they will get the jackpot but it turns out that it is not a guarantee of getting the jackpot and when the 5b runs out they will continue to buy chips and always hope to get a big jackpot and be able to sell the chips for daily income. even though if it is calculated from the amount of the deposit and getting the jackpot, it is not comparable.

from my story, i conclude that there are still many gamblers who consider gambling as a source of daily income without realizing that they always spend money every day.

I know a person that do this kind of thing, selling casino points for hotel accommodation, food, and other services the casino offers.  They look for players that has no cards and ask if they can insert their card for points.
legendary
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August 17, 2022, 03:17:19 AM
no one can guarantee winner for any casino games . But gamblers always think that by gambling they will win and get big money and become rich. This greed lures them to gambling again and again . But gambling never brings anything good. But suddenly some lucky person hits the big jackpot but this is rare

Even experienced players get upset when they lose, but they know it's inevitable. And for a person who is just getting acquainted with gambling, it will be much more difficult to lose, because perhaps for him, at the very beginning, gambling was perceived as an opportunity to earn money, but in the end he lost money. Then there will be a period of searching for a working strategy and, as a result, a further loss of funds, everyone in gambling goes this way.
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August 17, 2022, 12:30:42 AM
I think often problem gamblers are crafted/created/produced in rather poor societies. In some countries gambling is just fun of rich (Monaco or Cyprus obviously). But in some countries (or people from some countries) are using gambling to become richer. So they see gambling wins as income. I think this idea is definitely damaging your mental health. Gambling is a fun of risking money to get pleasure of winning and more money. That's it.
I somehow agree to what you've said that in most poor societies, people there think short term and quick in terms of having money. They tend to look at gambling as part of the solution for their poverty but the actual of it is that they're stuck with that mindset and it's hard to break that norm for them. It is true that the mental health on this matter is going to be vital for those people that have been thinking as if gambling is the only way for them to get out of poverty.
It was because they saw how gambling could help their friends to earn money in the short term so they were interested in trying it. Their circumstances are forcing them to try harder at making money; many are already trying to make money from many things. And after they try and lose, they will feel more depressed because they have lost money that they could have used to buy daily necessities. Maybe every gambler's feelings will be very different, depending on how much money they spend. The more money that is used, there may be a sadder feeling than other gamblers.
legendary
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August 17, 2022, 12:21:46 AM
Now must of the people addicted in gambling . Especially young boys are more addicted to gambling. And now with the introduction of online casinos, everyone can play gambling from the comfort of their home . For this the influence of gambling is increasing day by day. When someone loses gambling and loses his money.  Then they try hard to recover that loss.  And they cannot quit their gambling addiction.  And keep losing more and more money.  Eventually they lost everything.
Not only yong boy I had already sawn many teenage children are talking about cricket match ,football league for gamble . And especially nowadays, various gambling websites are promoted very attractively by various YouTubers or Facebook ads and the children who follow them are attracted to them.  Then for gambling money they get involved in various types of criminal activities at a young age and for gamble fund they are taking money without telling their parents.  I have also heard many news reports of many m**der about taking money after gambling losses.  I think this is not a positive side but if teenage children are addicted to gambling like this it will bring suffering to the future generation.
This is happening because of the advancement in technology . With the advancement of technology, gambling sites are coming to the market with new advantages day by day . Which is attracting the youth towards gambling . And gambling is slowly destroying the life of all gamblers.
Gambling sites are offering offers that are hard to resist but still gamblers should know that they are playing gambling and there is no guarantee and surely of a win in gambling. So if anyone is getting attracted to gambling without knowing the consequences of gambling, then i am afraid it is the gambler's fault.
A true gambler will not feel bad because he already knows that gambling is a mixture of wins and losses.
no one can guarantee winner for any casino games . But gamblers always think that by gambling they will win and get big money and become rich. This greed lures them to gambling again and again . But gambling never brings anything good. But suddenly some lucky person hits the big jackpot but this is rare
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August 17, 2022, 12:03:01 AM
The point is to be able to control playing gambling, if you are ambitious, it is possible only defeat will come. like what I do when I play gambling, if I get enough from the results of the bet, I go out of the house to do a fresh brain or other things to do other work that is not related to gambling. many people become victims of big defeats playing gambling as our self-introspection
Even at defeat, there are gamblers that won't accept defeat and what they want is to take time again and try to get as much losses as they can.
That's why it's not just all about the losses but also the pride that seems to be taken from them because sometimes, even you know that the game is hard to defeat, it's making you think through emotions that you can do it.
Simply put there are many bad losers out there not only in gambling but in everything in life, it is not odd at all to play a game with another person and if you happen to beat them they get in a terrible mood and they could even get aggressive with you, when that happens I never play with those people again as they cannot simply accept defeat, however a casino is not like that, and if you go against them hundreds of time they will respond to your challenge each time which will result in a loss of money way higher than what that person was planning at the beginning of his gambling session.
Yes, in this regard a casino is the perfect place to gamble where no one will have any problem every time you win. Many people could not bear that which used to happen if they lost many times when playing against someone. But nowadays everyone is safe in this aspect if they are gambling in a good casino. There won't be anything for anyone even if they win millions of dollars.
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August 16, 2022, 10:41:00 PM
Why do gamblers continue to bet even after they lost?
i want to add a little analysis from gamblers in my city


consider gambling as a source of daily income

in my city, it is currently a trend to play slot gambling in the higgs domino game. they play slot just to expect to get chips from the jackpot in large quantities and to sell them to friends around them in need. because in the higgs domino game it can send chips between fellow users and the price is 1b $ 5.
but strangely, people in my city think that before getting the jackpot in the slot they have to buy a chip of 5b as slot playing capital to get the jackpot. they think after they buy chips worth 5b they will get the jackpot but it turns out that it is not a guarantee of getting the jackpot and when the 5b runs out they will continue to buy chips and always hope to get a big jackpot and be able to sell the chips for daily income. even though if it is calculated from the amount of the deposit and getting the jackpot, it is not comparable.

from my story, i conclude that there are still many gamblers who consider gambling as a source of daily income without realizing that they always spend money every day.
legendary
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August 16, 2022, 09:45:44 PM
The point is to be able to control playing gambling, if you are ambitious, it is possible only defeat will come. like what I do when I play gambling, if I get enough from the results of the bet, I go out of the house to do a fresh brain or other things to do other work that is not related to gambling. many people become victims of big defeats playing gambling as our self-introspection
Even at defeat, there are gamblers that won't accept defeat and what they want is to take time again and try to get as much losses as they can.
That's why it's not just all about the losses but also the pride that seems to be taken from them because sometimes, even you know that the game is hard to defeat, it's making you think through emotions that you can do it.
Simply put there are many bad losers out there not only in gambling but in everything in life, it is not odd at all to play a game with another person and if you happen to beat them they get in a terrible mood and they could even get aggressive with you, when that happens I never play with those people again as they cannot simply accept defeat, however a casino is not like that, and if you go against them hundreds of time they will respond to your challenge each time which will result in a loss of money way higher than what that person was planning at the beginning of his gambling session.
sr. member
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August 16, 2022, 08:21:24 PM
The point is to be able to control playing gambling, if you are ambitious, it is possible only defeat will come. like what I do when I play gambling, if I get enough from the results of the bet, I go out of the house to do a fresh brain or other things to do other work that is not related to gambling. many people become victims of big defeats playing gambling as our self-introspection
Even at defeat, there are gamblers that won't accept defeat and what they want is to take time again and try to get as much losses as they can.
That's why it's not just all about the losses but also the pride that seems to be taken from them because sometimes, even you know that the game is hard to defeat, it's making you think through emotions that you can do it.

Indeed. There are gamblers that really don't like to accept losses because of ego and pride. These gamblers are typically the ones who frequent loss because they let their emotion overtake their way of thinking. Instead of being rational, they tend to be very emotional. They often have the urge to make up their losses even if it means going overboard. Having this kind of mindset could really get you lost in gambling and could probably lead you into unpleasant situations such as being bankrupt and developing anger management issues or even depression.

Hence, it's really important to be prepared well-enough first before deciding to enter and try gambling. Because gambling can corrupt you in the process if you're not firm enough about your principles. Addiction is the most common problem in gambling. And most people knew that already. Every person planning to try and make a bet must be disciplined and firm on his initial standpoint. Financial aspect is the one at the greatest risk in gambling, health aspect could be affected too as well as the way we treat other people and how we view life in general.
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August 16, 2022, 08:13:01 PM
The point is to be able to control playing gambling, if you are ambitious, it is possible only defeat will come. like what I do when I play gambling, if I get enough from the results of the bet, I go out of the house to do a fresh brain or other things to do other work that is not related to gambling. many people become victims of big defeats playing gambling as our self-introspection
Even at defeat, there are gamblers that won't accept defeat and what they want is to take time again and try to get as much losses as they can.
That's why it's not just all about the losses but also the pride that seems to be taken from them because sometimes, even you know that the game is hard to defeat, it's making you think through emotions that you can do it.
that's called so greedy. Gambling is actually can't be predicted and it was also depend on our luck. yeah that kind of gambler will always using all of available resource to make another bet until he will have nothing to be used for gamble. Controlling the emotion was the most difficult case.
The fact that if so many gamblers are not able controlling their emotions and this lead them to the big losses. I have my friend was always doing even more when he was suffering some lose caused by he was feeling curious if he was winning the bet.
I will never ever do that.
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August 16, 2022, 05:41:22 PM
The point is to be able to control playing gambling, if you are ambitious, it is possible only defeat will come. like what I do when I play gambling, if I get enough from the results of the bet, I go out of the house to do a fresh brain or other things to do other work that is not related to gambling. many people become victims of big defeats playing gambling as our self-introspection
Even at defeat, there are gamblers that won't accept defeat and what they want is to take time again and try to get as much losses as they can.
That's why it's not just all about the losses but also the pride that seems to be taken from them because sometimes, even you know that the game is hard to defeat, it's making you think through emotions that you can do it.
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August 16, 2022, 03:59:20 PM
I experience this all the way in a land base casino "Post-Loss Speeding", I will quickly bet higher on the next game, whether it's slot or card games such as baccarat. It's because of the frustrations of the previous results, maybe because I made the wrong bet or I'm thinking of doubling my bet in a slot machine or going down, and then that bonus happens. So frustrating and that I'm made that I will bet bigger to somewhat compensate what I have lost, but it is wrong, it's just pure emotions running on me for during that.
This is the exact problem most of us are having when it comes to gambling. Aiming higher after lose and this time with high level of confidence on winning but eventually lose more. I see this as a kind of possession that has captured almost all of us gambling and its abnormal to be sincere with ourselves. At times, I ponder why is it general?

That's a martingale strategy right there, where everyone thought it's a good strategy but eventually it is not.
A lot of gamblers are actually doing this, to make the lossing bets even. What if you keep lossing? Then guess what, you're lossing double or multiple times faster than your usual phase when you start betting with such amount.
I've personally have done this many times before when I was still single and still have time and extra money to gamble. Sometimes it work, sometimes it didn't. But in the long run, we were the one's who really lost.
When we are just still a noob then the most common strategy that we do might able to make use of and im guilty into this one on where i do really believe that i could really make easy profits on using this
strategy but sooner or later you would really be busting up yourself on using this strategy or simply not really that worth.If you do know on when to get out when you are in greens then its good but if
you do leave this automation for longer runs then expect that you would really be blowing up your capital in the most fastest way as possible.
When losing then it would really be just normal for us to have that reaction which would really be sad and disappointed.
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August 16, 2022, 02:27:39 PM
I think often problem gamblers are crafted/created/produced in rather poor societies. In some countries gambling is just fun of rich (Monaco or Cyprus obviously). But in some countries (or people from some countries) are using gambling to become richer. So they see gambling wins as income. I think this idea is definitely damaging your mental health. Gambling is a fun of risking money to get pleasure of winning and more money. That's it.
I somehow agree to what you've said that in most poor societies, people there think short term and quick in terms of having money. They tend to look at gambling as part of the solution for their poverty but the actual of it is that they're stuck with that mindset and it's hard to break that norm for them. It is true that the mental health on this matter is going to be vital for those people that have been thinking as if gambling is the only way for them to get out of poverty.
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August 16, 2022, 12:14:31 PM
I experience this all the way in a land base casino "Post-Loss Speeding", I will quickly bet higher on the next game, whether it's slot or card games such as baccarat. It's because of the frustrations of the previous results, maybe because I made the wrong bet or I'm thinking of doubling my bet in a slot machine or going down, and then that bonus happens. So frustrating and that I'm made that I will bet bigger to somewhat compensate what I have lost, but it is wrong, it's just pure emotions running on me for during that.
This is the exact problem most of us are having when it comes to gambling. Aiming higher after lose and this time with high level of confidence on winning but eventually lose more. I see this as a kind of possession that has captured almost all of us gambling and its abnormal to be sincere with ourselves. At times, I ponder why is it general?

That's a martingale strategy right there, where everyone thought it's a good strategy but eventually it is not.
A lot of gamblers are actually doing this, to make the lossing bets even. What if you keep lossing? Then guess what, you're lossing double or multiple times faster than your usual phase when you start betting with such amount.
I've personally have done this many times before when I was still single and still have time and extra money to gamble. Sometimes it work, sometimes it didn't. But in the long run, we were the one's who really lost.
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August 16, 2022, 12:10:51 PM
I experience this all the way in a land base casino "Post-Loss Speeding", I will quickly bet higher on the next game, whether it's slot or card games such as baccarat. It's because of the frustrations of the previous results, maybe because I made the wrong bet or I'm thinking of doubling my bet in a slot machine or going down, and then that bonus happens. So frustrating and that I'm made that I will bet bigger to somewhat compensate what I have lost, but it is wrong, it's just pure emotions running on me for during that.
This is the exact problem most of us are having when it comes to gambling. Aiming higher after lose and this time with high level of confidence on winning but eventually lose more. I see this as a kind of possession that has captured almost all of us gambling and its abnormal to be sincere with ourselves. At times, I ponder why is it general?
The point is to be able to control playing gambling, if you are ambitious, it is possible only defeat will come. like what I do when I play gambling, if I get enough from the results of the bet, I go out of the house to do a fresh brain or other things to do other work that is not related to gambling. many people become victims of big defeats playing gambling as our self-introspection
legendary
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August 16, 2022, 11:54:49 AM
Now must of the people addicted in gambling . Especially young boys are more addicted to gambling. And now with the introduction of online casinos, everyone can play gambling from the comfort of their home . For this the influence of gambling is increasing day by day. When someone loses gambling and loses his money.  Then they try hard to recover that loss.  And they cannot quit their gambling addiction.  And keep losing more and more money.  Eventually they lost everything.
Not only yong boy I had already sawn many teenage children are talking about cricket match ,football league for gamble . And especially nowadays, various gambling websites are promoted very attractively by various YouTubers or Facebook ads and the children who follow them are attracted to them.  Then for gambling money they get involved in various types of criminal activities at a young age and for gamble fund they are taking money without telling their parents.  I have also heard many news reports of many m**der about taking money after gambling losses.  I think this is not a positive side but if teenage children are addicted to gambling like this it will bring suffering to the future generation.
This is happening because of the advancement in technology . With the advancement of technology, gambling sites are coming to the market with new advantages day by day . Which is attracting the youth towards gambling . And gambling is slowly destroying the life of all gamblers.

Gambling sites are offering offers that are hard to resist but still gamblers should know that they are playing gambling and there is no guarantee and surely of a win in gambling. So if anyone is getting attracted to gambling without knowing the consequences of gambling, then i am afraid it is the gambler's fault.
A true gambler will not feel bad because he already knows that gambling is a mixture of wins and losses.
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August 16, 2022, 11:08:15 AM
The experience that comes after one loses a game is one that I can't explain,it a feeling that goes beyond pain,especially when one plays with a very high amount.One can feel like giving up on life,commiting suicide,hurting anyone around,and better still feel like robbing to replace the money lost.So many people have giving up on life as a result of gambling,lost hopes and gone astray,but it is advisable to gamble bearing in mind that anything can happen,either winning,or losing.
I feel unmoved after losing some money in gambling because I gamble with the amount of money I can afford to lose, infact yesterday I bet Liverpool to win against Crystal Palace accumulated it with 4 other matches unfortunately Liverpool drew their match whereas the other 4 bets was won, unfortunately lost the bet, I felt it's normal with gambling it's either lose or win, I believe gamblers who bet with huge amount of money and lost tend to experience bad feelings ranging from depression, aggressiveness, bad feelings etc thus gambling is not for everyone, if someone is not psychological balance such a person should desist from gambling.
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August 16, 2022, 11:04:53 AM
Chasing the losses had always been the main problem for me, before and even until now.
It's not something that can be controlled. If you want your money back you go bet more and you don't stop until you tie up the losses.
Once I tried to neglect it, went straight home and try to forget but it will keep on coming back to you and won't let you sleep.
You'd rather just play it than be on that condition where you are literally gritting your teeth to go back and play.
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