Topic: How Problem Gambler Feels After Losing - page 3. (Read 1625 times)
Yes, many gamblers, it seems to me, are forced to return to the game simply out of desperation, when circumstances develop in such a way that it would seem there is no other way out of the situation in which they have driven themselves, it's like taking out a loan and losing their job.
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I think it is better for poor people not to gamble because they can not correctly calculate their risks because they do not have enough education in the financial sector. They try to beat the system which has an advantage over them and when they don't succeed they look around for the culprits. So I would advise them to improve their education and find a stable job first and only then play gambling.
Poor people bet only to enrich themselves by hoping for a fortune to get some money, but they forget that there is very little potential for victory against the system.
It is necessary to educate gamblers in order to control their emotions, gamblers need to thoroughly study the prospects of the financial condition that will be spent so that they do not regret when luck does not come their way.
Gambling is a thing of luck that involves either a lost or gain. Because of the outcome in Gambling is(lost & gain)even if one lose he would want to play again to see if their will be luck to win in a game. Gamblers believe if they don't win today they might win tomorrow, that's the patience Gamblers have.
If it's casino games yes most of them only needs a luck to win but a few also requires a skill in order be successful. The urge to win is indeed one of the things on why a gambler will come back and play again but this should be done in schedule because if not well it can cost you a lot of money and it can affect your life because you will only play gambling and forget about other things which are more important.A problematic gambler will feel really bad and feel that their problems are only adding up and the reason why they play is they think it will give them a relief but it would be better if they faced their real problems as that is the only way to solve it.
I think the saying for gambling is not to rest until your money is exhausted and I think it is worst if you have gone out of your way to borrow money because you keep playing and chasing your losses to pay back but the harder you try to regain, the more difficult it is to get your money back. An addict never sees anything wrong when he losses , he feels the next game is his turn to win but never get to win and will not quit playing. In the past I have also experienced this kind of behaviour but was able to reduce the level of participation because I was not deeply involved into it.
I agree about when they decide to borrow money to regain their losses is the worse thing to do because they're not only gambling with their money but they are gambling with someone's money and we all know, that no one will gonna give a loan to the gamblers unless they put some non-sense terms about the money they need to pay and the gambler won't really care about that because all in his mind is the motivation to play again. Most of the time this happened in some 3rd world countries where people have less option but to take loans to those loansharks.
I have noticed, that after loosing, or loosing some bets in a row, I usually set the amount of my balance I try to reach, when I be ready to say "it is enough for today". And that is what stimulates me to gamble or continue loosing. I always end with thinking, why did I continue playing, why didnt I stop after X bet or after loosing Y. Anyway, after losing balance, I often imagine how else I could have spent amount lose, or what I could have bought for that amount.
Well that's actually our emotions taking over, and so our decision are clouded and it seems we can't control ourselves even if we say that enough is enough. This is the case even if we are in a winning or losing, we keep on going on, until we realized that it's too late, no more money to play and they blame ourselves for not stopping that early when we still have the money. And that thing is that it's very hard to control, or at least our logic mind come to senses and we completely stop. 
I have noticed, that after loosing, or loosing some bets in a row, I usually set the amount of my balance I try to reach, when I be ready to say "it is enough for today". And that is what stimulates me to gamble or continue loosing. I always end with thinking, why did I continue playing, why didnt I stop after X bet or after loosing Y. Anyway, after losing balance, I often imagine how else I could have spent amount lose, or what I could have bought for that amount.
I experience this all the way in a land base casino "Post-Loss Speeding", I will quickly bet higher on the next game, whether it's slot or card games such as baccarat. It's because of the frustrations of the previous results, maybe because I made the wrong bet or I'm thinking of doubling my bet in a slot machine or going down, and then that bonus happens. So frustrating and that I'm made that I will bet bigger to somewhat compensate what I have lost, but it is wrong, it's just pure emotions running on me for during that.
This is the exact problem most of us are having when it comes to gambling. Aiming higher after lose and this time with high level of confidence on winning but eventually lose more. I see this as a kind of possession that has captured almost all of us gambling and its abnormal to be sincere with ourselves. At times, I ponder why is it general? I think often problem gamblers are crafted/created/produced in rather poor societies. In some countries gambling is just fun of rich (Monaco or Cyprus obviously). But in some countries (or people from some countries) are using gambling to become richer. So they see gambling wins as income. I think this idea is definitely damaging your mental health. Gambling is a fun of risking money to get pleasure of winning and more money. That's it.
I noticed this myself when travelling through South America a few years ago. In almost any country I went there was a state lottery where a lot of people played and talked about it. It was like a highlight of the week when the numbers came out. And then there were a lot of scratch card places where I saw often people wait in line to get new cards. It felt completely different to the lottery environment here in Europe. We do sometimes have hypes here as well, but they are rare and only happen for the Christmas lottery or big jackpots. And I rarely see people here doing scratch cards anymore. What surprised me was that there wasn't a lot of advertising for gambling, it must have spread through people talking to each other. It also seemed like the amount of money people used for gambling was higher as a percentage of their salary. This might be the case due to lacking opportunities to get out of poverty in those poor countries. Spending some money each week gives the small chance to become rich overnight, even if these small amounts each week add up to large sums over the years.
I think often problem gamblers are crafted/created/produced in rather poor societies. In some countries gambling is just fun of rich (Monaco or Cyprus obviously). But in some countries (or people from some countries) are using gambling to become richer. So they see gambling wins as income. I think this idea is definitely damaging your mental health. Gambling is a fun of risking money to get pleasure of winning and more money. That's it.
In the short, medium and long term, it is clear that gambling can damage the mental health of people who want to make money from gambling because they do not see the potential risk of addiction to gambling. If rich people in some developed countries gamble, it's probably because that's how they socialize with their friends while discussing business.But if people otherwise use gambling to make money, they can only dream of getting it even though a small percentage of them get it. But they don't see how they will react if they lose at gambling, which can put them in a prolonged depression.
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I think it is better for poor people not to gamble because they can not correctly calculate their risks because they do not have enough education in the financial sector. They try to beat the system which has an advantage over them and when they don't succeed they look around for the culprits. So I would advise them to improve their education and find a stable job first and only then play gambling.
I think often problem gamblers are crafted/created/produced in rather poor societies. In some countries gambling is just fun of rich (Monaco or Cyprus obviously). But in some countries (or people from some countries) are using gambling to become richer. So they see gambling wins as income. I think this idea is definitely damaging your mental health. Gambling is a fun of risking money to get pleasure of winning and more money. That's it.
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It will be always fun (temporarily) with regret later on, especially if your last bet was to double all your balance coz you feel lucky and yet lost in the end on that bet. This is what i always feel after lossing lol.
Fortunately, it doesnt happen like that always
Using all the balance for the last bet is not recommended because there is no guarantee that we can win from gambling games. If we lose, we have to deposit some more money to play at a later date and that will make us repeat it over and over again. We should know ourselves and stop if we have had several defeats or wins because that is enough for us to play gambling and continue it again another day. It will also be a way to limit our use of money and avoid big losses.Fortunately, it doesnt happen like that always
Using all the balance for the last bet is not recommended because there is no guarantee that we can win from gambling games. If we lose, we have to deposit some more money to play at a later date and that will make us repeat it over and over again. We should know ourselves and stop if we have had several defeats or wins because that is enough for us to play gambling and continue it again another day. It will also be a way to limit our use of money and avoid big losses.
Sometimes I do the same thing only if my remaining balance is small enough like it's less than 5% of my starting bankroll so it'd be better to quickly end the session and go all in than slowly burn my bankroll even further. I agree it's not the best thing to do but not all gamblers repeat the same strategy when it doesn't work at least that's how it is for me.
Gambling is a way to get rich in a short time. So it attracts more people age of 20-40 years. Because people of this age are more inclined towards money. Then they get greedy and waste their hard-earned money by gamble. And they lose gambling and go into depression. Which creates turmoil in their family.
I would say that the people that have made a fortune in gambling are basically the owners and stock holders of the casinos.
The math is pretty clear, and it's in favor of the casino.
A gambler can get lucky here and there, but if they continue gambling, they will end up losing the money to the casino eventually. The math is all you need to understand this.
Chasing a loss because of being overtaken by emotion is one of the leading cause of continuous failed attempts to win. I believe feeling down is the initial response of most people who lose their bets. After all, its a natural human response. Being sad or depressed because of wasted money into a bet most especially if it's a big amount could be hard to not think about. Which is why most gamblers chase their losses thinking they could eventually win back their losses.
Unfortunately, most often than not, those who have unbalanced emotions and not in the right mental headspace tend to lose more and more instead of winning back their losses. This cycle tends to go around, repeating in circles till they don't have money to gamble anymore. The cycle of continuous chase can be broken only if the gambler is willing and determined to change for the better.
Unfortunately, most often than not, those who have unbalanced emotions and not in the right mental headspace tend to lose more and more instead of winning back their losses. This cycle tends to go around, repeating in circles till they don't have money to gamble anymore. The cycle of continuous chase can be broken only if the gambler is willing and determined to change for the better.
Using all the balance for the last bet is not recommended because there is no guarantee that we can win from gambling games. If we lose, we have to deposit some more money to play at a later date and that will make us repeat it over and over again. We should know ourselves and stop if we have had several defeats or wins because that is enough for us to play gambling and continue it again another day. It will also be a way to limit our use of money and avoid big losses.
Sometimes I do the same thing only if my remaining balance is small enough like it's less than 5% of my starting bankroll so it'd be better to quickly end the session and go all in than slowly burn my bankroll even further. I agree it's not the best thing to do but not all gamblers repeat the same strategy when it doesn't work at least that's how it is for me.but we must agreed that we expect losing that winning because that is the reality in gambling .
Also, it's better to have that type of expectation while gambling so you don't experience bitter feelings after the session. 
Losing losing in gambling losing of money so when you losing that money is very clear that you wont to be happy because it is your money that you lose. That is why gambling should be done into decision whether you lose the money for the gambling or you again by winning the gambling so I don't feel any sad. Because playing gambling I have made up my mind but I will lose or I will profit from the gambling so these two things are what example are supposed to have in mind
Of course, after a person loses a game of gambling, his mentality is very bad. A different mentality works in him then.Then some people decide that they will never gamble again, but later it is seen that they are the first to gamble and go further.Gambling is a very serious addiction that once people get into, they can't get out easily.Gambling always awakens greed in people's minds and people cannot give up gambling because of this greed. 
It will be always fun (temporarily) with regret later on, especially if your last bet was to double all your balance coz you feel lucky and yet lost in the end on that bet. This is what i always feel after lossing lol.
Fortunately, it doesnt happen like that always
recently i feel this , but in trading not on gambling table. i put my 20% on my futures trade , i am so confidence with my analisys and take it as one shoot trade, unfortunately it become loss and my account liquidated. regret will come after , and refresh my mind after this accident was not easy. take long time to could accept it. Fortunately, it doesnt happen like that always
Gambling is a way to get rich in a short time. So it attracts more people age of 20-40 years. Because people of this age are more inclined towards money. Then they get greedy and waste their hard-earned money by gamble. And they lose gambling and go into depression. Which creates turmoil in their family.
Gambling is thought of as a way to get rich in a short time. So it attracts more people age of 20-40 years. Because people of this age are more inclined towards money. Then they get greedy and waste their hard-earned money by gamble. And they lose gambling and go into depression. Which creates turmoil in their family.
There, corrected it for you. It's never a guaranteed method. It's only a (hopeful) thought of most people who get into gambling. 
Now must of the people addicted in gambling . Especially young boys are more addicted to gambling. And now with the introduction of online casinos, everyone can play gambling from the comfort of their home . For this the influence of gambling is increasing day by day. When someone loses gambling and loses his money. Then they try hard to recover that loss. And they cannot quit their gambling addiction. And keep losing more and more money. Eventually they lost everything.
Not only yong boy I had already sawn many teenage children are talking about cricket match ,football league for gamble . And especially nowadays, various gambling websites are promoted very attractively by various YouTubers or Facebook ads and the children who follow them are attracted to them. Then for gambling money they get involved in various types of criminal activities at a young age and for gamble fund they are taking money without telling their parents. I have also heard many news reports of many m**der about taking money after gambling losses. I think this is not a positive side but if teenage children are addicted to gambling like this it will bring suffering to the future generation.themselves on hitting that right spot and this is where it do really creates out that kind of desperation which we know that it is really not something good whenever you do make involvement with gambling.
Speaking of losing and the feeling that it do gives then as a human being then we would really get annoyed and frustrated at the same time.Whether you do completely stop or would in rage
on spending out more and trying out to chase losses which is really a very wrong action to be made.
Gambling is a way to get rich in a short time. So it attracts more people age of 20-40 years. Because people of this age are more inclined towards money. Then they get greedy and waste their hard-earned money by gamble. And they lose gambling and go into depression. Which creates turmoil in their family.
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