I think if you want to stop for good you need to let your relatives help you and find another hobby also.
I think only time can answer all, because I believe in the end all will stop in time and is also unlikely they will continue to gamble until old
I think the aim is to quit before you lose everything you have plus what you have borrowed. Gambling is a serious addiction for some and probably it's impossible to find a simple solution.
Serious addiction. Yes, I pretty much agree with this. But if you feel you really got it worse than others. There is actually some support groups like Gambling Addicts Anonymous. They work the 12steps just as the AA. Cheers bro. Hope you guys can get back up from this.