How to stay away from gambling? suggestions ? - page 55.

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Well that is true gambling is really deceitful if you are an addicted gambler and you are helping yourself. Your heart is going to beat and something is going to come into your mind that you can't help yourself if you are not going to gamble even for a day. BUt if you are going to fight against it, for sure you are going to stay away from gambling in the end.

If addicted person really want to change his life, then he will think about of quitting already in gambling.
And if that person is really determined to stop gambling, even without the help of other people he can make it and he can quit in gambling by himself.

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hi mate. to stay away from gambling means being aware that you're into gambling. and you realized that. and it's a good start. just put the realization into action. thus, first one needs to realize what he/she wants... a check for you. then "act" what you realize. lastly, repeat the first step.

Good perspective being aware means you know the limitations but the real problem to this is that most of the gamblers cant control their emotions when they are in the act but when they can still manage to get thru with it then its good but there would always a time that they can't.

Yup, that's true, emotions are really one of our best enemy when it comes in gambling, so if you don't know how to control your emotions well you can definitely lose money. But if you know your limitations enough, you can lessen your loses with this.

You only use your emotion if you are just playing for fun but if you are seriously playing for money. You do not use your heart because it will only give you a wrong decision, you move and decision should be properly calculated and should always be depend on your game plan.

I think your heart is also connected in your brain/mind, because in science all parts of our body is connected, I mean if you want to eat, your heart and mind will tell you to eat so that you will going to eat, right? Just like when you want to gamble, your mind will tell you that you want to gamble and of course you will do it. If you have learned that in science then I guess you can understand what I am talking about. Once you make a decision it is your choice and no one tells you that. So for me, make sure that all what you are doing is balance.

I know but in reality our heart deceive us especially in gambling, if we are not good in using our brains our hearts will always win and in gambling we need to use our head over our heart to be successful. Your emotions are the main reason why we lose in gambling.

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Quote from: Text on August 12, 2016, 02:31:30 AM

It is really hard to advice other people who are not like listening, what you can then is to make them realize the effects and consequences on what they are doing. For me, I will stick to self-control because it is just only on our mindset, we need to change it and think about the good things.

Our advise does not necessarily to be acted upon by a specific gambler, but we have to be proud with ourselves because we made the right contribution for someone who are willing to hear us and put into actions the suggestion that will work for him.

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Quote from: Kyhm on August 08, 2016, 08:49:05 AM

hi mate. to stay away from gambling means being aware that you're into gambling. and you realized that. and it's a good start. just put the realization into action. thus, first one needs to realize what he/she wants... a check for you. then "act" what you realize. lastly, repeat the first step.

Good perspective being aware means you know the limitations but the real problem to this is that most of the gamblers cant control their emotions when they are in the act but when they can still manage to get thru with it then its good but there would always a time that they can't.

Yup, that's true, emotions are really one of our best enemy when it comes in gambling, so if you don't know how to control your emotions well you can definitely lose money. But if you know your limitations enough, you can lessen your loses with this.

You only use your emotion if you are just playing for fun but if you are seriously playing for money. You do not use your heart because it will only give you a wrong decision, you move and decision should be properly calculated and should always be depend on your game plan.

I think your heart is also connected in your brain/mind, because in science all parts of our body is connected, I mean if you want to eat, your heart and mind will tell you to eat so that you will going to eat, right? Just like when you want to gamble, your mind will tell you that you want to gamble and of course you will do it. If you have learned that in science then I guess you can understand what I am talking about. Once you make a decision it is your choice and no one tells you that. So for me, make sure that all what you are doing is balance.

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It is really hard to advice other people who are not like listening, what you can then is to make them realize the effects and consequences on what they are doing. For me, I will stick to self-control because it is just only on our mindset, we need to change it and think about the good things.

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Quote from: teilwalL05 on August 11, 2016, 09:18:22 AM

I think your girlfriend could help you prevent gambling if she really care about you, but if not of course she can never help you from gambling. But if she really loves you, she can do everything just to make you quit from gambling.

Just an observation, I noticed that a gambler is always dominant over other members of the family, so I think it is hard for your girlfriend or wife to keep you away from gambling...Showing your affection to those addicts almost has no effect... All you can do is to advise them to stop, and let them realize it, coz if you impose it to them and you keep on insisting that they should stop, it might end up to a fight.

It maybe work but honestly its not the same what i do in my wife because she is addicted in gambling..
For me i always advice her but its not working instead I accompanied where she was gambling i saw that she is game in bingo or egames .
But honestly our money from i withdraw from a bank is the last money we can not make any other for our child we need money but she think that only gambling can save our lives.. while she was gamble she making a profit.. and i told her that better to withdraw it right now because its enough we can buy anything additional for our needs.
But she's not follow what i said instead she gamble again.. i cant prevent her because of addiction but after that all money are lost and we have no money to go home i told her that dont gamble again because you have no good future in gambling but she is angry what i say.. we are fighting in that time because we have no money to go home.. also for milk for our baby.. i repeated it and i explain it well that gambling has no good future if you are addicted .. and its a miracle that until now she not gamble again.. in that time i have bitcoin and emergency i can withdraw bitcoin instantly and use it to go home..
Its a miracle that she understand all what i saw before..

That's what I am saying,usually a gambler is more dominant than others, and that's the result, you ended up just joining her, so you really make this words came true " if you cannot beat them, join them "

The thing that happened to you and your wife is not really a miracle, I think it's more of a realization, it is a normal thing between couples, when they know that a thing could affect the relationship or could worsen their life or their family's life, they will sacrifice their urge.

I commend you for your comment bro, in what I see in the construction of your post, it is real... congrats that you made it.

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Quote from: teilwalL05 on August 11, 2016, 09:18:22 AM

I think your girlfriend could help you prevent gambling if she really care about you, but if not of course she can never help you from gambling. But if she really loves you, she can do everything just to make you quit from gambling.

Just an observation, I noticed that a gambler is always dominant over other members of the family, so I think it is hard for your girlfriend or wife to keep you away from gambling...Showing your affection to those addicts almost has no effect... All you can do is to advise them to stop, and let them realize it, coz if you impose it to them and you keep on insisting that they should stop, it might end up to a fight.

It maybe work but honestly its not the same what i do in my wife because she is addicted in gambling..
For me i always advice her but its not working instead I accompanied where she was gambling i saw that she is game in bingo or egames .
But honestly our money from i withdraw from a bank is the last money we can not make any other for our child we need money but she think that only gambling can save our lives.. while she was gamble she making a profit.. and i told her that better to withdraw it right now because its enough we can buy anything additional for our needs.
But she's not follow what i said instead she gamble again.. i cant prevent her because of addiction but after that all money are lost and we have no money to go home i told her that dont gamble again because you have no good future in gambling but she is angry what i say.. we are fighting in that time because we have no money to go home.. also for milk for our baby.. i repeated it and i explain it well that gambling has no good future if you are addicted .. and its a miracle that until now she not gamble again.. in that time i have bitcoin and emergency i can withdraw bitcoin instantly and use it to go home..
Its a miracle that she understand all what i saw before..

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i found it when i was reading this thread. people do give advises which i can consider as so much funny but on the other hand we give each others opinion so its up for you now op what to choose from.

so many suggestions, and everyone has a different way. but the most important thing to me is we are able to control yourself, you can slowly move away from gambling.

Yes this would always matter on your way of thinking, how would you decide because controlling your self is really that hard when you are in the act of gambling that is why most of us fail to do so.

Yes that is really what you must do if you really want to quit gambling. You must able to control yourself because if you are going to control yourself.

You are going to know your limitations and it is not that fast to quit in gambling of course you are going to take it lightly.

Slowly but surely.

It would be easy to say about how to control our seld that is i find it ironic because when we are already in the situation we somehow really be able to control our self. We are being overcome by our greed

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Quote from: eann014 on August 11, 2016, 10:25:09 AM

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make yourself busy with other things like basketball or other sport

thats true, if i usually dont want to gamble if im addicted then i just try to do some sports in order to attract my thoughts from it thats my strategy

Well, that's a good strategy also, cause making yourself busy or making yourself attract to some other things will help you forget your greediness in gambling. Because for sure, we can only just lose money in gambling.

Flurry just avoid them in gambling for a while and after the bustle is over then surely they will do gambling. Then to remove all of it, they should dare to eliminate all existing plans in the gambling and never think back about gambling

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Quote from: sconosciuto on August 09, 2016, 02:02:44 AM

make yourself busy with other things like basketball or other sport

thats true, if i usually dont want to gamble if im addicted then i just try to do some sports in order to attract my thoughts from it thats my strategy

Well, that's a good strategy also, cause making yourself busy or making yourself attract to some other things will help you forget your greediness in gambling. Because for sure, we can only just lose money in gambling.

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Quote from: chixka000 on August 11, 2016, 09:57:36 AM

Quote from: ronaldo40 on August 10, 2016, 12:44:40 PM

Quote from: chixka000 on August 10, 2016, 11:23:38 AM

i found it when i was reading this thread. people do give advises which i can consider as so much funny but on the other hand we give each others opinion so its up for you now op what to choose from.

so many suggestions, and everyone has a different way. but the most important thing to me is we are able to control yourself, you can slowly move away from gambling.

Yes this would always matter on your way of thinking, how would you decide because controlling your self is really that hard when you are in the act of gambling that is why most of us fail to do so.

Yes that is really what you must do if you really want to quit gambling. You must able to control yourself because if you are going to control yourself.

You are going to know your limitations and it is not that fast to quit in gambling of course you are going to take it lightly.

Slowly but surely.

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Quote from: teilwalL05 on August 11, 2016, 09:18:22 AM

I think your girlfriend could help you prevent gambling if she really care about you, but if not of course she can never help you from gambling. But if she really loves you, she can do everything just to make you quit from gambling.

Just an observation, I noticed that a gambler is always dominant over other members of the family, so I think it is hard for your girlfriend or wife to keep you away from gambling...Showing your affection to those addicts almost has no effect... All you can do is to advise them to stop, and let them realize it, coz if you impose it to them and you keep on insisting that they should stop, it might end up to a fight.

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Quote from: ronaldo40 on August 10, 2016, 12:44:40 PM

Quote from: chixka000 on August 10, 2016, 11:23:38 AM

i found it when i was reading this thread. people do give advises which i can consider as so much funny but on the other hand we give each others opinion so its up for you now op what to choose from.

so many suggestions, and everyone has a different way. but the most important thing to me is we are able to control yourself, you can slowly move away from gambling.

Yes this would always matter on your way of thinking, how would you decide because controlling your self is really that hard when you are in the act of gambling that is why most of us fail to do so.

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Quote from: teilwalL05 on August 11, 2016, 09:20:40 AM

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Quote from: Kyhm on August 08, 2016, 08:49:05 AM

hi mate. to stay away from gambling means being aware that you're into gambling. and you realized that. and it's a good start. just put the realization into action. thus, first one needs to realize what he/she wants... a check for you. then "act" what you realize. lastly, repeat the first step.

Good perspective being aware means you know the limitations but the real problem to this is that most of the gamblers cant control their emotions when they are in the act but when they can still manage to get thru with it then its good but there would always a time that they can't.

Yup, that's true, emotions are really one of our best enemy when it comes in gambling, so if you don't know how to control your emotions well you can definitely lose money. But if you know your limitations enough, you can lessen your loses with this.

You only use your emotion if you are just playing for fun but if you are seriously playing for money. You do not use your heart because it will only give you a wrong decision, you move and decision should be properly calculated and should always be depend on your game plan.

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Quote from: chixka000 on August 09, 2016, 09:39:30 AM

Quote from: Kyhm on August 08, 2016, 08:49:05 AM

hi mate. to stay away from gambling means being aware that you're into gambling. and you realized that. and it's a good start. just put the realization into action. thus, first one needs to realize what he/she wants... a check for you. then "act" what you realize. lastly, repeat the first step.

Good perspective being aware means you know the limitations but the real problem to this is that most of the gamblers cant control their emotions when they are in the act but when they can still manage to get thru with it then its good but there would always a time that they can't.

Yup, that's true, emotions are really one of our best enemy when it comes in gambling, so if you don't know how to control your emotions well you can definitely lose money. But if you know your limitations enough, you can lessen your loses with this.

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Quote from: Jambolb2 on August 10, 2016, 01:31:00 AM

If you are a head of a family then just think about your family before gambling and if you are still single then keep your girlfriend always with you so that she doesnt let you gamble with the money Grin

I don't agree that your girlfriend could prevent you from visiting a gambling site..

Even your wife, they can't do that if you really want to gamble... If you are addicted to something, you are almost alone, all the people around you doesn't matter to you until you decide to change and quit gambling for good..

I think your girlfriend could help you prevent gambling if she really care about you, but if not of course she can never help you from gambling. But if she really loves you, she can do everything just to make you quit from gambling.

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i think that the best idea would be to find other hobbies

Yes this is the most appropriate solution to stay away from gambling, it is not by getting addicted to another thing because it is going to be a problem again for you and going to ask how to stay away and quit there too. Finding a hobby that you like is going to make it happen, like always playing basketball and other sports.

Making yourself busy on to other things would be very helpful on staying away to gambling because it would make your mind to forget about gambling if you focuses into other things. As you said having a another hobby which would be very helpful playing sports game and other things that are not related to gambling.

That is true if you are going to be busy into something that is much better then it is going to help you to stay away from gambling. if you are a student then just focus to your studies and it will going to help you to stay away from it. Or if you are a professional then it is better if you are going to focus on your full time job.

So what are you gonna after you are done with learning things? You cant keep on learning everyday right? Everyone sure need some their leisure tim thats why before you addict you should stay away and never touch it. After you are in gambling you dont change back that easily. Btw what do you mean by professional? Pro palyer or pro in your job

Maybe he mean a professional person i guess, with have some college graduate with a stable professional job i guess. He doesnt elaborate what kind of professional Grin

Studying isnt bad at all but you need some have time to relax yourself and doesnt stressed out too much on studying.

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Quote from: dragunfly on August 10, 2016, 05:04:30 PM

i think that the best idea would be to find other hobbies

Yes this is the most appropriate solution to stay away from gambling, it is not by getting addicted to another thing because it is going to be a problem again for you and going to ask how to stay away and quit there too. Finding a hobby that you like is going to make it happen, like always playing basketball and other sports.

Making yourself busy on to other things would be very helpful on staying away to gambling because it would make your mind to forget about gambling if you focuses into other things. As you said having a another hobby which would be very helpful playing sports game and other things that are not related to gambling.

That is true if you are going to be busy into something that is much better then it is going to help you to stay away from gambling. if you are a student then just focus to your studies and it will going to help you to stay away from it. Or if you are a professional then it is better if you are going to focus on your full time job.

So what are you gonna after you are done with learning things? You cant keep on learning everyday right? Everyone sure need some their leisure tim thats why before you addict you should stay away and never touch it. After you are in gambling you dont change back that easily. Btw what do you mean by professional? Pro palyer or pro in your job

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Quote from: Mongwapogi on August 11, 2016, 01:35:28 AM

Many there are gambling addicted people her and not these would only help if u follow them because getting over gambling addiction is not easy.

For me give all your money to your most trusted one. No money then no gambling.

Why would you do that? Don't you have a trust in your self that you can get away from your gambling habit? So after a day or two you can get your money and there you are, gambling again like you've been away from it for a year...

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Quote from: Mongwapogi on August 11, 2016, 01:35:28 AM

Many there are many gambling addicted people her and not these would only help if u follow them because getting over gambling addiction is not easy. For me give all your money to your most trusted one. No money then no gambling.

Why you should give your money to the trusted one if can't to overcome your addiction over gambling. It think it's not appropriate to give your money to somebody else even your family or friends because it's difficulty to ask for them to return your money back. What if there's unexpected circumstances happened, and they had a financial problem that needs the money that you held to them. Overcoming your addiction it means you should start within yourself.

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