Topic: How will you feel if it happens to you just like this? - page 2. (Read 2840 times)

We need to control our emotions so we don't feel too excited when playing gambling. We know that the more excited we are, we can get tempted to playing gambling longer. If that's happen, we will forgot the boundaries and breaks our rules and not limiting our gambling activity because we thinks that we can get more fun if we play longer. We don't wants to falls to the same holes like other gamblers, right? Many gamblers have that experiences, including us but we have a chance to always sticks to our limitations so we don't get any problem while we playing gambling.  If we lose self-control, we will gets a problem and we will losing the money and that will be the main thing. We don't have to feel curious about the winning because the winning will come to us in the right time. We just only need to play gambling while enjoy the games.

True, more on exceeding from your set limits, which cause by uncontrolled emotions. I think if you can work on it you'll soon find the best way to control yourself and not to lose that much, you can still enjoy and maybe some of your sessions may give you decent profits though you can't control the outcome and you can't avoid losing your money.

You just need to keep your focus and always attend your emotional control, it helps to prevent making mistakes and then lose your money.

Predicting outcome when there is no risk everyone could do it, but not anyone could take the risk to bet and see the outcome of their prediction.
We could predict every match that we would see in gambling sites/casino or betting sites, the chance that we would get it right would always be 50/50 even if we know nothing about the game, and we could guess some correctly but we need to know that it is really useless to do it since we wouldn't get anything from it.
We are only giving ourselves something to regret when we already know that we wouldn't take risk on that match that could change our life.
We would feel bad about it if our prediction would be correct, and we would feel great if our prediction is wrong since we didn't lose any money on that certain game.

Obviously, one would feel bad after missing out on some life changing opportunities that would have changed your financial situation for the better. But there’s little you can do after losing out on an opportunity like that. There’s really no need losing any sleep over what may have happened. As it didn’t happen, I would try and not waste any thought on it any more than I have to. Thinking about opportunities that passed us by would only make one miserable and could turn into depression.

There’s no reason to cry over split milk. Always thinking of what may have been isn’t healthy. It’s best to move on and look for another opportunity. Opportunities are abound and it’s left for us to identify and utilize it. There’s no need to remain in the past and feel sorry about an opportunity missed.

the only problem is our emotions when we get too excited in the game. That's what sometimes makes us forget the boundaries that we have actually crossed.
The experience in such a situation seems to be shared by almost every gambler. we realize that we have bet too much, but we still continue betting out of curiosity about winning. because in the gambler's mind they will definitely be given a win when they bet a lot. but luck who knows when it will come. like you said, we have to have our limits to the game.

If you feel an increased emotions you must be careful because that can caus you lose self-control, that can make us to use more money to gamble. We still difficult to win the gambling game while we will just lose much money. We can feel regret after seeing how much money we have spent gambling. If that is what we experience, we must be able to reduce the allocation of funds and not force ourselves to gambling. We can only gamble with restrictions and nothing more.

It's not worth to use all money to gambling while you don't have a chance to win. We have to know when we can gambling and when to hold ourselves so that we don't fall deeper into gambling. Always thinking about the losses we have experienced is one way to stop ourselves from continuing to gamble.

That will cause another problem, as if you'll be going to resort in barrowing money just to continue playing and trying to recover back. That kind of emotion can lead you to a potential addiction. Better to accept that mistake and take that as a learning ladder for you to pick the right selection before betting, instead of living with any type of regret, it's always healthy and helpful if you push yourself to move forward. There's nothing that you can do about it, as you are inside gambling.

Not unless you'll be walking on that kind of path where you will try your luck finding someone who can lend you money, someone who isn't aware of your gambling participation. Think about losing, as it is possible to keep repeating itself. You'll be adding more problems, so better to forget about it and move on.

Bro don't even reason it much, because if you have home out of your way to get the funds to stake that game and you lost, you'll still blame yourself that you'd have received from placing the bets. Gambling is purely about luck. When it happens in your favor, you rejoice, when its not, you move on. Regretting and thinking about it from now till you get old will never bring the money to you, that's the fact,  so focus on the future and possibly your luck can still shine soonest.

Indeed, anyone would definitely feel a lot of regret and rage in them for missing such and opportunity, but then, if we can try to draw ourselves back a bit, we did realize that there is nothing to really feel regret for.
Many people believe that nothing happens by chance, and though I never used to believe in this, but several happenings in my own personal life have made me to have some believe in that, which is that, things don't happen on their own or out of luck, but things only happen when it's their due time to happen, this is why we see some gamblers will play gambling for several years but they will never win any money big enough to make them comfortable in life, but some one who just started gambling yesterday could come around and win a life transforming amount of money just like that, and people assume he or she was just simply lucky, but in reality, it was just the time for such person to make good money, and it come through his or her gambling activity.

So, in the nutshell, things like this may have happened to some of us in the past, or may even happen to some of us in the future, not necessarily in gambling but in other of our activities, there is no need to feel regret too much, for what will be will surely be when its time for it to be.

It's better to stop think it, especially if you don't have money. You can't place a bet if you don't have money so better let it go and wait until you have the money. We know it's hard but you will do that because if not, you may think of borrowing other people's money so you can place a bet. But that is a normal thing experienced by every gambler because they can't get that thought out of their head so they have to try hard to pass it by.

They will not push themselves to find money or borrow money to place bets, especially if they still have needs that must be met. They will prefer to fulfill their needs first rather than place bets. Gambling is not a priority in their lives, so they can skip it and will place bets if they already have money.

I'll feel a mix of regret and frustration if I missed out a big win that I couldnt afford to bet on. Although dwelling on it would not change anything. I'll just look at it as a lesson that maybe one day, I will have the same luck and not miss the opportunity again.

Hey look around bro , that's why it's called gambling and even if you depise the act of going with playing some gambling because football isn't like that you can force anyone to love and that's we people tend to play all his money even depise knowing fully well that some games are purely based on luck and most people are a victim this maybe because of the story of people staking high and making it through that stupid actions.

Op, i stake some dollars in gambling. So how could a single winning can change my(anyone's) life without big staking in gambling? And if so, then why should anyone take that high risk to stake such big amount in one match? This is stupidity which might cause a gambler would loss his whole capital badly and would suffer whole life for that one mistake. So forget about stake big capital. it may change your life, makes you millionaire but besides it can destroyed your life too. If you don't have money, so don't gambling. No one is forcing. It may deels bad that you can't stake in your your predicted match but that's okey. The match wasn't the last one in your life. Stake in upcoming days, with such mindset

usually if I experience a case like this when I am in doubt I want to bet but am afraid if the result is winning I still bet even though I am doubtful but use a small amount to see the results and I will never feel disappointed with the result than if I am in doubt it is better to keep betting and in this way I can looking at my lucky chances, will I be able to get a win streak like in the past, I bet in the game of roulette, I always bet on every round, but still with a small amount, but after I feel like I have a win streak, I increase the bet amount slowly until I can get a big win.

there is nothing wrong with using this method, but it is not recommended for gamblers who do not have good control because it really requires a lot of patience and a strong commitment so as not to be provoked by emotions.

Gambling combines risk and reward through chance and planning. Not simply the cards you get, but how you play them. Learning moves in like a cool coach. Learning from past flops is like upgrading your gambling toolkit - more analytical, less emotional. Become an odds master by improving your prediction skills. Brains adore patterns, even ineffective ones. If one dwells on regret, the brain may feel comfortable in that loop, lowering mood and game performance

Turning remorse into learning? That's the secret! Like switching from a losing game to one with better odds. The brain may mournful over a missed prize, but that's just temporary. Another round could bring bigger wins. That requires mental and financial preparation. Saving for the next big play is smart and savvy. So gambling is about studying the game and about oneself. A bummer becomes a strategic planner that way. Regret? Nah. Getting smarter and sharper for the next roll of the dice. Life's a gamble, and we all want to win, right?

That's the important thing inside gambling, knowing how to move forward and not to dwell to anything it's just a waste of energy if you keep trying to figure it out what you've done wrong and why you missed that opportunity, much better to have that good mindset that you will be able to find another chance and you will not miss anything to enjoy and grab the benefits.

Something like this will give you that positive vibes into gambling, it will continue that winning attitude, just make sure to have your limitations though.

Exactly. You'll only regret missing the bet if it did win, otherwise, it's a relief that you didn't waste your money for nothing. It also happened to me many times in playing Baccarat, but it's my decision not to place a bet even I want to. It's just that, I'd like to see the result first if I chose it. That's why it's gambling, you'll never know what's going to happen next.

Nevertheless, don't dwell in the past and move forward because no matter how regretful you are, it happened already thus you have to accept that fact.

If you manage to get money from other places and then putting all into gambling doesn't really sound like a great plan in the long term if you want to generate money really.

Gambling should probably be seen as a way to entertain yourself, with a limited amount. If you end up paying a lot more than what you are comfortable with, then there will inevitably be a problem.

Useful response, HiroseUk, I was able to draft out some valuable advice from your text and it's effective in changing the perspective of people on regret. Whenever an action has been executed, regrets come in as if the person won't repeat the same thing next time if the opportunity comes back. Regret solves no problem. Learning does. When a person fails to learn from his mistakes, he won't change his behavior toward that same action. Gamblers who regret losing an opportunity, don't seem to understand that gambling didn't end after the game came to an end. There are multiple opportunities ahead for the gambler to stake his games and win. But these people only make the mistake of not moving ahead to figure out what should be their next action. And if the previous outcome wasn't great or they had no money to finance it, they can make out savings, in anticipation of the next opportunity. Most times regret can also lead to shifting of responsibility, blame, and confusion. The brain needs no regret because it sets it backward.

Living in the past and worrying about the past, only derails the capability of the brain to think of fresh ideas. Hence the person gets more confused and sad, as they can't figure out what's wrong with their productivity. The brain could get used to it and only push the person to stay in the past thoughts and it could lead to depression. As a gambler, depression is the fastest route to addiction. Redirecting the energy spent regretting could be an alternative for such a gambler. However we understand that the brain operates in ways that it could get sad for a lost opportunity, but that's not the end. More will arrive, which would be of greater rewards than the previous if only the gambler focuses on making his prediction game better.  Learning from past mistakes would be the best tool in making the future of the gambler better and more effective. Not doing any other thing other than regret, only shows that the future of the person won't get productive because he wasn't doing anything in the past.

I'm sure it won't be easy to stop. There must be a good person who wants to guide you out of there. You must learn to control your ambitions from gambling. Be sure gambling is not a shortcut to getting money, try to get money in other ways. If you think it's slow to get money, at least it's less risky than having to make gambling a place of dependence in making money.