Topic: How will you feel if it happens to you just like this? - page 3. (Read 2841 times)

However, we must recover from that feeling of regret so that we can be stronger than before and learn from our mistakes. It's not easy, but we must try to get out of that feeling of regret so we can try again. Experiencing failure is a normal thing and has been experienced by many people, especially gamblers who often gamble. However, many of them do not consider it a regret, especially if they can still gamble. But they must be wiser in using gambling and not using it as a way to make money. By learning from these mistakes, we will mature to gamble well and not just chase wins or recover from losses.

Regret will occur at the end when everything doesn't go as we expected. And if we have experienced failure and regret, we must be able to learn the lesson so that we will not experience the same thing in the future. Regret must end immediately. Otherwise, we will get worse and not come out of regret. Learning from this experience can give us a better sense of responsibility, and we will also learn to control ourselves better.

Yeah, learning is one of the best things you can do in life.

You can improve yourself, and that never actually expires. You can live a life where you learn every day, forever.

I don't think there are any limits in terms of personal growth.

Your regret is always true and every gambler must have experienced what is called regret because of the failure or loss that occurred, but getting too deep and getting caught up in regret is also useless.
Regretting too much about failure or defeat will never return conditions to their original state and will never be able to return the money that has been lost.
Several times I conveyed and reminded you that you should never be too deep in regret and it is better to treat failure as a lesson and also useful experience.
That way, in the future, every gambler will be more careful and less careless when gambling, they will never repeat the same thing and of course they will be wiser in making decisions when betting.

Basically, regret actually occurs because of state of mind and psychology that cannot accept result that is not in line with expectations or cannot go smoothly as originally planned.
And regret can make someone experience much worse condition, especially when they think about it too much and feel it with endless sadness.
If gambler is willing to learn from experience and is willing to use failure as valuable lesson then indirectly over time they can have more responsible attitude.

Even if I can understand in a way those which may feel this way, it is better for them to not harbor those kind of feelings for long, after all it does not make a lot of sense to be that disappointed over something you did not even had the opportunity to do.

Besides if a person can get that disappointed with a bet they did not made, then how disappointed will they get when they make a similar bet and they happen to lose it?

Well, as people we must always accept something, that we have to be very emphatic in doing things so that we can do them well and Better , that is, if we are looking for a way to do the best in the game, there are times When we Will miss some details such as Maybe that is what we regret, but if we start to see all that it should be seen as a teaching and we Should not grieve , just learn, because sometimes we learn it is like that , no matter what bad Happens to us , then in View of this Well , you could say that when we are seeing what can be beneficial for us , it can happen that when we are in a casino there are multiple things and possibilities, sometimes we don't want to go and play or leave it there, sometimes we need to pay attention to That, perhaps if you had won, but that Brought other unwanted consequences, and that is what we do not see , things happen for a Reason, sometimes things happen because there is a much Greater Purpose to do.

When we are not About to do something , if we Get stuck it is because Something Better is Coming our way, maybe what had to happen was like this , it was not won but at least something was learned, and when you are in a game you will know how to act, For that reason we have to give everything and learn everything we can, this implies Earning or losing money, that is why everything we do is worth it, when things are not appropriate, there can be greater Forces that do not allow it just to protect ourselves, then when we see things from that point of view , everything usually changes, there is nothing more to do just accept things as they are, that is why when we are doing many things for our benefit, we have to consider each thing that we do , It happens and how it happens , things always have a Mystery , but we must learn to Accept them, and move on, because it is the only Way we can learn.

Yeah, regret can destroy people's lives.

The best thing that a person can do is to simply move on with their lives instead of keep thinking of the past.

It's a hard thing to do though, but it's for the best.

Regret is a natural thing experienced by someone when everything does not go according to what they wanted. Many gamblers have experienced incidents like you where they lost their money and couldn't find it after searching for a while. And it turns out that while they were looking, the clock was ticking, and finally, they were too late to place their bet. But actually, there must be something behind losing our money because maybe if we go to an offline casino to buy the ticket, we can't get it.

Often the things that make us regret are not because we couldn't do them but because some things prevent us from doing them. But that's how I felt, and if I think about it, I do feel regretful. And I'm not able to do anything.

You would really be having that kind of regret in speaking about missing those opportunity on changing up your life totally in speaking about finances but since we dont have the money to bet on then
it would really be just that remains to be imaginary and this is something that wont really be that shocking anymore if we do speak about those regret on missing out those opportunity
on which this isnt really just that limited to gambling but also in other simple aspects in life on which it does involved that kind of decision making. In gambling then i do really have those moments on making up some those assumption kind of betting but didnt really put up money since you are really having no money to bet on and it turns out that it is a win then you would be having that kind of impulsive feeling but since the amount involved on winning isnt that big or life changing then it doesnt really that affect much.

Definitely, the feeling is regret. You will be wondering why you never had the money to bet on the game in the first place. I have been in this situation once before and I could remember that I had the money then but on my way to the betting hub (back then was young and I did not have my own internet device so made use of he local betting hub around where I reside) I lost the money. On the process of finding the money, the time passed so I had to go home and act like nothing happened. The next morning i checked the scores and the game entered. I felt very bitter that day. The feeling of missing out is more annoying than the feeling of losing. However, that day i consoled myself because if the game had lost i would have been happy that i did not play the game. Everything happens for a reason and its not a spiritual thing its just being unfortunate at that point in time.

Yeah, that's normal if you think that it's just coincidence. Though some thinks that they should pay attention and not to missed the opportunities but when they push it then suffer from losses they blame themselves and take it personally, you should be ready to whatever experienced you may have after that game.

If you are not ready to take the risk, it's better not to play and just treat things as normal missed and you have other time to try some luck and win the game.

Interesting, eh? This is how gamblers navigate chance and certainty. Combining the pleasure of prediction with financial restraint is a telling experience. Do you find it intriguing that gambling, a game of luck, requires self-awareness and control?

Examine betting 50 times more against the odds. Though tempting, gambling is amusement, not a source of money. Gamble properly and accept losses as part of the game. The issue is balancing the risk of loss with the excitement of winning.

Your situation requires equilibrium. Given the risk, you've sensibly avoided life-changing bets. Understanding gambling's unpredictability and that it shouldnt fix financial difficulties informs this strategy. Responsible gambling requires understanding when to quit, no matter how likely a victory.

I have experienced this many times and it is not funny. I struggle to believe it is just ordinary without any spiritual influence. How can I be so eager to gamble when I will lose and reluctant to gamble when I will likely lose? Many times I have had my predictions worked out when I failed to play the game due to forgetting it or network issues as I use online gambling platforms. At the end of the day, everything will go smoothly when the luck is not on my side and when I was supposed to win, I end up not playing the game.

For the sake of my sanity, I refused to accept that there is any spiritual influence to this even when the evidence are many, rather I just take it as mere coincidence. Since I'm not the only one in such situation, I guess it is normal.

In the event that you're looking for the most effective way to get the most out of the game, then you'll want to check out this article to find out how to get the most out of the game, The same is true in gambling, when they gamble and don't get a win, they can say that their money is gone and maybe they will be upset,  with the annoyance they feel, maybe curiosity will arise or a sense of wanting revenge where they return to gambling with the previous goal of pursuing a win that can cover the defeat that has been obtained, and it will not be far the results will be the same, and then like that again, again and again just like that. If they have not realized then there will be no end to it, victory is there but we must be able to think of ways to outsmart it I mean thinking of ways to gamble that produce but without losing the money they have. people who have a good mindset will probably understand what kind of way,  gambling by being responsible for the actions taken is necessary  also gambling with self-control so that the possibility of losses that will occur is less likely  this must be applied so that there is no big loss.

I think everyone has their own way of doing gambling, and the story you said indicates those who cannot control themselves, where they are annoyed with slot gambling games that always give them defeat. this also triggers gambling addiction and they can gamble again using their savings, and if they still can't stop they can also take out a loan to return to gambling because if it's called gambling addiction, it will be difficult to get rid of that addiction, especially if they are still young, their thinking is still more supportive of this activity because unstable thinking is also easily tempted by things that he thinks are interesting. this of course must be avoided. This of course must be avoided, in my opinion you should never give up giving advice to your friend, and even if you are fed up with advising them it is better to just let it go, because I myself did that. where I was fed up with giving advice to my friend who was addicted to gambling, I finally let him go, let him realize by himself that what he was doing was wrong.

For that I wouldn't mind you share me some games maybe I will try my luck as well, for long now I haven't made a good cash out from gambling, I have been so worried since my lost over the days/week is much it's better we have people that often win shared their games with us.
Please I understand the risk associated while gambling and I won't go further trying to increase my wager more than what I can afford to spare for the games.

Some times gambler make good prediction about gambling but he doesn't have enough money. Gambling wins and losses are very common. I have been gambling for a long time and still do. I often follow different schedules of gambling. Sometimes I find it very easy to predict the winning of certain games. But at that time in many cases there is not enough money. And that time is the most difficult time for a gambler. Because i feels that winning the game is certain and i can get more money from it. I don't bet money that will change my life but sometimes that chance comes to me. But there is nothing to do because the risk is high that is not possible for me. Would you dare to bet especially if you get 50 times more against any betting odds? Of course there is a high chance of losing if you bet.

Looking at the date when this thread was been created, I don't think any gambler will still have to put such in mind anymore, because it's long gone and truth be told, I wouldn't have remembered if only I did not come across this thread.
Keeping this in mind will bring no good rather than harm, so what the need?
Most time luck don't come to us, but come at the time we don't need it, I am just trying to say that, sometimes if we are planning to win in gamble, the winning doesn't come until the time we don't even put in mind to win at all, and it has been like that for a long time but sometimes luck comes to us when we need it too.
And lastly, ever since I have been winning some games from betting.

Of course, it is very difficult for a gambling addict to accept and carry it out, because he only relies on carelessness and beliefs that he thinks are right and will definitely easily get the win he hopes for. although this is still doubtful.
It is true that beginners should try to apply this kind of behavior when gambling, so that it can also prevent them from becoming addicted to gambling and also anticipate not losing a lot of money so that later beginners do not experience large depreciation due to the risk of gambling.

I think op has to accept the fate that what has happened has happened and there is no way keep killing oneself for a game that he didn't keep the funds ready and was played accordingly to how he predicted, we should also remembered that sometimes we have good games predicted but  within ourselves we might think it would play accordingly without knowing that it's on the contrary side. I have predicted games which I thought was a very nice game to say but guess what? The games didn't went as predicted then there was a day I picked a random game then staked with little amount which I said let me just try luck with NGN 100 to win about NGN 3k to my surprised it played and I began to cry if I know I could have borrowed money maybe NGN 10k to place this bet who knows what could have been of me by now.

Actually depends on a certain person because there are ones who do really keeps on minding about on the things that do happen in the past or even trying out to assume that they would win but ending up on frustration and disappointment on which it is really just that normal that it would really be giving out that kind of vibe and this is something not really that different when we are assuming something positive but we didnt take up any bets. Regrets would usually happen on the time that you do make out some selection but ended up on having no bets and you do end up on regretting because you will be thinking that what if you had made out some bets?

We are really just that indeed humans and it is really just that normal to have those kind of emotions on which you would really be that
thinking about on lots of what if's but we do know that not everything would be materialize if you do really just make out those imaginary bets.
It would really be just leading into frustration which might lead into desperation and you would be that impulsive and on the time that it would be that on severe
manner then this is where you do make out those bets impulsively.

OP, this is not a difficult question to answer at all and I believe that everybody will react similarly to it as we are human beings, we will surely feel it. This happened to me in trading many times when I was broke and I would be seeing sure trading patterns on different asset calls but I wouldn't be able to do anything. It got worse when all the market moved just as I expected and I couldn't make any move simply because I had no money to trade.

It's so sad, and it toys with our psychology since it's a situation where one's hands are tied despite having the potential and experience to deliver that thing. Well, that makes us different as well, as some might think it for longer people of the time, others will get it off their mind as fast as possible. For me, it affects me mentality with many thoughts of it, but it doesn't pass 1 week in all the ones I have witnessed. I believe it is better this way since no one will ever be able to change the past. What has happened has happened, why beat myself constantly over that?