When you go to get a loan and they ask to list your assets and liabilities to determine your credit worthiness, guess where cars and real estate goes. Under assets, not liabilities. The loans you have on the assets are liabilities.
You really see your car as an asset? Really? I understand that it's confusing for financially illiterate people to classify their own house as a liability but a car should be pretty much an easy one to understand.
And yes for the bank, your house and your car are an asset
for them because they can sell it off if you default on your loan. But for yourself your car, your phone and your house are not an asset.
If you fail to see that, you're doomed to stay poor like most other people. Go ahead, get into debt to buy another car and feel rich. But stay poor.
Under your definition, your 401K account would be a liability because you have to pay brokerage fees. Is a retirement account that holds $50,000 in it an asset or a liability?
First observation: a 401k is a dumb place to put your money, the government knows where your money is you get taxed when you put money in and they tax you again when you get money out. When they feel like it, they tax it some more or just plainly confiscate it (like they did in Hungary). Try getting money out before retirement and you get penalised again.
Second: how much net result do you get from a 401k? Do you get 100% of the profit or are the managers of the funds keeping 80% of the profits? And those profits, are they taxed as ordinary income (sometimes as high as 35 or 50% depending on the country you live in)? I bet that inflation is rising faster than the increase you'll see over the lifetime in a 401k, thus robbing you of money.
Third: are 401k's free of risks of a market crash? Can you get an insurance to get your money back like with real estate or even a car?
Can you go to a bank and ask for a loan to start a 401k? Why not? If it's an asset, then the bank should be happy to loan you the money? You can get a loan for something as stupid as a car...
A 401k is an investment but a stupid one that is costing you money in the end. But if it wasn't for 401k's people would not save for later anyways...