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Topic: If we can educate our kids at home why do we need to send them at school? - page 17. (Read 6859 times)

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we can educate our child at home . but it is not possible to  teach all the things that they need to learn. In our home, we can teach them basic etiquette , their responsibility and some basic knowledge .But, in school they learn new things , different subjects , make new friends  and much more which we cannot provide them at home .  Smiley
They can make friends at clubs or other gatherings that are directly relevant to their interests. School actually achieves the opposite of "making friends" for a very large number of people, so socializing is not an aspect that is best learned in school.

School also does a very good job at getting people to think in binary boxes and to make false assumptions about their own interests and abilities. Children are very curious and want to know, learn, do and try everything. Until they start going to school. At that point they start hating everything that is related to effort.

Kids should only go to school if their parents literally don't have the time they need to spend with their own children.

Many unfortunately do not have time to deal with children, but there is an opportunity to invite teachers to help the child develop fully. I know children at home school and they are 14 years old can write their own book or make a good idea for business.
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we can educate our child at home . but it is not possible to  teach all the things that they need to learn. In our home, we can teach them basic etiquette , their responsibility and some basic knowledge .But, in school they learn new things , different subjects , make new friends  and much more which we cannot provide them at home .  Smiley
They can make friends at clubs or other gatherings that are directly relevant to their interests. School actually achieves the opposite of "making friends" for a very large number of people, so socializing is not an aspect that is best learned in school.

School also does a very good job at getting people to think in binary boxes and to make false assumptions about their own interests and abilities. Children are very curious and want to know, learn, do and try everything. Until they start going to school. At that point they start hating everything that is related to effort.

Kids should only go to school if their parents literally don't have the time they need to spend with their own children.
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we can educate our child at home . but it is not possible to  teach all the things that they need to learn. In our home, we can teach them basic etiquette , their responsibility and some basic knowledge .But, in school they learn new things , different subjects , make new friends  and much more which we cannot provide them at home .  Smiley
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If we can educate our kids at home why do we need to send them at school?

If socialization is a problem to homeschool, there are many solutions to that ;-)
First an foremost, it's not everything that you can teach the child at home, there isn't enough resources or the parent doesn't have the necessary training to teach the child and secondly, its good for the kid to go to school so that he can bond with other kids as well so he will not be socially awkward in the near future
To send kids to the school is not a fashion  but if you want your kids to be good and honorable person then you should send him to school because in school there is not only academic teaching but in school kids start learning how to leave in society and how to make friends and how to manage if you fail or pass.
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Going to school is not all about learning subjects, you also build character out of your kids. There they learn failure and how to cope with it. Thats one thing you cant teach at home no matter how good the tutor are.
Sending your kids to school is not a fashion that all people are doing this but it’s the basic need because no one can complete all the needs of school kids in their home. In school there is not just a teaching to kids but there is every types of kids through which your kids interface and get knowledge about them. Also a person get their friends from school.
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Are you sure you can fully cover a data about a particular subject and explain it to them thoroughly? Remember that we humans are busy organisms, always finding a way to do something and earn for a living. If you have kids and that your idea is to educate them by means of teaching them everything all by yourself then i think your mistaken. You cant dedicate most of your time just by teaching.. you need to earn for a living and even if you decide to manage your time.. it still does not work because kids require half of their time in learning.
School is not just a place for learning books. But school is place where you can also learn how to leave in your society and how you will deal when you are fail or pass. From school kids create their relations with other kids and in future this relation was also a history for that person
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You got your point but there is a big difference about home schooling and attend in school. For example having friends that you can bond every week. Or having their first crush. And playing after school. And the best thing about this is your children will learn how to manage their time their time properly because in home schooling their time is on their hand.

That's why we need a larger world population. Kids with many brothers and sisters learn their social life while being home schooled.

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How many brothers and sisters an individual will have? A maximum of 10? That number is not large enough. The kids need to interact with hundreds if not thousands of people, to develop their social skills. And please don't misunderstand me. I am saying this out of my own experience. Some of my friends were home-schooled, and I can notice their deficiencies whenever I talk to them.

Everything depends on the person. Some people find it more convenient to study at home and in the future they will not have problems communicating with other people.
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it is because they need other people to interact with. if they just learn anything with us in home, they will never know what happen outside the house and it will make them hard have relation with other people
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To educate our kid at home is not good as educate them in School. Because first of all now a days parents have not enough time to provide them all material and time for example at School our kids have specific time which can be provided by teachers and second thing teachers are professional. In my opinion School is better for education as compared to educate them at home.
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I'm reading a lot about academics and social skills...but I feel like school teaches a LOT about dealing with conflict. Kids are mean, but they learn boundaries and how to deal with boundary-crossers.
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If we can educate our kids at home why do we need to send them at school?

If socialization is a problem in homeschooling, there are many solutions to that ;-)
For me, I think thats why we sent our childrens from school is because, teachers in every stages know more than we know. Our childrens need to have knowledge in every subjects because all of that can use him/her in life in the future. There's so many thing that we don't definitely know that only teacher's and professor can explain not because of the books they have but also the knowledge they gain in the long term of teaching.
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Sending you kids to school gives them a formal education. Educating them at home by yourself won't give them diploma that they need. Schools hire educator that has passed the standards of a given schools, schools don't hire just anyone they see, they have to see if the one who is applying to be their educator has a lot to contribute to their specific school. For example in college, in an engineering school they don't hire police school graduates, because it is an engineering school, and the other way around. Engineers aren't need in a police academy.
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If we can educate our kids at home why do we need to send them at school?

If socialization is a problem to homeschool, there are many solutions to that ;-)
Socialization is an important thing that children learn directly. Then what other solution do you mean? Go to school also to build children's character, socialize with others directly and make friends. Not all lucky children can get enough education at home. The busyness of parents is always a constraint to divide the time. Therefore schools are indispensable for the development of children.

Not all schools will help the child to develop socially. On the contrary, because of visiting schools where classmates laugh at the child, he will become more closed to communication with other people. The child must choose with whom to communicate with him, and not to be forced into a school where children of different levels of development are located.
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Not all countries allow home schooling I believe. Unless they have some serious reasons. But in general, in some countries like Eastern Europe or middle Asian cointries, it doesn't seem like they have this choice, please, prove me wrong if you know differently
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I think kids have to go to school to mix with other kids to learn things they can't learn at home and have friends
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I think kids have to go to school to mix with other kids to learn things they can't learn at home and have friends
That is true. Kids go to school to learn how to socialize with other kids. This will teach them how to treat a person nicely and how to be caring towards others. It's fun learning when you are with friends. We must not restrict our kids to have friends.
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Yes home schooling is a good teaching grounds for others but you cannot compare that to the things the school can give to the students. First of all not all the parents are well educated on other subjects but at the schools, the Teachers or the Professors are all finished in their studies and has a degree on the subjects that they are teaching or their majors.
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Either home school or public school will help kids learn a lot. BUt sending kids to school is a lot better. Why? Because in school (public or private) it is not just the mental state of a person that will be developed but also the social, physical, moral,  and spiritual aspect. Schools helps kids experience the real world, find friend, improve their character and skills. Face challenges and will find their real self that will make them find a nice job someday.
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If we can educate our kids at home why do we need to send them at school?

If socialization is a problem in homeschooling, there are many solutions to that ;-)
We can educate our children at home but can not teach it the knowledge. Children should therefore be brought to school so that they are taught basic and advanced knowledge of all aspects of nature and society. The teacher will equip them with the knowledge to make jewelry come into life.
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