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Quote from: nira09 on August 13, 2019, 11:26:13 AM

Quote from: btc78 on August 13, 2019, 09:36:52 AM

I think it wasn’t defeat is what we need to accept but just a losing streak.whe you talk about defeat that means it’s a total failure but in gambling we only need to control our self everytime we are not i a good luck,we need to just stop and go home ,make yourself calm and have a rest
Comeback when you feel like you have a good mood and confidence to play again.from this point we may win or atleast save some money in risking without winning consecutively

true, the point that needs to be considered for a gambler is how he regulates his emotions. so he knows when he has to stop and when he has to keep playing. don't force your luck too much at one time

Players who are emotional playing sometimes when they lose only some they panic start to increase their bet until they lose because they want to get back their capital or to win big. Players need to focus of what they are doing to make a good amount of bet. Gambling is risky so what ever happens everyone must accept that. Just keep aside your emotion in playing is the best.

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Quote from: coingrowth on August 13, 2019, 09:42:50 AM

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It is not good for us because even though we are failing and repeating the same thing will easily harm us in many cases. Accepting defeat in business is good but in gambling not suggestable because we don't know whether we are going to win for the rest of life through gambling.

It is actually the vice versa, and the whole point of this thread is to prevent gamblers from chasing their losses. Yes, we don't (and we can't) know whether we are going to win, so we must accept our defeat before starting playing and thus save ourselves from the otherwise possible big loss. Preventing a big loss is equal to big win, hence the title of this thread.

I agree with you, if we stop ourself to play continuity in betting that meant we have saved ourself from coming loss in gambling. Actually it is normal thing for you and me and also good gamblers, but it is hard to accept defeat for addicted gamblers, they can't accept their defeat in gambling, they fight till the end and in the end they always in loss. But in my thinking, accept defeat, it is better than you keep losing your whole money.

Truth to be told, people don't necessarily lose everything with chasing their losses. In some cases they recover what was lost, and in extremely rare cases they even win more than that which was lost previously. Gamblers are aware of such cases, and that's why it is so tempting for them to try to recover. But what they forget, is that with such actions they are breaking the main rule of gambling: No matter what, you should not risk more money than you can afford to lose in one day. If you care about those around you, you should never break this rule.

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Quote from: nira09 on August 13, 2019, 11:26:13 AM

Quote from: btc78 on August 13, 2019, 09:36:52 AM

I think it wasn’t defeat is what we need to accept but just a losing streak.whe you talk about defeat that means it’s a total failure but in gambling we only need to control our self everytime we are not i a good luck,we need to just stop and go home ,make yourself calm and have a rest
Comeback when you feel like you have a good mood and confidence to play again.from this point we may win or atleast save some money in risking without winning consecutively

true, the point that needs to be considered for a gambler is how he regulates his emotions. so he knows when he has to stop and when he has to keep playing. don't force your luck too much at one time

Let's stick with practicing out brains not to follow our emotions.

I am always saying it, always repeating it, and will always say it for a lot of people to read. DON'T EVER FOLLOW YOUR EMOTIONS IN GAMBLING! JUST ENJOY THE GAME AND DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING ELSE SINCE THE TIME YOU EXPECT SOMETHING FROM IT, YOU ALREADY LOSE!.

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Quote from: coingrowth on August 13, 2019, 09:42:50 AM

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It is not good for us because even though we are failing and repeating the same thing will easily harm us in many cases. Accepting defeat in business is good but in gambling not suggestable because we don't know whether we are going to win for the rest of life through gambling.

It is actually the vice versa, and the whole point of this thread is to prevent gamblers from chasing their losses. Yes, we don't (and we can't) know whether we are going to win, so we must accept our defeat before starting playing and thus save ourselves from the otherwise possible big loss. Preventing a big loss is equal to big win, hence the title of this thread.

I agree with you, if we stop ourself to play continuity in betting that meant we have saved ourself from coming loss in gambling. Actually it is normal thing for you and me and also good gamblers, but it is hard to accept defeat for addicted gamblers, they can't accept their defeat in gambling, they fight till the end and in the end they always in loss. But in my thinking, accept defeat, it is better than you keep losing your whole money.

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Quote from: coingrowth on August 13, 2019, 09:42:50 AM

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It is not good for us because even though we are failing and repeating the same thing will easily harm us in many cases. Accepting defeat in business is good but in gambling not suggestable because we don't know whether we are going to win for the rest of life through gambling.

It is actually the vice versa, and the whole point of this thread is to prevent gamblers from chasing their losses. Yes, we don't (and we can't) know whether we are going to win, so we must accept our defeat before starting playing and thus save ourselves from the otherwise possible big loss. Preventing a big loss is equal to big win, hence the title of this thread.

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Quote from: btc78 on August 13, 2019, 09:36:52 AM

I think it wasn’t defeat is what we need to accept but just a losing streak.whe you talk about defeat that means it’s a total failure but in gambling we only need to control our self everytime we are not i a good luck,we need to just stop and go home ,make yourself calm and have a rest

That is what op means by the word defeat. He didn't say defeat in real life, he meant that if you want to win in gambling you must accept your mistake when you get greedy during winning streaks then learn from it.

Quote from: btc78 on August 13, 2019, 09:36:52 AM

Comeback when you feel like you have a good mood and confidence to play again.from this point we may win or atleast save some money in risking without winning consecutively

Your mood doesn't help you to win, it's all based on your luck. You only win if you are able to control your emotion and stop playing when you've gain some profit.

There is no place for emotions in gambling we will have to remain stronger for winning and don’t expect about any result. Lose and win both depends on us if we only want to win we will have to struggle and if we once lose just count it as your experience and move on improve your skills and gamble again you will surely win.

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Quote from: btc78 on August 13, 2019, 09:36:52 AM

I think it wasn’t defeat is what we need to accept but just a losing streak.whe you talk about defeat that means it’s a total failure but in gambling we only need to control our self everytime we are not i a good luck,we need to just stop and go home ,make yourself calm and have a rest
Comeback when you feel like you have a good mood and confidence to play again.from this point we may win or atleast save some money in risking without winning consecutively

true, the point that needs to be considered for a gambler is how he regulates his emotions. so he knows when he has to stop and when he has to keep playing. don't force your luck too much at one time

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Quote from: btc78 on August 13, 2019, 09:36:52 AM

I think it wasn’t defeat is what we need to accept but just a losing streak.whe you talk about defeat that means it’s a total failure but in gambling we only need to control our self everytime we are not i a good luck,we need to just stop and go home ,make yourself calm and have a rest

That is what op means by the word defeat. He didn't say defeat in real life, he meant that if you want to win in gambling you must accept your mistake when you get greedy during winning streaks then learn from it.

Quote from: btc78 on August 13, 2019, 09:36:52 AM

Comeback when you feel like you have a good mood and confidence to play again.from this point we may win or atleast save some money in risking without winning consecutively

Your mood doesn't help you to win, it's all based on your luck. You only win if you are able to control your emotion and stop playing when you've gain some profit.

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Quote from: btc78 on August 13, 2019, 09:36:52 AM

I think it wasn’t defeat is what we need to accept but just a losing streak.whe you talk about defeat that means it’s a total failure but in gambling we only need to control our self everytime we are not i a good luck,we need to just stop and go home ,make yourself calm and have a rest
Comeback when you feel like you have a good mood and confidence to play again.from this point we may win or atleast save some money in risking without winning consecutively

^ Definitely right, when the amount that you set had been lost then stop and come back in the next day when your mind gets a refresh. Because when you are playing longer in gamble it makes you out of focus and probably you can't control your emotion and makes your day failure. Accepting defeat is one of the best ways you can avoid the depress on your self. Nevertheless, that is being good at gambling if you wanted to earn a big profit, be contented of what you have got and accept what is possible happen and you are fine.

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Quote from: Betwrong on August 13, 2019, 06:09:40 AM

Quote from: samcrypto on August 12, 2019, 09:31:01 PM

~ I accept all my failures in life including in gambling, and started over again i'm happy enough for this.

There is a big difference between accepting your failures in life and starting over again and doing the same in gambling. And the difference is there already when you are only planning to start your activity. It would be ridiculous to think in advance that you will fail with almost any of our daily life activities, but in gambling this kind of thinking is generally considered the most correct one.

It is not good for us because even though we are failing and repeating the same thing will easily harm us in many cases. Accepting defeat in business is good but in gambling not suggestable because we don't know whether we are going to win for the rest of life through gambling.

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I think it wasn’t defeat is what we need to accept but just a losing streak.whe you talk about defeat that means it’s a total failure but in gambling we only need to control our self everytime we are not i a good luck,we need to just stop and go home ,make yourself calm and have a rest
Comeback when you feel like you have a good mood and confidence to play again.from this point we may win or atleast save some money in risking without winning consecutively

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Quote from: Betwrong on August 13, 2019, 06:09:40 AM

Quote from: samcrypto on August 12, 2019, 09:31:01 PM

~ I accept all my failures in life including in gambling, and started over again i'm happy enough for this.

There is a big difference between accepting your failures in life and starting over again and doing the same in gambling. And the difference is there already when you are only planning to start your activity. It would be ridiculous to think in advance that you will fail with almost any of our daily life activities, but in gambling this kind of thinking is generally considered the most correct one

I think we in fact fail in planning most of our daily activities. And that's not because we are so bad planners ourselves but rather because we are living in a fantasy world created by our imagination where things are not what they really are. It just so happens that the mistakes we make in real life can be easily fixed in a semi-automatic way without a lot of thinking and contemplating. They don't lead to massive financial losses, either. That's why we don't particularly care about them, so they mostly go unnoticed by us

But gambling (as well as trading, for the record) is totally different in this respect

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Quote from: samcrypto on August 12, 2019, 09:31:01 PM

~ I accept all my failures in life including in gambling, and started over again i'm happy enough for this.

There is a big difference between accepting your failures in life and starting over again and doing the same in gambling. And the difference is there already when you are only planning to start your activity. It would be ridiculous to think in advance that you will fail with almost any of our daily life activities, but in gambling this kind of thinking is generally considered the most correct one.

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Quote from: joshy23 on August 13, 2019, 12:10:49 AM

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Before gambling, you must know what are the consequences and risks that you may face. Gambling is pure luck and if you are not lucky enough, you will lose so if that happens learn to accept it and move on. If you lose, don't do revenge gambling because it will give you more losses and will be more depressed if that happens Sad

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Stress and more depressions when you are not ready to accept your defeats, but if you are willing to take that risk and you will be able to enjoy whatever the results may be, time will come for you if lucks permitted you to win a large amount of profits then it's added more enjoyment to your stay inside the industry.

Accepting the risk is the thing that we should have before we gamble, so we know what we will do if somehow we are losing the money on that day. We don't need to come back to the gambling places if we don't want to see another loss because that could impact our feeling to become sad. By accepting the risk, we can come back to the gambling place at any times because we know that in gambling, we only have two choices, win or lose. We will be the winner in someday, but we never know when it's coming.

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Quote from: shoreno on August 12, 2019, 11:46:40 PM

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If you lose, don't do revenge gambling because it will give you more losses and will be more depressed if that happens Sad

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that only shows that you are weak and your saying that your easily giving up . tryin isnt wrong but it should also be moderated

Weak and wise look similar

Many wise people say that if you can't change something (e.g. your past and your past bets), your best option is not to hit the head against it (as you can as well hit it against a brick wall, with the same level of success) but to give in, accept the sad fact and move on. This is probably what OP meant by accepting defeat as there is essentially nothing you can do other than to embark on revengeful gambling which will only incur further losses

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Before gambling, you must know what are the consequences and risks that you may face. Gambling is pure luck and if you are not lucky enough, you will lose so if that happens learn to accept it and move on. If you lose, don't do revenge gambling because it will give you more losses and will be more depressed if that happens Sad

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Stress and more depressions when you are not ready to accept your defeats, but if you are willing to take that risk and you will be able to enjoy whatever the results may be, time will come for you if lucks permitted you to win a large amount of profits then it's added more enjoyment to your stay inside the industry.

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Before gambling, you must know what are the consequences and risks that you may face.

yes this is what i put on my mind but i dont know about the others if they knew that fact or maybe they are still insist to continue even if they arent prepared for the consequences .

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Gambling is pure luck and if you are not lucky enough, you will lose so if that happens learn to accept it and move on.

not lucky enough ? means there are still a little luck remain on you . therfor you can still win but the chances are low . accepting shouldnt also be applied when loosing but its a good idea if we can accept if we win even at one time so that we can move on and quit .

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If you lose, don't do revenge gambling because it will give you more losses and will be more depressed if that happens Sad

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that only shows that you are weak and your saying that your easily giving up . tryin isnt wrong but it should also be moderated .

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Quote from: samcrypto on August 12, 2019, 09:31:01 PM

We really have to try and clear our mindset before playing and lose another money. If your purpose is to chase what you've lost then its not good for you, Its hard when you don't give it a try just like on investing. We want to win big without experiencing any losses, well its too impossible to happen and if your mind like this then losing is inevitable. I accept all my failures in life including in gambling, and started over again i'm happy enough for this.

Chasing one's losses is okay for me. I don't see anything wrong with that because pride is in our nature, all of us hate losing that's why our body wants a vengeance naturally. What is deadly is when you are now losing control, you chase your losses eagerly without even noticing that you are now starting to waste what should only be kept. If you are playing a roulette and sudeenly lose then it's okay to play again maybe 2 or 3 times more (but well, still depends if you can afford to) hoping to reclaim your losses or at least minimize it but if you failed after that then that's the right time to be disciplined. Stop! Accept that it's not your day and better luck next time

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Quote from: Betwrong on August 12, 2019, 11:51:00 AM

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~In all kinds of gambling,defeat is something one should a player knows to handle.If he had won most of the time and then defeat comes for him,he should know how to recognize it and must be able to know when to stop or else he will always be a loser in the end.Accept the fact that in gambling,it's either you win some or you lose some.

I think the main idea of the OP, with which I completely agree btw, is accepting your defeat before you start playing.

I know it's easier said than done, and I myself don't always follow this pattern, but we, gamblers, should at least try to follow it. It's like a lifebuoy for us in the stormy ocean of gambling.

We really have to try and clear our mindset before playing and lose another money. If your purpose is to chase what you've lost then its not good for you, Its hard when you don't give it a try just like on investing. We want to win big without experiencing any losses, well its too impossible to happen and if your mind like this then losing is inevitable. I accept all my failures in life including in gambling, and started over again i'm happy enough for this.

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Quote from: legendster on August 11, 2019, 06:35:18 PM

I don't get the point of this post...
Okaym, you want me to accept defeat? Then what?

Just a very simple idealism. Accept defeat then make a bet again, its much more likely about chasing all of your loss, but I think this was just a false criteria and idea, for it will just make you lose everything.

Winning big doesn't have any tactics or plans to be followed. Its just a matter of understanding and luck. Ideals such this are just a mere influence to make the players bet all over again.

Quote from: serjent05 on August 12, 2019, 04:49:42 PM

Pride is what makes it for people to deny defeat and sadly only a few learn how to use it (pride) wisely. Aside from that fallacy in gambling is also one of the reason why player don't want to accept defeat.

It wasn't just pride, perhaps it is also because of the goals of having money in gambling makes you feel rich. Everyone has their pride on every game but as you said it clearly only few can use it wisely, its just a matter thinking for every wise men around the casino.

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