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Quote from: xSkylarx on August 09, 2019, 08:10:03 AM

If you consider your defeat a lesson then you will suceed next time you try. Defeat or failure is part of life, it depends how we analyze it either in a negative way or positive way. If you think for long term, a defeat would definitely help you to become a better person.

I fully agree, learning a leason from a lost is a great thing. From there, we will know what your next move is. We will be more observant and rational and will know what we will do if we are in a losing streak or when we are winning.

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Defeat is normal, and that will happen to all people, but unfortunately, not all people can accept defeat because they are hard to realize reality. Most gamblers cannot recognize the losses when it comes, and they still spend more time and more money to continue to play, but in the end, the result will be the same as before.

Pride is what makes it for people to deny defeat and sadly only a few learn how to use it (pride) wisely. Aside from that fallacy in gambling is also one of the reason why player don't want to accept defeat.

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~In all kinds of gambling,defeat is something one should a player knows to handle.If he had won most of the time and then defeat comes for him,he should know how to recognize it and must be able to know when to stop or else he will always be a loser in the end.Accept the fact that in gambling,it's either you win some or you lose some.

I think the main idea of the OP, with which I completely agree btw, is accepting your defeat before you start playing.

I know it's easier said than done, and I myself don't always follow this pattern, but we, gamblers, should at least try to follow it. It's like a lifebuoy for us in the stormy ocean of gambling.

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I don't get the point of this post...

Okaym, you want me to accept defeat? Then what?

I have always adviced people away from gambling and just because there's a horde of yesmen that want to encourage people to gamble, should I just accept defeat and give in?

Whatever happened to making your voice heard?

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Quote from: Shary on July 28, 2019, 04:31:12 AM

hello gamblers
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

these words are like quotes to me Cheesy

why many fail in gambling?? it's all because there are still many people who can't accept defeat, which they hope doesn't match the reality on the ground. There is no one in the world of gambling who has never lost, they must often lose but what causes them to still be able to profit is "the mentality of those who have been trained to accept defeat"

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When you're not accepting defeat then it may lead to something different that might destroy your life. If you easily accept your defeat then it means you are capable of finding a way to conquer the situation you're facing. That's how you will become strong and due to that situation, you'll learn and face it again to win. Cheesy

For me, it's the wonderful life hacks that we should learn.

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Quote from: michellee on August 05, 2019, 10:12:46 AM

Not all gamblers can accept defeat in gambling, especially for gamblers who have many experiences. I see my friends who gamble for a football game, and he uses money with his friends, but suddenly his team gets lost. His first expression is angry, and he says bad words with cannot hold his emotion but then we say to him that is normal if he gets lost in the game because the team will depend on how they can cooperate each other so they can win.

The very first emotions that will comes out when you are ain't ready accepting defeats, you'll got angered with people around you since you wanted to released all those bad emotions inside of you, but after you overcome everything then chances to bounce and tried to win back always there for your activities.

There are two ways one behave when he is faces a loss in gambling. Either he get disappointed and leave the gambling for the time being or he become angry and is overtaken by emotions which may result in wrong decision from him. The right act is to accept the defeat and think of a plan to avoid the mistake which caused the loss.

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Stop being a stereotype, Accepting defeat is not the thing that you have to consider winning big amounts of money in gambling. No matter how you can accept your losses the point that your luck is as low as 1% you will still be losing money. By any means accepting defeat will only save you from losing more money but it does not connect to winning big at all.

You wanna win big? Study a skill based game than a pure luck gambling game. Be smart in managing your finances as well. Lastly, be freaking lucky and put in a lot of money. You have to understand that winning "Big" is equal to "High" risk. The higher risk you put in the higher you can get but then again this are all destiny based thing.

Quote from: noormcs5 on July 28, 2019, 05:23:45 AM

I do not completely understand the meaning of accepting defeat here. What should a gambler do when he get defeated. Pack up and accept it and do not play further gambling ?

In all honestly, I find this post nonsense. In fact winning big in OP title was never been discussed and this not connect with the content of this post.

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Quote from: Shary on July 28, 2019, 04:31:12 AM

hello gamblers
many players are complaining about the way they always get busted, they keep playing in the same way and they are doing nothing but making their loss bigger. the point here is not about greed or being greedy, its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling. many players make good profits but they keep playing instead of stoping, and it always leads to one result,,,bust. how ? once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover, and it ends up losing all they have, the case here is not about greed, but about accepting defead. once you accept the loss and say ( its enough losing ) you can take what left from your profit, do it over and over and you will make a good profit.
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

Winning and losing is part of gambling, I don't know how can you win big by accepting defeats when it's a game of luck, you can accept defeat all the time but that will not mean that luck will be yours, when the dice roll even if you have the mindset that you will accept defeat if it's not in your favor, it will not change anything.

I've read from one case study that some compulsive gamblers are playing to lose, not to win, they just want to get the feeling of getting excited and coming back from losing, for some gamblers it's not the win it's always the excitement, you'll know that when you are playing the game to long.

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If you consider your defeat a lesson then you will suceed next time you try. Defeat or failure is part of life, it depends how we analyze it either in a negative way or positive way. If you think for long term, a defeat would definitely help you to become a better person.

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Accepting defeat give you an opportunity to think over again and modify your strategies and model you are following in gambling. This works pretty well and is regularly practiced in business world. You lose big and you look back to see what went wrong, work to restore it again and the odds of making it to the top popup. This is why it is vital to accept defeat.

Indeed defeat for me is very important, because with defeat we will know what is wrong from the strategies and decisions we make. Especially for newbies, a newbie needs more losses because every loss they will get experience, but unfortunately a newbie does not realize that their defeat is important.

And maybe only a pro gambler is difficult to accept defeat because they feel too confident with the abilities they have. They will always pursue their defeat until it becomes a victory, this is what we must avoid, overconfidence makes us forget that self-introspection is important.

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Defeat is something a big deal for everyone and it for sure nobody wants to keep it every day.
Though it won't make us a reason to quit but of course, it affects our mindset and makes some discouragement. If I'm losing 5 out of 10 bets it's a gonna be fair but if we just lose 8 times out of 10, there is something wrong with our strategies or in our self. It probably we don't have luck in gambling.

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True, because in gambling there are two kinds of possibility happen that you should accept. Because in gambling if you lucky then you win, but if you defeat then back again on the next, if you want to win big.

That is the kind of thinking that produces players addicted to gambling, it is very easy to accept a win and we can do it without any effort but when gamblers lose instead of accepting it as easily as they accepted the win, players begin to try to recover the money they have lost to the casino and begin to make bigger bets in an effort to reduce the time it could take, however the amount you bet does not change the odds of winning or losing and as such they will keep losing money, this is why I do not see my bets as money lost to the casino but as the price needed to pay to obtain some fun, similar to what you could expect to pay to see a movie at the cinema or the money needed to buy a video game.

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Quote from: Shary on July 28, 2019, 04:31:12 AM

hello gamblers
many players are complaining about the way they always get busted, they keep playing in the same way and they are doing nothing but making their loss bigger. the point here is not about greed or being greedy, its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling. many players make good profits but they keep playing instead of stoping, and it always leads to one result,,,bust. how ? once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover, and it ends up losing all they have, the case here is not about greed, but about accepting defead. once you accept the loss and say ( its enough losing ) you can take what left from your profit, do it over and over and you will make a good profit.
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

Its funny because some gamblers will have the mentality like 'my time will come when I hit the jackpot if I keep playing' Roll Eyes

Some of the really bad gamblers get so addicted to the dice games that they are convinced they will HAVE to win the jackpot at some time and keep playing until they have lost everything
It is called 'gambling' for a very good reason but some that are effected by the disease cant seem to come to terms and accept the fact they suffer from it

That's really not gonna happen. What if "his time never come" and he keep n losing money on every jackpot. Also many people do not have much extra money which they keep on losing and investing more. This type of approach can only be taken by those who are very rich. Normal gamblers will not be able to continue if they lose consecutively some good amounts.

Even rich can come to streets if they are not winning anything but keeps playing every day,so everyone needs to know their limits based on how much money they are having.Gambling can change someone life in minutes but it will happen only one in million bets so make sure you can withstand until?

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Yeah, chasing your loss is actually the worst thing to do. If you are placing bets in a way and you keep on losing, then change the way you are betting. Don't just randomly go and chase your loss as you will end up making more losses. Sometimes, it is better to let go (that is accept your defeat in your words) and start fresh and new. I have seen a lot of people chasing losses were they end up losing even more. Instead of chasing take a break and then start rolling again with new strategies!

That's normal to gambler but we should set a limit on how much we should only risk.
We have our emotion and sometimes we can't control it as we want to win, and chasing loses is the only way possible to be in the winning status faster.
This is quite risky but if you know your game and you are confident you can, I think this would also work sometimes.

Do you think gamblers who lose do not now about setting limit? There was a time I promised myself to always play my games using strategies but then I realized it is not so easy to do. So many times I exceed my limit and I am left with no option than to top up my game because the first didn’t bring profit, so its normal, what controls gambling is emotions although there are gamblers that are so disciplined that once the limit is exceeded they are done with the game for that day, such players will definitely find the method very helpful.

I do not agree that anyone would be completely confident in game, don’t forget that gambling is full of surprises and can be unpredictable, the overall best thing like the player has mentioned is to step down once there is a loss.

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Not all gamblers can accept defeat in gambling, especially for gamblers who have many experiences. I see my friends who gamble for a football game, and he uses money with his friends, but suddenly his team gets lost. His first expression is angry, and he says bad words with cannot hold his emotion but then we say to him that is normal if he gets lost in the game because the team will depend on how they can cooperate each other so they can win.

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I think the gamblers need to set a good mindset before playing, gambling is not for making profit because in long run, you will always lose, the house edge is giving note advantage for the house, so no matter how good your strategy is, you will lose in the end, but I agree that you should set limit when you played, it can't make you win but it will prevent you to go bankrupt

Setting limits is the best way to avoid being burned out, if you put good system with your limitations then the chance of enjoying while playing is much better, you can win some or lose some but in the end of the day you are still in good mindsets that this entertaining venue will serve its purpose, when you are lucky enough then winning some decent amount can happen to you and keeping your system will still keeps you to away from being bankrupt totally.

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Personally I have my limits for the number of bets I play within a time frame. After 3 bets, I most likely back off even if I'm winning or losing. You are right when you mentioned that people get greedy and keep Betting when they win bets, making them lose at the end most times. Let's remove greed from the picture and know our limits.

Say it to those greedy stupid gamblers out there Cheesy

. They don't know what are they limits and they will just gamble and gamble and they will only stop if they have no money anymore. I also have limits when I'm gambling. Around 4-5 bets is enough for me and I only spend a small amount on it. I don't want to get addicted into gambling.

Its easy to say those greedy gamblers, but it is hard that they understand it, because they have cross the limitations in gambling and they can't come and stop in limited manners, because they become greedy and have addiction of gambling.

Therefore, as a gambler in any gambling site we need to set goal or target for every time we are going to play.
Like if you want to play in dice games, once you see that your earning average is 3 to 5% you'll need to stop from there
then continue it on the next time you will play again. Because you are right we shouldn't be greed at all times.

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Quote from: Shary on July 28, 2019, 04:31:12 AM

hello gamblers
many players are complaining about the way they always get busted, they keep playing in the same way and they are doing nothing but making their loss bigger. the point here is not about greed or being greedy, its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling. many players make good profits but they keep playing instead of stoping, and it always leads to one result,,,bust. how ? once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover, and it ends up losing all they have, the case here is not about greed, but about accepting defead. once you accept the loss and say ( its enough losing ) you can take what left from your profit, do it over and over and you will make a good profit.
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

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Yes before you you are wanting to win big you have to accept your defeat.Because you will learn how ti win big in your defeat. Its not really easy to accept if you're defeated. But its the begging to learn your mistakes on how about to win the game.

Gamblers never believe in the concept of accepting defeat on their first attempt, and I don’t blame them because when I gamble and loose I do try and recover it by placing a second or third bet. However over a period of time I have learnt to cut my losses, and call it a day but doing this was painfully difficult. While this advise is helpful but not many will be able to implement it, because it’s gamblers basic instinct to recover their losses and not stop till they have recovered it

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I think the gamblers need to set a good mindset before playing, gambling is not for making profit because in long run, you will always lose, the house edge is giving note advantage for the house, so no matter how good your strategy is, you will lose in the end, but I agree that you should set limit when you played, it can't make you win but it will prevent you to go bankrupt

You can tell that but not to every gambler, well, sure majority aims for entertainment and they can just walk away with their loses, but there are some who seems to be serious when it comes to gambling, and they think they can make money and consider it as a stable income, well, they have to prove that to themselves because although it's possible, the success rate is very low.

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Quote from: Capt00 on August 02, 2019, 06:06:28 PM

Basically, losing is in high percentage than of winning in the world of gambling and I'm not thinking that by those winning side we could get more than enough to cover up our losses. In fact, it possible that it is just half of it and still we are losing. But of course, if we are a real gamblers it is not accepted into our part and we need more winnings than of losing.

If you take gambling as a business then you should be ready to face loses because loses is part of the business. The risk is there and you should be ready to face the reality of losing all your funds and if luck shines on you? It might turn to be great winning for you and you will make a huge fortune. However, it is better to play gamble for fun and that means putting funds that you can lose.

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