Topic: I'm in love with someone else's girlfriend - page 2. (Read 533 times)

Enjoy life. Don't waste time chasing a taken girl. The right love will come with the right person at the right time and place.

I would have to suggest that "love" will happen all through out your life (or at least feel like love). There are many men and women in the world to choose from for happiness. Do not rush and let life happen.

I also had fallen in love with someone else's boyfriend but over time I think why what chasing someone who does not love me there is still a woman out there that is more everything

Hey Dude! Wake up!

Stop that stupid feelings towards that girl. That's Erroneous.

She's already dating with someone just search for a better one.

if you think you can handle it, then go for it.

but to be honest, its probably not worth while, and you only want it because it seems easier to get

Don't jump into conclusion that it is already "love". What you are feeling is just desire to have that specific girl, it is an intense and short-lived passion that only lasts for a short duration and will leave you uninterested after a while. With this being said, just keep yourself busy and away from thinking about that girl so that you can focus on the more important things in life.

What makes you like it? his attitude? The easiest way is you deny it by itself. As the phrase, "from the eye to the heart," all starts from the gaze and so does your memory. Forget it, throw garbage out of charm until it's nice. Believe that he is not the right person for you.

Maybe it's for me not love, just want to have it.
Actually it's natural for men, but it's bad behavior, especially if we want to have our own friends, that's ugly.
Actually if we want to try harder, we can get someone better than the first.
Trust me.

That is not love at all , because you and that girl share a passion , it is only an infatuation. That girl will leave you in tine if she gets all that shew ants from you. And those kind of girl is nothing , focus on moving on and do anything that will help you to forget her. And date someone , like you said that there are many inerested at you much beautiful than that you are saying that you love. But knowing she is dating someone that girl is one of the bitches that are not contented in one guy.

It's infatuation, not love.   

I can't because I'm girl. but in my part. I like the suitor of my best friend. Not because he was handsome, maybe because of his characteristics. he's a gentleman, very patience person, kind and have a sense of humor

There's so much wrong with this situation. Both the guy and the girl in the original post need to be alone in my opinion. If you aren't a healthy person yourself you'll never have  a healthy relationship and nothing will ever be good enough for you.

Mine is kinda different issue. Am in love with two brothers, three best friends and i might be a lez.

He doesn't love her. He wanted her for sex and it's only an issue now because he's not the only one "tapping that a**". So his EGO can't handle it because he's comparing himself to this "friend" which he probably secretly despises. Realistically he probably knew this friend was dating this woman and to deal with his low self esteem he wanted to see if he could "pull this woman" from this friend to feel superior to him. It didn't work because she didn't stop seeing the guy.

The whole "I'm getting really frustrated" is only because he wanted to use this woman as a pawn and it's not working.

He needs to leave all women alone and seek some self help therapy or find a positive outlet to boost his self esteem.

I'm not buying the "I didn't know" when he said "been seeing her for a few years tho but never spoke" riiiiiiighhht. Like you're friends with a guy but don't know that he's been seeing this woman for years?? He has never shown you pictures of her yet you've been playing stalker for YEARS trying to find a way in? NOT BUYING IT.

If this guy could lie to someone he considers a friend and lie to this woman he's sleeping with then it's even more likely he'd have no problem lying to others with ease.

Honestly I think he's trash and OP you'd do best to drop him before he tries to screw your dog. I'll change my view after he gets therapy.

in my opinion, it will not happen because it is not my trait, if already have his own girlfriend, still have to be serious.

this is going to be my two cent advice, trust me what goes around comes around she was with you and was dating someone else what if you both arent the only ones in the picture and there are more guys out there whom shes seeing, just thinking aloud, what if in your choice of continuing a steady relationship she could cheat on you remember you cant change anyone expect they make a personal decision to change from whatever they feel they are doing. Its better your friend takes a long walk from that girl and gets healed and move on, he would surely find someone much better and suitable for him

I know that feelings, all you can do is leave the lady alone since you know who she's dating.

I think you should forget her.because she is not yours.let them happy together.you will find someone better than her.

Forget about her, try to wait for someone who is single.

I think it's natural because love sometimes does not make sense, I've experienced the same thing as you fall in love with someone else's love and it happens when I really need someone to share love. Kinda silly but that's the reality. Unless you can establish a relationship behind Because until whenever we just be a secret admirer just no more. My advice to find others because there are still many hearts waiting for the sincerity of your love. 
advice from a sad boy