Sorry I don't get where you get from a stolen video player to people owning you, your spouse or your children. And as I said, comparing society, which is inherited by and large, with a group of friends playing a video game, which is voluntary by and large, doesn't make sense to me. You can leave the group and it hurts no-one. Refuse to pay taxes and it does affect other people.
We'll get there, but we have to start somewhere. Do you own your own person? Is your life wholely your own? If so, can you give it away, like you can a physical object that you rightly own? Can someone else rightly take it from you against your will, if you have caused neither them, nor anyone that they might represent, any real harm?
Google Definition for ownership: the relation of an owner to the thing possessed; possession with the right to transfer possession to others
Do you own your own person? Your person is not a thing you can possess and it can't be transferred. Therefore it can't be owned.
You are most certainly a physical object. Human history suggests that the concept of ownership of particular humans is deeply ingrained in humanity, for good or bad.
Is your life wholly your own? You may decide to end your life. Society may decide you are depressed and stop you. So that makes the answer No.
Can someone else rightly take your life from you against your will? Yes. Should they ? In my opinion, only to prevent future harm. If you represent a future danger and death is what it takes to stop you, then even if you have done no harm, bring on the sword of death.
So you don't own you, then. So who does? As noted above, someone owns you. Either you own you, or society does; so which is it? Are you your own, or are you slave to the collective? It pretty much answers itself, because there can be no middle ground.