What you say is correct, winning is the main agenda which ends in chasing defeat, there is even a famous figure in my country who said "even if they win, it is the beginning of defeat" and I think that is true. The large number of people who have a bad view of gambling is due to the fault of the gamblers themselves who gamble excessively so that they often experience many problems and bad impacts. They should be able to consider the action they are going to take before regretting it in the end.
I think that the casino is always an Opportunity to show ourselves what we are capable of doing and achieving, sometimes we see that things can be very Difficult and can generate a lot of frustration if we determine that many things can be guaranteed, our Security is an Invaluable value that we should not lose even if we lose at the casino, we should always have willpower and action, in any case we will feel that it can take away our confidence because if we play and or win then it is already an Imminent Failure , but if we see it from another point of view things can Change and be better if we manage to handle it to have fun and Occasionally make a profit, it does not Matter if Society does not like it, it is not being harmed, there is no need to complicate things.
It is true that if gambling is done in a healthy way such as doing it just for fun and not upset by the losses that occur then there may not be a big problem such as the feeling of wanting to recover losses or chasing losses. But unfortunately, people also have mouths and eyes where they can see and comment on someone who is gambling, even though they are not harmed, you know that humans like to interfere in other people's business.
Sometimes when we play and assume certain behaviors we must do everything possible to ensure that things are done correctly, therefore we will always generate different ways of doing things, the maturity of our thinking is something that is decisive in a casino, in this case we must always consider doing things well, for example in a society it is always good to keep up appearances, but people will always have criticism, and generally they are destructive criticisms, so in a casino we must at all times have maturity to accept either winning or losing, and that is only what society sees, and if you are a person who collapses very easily with the bad things that happen in a casino, then that is the first thing that the most critical of a society will see.