Topic: Is getting addicted to gambling right or wrong? - page 7. (Read 967 times)

But there are also people who are wealthy and got broke due gambling isnt it. Its not that its wrong to be addicted, but there are people who do gambling but still able to control and discipline themselves. We all knew it is addicted and once you are hook you can never go out. Its a mind pscyhology for me that needs a 100% focus on.

Some of us can eventually control it but certain time will come that you cant since you knew in yourself that it dragged you already to a non stop cycle of it.

If you gets addicted to gambling, that is wrong because you use a wrong way to treat gambling. Gambling suppose to be an entertainment, not to be your primary activities. Gets addicted to gambling means you use gambling too often than others.

You see that if someone use gambling as their main activities, they will not do other things in their lives. They just wants to playing gambling more and more and they even thinks that gambling is their passion in their lives. They will sacrifice their most valuable assets and that can makes their lives ruins because of gambling.

You must have strong self control to avoids addicted to gambling and you can manage your gambling activities. You will also knows how to treat gambling as an entertainment and will not spends too much money or your time to playing gambling. People can gets rich from gambling but not many of them can gets that because gambling can makes people lose their money easily if they don't have self control and other things.

No two ways about it, gambling addiction is wrong, in fact, any addiction is wrong because how would you justify something that doesn't do anything good for yourself or the people around you. The day that I see a benefit from addiction that's applicable to everyone and not just a case to case basis is the day that I will change my mind that addiction is right because there's something beneficial to it. What's wrong with you people still finding ways to try and make it look like there's other way around this? The justifications don't hold much ground.

Well as for me, I think everyone know the reason why he or she get involved in anything they find themselves doing today. I remembered when I was in school then, one of our lecturer in the cost of teaching in a topic chosing the right job. He said that in chosing a right job that we should choose that job in which we have passion for. Think of something you love doing with passion and relate it to choosing the right job or career. There are so many people today that remains in a particular job for over 5 years today not that the job is really paying them well but because they love what they do with passion. They are not after the money expect of the job instead they are after their happiness and joy they derived from the work they do. The same thing is applicable when it come to gambling. Everybody have their reason why they are involved in gambling. There are so many people today that sees gambling as a fun activity. There are happy anytime they find themselves gambling because they see it exiting to them. Remember, they decided to get involved deeply into gambling because of the excitement or fun they get from it. Nobody force them, nobody decide for them the extent they can go with gambling. It was a personal decision. And at any point in time they find gambling not to exciting or fun to them anymore they also stop without anyone intervention. Have you not seen someone who have been playing gambling for many years on of a sudden he stop. Does that mean the person have no money anymore to gamble? So it is always difficult for someone to stop from any activity he or she find exciting or fun, that doesn't necessarily mean that the person crazy about such activity or can not do without it. I take myself for example too, I love gambling to the extent that I can't stay a day without gambling on football. Even when there is no important matches I most play gamble. I was doing it then because I find it exciting and I love it because I chose to do it. But the moment I find it not to exciting anymore I reduced the rate at which I gamble. Today I can stay for some days without gambling. Does that mean I don't have the money to play gamble almost everyday? The answer is no. So to me, I think we should look for a better word in place of that addiction because I don't think if there is anything like gambling addiction. On the other hand, if there is anything like that I think is good. Because gambling should be a long - term activity and not a get - rich quickly scheme.

No form of addiction is good, whether it involves a positive or negative habit. Gambling, in particular, is a dangerous addiction; in extreme cases, people risk their spouses and all their possessions. The compelling aspect of gambling is the addiction itself, which perpetuates the industry's growth as gamblers continuously return.

A very wrong question to ask, why? Because, being addicted to gambling is not a prerequisite or a criteria to or of becoming wealthy through gambling, this are two separate things that have nothing to do with each other, and to even cap it up, am addicted gambler (if not wealthy yet) have a very slim or tiny chances of ever becoming wealthy because, he or she will always gambler everything and lose back to the casino, he or she may even make money from other sources, but still come back to gambling and waste it all.
While an addicted gambler who is already rich before becoming addicted to gambling, stand the risk of losing their wealth to gambling, if they do not have a strong enough passive income sources to fund their gambling escapede.

So, gambling addiction in general is not good at all, it's a destroyer, it can make a rich person become poor again.

Getting addicted to anything is obviously wrong simply because addiction takes most of your time and attention. Bottomline here is how you define addiction; if you are being uncomfortable not doing that activity you are addicted to, then this is a problem 'coz you won't be able to perform other tasks and necessities without ease. Addiction fills most of your attention followed by obsession. Even if you are winning or not, as long as symptoms of addiction exists, it will be a problem afterwards. Another things is with how gambling works. You might be too invested with the idea of winning but given how inconsistent outcomes are as well as chances of winning, then expect nothing less than loss in the long run.
Wait, what?
If you know how addiction works, then you'd know that it is not true. Okay, perhaps let's say a gambler won because he got addicted to gambling. Do you think he would stop in an instant? What's most likely to happen is for him to continue gambling simply because he was rewarded from doing so. There'll be times he would lose and he will still continue again given that he's addicted. No amount of money will make an addicted gambler satisfied.

Gambling addiction has actually helped some people even with the many other people that it has ruined their lives. There are people that have been lucky because they are addicted gamblers, but these people are not addicted gamblers that gambling has ruined they life, with their addictions, they have been able to still maintain a life where they are not financially affected. There are also people who have gotten exclusive deals from some casinos because they gamble a lot.
Gambling addiction has destroyed more lives than it has made which tells that there are people that owe their success today to their addiction to gambling.

Two things to correct here:
1. There is no such thing as being too addicted to gambling. Addiction is a serious problem plain and simple.
2. Even though there is the possibility of winnings, gambling is not a means to create wealth. Gambling should be done as a recreational activity.

The only way to manage an addiction is to first accept (in this case) that you have a gambling problem. This will allow you to seek and accept help from professionals and your loved ones. The road to recovery is a long one and you need all the support you can get from your family and friends.

Not only in gambling but any addictions are wrong because it means you are overdoing them. However if we are making money on our addiction and we still have the time to do other things and we do still care for our health and the people around us, then I think this isn't totally wrong. In your story, the man is young but he already have a son? And what do you mean by he used it? He sell it to play gambling again? Dang. It shows that the addiction of that young man is already severe. Addicts will now have a hard time controlling their selves, so we should come to the rescue. For those who are still normal, they can manage it, the same on how they manage other things that they do.

But practically new gamblers start with 1% but when they are regular to gambling, even 5% will not be enough for them. I mean 5% or 50%, you may enjoy your gambling but not on weekly or daily basis. You need to be occasional gambler to avoid the need of rehabilitation in your life time.

You can not be "too" addicted to gambling. Once you are addicted to gambling you are already "too" into it. Anything that affects your health, peace of mind- mental health, career, relationship with others, finances that you go into borrowing when it is not gamble then that is the definition of all shades of wrong. And addiction comes with a lack of self control.

See a therapist. If you can't, confide in someone you trust and appeal to them to be your accountability partner. It works. It helps.

We are all addicts... it's easy to become addicted to things we love. It's neither right nor wrong, it's either healthy or not. It's healthy to do the things we love, everyone should have some hobby/entertainment/relaxation from daily responsibilities, it's not healthy to get into serious problems that can damage our health and the health of our families because of that. So we need to have some control over our addictions or they will eat us, it's like playing with fire. How do you control your gambling habits? Simply limit your gambling activities, have a budget that you can afford to lose, and try not to break those basic rules and you will not have any problems with your gambling activities.

I'm finding it hard to believe a father will use his son for gambling, OP please how possible was that done, I will like a brief explanation.

Gambler that gambles with his most valuable assets is crossing the Redline already, in every part of the world, it is that advised that you should gamble with what you can afford to lose. The word addiction is a disorder already, so whatever you're doing addiction shouldn't be part of it, a healthy gambler knows when to stop. The best way to manage your gamble lifestyle is to examine your loss and your profit margin, hence the rate of your losing is high, then you need to give yourself a break.
Gambling involves critical thinking, so have to restrategize your gamble pattern so that you don't blow your account.

Addiction can destroy ones life in so many aspects that's why no matter how good or profitable gambling is, one should avoid being addicted. If you are in for the gain or profit, then let it remain that way. If you are in for the fun the let it be for the fun avoid being too connected with your gambling activities so it won't lead you into commiting too many unwilling actions out of greed. Like the man in your thread op, it clearly shows how far one can go when they become addicted and why one should abstain from it. Gambling can be fun but don't let it get the worst out of you. Gambling responsibly.

Addiction is a condition where a person loses control and indulges in a habit excessively which can harm himself and others.
Including gambling addiction, and there is no such thing as a profitable gambling addiction because gambling addiction is played excessively without control, and this will cause you to lose everything and also potentially justify any means of making money just by gambling in any way. And those who become rich from gambling are only a small part of it due to luck, maybe they just gamble for fun and are also responsible. And besides that, they play with full awareness which causes them to have the ability to control themselves and not be controlled by the game.
This addiction will be controlled by games that make the addict gamble with emotion and ambition because losing control will result in losing everything, and will continue to be like that if not treated immediately.

The Man in your story is Foolish.
Gambling Addiction is bad and unhealthy because of the risk it poses, like Emotional imbalances, Financial issues, Relationship crisis. If one get addicted the urge is always high and such individual can use any available means to satisfy himself wether he wins or losses. In essence, Discipline, Moderation, Risk Management are needed by any gambler. This helps you keep track of your gambling activities and also aware of how far you are going into it, there are still other areas of our life we need to develop and also work on aside gambling so we should not be bound to gamble always.

Well what make op asked this kind of question I don't know just as you have said there are some questions that don't need answers because everyone one knows that getting addicted to gambling is not good and apart from gambling anything one is doing that goes out of moderation is very wrong.
No addicted person in gambling is considered to operate on it normal state if been as the gambling control them to even go at any length including selling of belongings and borrowing to gamble, it's not what one even going in to gambling need pray for in my opinion it's very wrong to be addicted.

Lmao, all your post contains pure negative about addiction that answer your question itself. Any form of addiction is wrong since you are focusing too much on it that it creates imbalance to your life. There’s no addiction is good unless you are addicted to do good. Lol

Actually, you will only be addicted if you make your expectations too high or if you are using money that you can’t afford to lose that trigger you to keep gambling just to recover it or chase more profit.

Make sure that you are just using gambling for entertainment purposes only so that you can easily balance your gambling activities to avoid being addicted.

that is definitely very wrong. when a gambler is addicted to gambling, then he only focuses on gambling and gambling, he does not hesitate to spend a lot of money just to gamble, even worse this can lead to criminal acts. because when someone has entered into a gambling addiction, he does not think clearly anymore and only thinks that the gambling he does is not wrong, and they will be more aggressive and easily offended when someone advises him to reduce his gambling. if a gambler is addicted, it is better for those closest to him to give him advice because sooner or later the addiction can destroy his life.

It's bad to be addicted on gamble, every addicted person isn't a good or responsible gambler. There's a some interesting stories of gamble addict people in the forum and from their stories I hope op finds a lesson that he should learn from them. Addictions doesn't brings luck but only brings more losses. A man ones said that some reason why he drink most times is because when he's drunk he forgets about his problems. Being drunk because of his problems doesn't settles the problem for him, rather with time if care is not taken he gradually gets addicted to alcohols. And so it is in gamble, if a gambler is getting addicted it would be good for him to limit the way he's gambling.