Topic: Is it easy to trust someone? (Read 358 times)

I have people that I do trust, but I don't trust them 100%. Nobody should be trusted completely, but people do change, especially when money is involved. I won't even recommend anyone to trust a friend or family member 100% because you might end up being disappointed. So it's just better to expect anything from anyone, don't expect too much, either from a family member or a friend.

I have a friend who knows my PIN, he does help me withdraw from ATM's often, but we can't compare your seed phrase with your PIN. If you notice any suspicious activity, you can just walk into the bank and change your PIN, but when it comes to seed phrase, it can't be changed. I have a limit on the amount I can withdraw from my ATM in a day, if I need more money, I will have to visit the bank to make a withdrawal, and if a transaction is made in my account, then it can easily be tracked. If the person makes use of the ATM to make a withdrawal, most ATM's have cameras that will take pictures of anyone making a withdrawal, so if anyone uses my ATM, then I can easily track the person.

Yes, I trust my wife completely.
We've been together for so long in so many situations and she always had access to my money while I had access to hers. Even though we used our bank accounts, computers, phones, the trust was never abused by any side. When I want to pay from her account I always tell her, even though I don't have to, and she does the same. When I first bought bitcoin I kept some of it on her computer for safety because I was afraid my might get a virus. It was many years ago when bitcoin was worth less than $1k and she never used any of it. I see no reason not to trust her now when it's worth more.

For sure it was really difficult to trust someone especially if it is already all about money, since when it comes to money everyone could easily betray you even if it is your family or relative. Especially if it is really a huge amount of money for sure they are going to do anything for it even though they needed to do bad things, I mean not everyone, for sure there are still a lot of people that are trusted and you could fully trust with your money or ATM pin.

Probably with the ATM pin, I could easily give that to my family i mean i give my atm card to my family as well when i told them they can withdraw on my card sometimes, but the seed phrase is going to be a different story since it has a huge investment and they dont really understand it well.

In my opinion, its gonna be better if your not going to trust anyone with your ATM pin or every your seed phrase because it also going to be risky on your side, for sure they are going to understand if your not going to trust them with it, what i do is i have a book where this kind of information is written, all of my passwords and even my seed phrase so that they might also have access with my accounts in the future, but they just doesnt have access on it these days since i hide it from them but they know that it exist because i told them. So that when the time comes when i died they could easily access my Bitcoin wallet and as well as my accounts in the future.

I've given a couple of persons my ATM cards to make transactions. I've some level of trust in these persons that they would not try to scam me and even if I sense anything suspicious, I could easily change my ATM pin or request for another card. For now, I cannot trust anyone with my seed phrase and it has nothing to do with the value of asset I have. I haven't seen anyone that I can entrust my seed phrase to.

Also, anyone sharing his seed phrase should let his beneficiary know how sensitive it is. You might have good intentions and share your seed phrase with a spouse or child and the person might be careless about it and you could lose your funds.

First of all I want to say that there are many differences between ATM Pin and seed phrases of a wallet. If I give as an example, you can change your ATM PIN or freeze your bank account by informing the authority, but when you give your seed phrase to someone else, the full rights of that wallet will be yours and that person will have the same. This difference should be kept in mind and then you can think about whether you will give your seed phrase to someone.
I don't think you will be foolish to give seed phrase to anyone, no matter how close you are. But if you want to give some funds as a gift to your loved ones or relatives then you can try the time lock system. Using Locktime for inheritance planning, backups or gifts.

Trust must be earned!

And the fact that history has shown that friends and family tend to take such relationships foregranted and will screw you over knowing very well they will ask for forgiveness and reset their bad reputation all because you are related. But if someone proves to be a reliable person with small financial favours I like they deserve to be trusted as it starts from somewhere but not 100% as you need to leave room for disappointment.

If the person still has access to your bank card and knows the pin and is authorised to use these funds but doesn't spend a dime then the person deserves to be a recipient of this backup seedphrase as the bank pin isn't much different from the seedphrase, and shown a sense of responsibility and earned the trust.

I have two people I trust the most in my life - my mother and father. They both took full responsibility for me from birth - feeding me and meeting all my needs until I was an adult. They are the people I trust most with anything – but they have never asked me to entrust them with money. If I needed to trust anyone to manage my seeds, it would be my parents.

After I get married and have children – it is my wife and children who need to gain my trust. They have rights to my property and money and I should also be able to trust them with my ATM pin and bitcoin address seed. You may not trust them at the moment for some reason - but they have rights to your assets and whatever is left of you after death.

Trust is the simplest yet the hardest thing to earn from other people and even with oneself.Even with relatives, partner, and own blood could be in conflict when it comes on your trust.If you cannot put your trust to other people then for sure you have your own reason, especially if it concerns money which is one of the biggest factor to instill and gain the trust. If you plan not to share some of your wealth to others then atleast know the downside; life is short and if you(hoping you won’t) would die today bot allowing anyone to access your cryptosavings, then prepare for the possible struggles of your action.Trusting someone is a part in our life but allowing anyone to know your private keys and details then it won.

Not daring to trust other people, especially those closest to us, this will only make us more worried and anxious because behaving in this way will only cause excessive suspicion towards other people. When we are able to respect and appreciate other people and are able to behave honestly, then other people will also behave in the same way towards us and other people will always guard our privacy.


When talking about money, this is a very sensitive matter and in order for a relationship to run well and build a sense of trust in one another, this is where openness with one another is needed so as not to give rise to feelings of suspicion, which often trigger the emergence of turmoil and problems in a relationship.

Yes that's right. There should be open financial conversations between partners. It is better to give each other an ATM PIN or seed phrase for unquestionable management and to plan together the dreams, aspirations and plans of each partner as well as family responsibilities and plans for the family's future along with how to care for the children. After all, no one knows our age, if something happens that cannot be predicted, our assets can be accessed by our partner.

But this is all assuming that you really want to share your finances with someone you completely trust. Sometimes a partner may have different financial goals or ideas about what financial success looks like. And that's great. As long as they don't drain your own account and have good money management skills, that's enough.

Trust is very important in any relationship, relationships and trust run parallel.But many things are that kind  of things  that should not discuss with our family.There should be difference between good and bad friends  ,good friends always give profit to his friends .Do not expect good from bad people , family plays important role in success of anyone.My friends know my mobile pin but they did not see my privacy and I gave all information to them  about my passwords.Five fingers of hand Cannot be equal ,so don't measure one person with another.

When I got married, my wife held my ATM along with the PIN and she was the one who managed all financial affairs because she was able to manage it well and for the good of my family. And another reason, because my wife is more frugal and also attentive when she wants to buy something.
And I also gave my seed phrase to my wife and I also taught her how to operate it, and the purpose is to anticipate if I die, because death is unpredictable and also knows no age.
In my opinion, our wife is the only person we should trust and be open about in any matter because she is the one who will be our companion until the end of our lives. And that applies to those who have a very good wife and we know her well overall and also love us very much.

Damages have been done to the word called trust, hence, it is not an easy word to display anymore. Even trusted people, when pressurized can sacrifice the trust you have for them on grounds that offers more than what is expected or even when a lifetime challenge is involved..

Never trust no one. Even your addictions makes you not to trust yourself.

Nowadays, besides Pin-code, SMS confirmation is often required. Regarding trusting family members - any family member can accidentally tell or otherwise disclose the PIN code, so periodic change of the PIN code is highly recommended, if possible. It's just basic caution.

My wife. I literally share my ATM pin number to her since she holds my ATM(which I voluntarily ask  ) and also because she is the one who budgets our expenses in the house. I only get part of it as my allowance and the rest will to her budgeting.
[/quote] That's normal, yes? I mean if you're not in the house then someone should handle the budget for y'all? and who do you trust your life with? your wife.

I believe so, and again that would be our natural instinct as a man. If you wife have a history of cheating in any way then that's the only time it is healthy to mistrust, even not your wife. If someone already broke the trust you gave them then it is only healthy to mistrust someone, even the slightest thing you can have with them.

You can trust many people, but how everyone defines or achieves trust is individual to each situation. There is no hard and fast rule, besides identifying clearly untrustworthy traits which are obvious to most people. Only through life experience can and should you learn who to trust. There are different degrees of trust and even lawful backing if we're talking about business style arrangements. If you involve money in any relationship you have with another person, that can totally change the equation because some people behave differently when it comes to finances. Since you posed the question, you should not be disclosing your pin to anyone - because the banks prohibit it and there's no good reason to do so, you only cast unnecessary suspicion if you were to share it and something went wrong.

The word trust is the central topic here, when involving trust it has to do with an important thing, and you mentioned seed phrase and your using ATM pin as an example. I will not say I trust someone 100% because anyone can change at any time from my past experience. Trust me the world is so wild, so when involving seed phrase and ATM pin I can trust my family member 95%, most of my family members knows my ATM pin and have not experience any form of scam. Knowing who to trust matters alot. But when it comes to friends I don't give a damn about trust. But the fact here is trust someone at your own risk. But I will prefer keeping my seed phrase as a secret

Personal details like ATM pin, seed phrases should not be shared with others but that doesn't mean you can not trust anyone with such information. One of my friends had my ATM and its pin number. Even he was holding one of my friends cards for a long time. We have never faced any issue. I don't want to share my seed phrase with that same friend which is true but if i do somehow i will trust him to hold that account. If you don't have someone like him in your life thats your bad luck bro. 

I'm a pretty trusting person in life. I generally tend to believe what people are saying, unless they're saying something that I find very suspicious or know it to be wrong. I often give people the benefit of the doubt when I'm not sure. As for a PIN from a debit card, that's obviously not something I'd give a random person, that's just common sense to me. Because if a person's asking that, they're most likely trying to rob me, so why would I help them? But my spouse knows PINs from my cards, and vice versa. I'd also be okay telling my pin to some other family members if I feel like it's the most convenient thing to do in a situation. And yes, I trust the same person with my seed phrase, and I'd be okay sharing it with the same family members when/if it makes sense.

Simple here, I never even trust a person who is going to ask me for my passwords whether it is of my wallet, my ATM, my bank, etc. I had to never give him any of them to a person.
Because all things are related to security and there should be no compromise on security, even one should not share with his family members, its friends.
But I'm confused about one thing, whenever I die how could be my password known something and my all money will be lost and no one will benefit from it? This could be shown to only one person that I have trusted the more. Otherwise, other ones who are asking for my password or any other I will never give them.