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October 15, 2023, 05:12:09 AM
#31
It's really hard to give something that is hard to give to someone since it can be easily broken, once broken it's really hard to gave a second chance. I guess this would depends on the person experience, if they already experienced betrayal  in many things waste their trust. For me, I can't really trust anyone even my family, but since they are the one who's with me from the start, I still trust them, it's already on their conscience to do bad deed. Imagine you saved a lot in crypto or bank but they used it wisely in emergency right, I think that's tolerable.
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October 15, 2023, 05:10:10 AM
#30
Giving 100% trust to relatives, friends, and family may be difficult, especially when we have been betrayed by those close to us. But at least we can trust some close people around us, especially our family.

I trust my family members and will give my seed phrases to them later. But I will not share that seed phrase with my friends, even if they are my closest friends. My crypto assets are for my family and I really trust them and so do they trust me very much.

So there is no problem for me not to entrust the seed phrase to them. But the seed phrase and ATM pin are different. Each of us has a different bank account.
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October 15, 2023, 04:52:58 AM
#29
Faith and caution are two different things. You may have a trusted person in your family but it is never right to share your security stuff with him. Always try to keep your privacy to yourself. You may have a good relationship with another person today, but after some time when his relationship with you becomes distant due to some reason, he will try to blackmail you with your secrets. Where fathers are being murdered by children and brothers are fighting over land, it would be unwise to share bank PINs or any other important information with others. I never like to share my personal things with others nor am I interested in knowing about other people's personal things so I am like myself in this respect.
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October 15, 2023, 04:18:27 AM
#28
People find it difficult to trust someone because their trust has been taken for granted in the past by those they trusted, so trusting someone again seems impossible to them, but trust is still worth giving to others, although we can't guarantee what's in the heart.
I quite agree with your take here and I should say they aren't to be blamed. Trust is like an eraser, the more pieces chop off, the more it becomes hard to regain.
In terms of disclosing your PIN to a loved one or even a trusted friend is a matter of personal decision. Some find it difficult to hand over such sensitive detail to someone because they fear it can enter the wrong hands and since some are not aware that this can be changed if such happens, they prefer to not take chances.
 Well, in this day and age where scammers are getting innovative, I feel it takes more than just not disclosing your PIN to another person to keep your funds intact. Truth is, the best way for me to ensure my funds are intact is to not even use the traditional banking methods because they are centralized and can decide one morning to lock your money or can decide the amount to enter.
 
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October 15, 2023, 03:18:04 AM
#27
People find it difficult to trust someone because their trust has been taken for granted in the past by those they trusted, so trusting someone again seems impossible to them, but trust is still worth giving to others, although we can't guarantee what's in the heart.

We should at least give some people who are worth trusting that trust, not up to 100%, as you can only trust yourself up to that extent, but trusting someone 100% is risky and not advisable no matter the relationship you have with the person.
 
If you are to go into any business deal with someone, you need to give them a little trust, as that's what can create a working business relationship.

One needs to trust the other before that can work. Even here in the forum, there is a level of trust to some extent between members. Trust might be a tricky thing, but until the person proves to you that they can't be trusted, still give them that chance and see how it turns out to be.
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October 15, 2023, 03:00:43 AM
#26
This quite reminds me of the discussion about why we should all drop our Bitcoin wallet to the ones we love so that it doesn't go to waste, do you really know that if your home is free of an enemy the enemies outside can't get you? When your family is full of bad people or people you just can't trust you should build a family, your own family, and have your children, if you can't trust your wife or husband you will have a kid you can at least trust.

I believe your ATM card pin should be safe with your partner if you trust them, or your kid if you trust them, it's all about trust just like you said and you have to make sure there is trust before taking any money step or you will be betrayed.

There are many rich men then died without letting their families get ahold of their money, they only left behind their properties for them, it's because they believed it would be the cause of hate and even wars within the family.

ATM PIN code should be private though, you don't have to share with anyone but if you see the need to do that it's fine, and that is if you trust the other person.
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October 15, 2023, 02:59:20 AM
#25
My father gave me his personal bank account details, ATM Pin, debit card, etc. He trusts me! if you want to learn something just learn from <and about seed phrase obviously yes because investment amount in bitcoin will always be less than savings account or properties.
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October 15, 2023, 02:38:58 AM
#24
there's reason why banks are always warning you from disclosing your ATM pin to someone else, its for your own money security so that it won't get stolen and even it indeed got stolen you know its not your mistake.
thats the thing with money, no one could really held back from the desire of getting money, even if its your close relative.
you might be having some significant one that you can trust but thats only if you're okay with it and knowing the consequences.
i personally would never trust my ATM pin to other people same with my wallet, who knows they might be taking advantage of me and its just for peace of mind thing.
It's hard to gain trust when it comes to something so private. However, in my opinion, things that are very private also need to be told to someone, just like ATM pins or passwords on various platforms.

As humans we know what will happen in the future, if we get sick or even die then it is very necessary to have someone we trust most to be able to access all these platforms. So it makes perfect sense for my wife to be the person I trust most in all things (if it goes normally).
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October 15, 2023, 02:27:46 AM
#23
  WHO DO YOU TRUST WITH YOUR BANK ATM PIN? if you have a person that you fully trust with your ATM pin, can you also trust that same person with your seed phrase?
Presently, I have someone I trust with my ATM pin, but what I want you to understand is that an ATM pin is different from a seed phrase because an ATM pin is just a 4-digit pin that is used to withdraw money through an ATM machine. With an ATM pin, you need the ATM card to withdraw, and again, you can change your ATM pin at any time you wish to. while seed phrase is different because, as we all know, seed phrase is a 12 or 24 word that is randomly generated and provided to you when you create a cryptocurrency wallet, and it is used to backup in case you lose access to your wallet or you want to restore it to a new or different device. Again, it cannot be charged, so if someone has access to your seed phrase, that means he has access to your wallet, and you can’t change it even though you are not more together with the person. That is why we emphasise that you should keep your seed phrase private.
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October 15, 2023, 02:18:08 AM
#22
A lot of questions have no answers, but only a few have the right answers to 95% of some questions. Well, let me start with trust. Can you trust a person, either a friend, family or a relative, with 100% complete trust? Let me answer myself first? NO I can't. I can't trust anybody fully 100% anymore because I have seen some though cases.
I'm not sure, but each person's life is different and each person has countless questions, so it creates a difference, the belief for a specific issue is different from the belief for others. for the object the OP mentioned. Just like you said, I don't completely believe in it. It's only when I test it myself that that belief can be built. I still remember an excerpt from a teacher that I greatly admire even when even if you worship them, don't rush to believe their opinions, but check for yourself to see if they are true.

However, almost all of us here have a fiat bank account and some of us have what we call a personal identification number, which refers to an ATM pin that we use for withdrawal or sending funds out, so the question is a bit simple: WHO DO YOU TRUST WITH YOUR BANK ATM PIN? if you have a person that you fully trust with your ATM pin, can you also trust that same person with your seed phrase?
This problem pertains to physical property, and for me it's much simpler to fully accept that it's being used by someone I trust to use it properly, knowing the information. There's no problem with that secret information. But what we consider confidential information is actually to me simply the complexity of controlling behavior. If we could witness everyone lovingly helping and sharing each other's difficulties, it would be better. There will no longer be doubt, jealousy, greed,... and material assets will also be seen as a tool to support each other, not something we try to find a way to protect and keep .
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October 15, 2023, 01:52:49 AM
#21
Trust is a tricky thing, but we really do need it in our lives. There's that saying, 'no man is an island,' and it's spot on. We trust our family, right? But the level of trust can vary, depending on what we're trusting them with. Like, when it comes to your money, your ATM balance, that's your personal stash, and you'd better guard that with your life. But there might be times when you need someone else to make a withdrawal for you, and that's when you're really putting your trust in them since they can't do it without your PIN.

Now, when we're talking about seeds, it's a bit like the principle with an ATM PIN. Those seeds are like the keys to your funds, and without them, nothing's moving.
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October 15, 2023, 01:40:29 AM
#20
A lot of questions have no answers, but only a few have the right answers to 95% of some questions. Well, let me start with trust. Can you trust a person, either a friend, family or a relative, with 100% complete trust? Let me answer myself first? NO I can't. I can't trust anybody fully 100% anymore because I have seen some though cases.


Life is inherently fair, if in this world you can't trust anyone, don't expect or blame others when they don't trust you either. Trust is created from mutual trust, so whether you have people to trust and whether people trust you or not depends on how you live and treat people. Always look at yourself before blaming anyone.

I have a lot of people that I trust 100% and I'm sure they trust me too. Especially my mother, wife and children, I have never hidden anything from them and vice versa. It would be funny if we live in the same house, see each other every day, but don't trust each other at all. I wouldn't consider it family life.
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October 15, 2023, 01:34:04 AM
#19
A lot of questions have no answers, but only a few have the right answers to 95% of some questions. Well, let me start with trust. Can you trust a person, either a friend, family or a relative, with 100% complete trust? Let me answer myself first? NO I can't. I can't trust anybody fully 100% anymore because I have seen some though cases.
However, almost all of us here have a fiat bank account and some of us have what we call a personal identification number, which refers to an ATM pin that we use for withdrawal or sending funds out, so the question is a bit simple: WHO DO YOU TRUST WITH YOUR BANK ATM PIN? if you have a person that you fully trust with your ATM pin, can you also trust that same person with your seed phrase?
Trusting your friend or family member means you give your own control to him and the secrets are not only yours now but without trust you can not go ahead and you have to trust the persons who are coming into your life whether they are in school, work or somewhere else you have to be cooperative. But in the case of ATM pin or walled seed, you do have not to trust one person even your brothers because money(greed) can change the view of their thinking. It is very risky and you don't know that he or she may keep it save or use it against you and my thoughts in this is to just rely and trust on yourselves not on the friends and relatives and the relatives are more dangerous  Grin they always looking for your weakness. So from regretting, it is good for not trusting humans as humans have a greedy nature and this last sentence I think is enough for the justification to not trust friends, family, or relatives.
Before we choose to trust someone, it is better for us to first see what the person's character is, whether it is appropriate for us to trust him or not, but if it is related to the ATM pin, then I will never tell anyone except my parents because if someone My parents take the money I earn, so I will not be angry as long as it is used for my parents' needs, but if it is for other people, but if I give it to relatives or friends, then if the money I have is used without my knowledge, of course I will be angry and this will be a problem. which is not good for friendships, it would be better if I didn't tell my friends.
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October 15, 2023, 01:23:48 AM
#18
Trusting someone is certainly not an easy thing, even if it is our sibling and I think in this case we trust our parents or siblings more because in my opinion the closest people are parents and siblings because parents and siblings are related by blood. which of course is the only thing that can be used as a trustworthy first choice.

but it cannot be denied that we are social creatures who certainly need other people in life in this world, but in this case I think the most important thing is intelligence in managing the economy and in my opinion we should not be too afraid of the risk of loss because usually every thing we do always cannot be separated from the risk of loss.

and regarding the ATM pin number, in my opinion we are forced to trust someone even though in our minds there is always a feeling of distrust, but in this case of course we are forced to trust other people because we are social creatures who of course need each other. so enjoy this life, don't be too afraid of risks and most importantly don't put your money in one place, the point is we have to be good at managing strategies.
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October 14, 2023, 10:03:21 PM
#17
A lot of questions have no answers, but only a few have the right answers to 95% of some questions. Well, let me start with trust. Can you trust a person, either a friend, family or a relative, with 100% complete trust? Let me answer myself first? NO I can't. I can't trust anybody fully 100% anymore because I have seen some though cases.
However, almost all of us here have a fiat bank account and some of us have what we call a personal identification number, which refers to an ATM pin that we use for withdrawal or sending funds out, so the question is a bit simple: WHO DO YOU TRUST WITH YOUR BANK ATM PIN? if you have a person that you fully trust with your ATM pin, can you also trust that same person with your seed phrase?
Trusting your friend or family member means you give your own control to him and the secrets are not only yours now but without trust you can not go ahead and you have to trust the persons who are coming into your life whether they are in school, work or somewhere else you have to be cooperative. But in the case of ATM pin or walled seed, you do have not to trust one person even your brothers because money(greed) can change the view of their thinking. It is very risky and you don't know that he or she may keep it save or use it against you and my thoughts in this is to just rely and trust on yourselves not on the friends and relatives and the relatives are more dangerous  Grin they always looking for your weakness. So from regretting, it is good for not trusting humans as humans have a greedy nature and this last sentence I think is enough for the justification to not trust friends, family, or relatives.
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October 14, 2023, 09:23:34 PM
#16
there's reason why banks are always warning you from disclosing your ATM pin to someone else, its for your own money security so that it won't get stolen and even it indeed got stolen you know its not your mistake.
thats the thing with money, no one could really held back from the desire of getting money, even if its your close relative.
you might be having some significant one that you can trust but thats only if you're okay with it and knowing the consequences.
i personally would never trust my ATM pin to other people same with my wallet, who knows they might be taking advantage of me and its just for peace of mind thing.
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October 14, 2023, 07:46:18 PM
#15
Ok so it's about Trust and you can't trust your friends, family relatives, or anyone else.
Maybe the percentage is a little bit different
Friends with 50% trust because not all friends are good
Siblings with 70% trust, because some siblings are not all good
Family with 90%-95% trust because some families are not on the same page.

But there are people I really trust, even more than 100%, maybe 1000%.
That is my WIFE, she even controls everything including my life, and takes care of me and my child.
Even take me to invest, my wife knows everything.
Remember about this rule, "HUSBAND'S money is WIFE'S money and WIFE'S money is WIFE'S money" LOL

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October 14, 2023, 07:33:10 PM
#14
Well that's on you and the people you've been with if you can't trust anyone anymore. I've been with scheming and people who are not trustworthy but between them and the overwhelming amount of people that I know I can trust and count on, I'm pretty sure I'm good. Friends for the most part, family not so much but this is only in the case of business matters as none of them are that much versed in the world of entrepreneurship and they might just fuck things up. People I care most about are trustworthy and I've witnessed that from years of interaction with them, oftentimes with money involved in the equation. I feel sorry for you that you can't trust people anymore as much as most of us could, to which I say you should find new friends you can actually trust.
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October 14, 2023, 07:15:04 PM
#13
A lot of questions have no answers, but only a few have the right answers to 95% of some questions.
Every question has an answer, but the answer that you will get varies depending on whom you direct the question to. This is what I believe.

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Well, let me start with trust. Can you trust a person, either a friend, family or a relative, with 100% complete trust? Let me answer myself first? NO I can't. I can't trust anybody fully 100% anymore because I have seen some though cases.

Trusting someone is based on the individual. There are people who trust so easily that no matter the kind of experience that they have had in the past, they don't allow that to affect how they place people; they still give everyone the benefit of doubt and allow them to prove that they are not worthy of being trusted before they can be distrusted by those people.
 
Me personally, if I'm to talk about trusting someone, I have a limit to who I trust based on what kind of thing I'm putting my trust in them for. When it comes to people who can get work done for me, I have people who I trust in that aspect, and when it comes to anything relating to money, I also have people who can handle that and will not fail me, as I have tested my close friends and relatives and put everyone in their place. Trusting someone is easy, although people are likely to change in no time, but giving them that little trust but still being cautious at the same time won't do much of a great harm that can't be repaired.
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October 14, 2023, 06:31:33 PM
#12
A lot of questions have no answers, but only a few have the right answers to 95% of some questions. Well, let me start with trust. Can you trust a person, either a friend, family or a relative, with 100% complete trust? Let me answer myself first? NO I can't. I can't trust anybody fully 100% anymore because I have seen some though cases.

However, almost all of us here have a fiat bank account and some of us have what we call a personal identification number, which refers to an ATM pin that we use for withdrawal or sending funds out, so the question is a bit simple: WHO DO YOU TRUST WITH YOUR BANK ATM PIN? if you have a person that you fully trust with your ATM pin, can you also trust that same person with your seed phrase?

Giving trust depends on you, and there are a lot of people who easily give 100% trust. One of them is those people who, even if they don't know 100%, immediately give their full trust to more than their family, relatives, and close friends.

These are the people who fall victim to Ponzi schemes, large sums of thousands of dollars that they entrust because of the greed that existed and entered their thoughts, so they gave full trust because of the thought that they would make money immediately or their capital would grow in a short time.

Now, I can easily give trust when I know if I love the person and if it is important to me. One of them is my wife and my best friend, whom I trust 100% with the seed phrase or private key that I have.
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