However and forever losing will always be a part of gambling regardless of the approach you have, meaning that if you lose then it is a very natural situation to occur, so as to whether the gambler will feel guilty or not when he experiences defeat then according to I it depends on whether they have the correct understanding regarding gambling or not, and also depends on how their intentions and goals come to gambling.
If, as you say, they don't think that gambling is an activity to make money, then losing should not be a situation that will make them feel disappointed or emotional. On the other hand, I understand that there is no fun when you lose money, but when you understand and Be aware that losing is a normal part of gambling, so when you lose you shouldn't get emotional.
This is where some gamblers go wrong, they don't realize the very basic things about gambling, which is that losing will always be in line with the activities a gambler does in that gambling session, and they don't always accept defeat from the final result of their gambling. I often see this happen. , which with the wrong approach to gambling activities will result in disappointment and the person becomes very emotional. they only look at the winning factors or profits resulting from their activities during gambling,
Only a few people realize and understand that losing is a basic part of gambling, and accept defeat happily. regardless of how much they bet, they will always accept it because they know the risks and consider gambling just for fun, although we cannot deny that there is a feeling of disappointment if they lose in gambling, but if the understanding in gambling is realized, disappointment will not make the person stop playing. gamble and don't get emotional like you said
Yes, this means that their misunderstanding or unawareness regarding losing is actually a normal part of gambling, indirectly it will make them losers in gambling, in the sense that they only think about winning and focus on various ways that they believe can produce a win while on the other hand they are not ready. to accept a losing situation.
And because of this, there are some gamblers who are irresponsible, or who are unable to account for all the decisions they have taken, especially when it turns out that the result at the end of the session is a loss.
So actually the trigger for irresponsible gambling, being a loser in the sense of only wanting to win but not being ready to accept defeat, having the wrong approach to gambling, all of this is caused because from the start they most likely have the wrong perspective on gambling, and Usually they are gamblers who come up with the scenario of seeing big wins achieved by other people which triggers their interest to come and get involved.
Therefore, this is why we, or especially myself, always advise people who want to be involved in gambling to re-validate their mindset and point of view regarding what and how gambling actually is in a rational way, none other than to make them understand and realize that Losing is a part that can never be separated from gambling. This understanding can indirectly prevent them from gambling irresponsibly or becoming a loser.