Topic: Is there any fun in losing while gambling - page 6. (Read 5706 times)

Losing will be stressful for a player who doesn't acknowledge lit while gambling. Gambling losses should be admitted in the minds of all players. It's fine to assume nobody would be happy to lose money. But, since they can't help with the losses, it's nothing to be sad about. Staying angry over gambling losses means that a gambler has not advanced in his gambling experience. Being cautious is an excellent practice; at least, players should detect when they feel bad about their gambling losses. Then stop immediately. 

There are lot of gambler who doesn't have this aspect in their pipeline that one must not always win in gambling hence, the losing rate extremely high even higher than winning ratio which every gambler must experienced while gambling. But as you mentioned, when gambling with the soul purpose of having fun and gambling with the amount that can be riskable it could be very hard for you to have that feeling of lost while gambling because already you knew is a 50/50 game.

Acceptance would really be always the key on which on the moment that you do find yourself that being too impulsive on things just because you cant really just that easily accept that you have lost
then gambling isnt really that for you. There are really people who cant really just that be able to accept out on the conditions that they are taking since they've been expecting to have those winnings
and thats why on the time or moment that shit things happen then they would really be that becoming impulsive and this is the primary condition or situations on where people do really fall into or specifically with gamblers. On the time or moment that you do find yourself having this kind of intent towards gambling then it would really be just that right that you should really be stopping on doing
things so that you wont really be messing up yourself further because gambling could make you loses inevitably and if you are a person who cant just accept with those things then
gambling isnt for you.

  that's true no one will be happy to be in losses , especially when one is losing funds they can't afford to lose . Which can be very frustrating most time and this is where self-control comes out , inorder to control yourself from given in to greed ( trying to get what you have loss). So if one have good self-control he or she can easily call it a day whenever they experience losses or win . Than to continue because we can't actually know or tell , what is going to be the  next outcome if we continue to gamble after experiencing a win or losing . So is better to stop on time than to endup in loss or making things worse .

That's right, the main point is that as a gambler it is mandatory for us to have the ability to accept the risk of losing, because as you said that no matter what we will never be able to completely avoid what is called defeat, defeat is part of the game, so one of the keys to being able to avoid emotions that can trigger various aggressive actions, then clearly risk acceptance must be prioritized or must be owned by a gambler.

Don't let us become a loser who only wants to win but is not ready to experience defeat. On the other hand, as you suggest, gambling must be done with great care, which of course is very important so that every action and decision can be measured or the intention is not beyond our capabilities. Caution can perhaps be called the key to long-term safety

Sometimes we become more ambiguous when we say that whether the pleasure is because of getting money, or it is because of the victory that is obtained, just like whether someone will be sad because he lost money or because he lost.

It might be possible to break down what the object of pleasure is, just like the rich man you mentioned, the one who has money he will not be sad because he lost his money but he will be sad because he lost, likewise with the winnings, he is not so happy because he got the money because his money is enough for him but he feels happy because he got the winnings on his gambling.

It is the same for a person who does not have much money who has a gambling orientation about financial gain, of course if he loses money he will feel sad.

Who on earth will be happy if losing their money?
Certainly no because we want profit and wouldn't want to run into lost that is why as a gambler it's good to accept defeat as lose because since is  unavoidable therefore while gambling we should be extremely careful not to lose what we didn't expect to lose in a short time or during the period of gambling.

Virtually any gambler is upset when losing regardless of his financial situation, because the size of his bet is directly proportional to his financial situation and risks. A rich gambler unlike a poor gambler can not get pleasure from betting $1 and winning $10. He needs to put much more on the line. It follows that his losses increase proportionally as well.

In my opinion, it all depends on how quickly you can let go of the lost money, which few people are able to do.

Indeed, such a gambling habit shouldn't be normalized among players. It's a wrong form of gambling that guarantees destruction and puts a player in a complex financial shape. I encourage players, just like you said, to take up responsibilities first, fix their homes, and gamble when they're financially stable.

Trying to solve our family's financial needs through gambling is a red flag for any player. Hearing of players who want to gamble for their family's needs is appalling. Such players are actually under the illusion of making banks through gambling.

No, I think it's clear that there is absolutely no pleasure in a losing situation, we think using common sense and logic that everyone will never like losing money in any case, although I understand that it is best to gamble with the intention of entertainment and having fun, but that does not mean that when we lose we will be happy.
Or what I mean is a gambler who comes with the intention of having fun will certainly never feel happy when losing money, but the difference is that they do not experience emotions like addicted gamblers when they experience defeat because of the responsibility and awareness that defeat is part of the game.

I think we can't lie that a winning situation is much more enjoyable than a losing situation, but that doesn't mean that when we lose we have to be emotional.

Nice points mate , you most people go into gambling after seeing or hearing about how one made a certain amount of money by hitting the jackpot. Without even hearing the bitter truth that one can still lose money through gambling in the blink of an eye . Such despite one financial status, he or she will want to experience such testimony for himself too , so he will go into gambling with the little amount of money he had , for taken care of some expenses especially those with family to take care of . And we all fully know that is not all money we can afford to lose and most folks with little money have alot to lose , so going into gambling which such money with the aim of doubling it , but at the end he endup losing it such folk will be in pain and he or she will try all means to get back that money back which may lead them in going overboard most time which may sometimes lead to gambling addiction.

So despite that most of people are using money they can afford to lose doesn't mean that anytime they lose that they can afford to lose they won't be in pain . That's why we should always know our limit, know the certain amount of money we can risk and we can easily move on with , without ending up regretting too much , or being in much pain .so always gamble wisely

It's actually difficult to gamble for fun. The first thing a gambler must do before he deposits the money is accept that he will lose it in the process. With that in mind, it can be fun for a bit especially if you win.
But then, greed will come because you are winning and when you start losing there goes a bad emotion coming out. Frustration and regret. Regret that you didn't walk out when you had the chance. Frustrated with the stupidity of not cashing out while you are still in big profits. These things will happen and they cannot be avoided. We must always be ready to accept that the house will always win against us.

Once you are a rich guy with more assets than the people around you, instead of letting an activity proactively change according to an arranged roadmap, you become a person who likes things forced to comply with your attention more, meaning that gambling in the upper class does not mean money, but it should mean being a servant, there is nothing that cannot be subjugated to the upper class, and perhaps still angry for another reason when gambling teases them. Distinguishing between losing and winning the same way we distinguish between joy and sadness, only truly satisfying things can keep a person from keeping a serious expression.

Gamblers are usually happy when they win, while they may not see any effects of gambling in them, but losses can make them visible these effects. If the gambler gambles for fun there is no negative effect on him even if he loses. But it seems to me that all gamblers who bet big amounts never take gambling as a center of fun. They consider gambling not as a pleasure but as a source of financial income. When they lose gambling they fall very fast. But I agree with many that we can't lose gambling but if we can manage our gambling within a certain level it can protect us from big losses. There are many gamblers who do not expect to win much from gambling. The biggest challenge for them is to protect themselves from big losses.

It should be understood that having experienced defeat, then thinking that victory in gambling is not certain to be obtained even though we continue to gamble again and again. from defeats that certainly occur more often, we can definitely learn lessons, for example understanding that the chances of losing are greater than winning, so that makes us aware to limit the spending of money used for gambling. actually it depends on each individual too, if they are easy to understand then I think there will be no misunderstanding in the long term such as continuing to think they can win even though they have experienced consecutive defeats.

besides that, it needs to be remembered that I think everyone is not happy when they lose money, but in this gambling it is the same as visiting a tourist spot or cinema where we have to spend money to be able to enjoy it and feel it. therefore, limits are very important in this case, because if there are no limits, what will happen is only a big loss because there is no limit to the spending made.

I am experiencing fun exclusively when my gambling opponents (rather than me) are losing and their colored chips flow into my pockets. Watching them stunned after my final winning toss at the dice table is really  funny. Losing by myself especially at the edge of the empty bankroll  is not a fun at all.

If that gambler win, he will feels happy and will not thinks to stops his gambling activity because he gets more exciting by playing gambling. But when he start lose his money from one round into another round, that will makes him feel angry and sad because he can't gets more winning. The happy moment will replace with the confusing and desperate with what he gets from gambling but that will not stops him from gambling because he want to recover his lose.

But if he can know that gambling have two option which is win or lose but he can lose more in gambling, he will not trying to playing gambling longer because he knows that can make him lose much money. If he win, he will thinks to stop his gambling activity because he gets the win money and although that is not too big, he realizes that he must stop playing gambling immediately. He realizes that his chance to win more will not too big and once he lose, that can make him sad and angry. So there will be no fun if he lose but if he use gambling for fun, he will not thinks about the win or lose because he knows his limit and always reminds him to stops playing gambling.

maybe we should distinguish between satisfaction and pleasure obtained from gambling.
all gamblers will be happy when they get a win, but not with a loss. but gamblers can also get satisfaction when they feel enough when in the game.

only victory can make gamblers happy. while losses will only bring regret and maybe anger. still, gamblers will focus on winning when playing, no one really has fun with betting.

Yes what you said is true and fun is not about winning or losing but about the situation we get from the game, we consider defeat as just payment for the entertainment that can be obtained.
This is good attitude to apply and that way there will be no disappointment that might make gambler lose control, they will make everything and the results of gambling the last point because their priority is to play for fun.

But unfortunately very few gamblers think like that, most still consider victory as everything, they make the ambition for victory happy achievement.
All of this is what makes gamblers unable to really enjoy gambling, they only focus on winning without realizing that entertainment and pleasure in playing are things that must be obtained.

Yes you are right. When I bet with friends the goal is not to win or make money. Because if you win at gambling, it will be an honor. But I can't take this money home, or I can't even spend this money on my own needs. With this money we organize a party or go on a trip. It means we friends spend this money together. Who won the gamble is not a fact here. So we gamble just for fun. There is nothing about making money here.

But when I go online or to a casino and gamble, my only goal is to make money. I am usually more used to online gambling. So my aim here is to make money. And I gamble very carefully. I don't spend much money on gambling. So even if I never lose a bet, I don't face much loss. I can totally control myself in gambling so far. And I still managed to keep myself away from gambling addiction.