Topic: Keeping your gambling habit a secret. - page 45. (Read 8311 times)

People can always tell bad things whether you live like a saint. And the badder you can be if they know you gamble. It's one reason to justify the secrecy of the activity.

Some of these people are just waiting for your failures to be exposed so they can say I told you so. But I'm not giving them the chance off that and hiding the activity from the government as well since the government is looking into our expenses.

Hiding one's involvement in gambling, no matter the motivation, is inherently dishonest and problematic. You are entirely correct that a lot of people hide their behaviors because they feel ashamed or fear social or familial consequences. Is this explanation sufficient, though? Not at all.

It's clear that there is a bigger problem when people hide their gaming activities and costs. Since I'm a big player who plays it smart, being honest is important to me. People are already in danger if they feel the need to hide. Some people might say that spending one's own money is a choice, which is true! However, isn't ignoring family duties a moral offense?

Additionally, regarding religion: while many religious systems forbid gambling, it would be hypocritical to use religion as a cover for an ongoing covert vice. It's important to note, though, that recognizing the moral implications of one's conduct is just as important as being perceived as a "bad" person.

I think that people will not laugh at another person who lost money in casino or betting. He will hide this addiction because people always have a negative attitude towards those who are addicted to gambling. It is only because of society's judgement of gambling that people hide it.

Some people that are addicted hide their gambling activities because they believe if people notice the amount they spend on gambling, then they will be blamed. Some people might end up spending money that is supposed to be spent on their family members on gambling, which is wrong, so they won’t want their family members to know they are spending that amount of money on gambling.

Also, for some people, gambling is illegal in their religion, and most of them want to gamble, so they will rather gamble and keep it secret so that people won’t see them as bad people, so they decide to keep it a secret.

Some people do spend huge amounts of money on gambling, but they are not always comfortable telling people they have spent that amount of money on gambling, so they will just decide to keep it a secret. Some people do tell their friends that they gamble, but they will never show their friends their gambling account transaction history.

Because most people, or even our relatives, will judge you for doing that even if they don't know the true meaning of it, like saying that you are just ruining your life or wasting some money, it is because they don't understand it. Though we can't blame them for thinking like that because most of the news that they will be hearing is about gambling addiction, their first impression is always like that.

Most of the reason why most gamblers won't keep this a secret is that they are scared of what others will say to them or criticize them because the impression in gambling is that you'll already have a lot of loans, which is sometimes true but mostly not.

It is true that you said that if someone gambles with the aim of earning income, over time, he can become addicted because there is a feeling of wanting to get money from gambling. If he doesn't realize it soon, he will only get a worse gambling addiction but he probably won't be able to make any money from gambling. He could even lose a lot of money from gambling, especially if he is getting greedy to get a win from gambling even though he already knows that it is very difficult to achieve. Those who hide his gambling will only make things worse because no one is monitoring his activities and he can hide his gambling so tightly that no one finds out. That's why if one of our family members is often alone in his room, we have to ask what he is doing because we don't want something bad to happen to him.

Yes, those who hide their gambling activities will keep it safe and no one will know about their gambling activities. But if that were the case, he wouldn't even know if he was already addicted to gambling. Maybe if anyone found out about his gambling activities, it would be too late to help him because he didn't care about other people's advice. Those who play online gambling can still enjoy gambling as long as they can control themselves well and are not easily tempted by promotions from casinos.

I know several friends who work in government offices who say that they sometimes play online gambling but do not say how much money is used for gambling. Well, as long as the gambling activity is not done excessively and they can still control their emotions, it's okay. But no one knows what could happen to us.

Doing online gambling or real gambling on land which has been done by many people in general, one day you will surely be caught if you cannot keep your defeats or wins a secret in a relaxed and indifferent manner when interacting with other people around them. . .
Yes, you made the right move, because not everyone will accept that gambling can be your way of keeping quiet so you don't tell your colleagues, that's very good, because it concerns your own privacy and it doesn't take a lot of people to do it. know about it.

Gambling is still prohibited in many countries for which anyone who gambles is considered a criminal if anyone can visit. In a country where gambling is prohibited, if a person of law can visit someone who is addicted to gambling, then he is given legal punishment. I think does not fix this act.  It is not right to punish those who gamble as they wish. I like to gamble before sleeping most of the time.  Gambling with control.

For me, it's always strange to hear an expression from gamblers: I thought that I would earn this on a regular basis. On a permanent basis, you can earn only from full-time work or investments, but not from gambling, where you are completely dependent on luck. Even if you earn it today, tomorrow and for another week, then soon luck will turn away from you, and most likely you will lose everything and even more. Therefore, if you win in gambling, then you need to take the money and leave, in no case perceiving it as a source of permanent income. Even such a stable occupation as trading is hard to perceive as something that can give a stable income, and gambling even more so.

But I guess it's the question on how you are going to keep it safe for you and not everyone knowing that you are a gambler. Of course maybe online you can do it, but if you want gambling to be fun then it should be on landbase wherein you can go out with your friends.

Personally, I've seen people who I thought that they are not into gambling, like in the education system, or even some that i knew on the government offices. But I just keep a tight lip and not tell everyone what I saw on a landbase casinos.

Yes, it's true that if someone gambles with the aim of earning, he tends to get addicted because he will continue to gamble and risk his money so he can get more money than before. Indeed, this sounds very stupid and strange, if it is not controlled properly then it is very likely that he will lose and far from winning, because he is greedy and really hopes for luck.
And it is true that a person who hides his gambling will reduce his interaction with his environment and cover it up as much as possible, because if he loses then people will most likely ridicule him, and if he wins it is likely that the result will be bad. the results of the victory will be used (utilized) by the people around him.

If you live in a country where gambling is prohibited then most of the society people mind-set about gambler as irresponsible and considered theirs source of income illegal. Close friends may support you even join you in some cases but family will always treat you hatefully, if they get to know. Moreover your Public image also damaged. So why need to disclose what you are doing when you can do it secretly? I think gambling is fine if you are in limit and able to control your addiction.

I have the same philosophy. I would not say that I have a big addiction to gambling. There are just things that relatives should not know about because of their conservative views, as they will give their advice and views on the situation. I personally don't see anything wrong with gambling and betting should be within limits.

In fact gambling may be prohibited due to personal feelings, religion, ideals, but you can gamble in privacy but not everyone will accept your source of money. Never worry about what people will say about your personal biography. However family restrictions on gambling must be obeyed because they are close to you. Friends may encourage you to gamble but family will always forbid you. On the other hand if gambling is prohibited in your country, then you have to play secretly. Even there are many gamblers who cannot hide their gambling habit and face many problems which they are not proud of.

Even if I gamble, if I win something good from here, I tell everyone that my business has profited because it damages our honor to tell everyone about gambling.  Because gambling is considered a bad thing in society. It is better to keep the gambling a secret in order to maintain one's self-respect.  Gambling harms a person financially as well as defamation. My wife sometimes gets suspicious when she picks up my smartphone and sees gambling apps.  But I never admit it

Did not get it bro… What can I do dirty in gambling, that will force me to keep in secret that I gamble? Loosing money? But truth will come out anyway. Cheating - that is a big no.

And if you say that gambling is about having fun, then why you tell that gambling should be maintened in privacy and it should be a secret? Why should I be afraid to have fun or not tell anyone that I had fun. That is awkward.

If they treat gambling as entertainment, they can enjoy it and will not try to chase something difficult to obtain. But if they want to change their fate through gambling, they must realize they do not have a great chance of winning a lot of money. They could only have a chance of losing and could even lose their entire bankroll if they didn't stop it soon. A gambler can only play gambling as usual without thinking about his victory. Maybe later or the day after, his win will come, so he must be patient and keep playing calmly so that his emotions don't get provoked and he doesn't use much money. People who hide their gambling activities have the opportunity to become addicted to gambling because they will rarely interact with other people and tend to close themselves off from conversations with other people. And they can lose a lot of money if they cannot control their gambling.

It is true that gambling just to entertain themselves and have fun will be fun, but in fact what is done to gambling addicts who hope for luck to be able to change their fate, sounds very ridiculous and makes no sense, but the reality is a fact.
And it's true, if a gambler can't control his finances, he will most likely soon lose all his money and from that incident people will think that he is a gambler. Because before he looked cheerful and had lots of money, after he lost all his possessions he looked worried and miserable.

Indeed, right, for people who are trying to kill some time and aiming for entertainment, and I like your statement about the gambling system, they are being created not to give people a place where they can get money out from it they are not charity or a cash-cow place to make money, they are rather a place that being designed to get your money after you are done being entertained.

Being well aware will always lessen the chances of losing a huge amount of money out from your savings. As you need to control and not to allow any excessive money movements.

It does not have to be till when you have some dirty secrets about gambling before you can decide to make your gambling lifestyle as a whole a secret, keeping your gambling a secret is just like maintaining privacy with the way you gamble and one should have the right to place demand on such, we don't have to let everyone know what we do, gambling is all about fun and we choose how we engage making this fun the way we so wish either making it public or being private about it.