Topic: Know when to stop - page 22. (Read 4606 times)

The point is that we must be able to limit our gambling time and budget well so that we can know when to gamble and when to stop gambling, because basically people who often gamble exceed their limits and are addicted to gambling because they cannot control themselves, let alone know their capacity. themselves, so they don't know when to stop gambling, that is a big mistake of gamblers because they follow their passions too much and are obsessed with winning which is actually difficult to get.

Every gambler who has certain boundaries and is responsible can know when to stop gambling so that they are people who can never be addicted to gambling because they have succeeded in controlling themselves from gambling addiction behavior which is of course detrimental to themselves, anyone who starts to feel like they are out of control when When gambling, always try to limit your budget and time when gambling so that you don't overdo it and cause a gambling addiction which could lead to bankruptcy and losing more money due to losses.

That's something you have to pay attention to, especially in paid games like gambling. By being able to allocate money to do this, we hope to be able to do it without overdoing it. Indeed, gambling that is carried out must also be accompanied by good self-control, because in my opinion the gambling carried out can run well so that there are no big losses or excessive deposits of money. If we are experienced, in my opinion we should be able to allocate money for gambling well, not make excessive deposits, just do it with the money we can afford which is enough.

That's right, beginner gamblers usually only think about the wins they can get by gambling. They tend not to think about the risks involved, the risk of losing the money they bet, even though that is something that is certain in gambling. if you don't win, you lose, and vice versa. In my opinion, thinking about just winning should be avoided or put aside, because there are many other things to think about besides winning at gambling. If they only think about winning then it is very likely that they will only experience large losses and of course that will be detrimental to themselves.

   That's true, as you mentioned. It's very difficult to control emotions correctly, especially if we've already lost a lot of money in the casino we're playing in. But if we manage it normally or correctly, it is pretty sure that the response of our emotions will also be good when we see that we are winning.

   But even so, if it's not right and we lose control of our emotions, don't expect the result of our gambling to be good, I guess. But, just like what the others do, if we are losing as much as possible, we will stop immediately.

Pretty self explanatory if you'll ask me. No need to further emphasize, would even say that your fifth point is redundant with your first, so what about that?

The thing is that there's no such thing as a "successful gambler" because a successful gambler is one who can reliably make money off of his shit, and I don't think everyone here's the Scarface of whatever game they are playing otherwise casinos wouldn't be a booming business anymore but I digress, what you should be pushing for is not to be a successful gambler, but a contented one. How to achieve this? Pretty simple:

• Learn how to discipline yourself. Figure out why you're gambling in the first place. Are you gambling for profit? If so, are you sure you're going to make a killing in this industry before it kills you? No? Then at the very least either quit your grandiose dreams of earning millions sitting on a poker table and reinvest your efforts into something productive, or gamble for entertainment and nothing else.
• Expect worse, Prepare for the best. Most silly gamblers assume they can game the system and win more than they can put in. Very rarely does it happen and if it does it's not gonna take time before the casino catches up to you. In that regard, always expect losses when you're gambling, but be prepared for when you win. Know how to min-max your wins and be smart.
• If you can't lose it, don't spend it. Golden rule of gambling. People, especially those in the lower income earning sector see gambling as their one-way ticket to the finer things in life. Which is false. Gambling is nothing but a way for you to let off some steam, and should only be regarded of as such. Once you make it a major part of your life, you're cooked for good.

But how can you stop when you start feeling like you can’t do without gambling? At that point i think it is too late because the person is already addicted to gambling. What I suggest is that when you start gambling (for those who haven’t gone far too), you should start controlling how much time and money you put into it. The amount you spend is what will determine if you will be addicted to it. Gamble a little and do other things, don’t put all your energy into it.

No doubt controlling emotions is difficult but not impossible. Knowing that you have a bill to pay is enough reason to control how you gamble but a lot of gamblers have failed in this regard. It even becomes pathetic when a person who has dependants cannot control his emotions during gambling. This has landed them in gambling problems and thereby, creating conflicts between them and their dependants.

When people lose in gambling, they should forget about their loss, and act like it's nothing because when you try to win, you end up losing more. Our emotions go a long way in deciding if we will win or not. Emotional gambling makes us lose focus and we find it difficult to think and analyze games before we stake because what preoccupies our mind is recouping our loss. But then, it is not a rational step. The best thing to do is to take a pause today, not tomorrow. The importance of this lies in the fact that when we take a pause, our emotions are under control and we can make better selections since the mind is settled.

Of course many people have ideas like the ones you convey above, but in reality there are still many that have not been realized because there are many inhibiting factors, one of which is a person's strong desire and belief, like the previous example, he wants to stop gambling because he has been around for a long time. . and maybe bored with this activity, but one day he wins a large amount, maybe this idea will disappear instantly because he will be tempted again to be able to win again by gambling again. I hereby agree with you that a wise attitude is needed to be consistent in making decisions so that the goal is not to become addicted and excessive in gambling.

A lot of people struggle emotionally to know exactly when to stop their gambling session. The journey is on the gambler and how he's meant to manage his money. If a player is concerned about not losing out his hard-earned money, he wouldn't have to waste more time gambling while he's losing. The trouble happens to gamblers who think they're the parasites that could feed on the casino's money, not knowing that the casino operates with parasitism. A gambler with no goals, is like a traveler without a destination. He won't know when to stop. The goal of a gambler revolves around his gambling durations, money management, risk and strategies. However, when a player is not concerned about such things as gambling with cautions, he's free to do whatever is best by him. 

Emotions are something that we cannot control 100%, it is something that tells us because basically things are like that, when I am in the casino I usually have to control myself, I don't deny it, because there are times that I want to stay there and play and play until I win, but what stops me are my expenses, if I were a person who had a family where I am, they would give me food, I wouldn't have to pay for any type of service or something, well I think it would be a person who would spend more in a casino, but since I live in a country that is not my own, I cannot fail.

If I fail in a payment, that's how I have the most problems with everything, the world is coming down on me, then there are times that I can't give myself that luxury of being completely happy, and that's just what every player has to find, one thing , a person, a family, for whom you must control yourself and not spend so much money, the more responsibilities, the more money it implies.

If you are on a situation on which emotions been mixed in then you would really be having those chances or odds those adrenaline rush on which it would really be causing for you to
have those kind of actions whether it would be something that be just that fine or something that would be talking about negative. This is why it would really be always best that you should really be
having that kind of self control on the time that you would really be dealing up with gambling. This is why it would really be that best that you should really be having that self control
when it comes on dealing with gambling and not really just that making yourself that being impulsive just because you arent been able to hit up on the target that you do have
in mind.

Yes yes, I got you. But I think that it depends on what kind of gambling we are talking about here. For example, if you are part of a poker round that frequently meets either online or in real life and plays for money, it is hard to pull back because everyone in that round will want you to stay involved. In sports betting it could be similar when people like to place bets together and visit the venue or watch the games on TV, but in regards to rolling the dice or slots I think it is less peer pressure as many people are doing it on their own. Could be different though if a friendship circle sticks to the habit of visiting a casino every now and then. That's where peer pressure could come into play again.

Your adrenaline push you to commit more mistakes,  with the aim to recover your losses in a possible quicker way you add more to your bankroll,  and like what you mentioned,  it's possible to lose it as well since you are more aggressive and you want to win back, there's time that you might be lucky and able to recover but most of it, you'll end it losing since greed will start to dominate and control your emotions. You need  to have that limitation and urge yourself not to fall with this kind of repetitive mistakes when you are participating in any form of gambling.

The golden rule I follow? Only play with what Im willing to donate generously to the casino. Not cynicism, but practicality in a joker's hat! The pleasure and suspense of the game are matched by the knowledge to know when to hold and fold.

I've experienced and learned it. Beginners with starry eyes who want to make millions from pennies. Yes, the ambition! Admirable but fragile like a house of cards. I laugh, not to mock, but because I once felt I could beat the system. House wins every time. The real prize is accepting this and having the time of your life.

I recommend gambling for the thrill, adrenaline, and camaraderie of other dreamers. Winning? Only the cherry on top. Remember that the journey is more important than the destination. With a little luck and strategy, those riches fantasies could come true. Let's enjoy the ride until then.

This is true. Losing in gambling triggers more attempts to gamble and the more we are pushed by this urge the easier it becomes to record irreparable loss. It is this urge that accounts for revenge gambling. Revenge gambling has led many gamblers into accumulating debts, depleting their savings and financial ruin. When this is the case, then emotional distress, anger, depression and a sense of hopelessness become inevitable as gamblers are trapped in a cycle of chasing their losses.

I think the issue of not stopping lies in that people want to win so bad, when they do it releases chemicals that make them happy. They’ve done it. They won and got the feeling they wanted. This is when people make a mistake. They want to ride that high and keep winning, which usually results in losing everything and being sad. Do yourself a favor and step away when you’ve gotten the rush of winning.

I like the idea of stopping when you are up. Better to stop playing after a sequence of wins than after losing it all
The thing is that its hard to say “i had enough of this” specially if you are winning a lot
Takes a lot of wisdom and practice to be able to do it.

Some will probably fail on this endeavor

In gambling if a person has no self control then no other humans can control him and no other person can guide him to stop gambling. If they are only concern with gambling and earning money then I don't think that they will ever stop gambling because addictive gamblers cannot live without gambling. If from beginning a person understand that gambling should not be taken too serious so he can stop gambling when needed. I think that a person should keep in mind about when to stop and don't change their mind because changing mind all the time can make a person addictive.

Yes, as a person who has some experience in gaming, it is necessary to highlight that when we are going to play in a casino, the first thing we should do is that, allocate our funds ready to lose, there is no other option, that is the first intelligent step. that must be done, because it is the only step that can help us avoid an imminent addiction, so for us to be successful in that we have to do the thing safely and the safest thing is like this, so far it is the method that I have found more effective, because we cannot say that when we are playing we can control ourselves, maybe a little yes, but later as the game develops it is very difficult, so the safest measures are so that it can be made more useful and effective So that something better can be done in the experience of the game, we as players with some experience know that when you allocate money willing to lose because these things are very difficult, one line ends, there is nothing more to do but assume.

We have seen that on many occasions newbies always do the opposite, first they see or think how much they are going to earn or multiply their money, because there are some who come in saying, I have 40usd, I am going to take it to $10k, and although it is very possible it is It is quite difficult to achieve something like that, it is just difficult to bring it to 100usd now at such a large amount it is very unlikely that it will be lost, so we are people who should see everything only in terms of what has been seen and what has happened, etnopnces that also matters, When we are seeing everything that can happen we have in mind what can be possible, and this is just that one as a player must always avoid thinking, what is going to happen, because that is when all the possible mistakes begin to be made, this is not It's whatever, it always happens like that.

When I talk about peer pressure, I mean that some of your friends may try to encourage you to start gambling, especially if they themselves enjoy it. Of course, if you and your peers bond over gambling and you don't know what they are playing, you may fall behind. Some people, you know, are pressured to keep gambling in order to feel like they're not missing anything out or to share in the excitement that their peers seem to be experiencing. Furthermore, I meant to say that people may find it difficult to stop gambling if they receive encouraging feedback from their peers, such as praises for winning and encouragement to keep playing even after losing. It is becoming more and more common in my country for people of any gender to engage in gambling activities as long as they know how to do so. However, I have noticed that some of them are both irresponsible and responsible gamblers, so it really depends on the individual whether they want to join the group or not.

we gamble involving the money we have so it is very natural for a gambler to find it difficult to control himself when he loses or when he wins because no one wants their money to be lost and everyone will also become greedy if they see large amounts of money.
In cases like this it is actually very easy to limit yourself to knowing when is the right time to stop gambling and when is the right time to start gambling again and it all depends on each person's mindset.
if a gambler really wants himself to be a healthy gambler, of course they will really appreciate the money he has and have limits such as budget and number of bets, for example, you really appreciate every money you have and only use 3% of your income to gamble and with a pattern this thought of appreciating money can give a healthy mindset to our minds because someone who respects money will usually be more careful in making decisions before betting and will stop gambling when they lose several times or if they win more than a predetermined limit.

all of this will be easy if we really have a strong determination to be safe gamblers and still have great responsibility in every bet we make and always pay attention to the right time to immediately stop the gambling session.