Topic: Life before and after marriage ??? (Read 4152 times)

Don't know about it because  i am still a college student :")

The question is wrong. I would ask "Is life with or without a relationship better"?

It's the relationship what makes the difference, not the marriage (at least it should not make a difference in your connection to your partner if it's your girl-/boyfriend or husband/wife).

The short answer is, "it depends".

Different types of people will give different (valid) answers.

People who love to be together with another one, where relationship is more important than being single, who cannot be alone, will be unhappy without a partner. So they seek a relationship to live a happy life.

On the other hand there are people who love to be independent. They want to do whatever they want whenever they want. A relationship can make this difficult.
A relationship is always a trade off of what you want and what your partner want. In the best case these two expectations matches, but usually there is a gap between those two expectations.
Someone who see less benefit in giving up some of his freedom than the benefit of being in a relationship would sooner or later be unhappy with the relationship.

And there are also people who don't see any benefit to be in a partnership at all. For them a relationship would just be a pain in the ass, so they stay single and be happy with this decision.

Everybody in this range from "cannot live without a partner" to "cannot live with a partner" has his valid reasons and they should be respected.

Life before marriage love  is limitless without family's much interference.but life after marriage love is limited with responsibility and family's much interference.marriage life sometimes is difficult.

At least, here in Brazil, our laws on divorce consider how and how much the patrimony of both had grow during the marriage. Not saying that all the marriagens will have a bigger patrimony during that time but it is usually commom for the patrimony to grow since they need to spend less on housing and etcs. Unless they have too many children, nobody survive children lol

Before marriage I could dream of this hopeful life later on, however I was forlorn. What a mitigate to escape the dating scene once I've met my significant other! Be that as it may, after marriage vision transforms into authenticity, which is something worth being thankful for Before marriage I could dream of this optimistic life later on, however I was desolate. What a diminish to escape the dating scene once I've met my better half! Be that as it may, after marriage vision transforms into authenticity, which is something worth being thankful for

Nothing changes. It is all the same if you have married your lover.

There is nothing life before and after. It totally depends on you how you behave.

Marriage is a religious and ethnic issue. Ee shouldn't make fun of it like it because of marriage only you and me came into existence

It was lot easier and free before marriage. After marriage it just become complex

After marriage, and especially when children are born, life is a kind of balanced.
And of course, if you were not responsible before you have to be after.

Living day to day after marriage would be not the same as when you were simply sweethearts and lady friends. The time went through with each other would boosted and the individual you're hitched with would likely be the main face that you will see ordinary of your life that is the reason there are issues that should be conquered, so it will fortify the relationship of a couple more.

I prefer the life after marriage. You always have one person by your side.

Things changes after marriage and sometimes it gets a little difficult.

Each couple has their own life and love story, before and after marriage. Nevertheless, here's what we think is a list of typical everyday situations that you and your partner might find familiar

marriage is a constant work on relationships, if the couple both rest against their will, will not listen to the husband / wife will stand on their own, it can end fatal for the family ... the family is when you swim in the same boat in one direction, and do not try to row in different ... love and give your love to your family

In my experience., there is so much  difference between life before and after marriage. The thing changes is your status or if you are a girl, your surname. The way you live, you are now living in one home. You are now  a family. Its not just only the two of you. Lesser dates as a couple but kore dates as a family. I really love life after marriage.

In my opinion, every time repaired in our life can be before and after. One of the queen bang is the wedding. Of course, a lifetime of dating is very different from life after marriage.

Life before and after marriage are totally different. Before marriage you have no responsibility but after life you have a lot of responsibility.

I am happy not being married. I don't see myself getting married in a long time. I haven't yet met someone that I feel like I would like to spend the rest of eternity with. I will not get married just for the sake of getting married. I can't stand having to be with someone just because, it suffocates me. But I guess when you meet that someone that makes you want to marry them you understand. I can't understand that now, but maybe sometime in the future.

If you and your partner have lived together for several years, there won't be a noticable diffrence when you get married except that you are officially a couple and is recognized by the law.

Now if you're asking wether which one is the easiest, after or before marriage. I'd say both are difficult.
You just have to appreciate that you have your partner going through those difficulties.

I would say if you could marry your right hand, do it. That would be easy I think.